Parenting with Impact

If you are feeling overwhelmed, frustrated, and exhausted because your current parenting strategies are not improving your relationship with your complex child, then you are not alone! This episode brings you another Success Story from the ImpactParents Community! Ellen joins us on today's podcast to share her story of navigating the challenges of raising a complex child. Having weathered the storms of parenting and feeling unprepared for the challenges that come with a complex kid, she eventually found her guide in the community-driven support system of ImpactParents. Ellen and her husband are parents of a creative and curious 16-year-old son who was assessed and diagnosed with ADHD when he was in Middle School. Ellen began to realize that as academic demands increased, so did her son's reaction to them. She became really curious about what was behind his behavior.  Through her involvement in several Impact Parents programs with Elaine and Diane, Ellen now clearly understands the value of engaging in parent coaching. She arrived feeling exhausted, confused, and frustrated. She has grown over the past few years after a lot of hard work and truly appreciates all that Impact Parents provide: compassion, support and community, and the continued sharing of knowledge and scientific findings.  Listen to this inspiring Success Stories Edition of Parenting With Impact episode with Ellen about turning to community for support in parenting a complex child. Recommended Treatment for Children and Teens with ADHD Tip-Sheet So -- your child has ADHD. Want to get past the confusion and the stigma really fast? This FREE Guide explains, in the simplest terms possible: What is recommended treatment for children and teens:Ten things to consider when trying to make a decision about medication Exactly what to look for in a behavior therapy training program. Short, sweet, and to the point -- don’t spend hours on the internet scouring. ImpactParents gives you exactly what you need to know without wasting any time or effort. Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Unlock wisdom to navigate the high seas of parenting complex children towards victorious outcomes.Learn how reshaping expectations can positively influence your parenting style for complex children.Uncover the potent impact of community support to uplift parents of complex children.Unbox the potentials of the coach approach for an enriching parenting experience with complex children.Grasp the significance of self-care, adaptability, and introspection in molding the life of your complex child. Related Links:Talking to Kids About Their Neurodiverse Brains  with Dr. Liz AngoffDon’t Panic! Your Kid’s Not Broken  with Debbie ReberDifferently Wired  by Debbie ReberExecutive Function Skills: What Every Parent Needs to Know  with Seth Perler Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools  Connect with Elaine & Diane:Instagram @impactparentsFacebook @impactparentLinkedIn @impactparentsTwitter @impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you want to create a more harmonious and peaceful atmosphere within your family? Are you looking for a solution to improve conflict resolution and achieve better relationships with your loved ones?Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they share the key to fostering improved dynamics and creating a more united and supportive family unitRecommended Treatment for Children and Teens with ADHD Tip-SheetSo -- your child has ADHD. Want to get past the confusion and the stigma really fast? This FREE Guide explains, in the simplest terms possible: What is recommended treatment for children and teens: Ten things to consider when trying to make a decision about medication Exactly what to look for in a behavior therapy training program. Short, sweet, and to the point -- don’t spend hours on the internet scouring. ImpactParents gives you exactly what you need to know without wasting any time or effort. Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Navigate your way through family conflict resolution techniques.Unpack methods for helping children preserve ties with both parents.Absorb strategies for staying impartial and empathetic during family disputes.Unravel the process to bypass the savior or defender role in family fights.Unearth pivotal ways to boost considerate communication and mutual understanding among family members. Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools   Related Links:Register for the 2023 ADHD Parents’ Palooza!  