

Relationship Advice
Thrive Therapy - Colter Bloxom, Lauren Mokarry, and Cayla Bozovich
Relationship Advice helps listeners uncover the stuck spots in their relationships by taking expert advice from three licensed professional counselors and boiling it down into digestible tips and tools. Colter, Cayla, and Lauren help people to see that the first step to connecting with somebody else is by connecting with you. They focus their show on understanding and navigating the cycles that couples face, how to practice individuation, and staying in an emotionally regulated state. Just them each week as they come with a jam packed agenda to help you thrive in your relationships.Looking for old episode from "Relatable"? Click here.
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Nov 16, 2022 • 43min
379: Self Reflection To Improve Your Relationship
Self inquiry will help us better understand ourselves and improve all of the relationships in our lives. Listen to today's show to learn valuable tools to take on the journey of understanding ourselves better. In this episode with Dr. Tara Well, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
Mirror meditation techniques to learn more about yourself
How to deal with our inner critic
Specific exercises and tools to deal with anxiety
How to shift your focus to better navigate difficult emotions
Processing criticism in your relationship and with yourself
And much more!
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Nov 9, 2022 • 36min
378: Create More Gratitude In Your Life To Improve Your Relationship
Gratitude can improve all areas of your life including your relationships. It's easy to focus on the negative and much harder to be thankful for the life we have. It's the season of gratitude and there's no better time to start a gratitude practice than now. Listen to today's show to learn some valuable tips for creating more gratitude in your life. In this episode with Najma Khorrami, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
Benefits of self compassion and gratitude
Tools and practices to implement more gratitude into your life today
Teaching kids about gratitude
Paying attention and creating appreciation for the stunning moments of our lives
And much more!
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Nov 3, 2022 • 43min
377: Develop Uncompromising Intimacy In Your Relationship
Developing intimacy and passion in your relationship is an important way to feel more connected and fulfilled. Listen to today's show for a variety of amazing tips and practices specifically to bring more intimacy and passion into your relationship today!In this episode with Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
The myth of compromise in your relationship and how to create uncompromising intimacy
Why withholding your desires is toxic for your relationship
How to reignite the passion in your relationship
Key tips for communicating with your partner about your desires
How finding the erotic in the everyday will improve your relationship
And much more!
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Oct 28, 2022 • 33min
376: A Comprehensive Guide To Conflict Resolution
Conflict in relationships is inevitable. Our goal should not be to avoid conflict, but to navigate it in a healthy and respectable manner. Listen to today's show for a detailed overview about understanding conflict and how to navigate it better in your relationships. In this episode with Marlene Chism, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
How to recognize conflict in your relationship
The importance of understanding your narrative around conflict in your relationship
How to communicate in the most productive way during conflict
The key understanding that our stories are the sources of our own suffering
Important questions to ask yourself and your partner before, during and after conflict
How to listen better during conflict and why listening is so important
And much more!
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Oct 20, 2022 • 44min
375: How To Deal With Negative Emotions
It's only human to have negative emotions. Oftentimes these negative emotions can consume us and greatly affect our lives and relationships. Listen to today's show for actionable tips and tools to better deal with your negative emotions. In this episode with Dr. Cheryl Fraser, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
How negative emotions will show up in your relationships
Understanding that problems in our relationships start with us
The importance of being kind to ourselves when dealing with negative emotions
How to better deal with anger, jealousy and confusion
The important practice of understanding that the only way to truly be happy is from within
Tools for practicing self love and compassion
And much more!
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Oct 13, 2022 • 41min
374: How To Navigate Infidelity And Cheating In Relationships
Cheating and infidelity can be extremely painful experiences for both an individual and a couple. Listen to today’s show to learn how to navigate these rough waters and move forward to get to a better place. In this episode with Shannon Brown, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
The importance of hope and how to cultivate it to move through infidelity to a better place
Understanding some of the reasons for infidelity
Why you need to create something new after infidelity
Learning to be kind to yourself through the process of healing
How to forgive your partner and understanding the process
Navigating the question of whether you should stay in the relationship
Tools to stay connected in your relationship moving forward
And much more!
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Oct 7, 2022 • 39min
373: Two Therapists Walk Into A Bar
No punchline here. Just a great interview with two therapists who are also in a relationship together. Listen to today’s show for valuable tips to improve your relationship and for amazing personal insights into what it’s like when two relationship experts are in a relationship with one another. In this episode with John Kim and Vanessa Bennet, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
John and Vanessa’s experience as two therapists in relationship with one another
How to deal with an ambivalent partner or move through ambivalence yourself
How to navigate different attachment styles in a relationship
What to do if you feel clingy in your relationship
Daily practices for a thriving relationship
And much more!
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Sep 28, 2022 • 39min
372: Keys For A Resilient Relationship
The path to creating a great relationship is not about creating a perfect relationship. Perfect relationships don’t exist. However, resilient relationships are attainable and perfectly imperfect! Listen to today’s show to learn some great practices for a resilient relationship. In this episode with Dr. Karen Skerrett, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
What exactly a resilient relationship looks like
The value of perspective when dealing with relationship conflict
The importance of noticing and paying attention to our partner
Cultivating an attitude of curiosity and how it will improve your relationship
The importance of anticipating challenges and using them as opportunities for growth with your partner.
And much more!
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Sep 22, 2022 • 39min
371: Dating After A Breakup Or Loss
It can be hard to know when and how to start dating after a breakup or death of a partner. Listen to today’s show to learn valuable tips for dating in the healthiest, most productive way possible after experiencing a loss. In this episode with Krista St-Germain, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
How to grieve a breakup or death of a partner and why the 5 stages of grief may not always go as you think
Debunking common myths around dating after a loss
The importance of allowing our emotions
How to know when to start dating again
Post-traumatic growth and its hopeful message
Why it’s ok to distract yourself from the pain of a loss by dating again
And much more!
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Sep 15, 2022 • 35min
370: Learn To Communicate Lovingly With Your Partner
Communication is a key component to any successful relationship. Whether you want to improve communication with your romantic partner, friends or family, this episode is for you. In this episode with Juliette Karaman, we discuss relationship advice topics that include: The importance of staying curious to help communicate better What to do when you or your partner is triggered during communication Learn a super valuable and actionable communication exercise that will bring you closer to your partner immediately Words and phrases to avoid during communication Learning the importance of timing when you communicate And much more! Sponsors Dipsea is an audio app full of short, sexy stories and guided sessions that are designed to turn you on and help you get in touch with yourself. Get a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/IDO. BetterHelp is an online therapy platform that will assess your needs and match you with your own licensed professional therapist. Start living a happier life today and get 10% off your first month by visiting BetterHelp.com/IDO. Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices


