

Mindfulness Mode
Bruce Langford
Increase your calm, focus and happiness so you can be more relaxed, contented and satisfied with your life. For business, entrepreneurs, educators, parents. Hosted by Bruce Langford.
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Sep 19, 2016 • 35min
146 Separate Emotions From Decision Making Suggests Jeremy Ryan Slate
Jeremy Ryan Slate is an online Entrepreneur and Fitness Enthusiast.
Jeremy pays regular visits to the gym where he has created the kind of
sculpted body many men dream of. He is focused and centered on the kind
of life
he has decided to create for himself. He is also admired as host of the
Podcast, Create Your Own Life and has interviewed such successful
Entrepreneurs as Pat Flynn, John Lee Dumas and Bob Burg.
Contact InfoWebsite: www.JeremyRyanSlate.com
Podcast: Create Your Own Life
Most Influential PersonL. Ron Hubard (Author of Dianetics)
Effect on EmotionsI
don't buy as much into them [emotions]. I think emotions are important
to experience life. It's the channel of how we do it. I think sometimes
we let it affect our decision making. I've learned to separate my
emotions from my decision making and try and deal just with data.
Thoughts on BreathingI don't really have a way that breathing is a part of my mindfulness.
Suggested ResourcesBook: Dianetics: The Modern Science of Mental Health by L. Ron Hubard
App: Evernote (I like to write a lot and so I like to make notes when I'm out using this app).
Advice for Newbie
The
big thing is learning to separate your emotions from your decision
making. We make a lot of emotionally charged decisions and afterwards we
either regret them or think they were incorrect. I think one of the
biggest things for me to be able to just deal with, what do I see, what
do I know. Sometimes we try to put our own 'think' into things rather
than just observing what happened. The big thing is to observe and make
your decision from data.

Sep 15, 2016 • 38min
145 Focus On Your Faith Say Fitness Experts Nicholas and Amanda Bayerle
Nicholas and Amanda Bayerle are passionate about health, fitness and
personal development and they both love helping people reach higher
levels of fitness. They are also highly sought after speakers,
specializing in boosting productivity, wellness, and showing businesses
the positive return on investment of a healthy culture. Hosts of the
popular podcast, How Bad Do I Want It, Nicholas and Amanda interview
inspiring guests and share great coaching tips. Amanda and Nicholas both
practice mindfulness on a daily basis.
Contact InfoWebsite: www.TheTrueChallenge.com
Facebook: Nicolas and Amanda Bayerle
Snapchat: Amanda Bayerle / Nicholas Bayerle
Instagram: Nicholas and Amanda Bayerle
Most Influential PersonDrew Canole from FitLife
Effect on EmotionsMindfulness
has totally affected our emotions through being able to control them.
Your emotions don't control you. People think that they do. Once you
become mindful, you can control your emotion and you can change your
emotion whenever you want. We don't react to things anymore, we just
chose what we want to do from there on out.
Thoughts on BreathingEvery
single day we are mindful of our breath. If you don't breathe, you die.
It's literally the most important thing in our lives. We start out our
day with a few minutes doing box breathing.
Suggested ResourcesBook: The Bible - Pick out a scripture that's full of faith and meditate on that all day.
App: Amanda - My Notes - Higher thoughts come to me by being mindful so I just make note of them.
App: Nicolas - Focus@Will

Sep 12, 2016 • 29min
144 Write of Your Life Using Mindfulness With Stacy Brookman
Stacy Brookman is a wordsmith. She’s loved words all her life and
excels at crafting words into clever phrases and fascinating stories.
Not only is Stacy amazing at her ability to create compelling stories,
but she is terrific at teaching this skill to others. Stacy’s language
abilities are enhanced by the fact that she understands the concept of using effective mindfulness tools to achieve focus and direction.
Stacy has a wonderful podcast called “Write of Your Life” with the tagline Life Happens … Life Storytelling Transforms It!
Contact InfoWebsite: www.writeofyourlife.com
Email: stacy@writeofyourlife.com
Podcast: Write Of Your Life
Most Influential PersonAnaïs Salibian, my memoir writing teacher and also practitioner of the Rosen Method of Trauma Recovery
Effect on EmotionsHelped
me be much more aware of my emotions rather than ignoring them and
stuffing them down. It gets them out in the open where I can address
them.
Thoughts on BreathingI breathe when the app tells me to breathe. It is very calming. (The HeadSpace App)
Suggested ResourcesBook: To Be Told: Know Your Story, Shape Your Future by Dan B. Allender
App: Headspace (Worth it to get the Pro version)
Advice for Newbie
You
can do what I do. Lay down in the middle of the day even if you feel
like you don't have a moment to spare. Turn on the mindfulness app,
listen to ocean sounds or rain drop sounds and just quiet your mind.
Think about what you're feeling and the sensations in your body.

Sep 8, 2016 • 35min
143 Passion and Mindfulness Goes Deep With Ultimate Frisbee Champion, Aaron Watson
Aaron Watson is a champion of Ultimate Frisbee and he competes in
disc golf, Disc Dog (also known as Frisbee Dog), and other flying disc
competitions. He is also a coach of Ultimate Frisbee, coaching his team
to the championship game of the American Ultimate Disc League, also
known as AUDL. At only 24 years old, Aaron is also creator and host of
the popular podcast, Going Deep with Aaron Watson, where he talks with a
wide array of people about their passions, fears and problems.
Contact InfoTwitter: @AaronWatson59
Podcast: Going Deep With Aaron Watson
Most Influential PersonMy coach, Nick Kacznarek from the University of Pittsburgh
Effect on EmotionsEmotional
regulation and trying to be that cold-blooded warrior, the player who
has ice in their veins and isn't fazed by a big crowd of bright lights.
Thoughts on BreathingTaking
slow, deep breaths, whether I'm stressed out, something goes wrong,
something falls apart. Taking the deep breaths to get some perspective
on the challenges I'm facing, but also just to help regulate my own
emotions and get back to a more rational, focused state.
Suggested ResourcesBook: The War of Art by Steven Pressfield
App: The Pomodoro App
Advice for Newbie
I
would challenge them to take six great breaths every single day. What
that means to me is, five seconds in through your nose, five seconds
out. If you take six great breaths of ten seconds each, that's one
minute out of your day.

Sep 5, 2016 • 35min
142 Accept Responsibility For Your Choices To Make Life Easier; Money Coach Deborah Williams
Deborah Williams is a money coach, accountant and podcaster committed
to helping others where money meets mindset. She has a way of leading
her clients to a place of both prosperity and joy. Deborah grew up in a
home with addiction
and later married a man who was an alcoholic. In her 30’s she realized
how dysfunctional her life really was and she decided to make some
changes. Deborah has terrific insight into many aspects of life and
mindfulness is one of them.
Contact InfoWebsite: www.FinancialKarmaCoach.com
Facebook Group: Financial Karma
Podcast: Financial Karma
Most Influential Person
Joe Somodi (Deb's Meditation Coach)
Effect on EmotionsMindfulness has allowed me to stop being depressed and feeling sorry for myself and find the joy in my daily life.
Thoughts on BreathingBreathing
is the best way for you to stop and be mindful, in my book. You are
about to do something that you are later, going to wish you didn't do.
And when you stop and take that deep breath, it gives you a chance to
collect your thoughts and be mindful of how this could play out if you
don't handle it the way you should or walk away when the time is
necessary.
Suggested ResourcesBook: The Artist's Way by Julia Cameron
Book: The Prosperous Heart: Creating A Life of Enough by Julia Cameron
App: Calm
Advice for Newbie
As
Productivity Leader Nick Snapp would say, You have to start small, you
have to start in manageable bites of everything you're going to do
because you will get things accomplished. You have to really remind
yourself, be mindful of the need to have patience with yourself and be
kind to yourself while you go through these things. This is hard work,
but it's really worth it work.

Sep 3, 2016 • 10min
141 Back To School and Mindfulness Weekends With Bruce Langford
Returning to school after summer vacation. Depending on
where you are, some schools are already back in class; in our area the big day
is right after labour day, this year September 6th.
I remember getting new clothes for school, and not wanting
to wear them. That seems strange to say, now that I’m remembering back, but
there was this thing, that when any of the guys in my class went to school
wearing new clothes, and I mean new clothes of any kind, you’d get teased. Teasing
that would go on and on all day, making remarks, poking at the person. Really,
it was closer to bullying that teasing. I mean, it seems silly & childish
now that I think of it, after all, we were in 7th or 8th
grade as I remember.
One day I was wearing something new and a lean, wiry kid,
I’ll just call him Lenny, he started picking on me and centering me out. I
remember feeling this sudden surge of anger, just instantly welling in the back
of my neck. Before I knew what happened, I punched him, one quick, powerful, solid
punch right to the side of his face. What seemed to be a split second later, he
fired back, a solid, well planted hit to a target just below my left eye.
We were sitting in the office before I knew what happened
and we both had incredible shiners that were swelling up by the moment. The school Principal was a fairly tall,
rounded guy with a powerful, booming voice. I remember how he walked; he
carried himself like his was king of the universe. He used BryleCream in his
hair and parted it with a vertical part straight down the back of his head.
He made us sweat for about 20 minutes. He left us sitting
there in his office where he could watch us through his famous 2-way mirror. When he came in, I’m sure we were both
sweating bullets.
He wanted to know everything that happened, why I slugged
the guy, why he punched me back. And when we finished our stories, he stood up,
turned around and took something off a hook on the wall on the other side of
the room. It had been hanging there the whole time, with a collection of several
others; his strap collection.
“Which strap do you think I should use”, he asked us, as
though he was really going to give us the choice.
He said, “I’ve never had to show either one of you guys the
strap before, but this is the kind of behavior that earns kids the strap around
here.”
We both tried to remain stoic and I honestly think the two
of us bonded just a bit as a result of this experience. The threat of the strap
turned out to be just a warning, we paid for the incident by having to nurse our
shiners for a couple of weeks before healing up.
Now if I had understood what it meant to be mindful back
then, I’m pretty sure I never would have punched the kid in the face. I mean, I
would have realized that he was just looking for a reaction.
Wouldn’t life be great if you could be that confident, that you
were always in control of your emotions.
As far as I can remember, nobody in my class ever teased
anybody about new clothes after that. No one could believe that Bruce Langford
punched another kid and gave him a black eye.
Well, I’m not proud of it. I wouldn’t want my son to know,
oh wait, since he’s my editor, he’s apt to come across this recording. Well,
I’m being vulnerable and just telling an incident that probably taught me
something. I mean in a way I wish I could somehow erase this from the history
books, but in another way, well, that was a different time, and what happened,
happened. I think that is mindfulness too.
Today marks the end of my Weekends With Bruce series. Did
you enjoy these weekend episodes, with the different style, a contrast to my
regular interviews?
Mindful Tribe, I’m always grateful for your feedback, your
emails, your comments on what you like and what you don’t like. It would be
great if you took a minute and send me an email with your feedback on the
Weekend Shows.
Depending on your comments, maybe I’ll do some special bonus
episodes or … who knows what. Here’s a shoutout to you Inga, I know you’re a
faithful listener and I appreciate your feedback.
So, till next time, Mindful Tribe, take what we ‘ve learned
today and use it to reach new heights of calm, focus and happiness. Stay In The
Mode!

Sep 1, 2016 • 35min
140 You Can't Start Improving Until You Start Doing Advises Podcasting Pioneer, Gary Leland
Gary Leland is an online legend. He started his first online store in
1996 and started podcasting in 2004. He is passionate about fastpitch
softball, and sports in general. He sells softball related merchandise
online and has a podcast called The Gary Leland Show where he interviews
interesting guests about business and marketing. Gary has his feet
planted firmly on the ground and after meeting him in person at Podcast
Movement 2016 in Chicago, I got the feeling he has a real sense of
mindfulness, even if he might use other words to describe it.
Contact InfoCompany: www.Lelands.org
Podcast: GaryLelandShow.com
Most Influential PersonMy mother. She taught me when something was over it was time to move on. She taught me not to hang on to stuff.
Effect on EmotionsI
don't hold a lot of emotions because of it. (Mindfulness). I don't hold
a lot of pain, or being upset, or being mad. I pretty much live my live
without any of those strong emotions. I don't dislike anybody. I had
somebody embezzle $385,000. from me a few years ago and I don't hold any
animosity to them.
[show-notes-emotions]
Thoughts on BreathingI'm
not into breathing and don't know much about it. I sure it's great.
Everybody that I heard talk about it told me it does wonders. Maybe I
need to investigate it. At the moment I don't do any kind of breathing
or meditation or anything like that. I just enjoy life.
[show-notes-breathing]
Suggested ResourcesBook: No books to recommend.
App: Most of my apps are strictly for business.
[show-notes-resources]
Advice for Newbie
I
only do things 80% of the way, and then I'm ready to go on to something
else. I don't sit there and dwell on getting it to 100%. I really feel
like 80% is good enough and all you have to be is good enough. You don't
have to be perfect, you just have to be good enough. While that other
person's working on that last 20%, I've done two 80's and I'm half way
through with my third 80. The other 20 can happen over time. These are
the refinements.
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Aug 29, 2016 • 36min
139 Miracle On The Hudson, The Story of Focus Told By Last Passenger Out, Dave Sanderson
Dave Sanderson was the last passenger to leave the plane which landed
on the Hudson River in January 2009, the story being featured in the
upcoming film, Sully, directed by Clint Eastwood and starring Tom Hanks.
Since that incident, Dave has built a career as a motivational speaker,
mentor and author. In his presentations, he shares
The 12 Pillars of Resourcefulness, precepts that enabled him to become a
top producer in some of the largest sales organizations in the world
and ultimately enabled him to survive the plane crash. In his new book,
Moments Matter, Dave discusses lessons learned from the Miracle on the
Hudson and how to take a potentially tragic experience and turn it into
an opportunity to survive and thrive.
Contact InfoFacebook: davesandersonspeaks
LinkedIn: david sanderson
Twitter: @davesanderson2
Website: davesandersonspeaks.com
Blog: davesandersonspeaks.com/moments-matter-blog
Email: dave@davesandersonspeaks.com
Most Influential PersonBill, my first mentor
Effect on EmotionsYou
know, when I go into a mindful, centered state, I'm in a peaceful
situation and I'm less stressed, I focus, I have less anxiety. I focus
on other people and I think that's the big thing, I get out of myself.
When I'm in a mindful state I'm more resourceful and focus on other
people. I think that's where I serve at the highest level.
Thoughts on BreathingWell,
I don't breathe as often in the ways I used to breathe and I need to
get back to that. Breathing to me, I would get down on the ground and do
shallow breaths and deep breaths and all of a sudden oxygen gets into
your body and all of a sudden your mind expands so I need to do more of
that. I was doing that for quite a while and I think that's a great way
to get centered. Before I go on stage, I do take that deep final breath.
Suggested ResourcesBooks: Moments Matter by Dave Sanderson
Brace for Impact by Dave Sanderson
The Fourth Turning: An American Prophecy - What the Cycles of History Tell Us About America's Next Rendezvous with Destiny
Advice for Newbie
I
would say that for someone who is looking to get more mindful and more
centered in their life, focus on something else other than yourself.
Focus on your family, focus on the bigger picture because one thing you
realize when you go through a plane crash is, and I said this in an
interview when I did a movie premiere, that no one really cared if
anyone was white, black, Hispanic, gay, lesbian, transsexual. No one
judged anybody else so I would say at that point everybody got centered
into themselves to be able to get that outcome, so I would say I
recommend to somebody, be less judgemental, focus on the bigger picture,
focus on something outside yourself where you can serve and add value
instead of focusing on what's in it for me.
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Aug 27, 2016 • 17min
138 Coloring and Mindfulness Weekends with Bruce Langford and Zephan Blaxburg
Coloring to relieve stress and get focused. That's our topic today
and I'm happy to have Zephan Blaxberg back on the show. Zeph was a guest
on episode 4 when he talked about his life journey and a trauma that
changed the course of his life. He has a terrific podcast called The
Year of Purpose and he's just recently published a coloring book called
GreatFull: Mandala Coloring Book and Journal.
Zephan
is a man of action and has published two books in the past year besides
continuing his iTunes #1 Podcast, The Year of Purpose and traveling as a
travel hacker on more than 25 flights over the past 16 months.
Zephan's other book is called "Life Re-Scripted: Find Your Purpose and Design Your Dream Life Before The Curtains Close".
Guest:Zephan Blaxburg
Featured in Mindfulness Mode Episode 004 Zephan Blaxberg: From Youth Trauma to Video Master Entrepreneur
Instagram: ZephanMoses
Quotes:Coloring takes us back to our childhood roots. Zephan Blaxberg
I love journaling in the morning each and every day. Zephan Blaxberg
No one had combined the idea of journaling with the stress relieving features of adult coloring. Zephan Blaxberg
Color, doodle and journal all in one place with my new book, GreatFull. Zephan Blaxberg
If
you look at the traumas we've gone through, typically we have to take
ourselves back to our roots and back to our inner child and have that
conversation with our younger self. Zephan Blaxberg
Books:GreatFull: Mandala Coloring Book and Journal
Life Re-Scripted: Find Your Purpose and Design Your Dream Life Before The Curtains Close
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Aug 25, 2016 • 35min
137 Play to Win With A Mindful Letter To Self, Suggests Inner Changemaker, Jay Wong
Jay Wong is a Podcaster, brand strategist and trainer. His Podcast, The Inner Changemaker, is his platform to share his knowledge and interview such guests as Bob Proctor, Nathan Chan and Tucker Max, to name a few. He loves to help others get their inner message out to the world in their own unique way. Not only is Jay a super high energy guy, but he thoroughly understands the concept of mindfulness and truly rocks at living in the moment.
Contact InfoYoutube: JayWongTV
Website: TheInnerChangeMaker.com
Podcast: The Inner Changemaker
Most Influential PersonJuVon Langford
Effect on EmotionsIt has allowed me to get in tune, get in touch, with my emotions and you start realizing what you are reacting to. You are able to almost observe how you are feeling. If you get really in tune with it, you get this focus and you are allowed to see what triggers something in you. For me, it gives me that space of asking, " Why does this trigger something inside me?". It's just a good indication for me to actually find the root of a lot of these issues, but I would say, you get more in touchwith all the different emotions, good and bad, on the scale.
Thoughts on BreathingBreathing is everything. Breathing is one of those tactics that people think is nothing when they say it, even though it's something so vital, obviously, for all of us. When things are going crazy, when you are being overwhelmed and you don't know what to do, the thing is, you do know what to do! You just can't get there. So the way to get there is just by stopping everything. Just pausing, and by breathing. When you are done doing you first breath, to do your second breath. That's almost like how you can build momentum in a sticky situation, by breathing. I think it has a lot of tremendous impacts from meditation to mindfulness.
Suggested ResourcesBook: The Intention Experiment by Lynn Mctaggart
App: Winstreak