The 4 Sources of Conflict in Your Family Part 1 The 4 Sources of Conflict in your Family Pt 2  Effective Agreements  Relationships by Design   Connect with Elaine & Diane:Instagram @impactparentsFacebook @impactparentLinkedIn @impactparentsTwitter @impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Bullying can be one of the most heart-rending challenges a parent faces. When your child is neurodiverse, that can make life downright miserable for both your child and your family. Kayla Taylor is a best-selling writer, researcher, advocate, and parent. She recently published “Canaries Among Us,” an important exposé that blends poignant storytelling and groundbreaking scientific research to empower those caring for the millions of kids challenged by learning differences, bullying, and anxiety. This heartrending chronicle tackles harmful stigmas while documenting the joy and heartache inherent in raising children who don’t fit society’s definition of “normal.” Listen to this gripping Parenting With Impact episode with Kayla Taylor about her family's journey through the challenges of bullying, learning differences, and anxiety.Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex KidsParenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Validating and nurturing self-esteem of neurodiverse children.Institutional betrayal of children and families navigating complex challenges.Parental involvement in mitigating bullying and advocating for neurodiverse individuals. Related Links:How To Have Hard Conversations with Other Parents 4 Ways to Teach Your Child to Stand Up To BullyingBullying and the ADHD Child8 Reasons You’ll Never Know Your Child is Being Bullied  Model Self Respect for Your Kids: Tame the Bully Within Connect with Kayla:KaylaTaylorWrites.com Canaries Among Us  Resources for Parents  Instagram  Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools Connect with Impact Parents:www.impactparents.comInstagram: @impactparentsFacebook: @impactparentLinkedIn:@impactparentsTwitter: @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Highly sensitive children can express themselves with very strong emotions that can leave parents feeling rattled and desperate. Randi’s experience with her son took her on a journey of acceptance and unconditional love.Randi Rubenstein coaches parents raising strong willed kids. Randi searched endlessly to find the magical resource that would help her own highly sensitive, strong-willed child. (He’s now 25, healthy and happy-ish:). She’s been passionate about helping other “cycle-breaker” parents like herself for almost two decades.Randi’s the founder of Mastermind Parenting, host of the long standing Mastermind Parenting podcast and author of The Parent Gap. Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Randi Rubenstein about the emotional rollercoaster of parenting a highly sensitive child.Parenting is LeadershipParenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Practical approaches for managing emotions and establishing a healthy family life.Active listening and validation helps nurture secure attachments with your little ones.Strategies for guiding your children without controlling or remedying their behavior.Related Links:The Highly Sensitive Child: Helping Our Children Thrive When the World Overwhelms Them by Elaine N. AronCalm The Chaos: The Benefits of Practicing Mindfulness Don’t Take It Personally: 4 Questions to Coach Yourself Connect with Randi:Mastermind ParentingMastermind Parenting Podcast Instagram Facebook LinkedIn  Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools  Connect with Impact Parents:www.impactparents.comInstagram: @impactparentsFacebook: @impactparentLinkedIn:@impactparentsTwitter: @impactparents  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Implementing appropriate treatment for ADHD not only improves focus and cognitive function but also diminishes the likelihood of developing addiction.Chris Foster is an Education Specialsit in Neurodivergence, Social Emotional Learning, and College Career Readiness. She Has a Doctorate in Educational Psychology from Wichita State University, Kansas. Chris has collaborated with community colleges to promote college readiness, developed curriculum, and specializes in social emotional learning strategies. She also in a diversity and inclusion specialist with extensive research in neurodivergencies in both children and adults. Jeremy Didier, LMSW, LMAC, PCAC is the group founder and co-coordinator of Kansas City’s award winning CHADD Chapter, ADHDKC. She currently serves on the CHADD National Board of Directors and on the CHADD Chapter Advisory Board. Jeremy works as a mental health clinician at Responsive Centers for Psychology & Learning specializing in the diagnosis of adults with ADHD and executive function skills training. Didier also works for ImpactParents as an ICF/ADDCA certified ADHD parent coach, and she's a frequent contributor to their internationally recognized blog. She’s had the honor of presenting at multiple local and national conferences on the Under Diagnosis of ADHD in Girls & Women and other challenges facing families with ADHD. Jeremy holds a BS in Journalism from the University of Kansas and recently completed her Master of Social Work at Fordham University. She’s a passionate advocate for at risk youth and individuals living in detention who have ADHD and challenges with addiction.    Listen to this eye-opening Parenting With Impact episode with Chris Foster and Jeremy Didier about the proper treatment of ADHD and how it can reduce the risk of addiction, and how parents can make informed decisions on managing their kid’s ADHD. Recommended Treatment for Children and Teens with ADHD Tip-SheetSo -- your child has ADHD. Want to get past the confusion and the stigma really fast? This FREE Guide explains, in the simplest terms possible: What is recommended treatment for children and teens Ten things to consider when trying to make a decision about medication Exactly what to look for in a behavior therapy training program. Short, sweet, and to the point -- don’t spend hours on the internet scouring.  ImpactParents gives you exactly what you need to know without wasting any time or effort. Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Links between ADHD and addiction, risk minimization and recovery approaches.The importance of accurate and prompt ADHD for maximum effectiveness in treatmentDismantling common biases regarding ADHD medication and potential addiction.  Links Mentioned:SAMSHANAMI Alcoholics Anonymous  MyRecoveryLink Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools Connect with Impact Parents:www.impactparents.comInstagram: @impactparentsFacebook: @impactparentLinkedIn:@impactparentsTwitter: @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you a parent of a child with ADHD left feeling drained and unsupported in your attempts to provide the best care and outcomes for your child?IngerShaye Colzie is (a dedicated ADHD Coach and psychotherapist with a specialization in empowering black female executives and entrepreneurs. With over 15 years of experience as a therapist and Licensed Clinical Social Worker, she brings a wealth of professional expertise coupled with a lifetime of personal experiences. IngerShaye is the founder of Alchemy Coaching & Counseling, where she motivates and supports resilient Black women CEOs and business owners, providing them with the tools and guidance to thrive in their professional lives. Through her practice, she combines her skills as a therapist and her passion for empowerment, making a positive impact on the lives of her clients.Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with IngerShaye Colzie as she uncovers how to build a strong, supportive community of fellow parents and increase self-care and advocacy for your child's ADHD needs.Parenting is LeadershipParenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Tackle ADHD evaluation and resource hurdles successfully in educational settings.Implementing effective strategies to manage stress and its impact on parental ADHD symptoms.A look into the of race in ADHD diagnosis practices and therapeutic approaches. Related LinksParent Expectations: 2 Steps to Success   Connect with IngerShaye:Ingershaye.com  Get your free copy of the Energy Formula For Black Women  Black Women with ADHD, Executives & Entrepreneurs  Facebook GroupThe ADHD Black Professionals AllianceTwitter Instagram Facebook LinkedIn  Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools  Connect with Impact Parents:www.impactparents.com Instagram: @impactparentsFacebook: @impactparentLinkedIn:@impactparentsTwitter: @impactparents  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

From addiction and eating disorders to yoga and parenting, Hope Zvara's story is a true testament to the power of self-awareness.Hope Zvara is a yoga, movement, and lifestyle expert, CEO of Mother Trucker Yoga, and mother of three. Through her own struggles in life, she has realized there is a purpose in all things if you choose to look for it. Hope’s journey from personal to professional highs and lows, both on and off the mat, has given her the grit and grace to overcome anything life throws her. Hope has helped change thousands of lives over the last 20 years by spreading the message that no matter how hard life can get, you should never lose hope.  Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Hope Zvara about developing a set of tools and skills that are specific to your neurodiverse kids’ needs and strengths.Parenting is Leadership Parenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life. Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Develop a toolbox of practices to support neurodivergent kids in life's challenges.Embrace and celebrate neurodiversity by understanding your kid’s individual needs.The significance of self-care, self-awareness, and continued learning in raising children. Related Links:Your Presence is Present Enough Foster Independence: Don’t Fix the Pain The 3-Legged Stool of Success for Kids with ADHD Part 1: Self Awareness 3-Legged Stool of Success for Kids with ADHD Part2: Self Advocacy 3-Legged Stool of Success for Kids with ADHD Part 3: Self Improvement Connect with Hope:MotherTruckerYoga.comYouTubeLinkedIn Facebook The Daily Dose of Hope Facebook Mother Trucker Yoga Instagram Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools  Connect with Impact Parents:www.impactparents.comInstagram: @impactparentsFacebook: @impactparentLinkedIn:@impactparentsTwitter: @impactparents  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you feel alone in your struggle to navigate parenting a complex child? What if you could join a community that provided support and real-world guidance? Melanie Sobocinski is an ICF-certified PCC and a MentorCoach CMC with an ADHD specialization. She loves working with graduate students and professors with ADHD, helping them build the tools needed to thrive in academia.Melanie identifies as a proud member of the ADHD community, parent to an ADHD++ kid, a voracious reader, recovering academic, and certified ImpactParents Sanity School® trainer. She has lived experience as a struggling academic with ADHD and says that coaching is what helped her and her family thrive, pre- and post-diagnosis.  ​Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Melanie Sobocinskiabout how the coach approach transformed the way she viewed parenting, and the unexpected growth she achieved as a result. Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex KidsParenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting. Here is what to expect on this week’s show:How neurodiversity-informed coaching is revolutionizing the parenting experience.How Sanity School provides beneficial resource for parents and professionalsBalance between expectations, support, and professional development Links Mentioned:Underestimated, Undervalued, Underutilized Sanity SchoolSanity & Success Package Related Links:Compassion is a Cornerstone of ADHD Management Handling Conflict with Complex Kids   Connect with Melanie:Website  Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools  Connect with Impact Parents:www.impactparents.comInstagram: @impactparentsFacebook: @impactparentLinkedIn:@impactparentsTwitter: @impactparents  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you tired of constantly butting heads with your child and feeling like you're not making progress? Have you been told to just 'lay down the law' or 'be stricter' but that only seems to make things worse? The frustration and tension can be unbearable, but in this episode, we'll give you practical strategies to identify the root causes of conflict, validate your child's perspective, and build trust in your relationship. Don't let conflict rule your household any longer.Listen to Part 2 of The 4 Sources of Conflict in YOUR Family with Elaine and Diane as they focus on the need to remain curious, patient, and understanding when building a plan to resolve conflict in the home.If you missed Part 1, please be sure to check it out here.Parenting is LeadershipParenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Common catalysts for family discord and how to address them.Resolve conflicts involving power imbalances and shifting priorities.Transition towards a collaborative and supportive family environment. Related Links:Sanity School For Parents Related Podcast Episodes:The Independence Pyramid: Big Picture and Daily Tasks  Effective Agreements Problem-Solving Collaboratively with a Communication Reset Related ArticlesWhen You Assume… Assume Best IntentionWhere’s Your Curiosity? I’m a Recovering Perfectionist. Want to Join Me? Don’t Take it Personally: 4 Questions to Coach YourselfParents Letting Go: 4 Steps to Complex Kids  Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools  Connect with Impact Parents:www.impactparents.com Instagram: @impactparentsFacebook: @impactparentLinkedIn:@impactparentsTwitter: @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you tired of constantly butting heads with your child and feeling like you're not making progress? Have you been told to just 'lay down the law' or 'be stricter' but that only seems to make things worse? The frustration and tension can be unbearable, but in this episode, we'll give you practical strategies to identify the root causes of conflict, validate your child's perspective, and build trust in your relationship. Don't let conflict rule your household any longer.Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss ways to identify sources of conflict in your home, and how to manage them. Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex KidsParenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Pinpoint core causes of disagreement in parentingAppreciate the value of validating your child's concerns and perspectives.Develop and maintain a strong foundation of trust in your parent-child bond.Discern how unreal expectations amplify conflicts.Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools  Connect with Impact Parents:www.impactparents.comInstagram: @impactparentsFacebook: @impactparentLinkedIn: @impactparentsTwitter: @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices