

Parenting with Impact
Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster
The Parenting with Impact Podcast with Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster, co-creators of ImpactParents.com, inspires parents and professionals guiding complex kids, teens and young adults all over the world to become capable, independent adults. ImpactParents.com is an online community, award-winning blog, and direct service provider for parents and professionals. Elaine and Diane are certified professional coaches with their own lived experience raising children with complex challenges such as ADHD, anxiety, depression, learning disabilities, gender identity issues, and more. Drawing from both personal and professional experience, they teach and inspire parents and professionals to raise and empower complex kids with confidence and calm. Scroll down for links and to download a free parenting guide. The Parenting with Impact Podcast will:Feature leading experts, bringing you cutting edge information to address your child’s challengesTeach you real-life, practical strategies for creating lasting changeDemonstrate how a coach-approach can improve all of your communications, one conversation at a time For the essentials of ImpactParent's coach-approach to parenting, download a free parenting guide at: ImpactParents.com/Podcast Find out about Sanity School®, a program for Parents, at: https://impactparents.com/programs-offerings/parent-training-sanity-school/ For information about professional continuing education: https://impactparents.com/for-professionals/ Visit Impact Parents at: https://impactparents.com/
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Feb 28, 2024 • 29min
Ep 151: Improving Practices, Diagnosis, and Treatment of ADHD
Aaron Dodini, a seasoned clinical psychologist with over 15 years of experience, shares deep insights into ADHD diagnosis and treatment. He highlights the evolution of ADHD assessments, advocating for family-centric approaches that recognize the complexities of adult diagnoses. Aaron emphasizes comprehensive treatment methods, integrating behavioral training and community support. He also encourages letting go of outdated coping mechanisms and embracing ADHD as a catalyst for growth, ultimately fostering a positive, empowering perspective on this often-misunderstood condition.

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Feb 21, 2024 • 27min
Ep 150: Recognizing and Managing Stress Triggers as Parents
Explore how parental stress impacts parenting complex kids, highlighting the role of self-care for effective support. Learn about emotional responses, stress triggers, and managing parental stress. Gain insights on identifying triggers, promoting emotional awareness, and practicing self-care as a parent.

Feb 14, 2024 • 27min
Ep 149: Using Humor as a Path to Connect
Discover the power of music and humor in connecting with others, especially during challenging times like the COVID-19 pandemic. Learn how humor can strengthen relationships, motivate children, and bring joy to parenting. Explore the benefits of genuine humor in building connections with family and cultivating positivity in professional settings. Embrace laughter as a tool for creating lasting bonds and finding moments of relief and new possibilities.

