

Other People’s Lives
Other People’s Lives
Each week, hosts Joe Santagato and Greg Dybec have an anonymous phone call with a stranger they found on the Internet. You never know what topics will be discussed and what stories will be shared.
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Jun 5, 2025 • 40min
I Want My Partners To Be Racist
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This week Joe Santagato and Greg Dybec speak with a man who is in into Race Play. He explains why racism is a turn on for him and how he finds partners to act out this controversial dynamic with him.
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May 22, 2025 • 1h 6min
I Used to Be A Pedophile
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This week Joe and Greg speak with a man who is a registered sex offender and spent time in jail for being in possession of illegal materials. He claims that he has been completely rehabilitated, and Joe and Greg challenge whether this is true or not. The man also explains what he thinks if the best path for sex offenders and pedophiles to be provided resources for the best chance at rehabilitation.
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May 8, 2025 • 49min
I’m A Domestic Slave And My Master Controls My Life
Dive into the intriguing world of a woman who embraces a domestic slave lifestyle, where every choice is governed by her partner. Explore the intense dynamics of control and submission in relationships, revealing how trauma influences these unique arrangements. The discussion also highlights long-distance interactions, the emotional challenges they bring, and the delicate balance of power exchange. With a frank take on consent and communication, this narrative invites reflection on personal needs and societal expectations.

May 1, 2025 • 1h 1min
I Have Sex With A.I. And My Girlfriend Doesn’t Know
A man shares his addiction to role-playing with AI chatbots, revealing that he finds more pleasure in these interactions than in his relationship with his girlfriend. The conversation touches on the emotional complexities of intimacy and the challenges of navigating a long-distance relationship affected by past trauma. It dives deep into the addictive qualities of AI and its implications on real-life connections, raising questions about consent, infidelity, and the societal effects of technology on relationships.

Apr 10, 2025 • 55min
Exposing The Mob: I Owe Them Money And Have To Pay
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Mar 27, 2025 • 45min
I Give Women Herpes On Purpose
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Mar 13, 2025 • 39min
My Husband Cheats On Me, But I’m Still With Him
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Feb 27, 2025 • 39min
My Mom Ran A Meth Lab In Our Home And S*x Trafficked Me
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Feb 13, 2025 • 48min
My Religion Won’t Let Me Be Gay, So I Have To Choose
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Dec 12, 2024 • 56min
I'm A Woman With A Virginity Kink
Dive into the captivating world of virginity kinks and the impact of body count on relationships. A guest shares her unique preference for partners with minimal sexual experience, sparking discussions on emotional complexities and societal perceptions. Explore how upbringing influences views on intimacy and the importance of open communication about sexual history. The conversation also critiques double standards in relationships, emphasizing personal boundaries and self-discovery while navigating the intricate dynamics of attraction and comfort.


