Gay Men Going Deeper

Ken Reid, an attachment and trauma informed counselor, joins Matt in this episode to discuss narcissism in the gay community. They explore its causes, how it shows up, and offer guidance on dealing with narcissistic people. The podcast also addresses the connection between social media and self-obsession, red flags when dating a narcissist, and the link between avoidant attachment and narcissism. Don't miss this insightful conversation!

In this episode of Gay Men Going Deeper, we’re exploring a more playful and flirtatious side of ourselves as we dive headfirst into the captivating realm of crushes and attraction. Being "boy crazy," may seem frivolous but, today we are unfolding the intricate layers of emotions and experiences that come with navigating attraction. As always, we are using our personal experiences to explore the unique dynamics of attraction, the thrill of infatuation, and the challenges that come with it. The questions we’re unpacking today are: What kinds of guys are you typically attracted to? Are there any specific traits that make your heart flutter?  How do you express your feelings to guys you are interested in? How do you handle unreciprocated feelings? Join us for a candid conversation about the exciting, nerve-wracking, and sometimes surprising journeys of having a crush. Whether it's the electrifying feeling of butterflies or the vulnerability of unrequited love, this episode embraces the spectrum of emotions that make crushes a universal, yet uniquely personal, aspect of the human experience. Today's Hosts: Michael DiIorio Matt Landsiedel Reno Johnston Support the Show - viewer and listener support helps us to continue making episodes - CONNECT WITH US - Watch podcast episodes on YouTube Join the Gay Men's Brotherhood Facebook community Get on our email list to get access to our monthly Zoom calls Follow us on Instagram | TikTok Learn more about our community at GayMenGoingDeeper.com - LEARN WITH US - Building Better Relationships online course: Learn how to nurture more meaningful and authentic connections with yourself and others. Healing Your Shame online course: Begin the journey toward greater confidence and self-worth by learning how to recognize and deal with toxic shame. Gay Men Going Deeper Coaching Collection: Lifetime access to BOTH courses + 45 coaching videos and 2 workshop series. Take the Attachment Style Quiz to determine your attachment style and get a free report.

This episode explores solutions and strategies for fostering meaningful connections and platonic intimacy in the gay community. It discusses real connection vs. pseudo connection, cultivating deeper and authentic connections, and using the Gay Men's Brotherhood community. The chapter on navigating platonic intimacy provides personal experiences and emphasizes boundaries and open communication. The episode also highlights various ways to connect within the gay community, such as Zoom hangouts and engagement circles. It ends with exciting plans for upcoming events and encouragement for listener engagement.

Join us for an exploration into challenges within the gay community, including loneliness, shame, stigma, and the search for emotional intimacy. The hosts discuss the impact of social media, the illusion of connection, and the role of ego in fostering disconnection. This heartfelt conversation aims to dismantle stigma and foster a more empathetic dialogue. Stay tuned for Part 2 of this series on authentic connections among gay men.

In part 2 of this 2-part series, we are focusing on recovery from addiction, including the strategies that proved useful along our respective journeys, and the wisdom we’ve gained in the process. Throughout the episode, we stress the importance of community and offer practical advice for those navigating recovery, while still acknowledging the unique challenges that we encounter along the way. Some of the topics we cover: Different pathways to recovery  Understanding and managing our triggers Enjoying pleasure responsibly    Escapism Part 2 of this series aims to empower listeners with knowledge, empathy, and hope on their journey toward a healthier, more authentic self. Featured in this Episode:  Addiction and Recovery (Part 1)  Reinventing Yourself Today's Hosts: Michael DiIorio Matt Landsiedel Reno Johnston Support the Show - viewer and listener support helps us to continue making episodes - CONNECT WITH US - Watch podcast episodes on YouTube Join the Gay Men's Brotherhood Facebook community Get on our email list to get access to our monthly Zoom calls Follow us on Instagram | TikTok Learn more about our community at GayMenGoingDeeper.com - LEARN WITH US - Building Better Relationships online course: Learn how to nurture more meaningful and authentic connections with yourself and others. Healing Your Shame online course: Begin the journey toward greater confidence and self-worth by learning how to recognize and deal with toxic shame. Gay Men Going Deeper Coaching Collection: Lifetime access to BOTH courses + 45 coaching videos and 2 workshop series. Take the Attachment Style Quiz to determine your attachment style and get a free report

In part 1 of this 2-part series, we are exploring the complex and often unspoken realm of addiction and compulsive behaviour. In this episode, we are sharing our own experiences, including substance abuse and behavioral addictions. In doing so, we hope to break the stigma surrounding addiction within the gay community, and foster a sense of understanding and support. Some of the topics we’ll be covering in this episode are: How do we define addiction and compulsive behaviour?  Different types of addiction Factors that contribute to addictive tendencies Common manifestations of addiction within the gay community Join us as we provide valuable perspectives on the intersectionality of gay identity and addiction. Featured in this Episode: Shamelessly Gay Men’s Group Today's Hosts: Michael DiIorio Matt Landsiedel Reno Johnston Support the Show - viewer and listener support helps us to continue making episodes - CONNECT WITH US - Watch podcast episodes on YouTube Join the Gay Men's Brotherhood Facebook community Get on our email list to get access to our monthly Zoom calls Follow us on Instagram | TikTok Learn more about our community at GayMenGoingDeeper.com - LEARN WITH US - Building Better Relationships online course: Learn how to nurture more meaningful and authentic connections with yourself and others. Healing Your Shame online course: Begin the journey toward greater confidence and self-worth by learning how to recognize and deal with toxic shame. Gay Men Going Deeper Coaching Collection: Lifetime access to BOTH courses + 45 coaching videos and 2 workshop series. Take the Attachment Style Quiz to determine your attachment style and get a free report

For many LGBTQ+ people, coming out to family is a pivotal moment and significant step toward self-acceptance and living authentically. However, regardless of your age, coming out to family members can be extra challenging due to cultural reasons, family dynamics, and a fear of not being accepted.  Even once we have come out to our family members, we must navigate the delicate balance of how much access we give them into our gay lives, including our intimate relationships. In this episode, we’ll be exploring these questions and more:  How did you come out to your family? How open are you with your family about your sexuality and love life? What tips would you offer someone who is considering coming out to their family? Listen in as we recount moments of fear, courage, and vulnerability in our pursuit of authentic self-expression and acceptance.  If you or someone you know is looking for support, see the resources below or contact us at info@gaymensbrotherhood.com.  Resources Coming Out Guide (for parents): https://www.strongfamilyalliance.org/parent-guide-gay/download Coming Out to Your Parents (for LGBTQIA+): https://www.strongfamilyalliance.org/how-to-come-out-to-parents/ Trevor Project: Coming Out Handbook - https://www.thetrevorproject.org/resources/guide/the-coming-out-handbook/ Today's Hosts: Michael DiIorio Matt Landsiedel Reno Johnston Support the Show - viewer and listener support helps us to continue making episodes - CONNECT WITH US - Watch podcast episodes on YouTube Join the Gay Men's Brotherhood Facebook community Get on our email list to get access to our monthly Zoom calls Follow us on Instagram | TikTok Learn more about our community at GayMenGoingDeeper.com - LEARN WITH US - Building Better Relationships online course: Learn how to nurture more meaningful and authentic connections with yourself and others. Healing Your Shame online course: Begin the journey toward greater confid

Michael explores the unique dynamics of chosen families in the LGBTQ+ experience. Topics include the importance of chosen family, how bonds evolve over time, similarities to traditional family dynamics, navigating conflict, and tips for nurturing chosen family.

The podcast discusses the challenges and impact of family relationships, explores intergenerational trauma and resilience, and reflects on anxiety and coping mechanisms within the family. It also emphasizes the positive attributes and work ethic of gay men, explores the profound influence of family on identity and purpose, and highlights the importance of shared interests and family traditions.

Join Matt as he speaks with Nyle Biondi, a trans and queer psychotherapist, as they discuss protecting their peace in a divisive world. They explore giving away power, protecting peace from family dynamics and media, and balancing caring about systems while protecting your own peace. Discover strategies to protect your peace and stand in your own truth and power.