

Gay Men Going Deeper
Gay Men's Brotherhood
Gay Men Going Deeper is a weekly podcast that showcases raw and real conversations about personal development, mental health, and sexuality - from an unapologetically gay perspective.
Hosted by Matt Landsiedel and Michael DiIorio, and featuring a wide range of special guests, you can expect to be inspired, entertained, and even a little triggered from time to time.
This provocative podcast is for anyone who craves deeper conversations on topics ranging from spirituality to sexuality - and everything in between.
Visit us at www.GayMenGoingDeeper.com
Support the show: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=LT55M79CMH5FN
Hosted by Matt Landsiedel and Michael DiIorio, and featuring a wide range of special guests, you can expect to be inspired, entertained, and even a little triggered from time to time.
This provocative podcast is for anyone who craves deeper conversations on topics ranging from spirituality to sexuality - and everything in between.
Visit us at www.GayMenGoingDeeper.com
Support the show: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=LT55M79CMH5FN
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Oct 7, 2021 • 59min
Normalizing Fear
About Today’s Show
Fear is a natural human emotion that is often misunderstood. In this episode, we’re sharing our personal experiences with fear and giving some tangible tips on dealing with fear in your own life so that you can release the suffering that it often brings. We’ll answer questions like:
1. How do you experience fear?
2. What are some things you’re afraid of?
3. What are some strategies you use to overcome fear?
This episode will show you that you’re not alone in your fear and in fact, it may just be the perfect opportunity for the next step of your personal development.
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Sep 30, 2021 • 59min
Your Questions Answered on Non-Monogamous Relationships
About Today’s Show
In this episode, Michael welcomes back special guest, Craig Cassey, to answer your questions about gay relationships, sex, and monogamy. Our episode on Non-Monogamous Relationships generated quite a bit of discussion, so today we are responding back to some of your juiciest comments and questions, such as:
How do I make a long-term relationship work?
How do I bring up the topic of openness with my partner?
How do I work through guilt and jealousy?
Join us for yet another candid discussion that will help you build stronger relationships with others and with yourself. Craig Cassey is a professional life, executive, and sex coach. You can find Craig at www.craigcassey.com or on Instagram at @craigcasseyjr
Sexual Empowerment 101
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Sep 23, 2021 • 55min
FOMO (Fear Of Missing Out)
About Today’s Show
The Fear of Missing Out (a.k.a FOMO) tells us that if we could just be somewhere else, do something else, or be with someone else, we would be “better.” All it really does though is take us out of the present moment and creates unnecessary anxiety. In this episode, we’ll answer these questions:
1. What sparks FOMO in you?
2. Where do you think FOMO really comes from?
3. What can we do to alleviate and work through our FOMO?
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Sep 16, 2021 • 56min
Transforming Limiting Beliefs
About Today’s Show
In this episode, Matt speaks with Holistic Practitioner, Andrew Rowe about transforming limiting beliefs. Andrew and Matt share their best spiritual and psychological wisdom on how to shed those beliefs that are no longer serving us. Limiting beliefs tend to be the culprits that are preventing us from becoming our most authentic and confident selves. Time to learn how to let them go.
Here is what you can expect to learn from the episode:
● What are beliefs?
● How are limited beliefs formed?
● How do limiting beliefs show up in our lives?
● How do you transform-limited beliefs?
● What are common beliefs you help gay men transform?
● What can our listeners do to start to make this transformation to their limiting beliefs?
You can connect with Andrew on Instagram at @andrewrowe111
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Sep 9, 2021 • 57min
Self-Acceptance
About Today’s Show
We all want things for ourselves and our lives: more confidence, more love, more connection. But we can’t get to more if we don’t begin by accepting exactly where we are in the present, flaws and all. Join us on this episode as we unpack these questions:
1. What does it mean to accept yourself?
2. What are the practical benefits of self-acceptance?
3. How can you develop greater self-acceptance?
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Sep 2, 2021 • 1h 1min
Coming Out Later in Life
About Today’s Show
Not all of us had the luxury of being able to come out at a young age and enjoyed the benefits of long fought for rights. There are many men around the world who still have to live in the closet due to fear of safety and many other reasons.
Today Calan Breckon hosts an open discussion with 3 amazing men who all came out later in life. Each one of them has a unique experience to offer through their own coming-out story. You can come out at 40, 50, 60, at any age really, and still have an amazing and fulfilling life living authentically true to who you are.
Thank you, Ron, DJ and Phil for sharing your stories of finding light at the end of the tunnel. If you think it’s too late for you, think again! It’s never too late <3
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Aug 26, 2021 • 53min
People Pleasing
About Today’s Show
What is ‘people pleasing’ and how is it different from simply wanting to be nice to others? In this episode, we’re diving into this very common pattern that tends to have a unique flavour for gay men. We’ll answer questions such as:
– how has people pleasing impacted your life?
– why do gay men start people pleasing in the first place?
– how can you start to overcome people pleasing?
Psychology Today Reference
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Aug 19, 2021 • 1h 4min
Non-Monogamous Relationships
About Today’s Show
There is a cultural shift occurring where more people are questioning whether traditional monogamy is right for them.
In this episode, Michael has a candid and informative conversation with professional life & sex coach, Craig Cassey about alternative relationship structures.
From monogamy to polyamory and everything in between, this illuminating episode answers questions such as
What are different relationship structures and what do they look like?
How do you know what’s right for you?
How do you find people who want what you want?
How do you communicate this sensitive topic with your partner or potential partners?
Craig Cassey is a professional life, executive, and sex coach. You can find Craig at www.craigcassey.com or on Instagram @craigcasseyjr
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Aug 12, 2021 • 55min
Finding Your Inner Circle
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About Today’s Show
Your inner circle are the people who you can count on to ride life's highs and support you through the lows. They can help us foster greater trust, intimacy, and vulnerability. On today's episode, we're sharing who is in our inner circle, why they are important, and what you can do to find and connect with these people in your own life.
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Aug 5, 2021 • 1h 3min
Sexual Consent with Court Vox
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About Today’s Show
In this episode, Matt speaks with Sex and Intimacy Consultant Court Vox about sexual consent. The term “consent” is becoming a lot more common in the gay community as men learn to honour and value their need for safety within their sexual and intimate relationships. Come spend an hour with Matt and Court as they unpack the following questions:
-What is consent?
-Implied consent vs actual consent?
-Why do many gay men struggle with consent?
-How does the hyper-sexualized culture of the gay community impact consent?
-How are gay men influenced by the heteronormative culture around consent?
-How do drugs and alcohol influence consent?
-How to properly ask for and give consent?
-How to create a culture of consent in the gay community?
Court Vox is a Sex and Intimacy Consultant, Surrogate Partner Intern, and Sacred Intimate. He is a member of the World Association of Sex Coaches, and the Founder of The Body Vox. He is a guide for a vast spectrum of individuals and those in relationship/s seeking more in their erotic and intimate lives. When it comes to human connection and sexuality, some are beginning their journey while others have been pursuing erotic education and experiences for years. Court works gently with first-timers, as well as offers uncommon experiences to some of the world's most well-known sex educators who seek him out when they are wanting a professional to work with. Court has become known for offering private, highly customized, exclusive experiences and travels extensively hosting and teaching workshops for all bodies, genders, and orientations. Court is also part of an elite team of sex educators that create the celebrated program for women, Back to the Body, which runs retreats all across the globe.
Instagram: @courtvox
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