Feb 7, 2024 • 28min
Ep 148: Nurturing Talents: Supporting Children's Passions and Interests
Jesse LeBeau is one of today’s most highly sought after youth speakers and teen coaches. His unlikely underdog story has inspired millions of teens through his speaking, best-selling books and youth programs. He is one of the worlds premiere basketball trick artists and is regularly featured on TV, film, and international tours. Jesse’s new reality series ‘The LeBeau Show’ allows viewers the chance to follow him around the country and see firsthand the major impact he is having on youth.Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Jesse LeBeau about motivation and self care.Ten Self Care Tips for ParentsDo you give and give until you give yourself away? You’re not alone! In this FREE guide for caring (and exhausted!) parents, you may recognize some of the key tips -- but it’s always good to have a reminder! And then there will be some new ideas to help you put yourself back on your list and find a little more peace and joy in family life. Sure, your kids may need more than other kids. But that doesn’t mean you don’t deserve the care you need to keep helping your kids!Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Finding strengths and pursuing passions is crucial for personal growth and fulfillment. Jesse emphasizes the importance of allowing children to explore their own interests and not forcing them into preferred activities. He advises parents to support their children's strengths and help them find activities they are passionate about. Jesse emphasizes the power of attitude. He learned the significance of attitude from his father, who taught him by observing how athletes reacted to setbacks in sports games. Instead of focusing on their successes, they paid attention to how they handled failures and disappointments. This lesson had a profound effect on Jesse's life, teaching him that while we can't always control what happens to us, we can control our attitude towards it. By becoming the master of our own attitude, we can live a happier, more successful, and fulfilled life. Jesse stresses how the importance of self-care and grace are essential for maintaining mental and emotional well-being. He highlights the importance of prioritizing self-care and adopting a positive attitude, even in the face of adversity. Jesse acknowledges that everyone's experiences and backgrounds differ, but it is crucial to empathize with others and recognize the validity of their struggles. He encourages individuals, regardless of age or circumstance, to understand that they are not alone in their challenges and that seeking resources and support is a positive step. Jesse discusses balancing independence and parental guidance is a complex task for parents in today's digital age. One of the biggest challenges parents face is managing their children's relationship with technology, particularly smartphones and social media. Setting systems in place to monitor screen time and access is important, as the allure of endless scrolling and the influence of online content can negatively impact a child's life.Connect with Jesse:Website: https://theattitudeadvantage.com/welcome/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jesselebeautiktoksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jesselebeau/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5uw99zoDpcbs9I96N5jG9AFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thrivingteensLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jesse-lebeau-243b4636/Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent@impactparentLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/@impactparentsX (fkaTwitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents@impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 31, 2024 • 26min
Ep 147: Shifting from Nagging to Collaborative Solutions
Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode about nagging.Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex KidsParenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting. Here is what to expect on this week’s show:The topic of shifting from nagging to collaborative problem-solving in parenting is a crucial one, as it can significantly impact the dynamics of parent-child relationships. Elaine believes in a more playful approach to parenting, while Diane acknowledges that nagging often stems from a place of fear and anxietyNagging can be detrimental to relationships, causing annoyance and a breakdown in communication. Elaine and Diane explore the negative effects of nagging and discuss alternative ways to address concerns. Elaine and Diane dive into the role of executive function support in parenting. They share insights on shifting from nagging to a collaborative approach, empowering children to take ownership. Elaine and Diane explore the power of shifting from nagging to reminding with permission. Learn how a simple reminder system transformed one family's dynamic and created a more positive approach to reminding. Links Mentioned:Effective Agreements 4 Phases of Parenting: How to Support Without Enabling If They Would Just...Guiding Kids to Take Ownership of Their Own AgendaImpact Members: Be sure to check out the Webinar Library for Elaine’s webinar on Family MeetingsGet your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent@impactparentLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/@impactparentsX (fkaTwitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents@impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 24, 2024 • 33min
Ep 146: Simple, Safe & Connected -- Tips to Navigate Big Emotions
Explore tips on navigating big emotions in parenting with Sonali Vongchusiri, founder of Forward Together Parenting. Learn about the importance of connection, authenticity, and simplifying parenting to stabilize relationships with kids. Discover practical strategies for handling intense emotions, fostering emotional connections, and reflecting on impactful parenting.

Jan 17, 2024 • 29min
Ep 145: Navigating Communication and Complexity in Parenting
Leslie Josel shares her expertise on effective communication strategies for parents raising children with ADHD and executive dysfunction. She emphasizes that all parenting challenges stem from communication gaps. The discussion covers innovative techniques to create supportive family environments, underscoring the importance of translating complex language into relatable terms. Additionally, the conversation highlights the value of emotional prioritization, patience, and reflection as essential tools for fostering a more cooperative family dynamic.

Jan 10, 2024 • 28min
Ep 144: Helping Young Adults get back on Track
The topic of supporting parents of young adults, with its unique challenges, evolving relationships, and opportunities for growth, is the focus of this Parenting with Impact podcast episode. Join Diane and Elaine on this episode as they delve deeper into this significant and necessary area of focus.Episode 144 Helping Young Adults Get Back On Track with Elaine and DianeListen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane.How to Talk to Your Complex Kids [and Other Important Relationships]Strained communication can create a hot mess of misunderstanding and conflict -- whether it's with your kids or any significant relationship in your life. In this FREE guide, you'll discover your role in communication dynamics and 10 simple but effective ways to help you build more trust and calm in your communication with your complex kids -- and any relationship. Here is what to expect on this week’s show:●Diane, who has been actively supporting parents of young adults for three years, emphasizes the need for understanding, guidance, and support for parents navigating this stage of life. She believes in creating space for young adults to ask for help and for parents to support their agenda, while also acknowledging the complexities involved in parenting young adults. ●Elaine stresses the importance of building and maintaining strong relationships with young adults, fostering trust, and effective communication. She encourages parents to focus on the progress and incremental growth of their young adults, rather than solely on the desired outcome of complete independence. ●Elaine and Diane dive into the complex world of parenting adult children. From establishing boundaries to fostering open communication, they explore the ups and downs of this ever-evolving process. Related Links:· Parenting Emerging Adults · Effective Agreements· 4 Phases of Parenting: How to Support Without Enabling · It's No Mystery: Why Kids Resist Help · It's All About Control: Are You Ready? Connect with Elaine & Diane:· Instagram @impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 3, 2024 • 31min
Ep 143: Navigating Parenthood: Embracing the Coach Approach
This episode brings you another Success Story from the ImpactParents Community! Elena Nichols is passionate in raising complex kids through personal transformation and effective communication. After stumbling upon coaching by accident, she became intrigued by the concept of self-awareness and its potential for personal growth. As a parent of a child with dyslexia, Elena initially struggled with expectations and frustration. However, through her own journey of seekingsupport and focusing on her child's strengths, she witnessed significantimprovements in their reading abilities. Elena's dedication to understandingneurodiversity led her to become a neurodiversity informed coach, recognizingthe unique talents and facets of individuals with a greater degree of neurodiversity. With a diverse clientele and a supportive community at ImpactParents, Elena continues to find fulfillment in connecting with and coachingpeople, experiencing personal growth along the way.Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex KidsParentingcomplex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to helpyou calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greaterindependence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are usingto reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting. Listen to this SuccessStories Edition Parenting With Impact episode with Elena Nichols about parentcoaching for complex kids.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Learn how observing herself and taking a pause before reacting changed herinteractions with her children.Discover coaching as a transformative profession that opens the door to a whole new world. Through coaching, obstacles and challenges are easily resolved, and everything flows effortlessly Learn how parent coaching as a transformative approach that empowers parents to navigate the challenges of raising complex kids. Related Links:Elena NicholsOvercoming Learning Challenges – A Complex Kid Speaks OutHelping Kids with Dyslexia Feel Good about Getting Help with ReadingLook for the Positive Traits to Find the Fabulous in Complex KidsGet your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools Connect with Impact Parents:www.impactparents.comInstagram: @impactparentsFacebook: @impactparentLinkedIn:@impactparentsTwitter: @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 27, 2023 • 33min
Ep 142: Helping Complex Kids Envision Their Future
As parents, we worry about our kids fulfilling their potential, and want them to think about what they want their future to look like. How do we encourage our complex kids to envision a future, when they may still be struggling with the present?Sheila Akbar joined the Signet team in the summer of 2010, bringing with her a wealth of experience teaching SAT, ACT, GRE, literature, and composition in both one-on-one and classroom settings. Sheila loves both teaching and learning and finds nothing more rewarding than working closely with students to overcome the challenges they face. After graduating from Harvard in 2002, she spent two years working in financial services before continuing her academic career, which culminated in two doctorates. She brings her significant business and academic experience to bear on her current role at Signet, which includes speaking to every client to craft a tailored solution for their needs, managing the administrative team, and providing educational thought leadership for the company. Sheila holds a bachelor’s degree and master’s degree from Harvard University and two doctoral degrees from Indiana University.Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Sheila Akbar about ways you can encourage your complex kid to envision a future that THEY are excited about.12 Tips for Parenting a Complex TeenFrom the experts at ImpactParents (and the moms of 6 young adults!), we promise you this: it’s not too late. In this FREE guide you’ll learn 12 fool-proof tips to improve conversations and reconnect with your teens so you can guide them tobecome independent and successful. Parents all over the world have betterrelationships with their teens using these tools. You can, too!Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Encouraging students to focus on positives, emphasizing strengths, and acknowledging their unique interests.Emphasizing the importance of daily discipline and skill-building rather than solely focusing on achieving set goals.Emphasizing the need for kids to own their aspirations and motivations rather than parents imposing their agendas.Reframing failure as a learning opportunity and a part of the journey toward finding the right path.Advocating for a safe space where kids can explore interests and change their minds without pressure.Links Mentioned:Three Steps to Learn From Mistakes Without ShameHow Are Values Guiding Parents And Kids?Look for the Positive Traits to Find the Fabulous in Complex Kids Connect with Sheila:www.sheilaakbar.com LinkedIn Connect with Signet Education:signeteducation.comX (fka Twitter) FacebookLinkedInYouTube Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools Connect with Elaine & Diane:Instagram @impactparentsFacebook @impactparentLinkedIn @impactparentsTwitter @impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices