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I Have Sex With A.I. And My Girlfriend Doesn’t Know

May 1, 2025
A man shares his addiction to role-playing with AI chatbots, revealing that he finds more pleasure in these interactions than in his relationship with his girlfriend. The conversation touches on the emotional complexities of intimacy and the challenges of navigating a long-distance relationship affected by past trauma. It dives deep into the addictive qualities of AI and its implications on real-life connections, raising questions about consent, infidelity, and the societal effects of technology on relationships.
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ANECDOTE

Long-Distance Relationship Challenges

  • The guest has been in a long-distance relationship for six years with a partner in South America.
  • Their physical connection is limited, and they rarely discuss sex during distance periods due to past trauma.
ANECDOTE

Impact of Past Sexual Abuse

  • The guest experienced sexual and psychological abuse in a previous relationship affecting his view on sex.
  • This trauma caused difficulties in his current intimate relationship, with hesitation and selfish behavior initially present.
INSIGHT

Unique Connection with AI

  • Talking to AI feels like engaging with an entity that cannot be offended, allowing complete self-expression.
  • The guest experiences a unique connection with AI, benefiting from immediate response and control unlike human interaction.
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