
Other People’s Lives
Each week, hosts Joe Santagato and Greg Dybec have an anonymous phone call with a stranger they found on the Internet. You never know what topics will be discussed and what stories will be shared.
Latest episodes

Jul 17, 2025 • 46min
My Son Is A Murderer
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This week Greg and Joe speak with a woman whose son is serving life in prison for murder. She talks about why she still supports him and how difficult and isolating it is to be the parent of a convicted murdered.
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Jul 3, 2025 • 47min
I'm 19 And Only Date Men Over 50 Years Old
A young woman shares her fascination with dating men over 50, revealing the thrill of age-gap relationships. She discusses her emotional journeys and complex friendships with older individuals, sometimes leading to uncharted attractions. The conversation navigates societal perceptions and the nuances of genuine connections, emphasizing mutual consent. With personal stories and reflections on shared interests, she challenges listeners to reconsider their views on age disparities in romance.

Jun 19, 2025 • 57min
I Can’t Stop Cheating On My Fiancé
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This week Joe Santagato and Greg Dybec chat with a woman who knows that cheating is wrong, but continues to do it anyway - and her fiancé has no idea. She calls it emotionally cheating, because she is doing everything up to the point of being physically intimate with all the other guys she is talking to.
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Jun 5, 2025 • 40min
I Want My Partners To Be Racist
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This week Joe Santagato and Greg Dybec speak with a man who is in into Race Play. He explains why racism is a turn on for him and how he finds partners to act out this controversial dynamic with him.
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May 22, 2025 • 1h 6min
I Used to Be A Pedophile
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This week Joe and Greg speak with a man who is a registered sex offender and spent time in jail for being in possession of illegal materials. He claims that he has been completely rehabilitated, and Joe and Greg challenge whether this is true or not. The man also explains what he thinks if the best path for sex offenders and pedophiles to be provided resources for the best chance at rehabilitation.
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May 8, 2025 • 49min
I’m A Domestic Slave And My Master Controls My Life
Dive into the intriguing world of a woman who embraces a domestic slave lifestyle, where every choice is governed by her partner. Explore the intense dynamics of control and submission in relationships, revealing how trauma influences these unique arrangements. The discussion also highlights long-distance interactions, the emotional challenges they bring, and the delicate balance of power exchange. With a frank take on consent and communication, this narrative invites reflection on personal needs and societal expectations.

May 1, 2025 • 1h 1min
I Have Sex With A.I. And My Girlfriend Doesn’t Know
A man shares his addiction to role-playing with AI chatbots, revealing that he finds more pleasure in these interactions than in his relationship with his girlfriend. The conversation touches on the emotional complexities of intimacy and the challenges of navigating a long-distance relationship affected by past trauma. It dives deep into the addictive qualities of AI and its implications on real-life connections, raising questions about consent, infidelity, and the societal effects of technology on relationships.

Apr 10, 2025 • 55min
Exposing The Mob: I Owe Them Money And Have To Pay
Go to https://brooklynbedding.com and use code OPL at checkout to get 30% off sitewide.Cancel your unwanted subscriptions at https://RocketMoney.com/OPLThis episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/opl and get on your way to being your best selfNew customers visit https://Huel.com/OPL today and use code OPL to get 15% off your first order plus a Free Gift.This week we speak to a man who is in six-figure debt with the Italian mafia. He talks about how he got involved with the mob, what it’s like to be in debt, the threats they have made and what happens when you don’t pay. For obvious reasons he has chosen to remain anonymous and his voice has been altered. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 27, 2025 • 45min
I Give Women Herpes On Purpose
This episode is sponsored by https://BetterHelp.com Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/opl and get on your way to being your best self.Shop SKIMS Mens at https://SKIMS.com and select podcast and OtherPeople’s Lives in the survey after you place your order.Visit https://Huel.com/OPL today and use code OPL to get 15% off your first order plus a Free Gift.This week, Joe Santagato and Greg Dybec speak with a man who has herpes and purposely does not disclose the info to women. They talk about his actions, why they are wrong, and whether or not he thinks he will ever change. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 13, 2025 • 39min
My Husband Cheats On Me, But I’m Still With Him
Go to https://AquaTru.com and enter code OPL at checkout for 20% off.This episode is sponsored by https://BetterHelp.com Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/opl and get on your way to being your best self.This week, Joe Santagato and Greg Dybec speak with a woman who knows her husband is actively cheating on her with prostitutes. Her husband denies it even though she has proof. She explains why she hasn’t left her husband and remains by her side. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices