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Thrive Therapy - Colter Bloxom, Lauren Mokarry, and Cayla Bozovich
Relationship Advice helps listeners uncover the stuck spots in their relationships by taking expert advice from three licensed professional counselors and boiling it down into digestible tips and tools. Colter, Cayla, and Lauren help people to see that the first step to connecting with somebody else is by connecting with you. They focus their show on understanding and navigating the cycles that couples face, how to practice individuation, and staying in an emotionally regulated state. Just them each week as they come with a jam packed agenda to help you thrive in your relationships.Looking for old episode from "Relatable"? Click here.
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Mar 1, 2023 • 39min
394: Sensitivity In Relationships
Do you identify as a highly sensitive person? Perhaps your partner does? All of us have different levels of sensitivity that we have to deal with when navigating relationships and life. Listen to today's show to better understand your sensitivities or your partner's in order to live a happier and healthier life. In this episode with Andre Sólo we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
Defining sensitivity and the sensitivity scale
How to navigate high sensitivity, and knowing the strengths and weaknesses of highly sensitive individuals
How to navigate conflict for highly sensitive individuals
Embracing your sensitivity
Who highly sensitive people should be in relationships with
How we view sensitivity in individuals
And much more!
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Feb 22, 2023 • 44min
393: Modern Dating And Finding Love At 40
Dating can feel challenging, tiring and even hopeless. However, it's important to know that you're not alone and that it doesn't have to be so hard. Listen to today's show to learn how to navigate dating, keep your heart open and find peace with yourself. In this episode with Christiana Cioffi, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
How to navigate the challenges of dating as you age
Learning to become happy with yourself in order to find happiness when dating
How to approach sexuality after not dating for a while
How to live a healthier life as a single person
Becoming comfortable with who you are
How to deal with feelings that you may not 'have it' anymore
And much more!
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Feb 15, 2023 • 46min
392: Navigating A Breakup And Getting Over Your Ex
Breaking up is almost never easy and the emotional toll after the breakup can be quite exhausting. Listen to today's episode for amazing tools to help you navigate through a breakup and get over your ex. In this episode with Dr. Cortney Warren, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
Tips for cutting contact with your ex
The importance of retelling your break up story and how to do it
What to do if you're struggling to move on
Unpacking the myth that time will heal your wounds
What to do if you're struggling with obsessive thinking about your ex and the former relationship
Dating after a breakup
And much more!
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Feb 10, 2023 • 40min
391: Commitment, Communication And Conflict In Your Relationship
This conversation is a comprehensive look at three very important elements of a healthy relationship. We haven't talked much about commitment on this show and the first half of the conversation is dedicated to this critical topic. Listen to today's show for some amazing, actionable advice to start applying to your relationship today!In this episode with Matthew Hoffman, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
Different kinds of commitment and how to show more commitment in your relationship
Fears around commitment and how to talk about them with your partner
The key ways to show appreciation and gratitude in your relationship
How to communicate with intentionality
Important questions to ask your partner that will help you connect with them
Understanding what is underlying conflict in your relationship
The importance of fighting fair and creating understanding during conflict
And much more!
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Feb 1, 2023 • 35min
390: Feeling Like Your Best Sex Is Behind You?
No one wants to feel like the best sex they've ever had with their partner is behind them. However, many people will feel like the sex they had early in their relationship was way better than it is down the road. Listen to today's show to learn why that doesn't have to be the case and the tools and practices to create the best sex of your relationship right now!In this episode with Eleni Economides, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
Why the best sex of our relationship is often at the beginning and how to switch that pattern
The importance of looking at ourselves first to start addressing the problem
Why we stop trying to seduce our partner as the relationship goes on and how this affects our sex lives
Deconstructing the myth that “if I have to try to have better sex, then something is not right”
The importance of taking the first step to start improving your relationship and how to get over that fear
And much more!
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Jan 25, 2023 • 33min
389: Giving And Receiving Constructive Feedback
Giving and receiving constructive feedback can be a tricky area to navigate in all of our relationships, especially romantic relationships. Understanding the tools to best give and receive feedback will help you live a happier and healthier life. Listen to today's show to learn more about constructive feedback and start applying these tools today!In this episode with Dr. Wyatt Fisher, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
Understanding when and how to give constructive feedback
Tools to give constructive feedback
Specific exercises to implement in your relationship to create space for feedback
How to navigate unsolicited advice in your relationship
What to do if you're a problem solver and feel like you want to give unsolicited advice
The importance of creating safety in your relationship and how to do it
And much more!
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Jan 18, 2023 • 45min
388: What Does Good Sex Look Like?
There is a lot to unpack when it comes to understanding our personal relationship to sexuality and bringing that into our relationships. Understanding all of the things that influence how we think about sex can help us improve our sex lives and move through our relationships more positively. Listen to today's show to learn what makes good sex, what sex is worth having and what makes it better. In this episode with Catherine Roach, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
What makes good sex?
Physical and emotional vulnerability around sex
Understanding how the cultural scripts around sexuality may be influencing you
Unpacking the shame you may have around sexuality and how to do it
How to talk to your kids about sex to set them up for a healthy relationship with their sexuality
Sex positivity and why that doesn't always mean more sex
And much more!
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Jan 16, 2023 • 35min
387: Dealing With Differing Values In Your Relationship
Not everyone is going to have the same exact set of values and beliefs as you. Navigating our romantic relationships, friendships and family relationships with those whose values may differ is an important skill for a happy and healthy life and a more peaceful world. Listen to today's show to learn these skills and start applying them today!In this episode with Dr. Samantha Stein, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
Understanding what values are and how they impact us
What to do when some values don't align with someone we are in relationship with
The importance of active listening when discussing differing values and opinions
Why values don't have to be all or nothing when it comes to alignment
Understanding which values are non-negotiable for you
Accepting differences with your family
And much more!
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Jan 13, 2023 • 41min
386: Secrets Of Sex And Marriage
We all want to have better sex lives, but it's not always easy to make that happen. Understanding the research around desire, arousal and our biology can go a long way in helping us improve our sex lives. Listen to today's show to learn some key tools and insights that will help you improve your sex life today!In this episode with Michael Sytsma, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
The different types of desires that men and women exhibit and how understanding them will improve your sex life
The difference between desire and arousal and key points about both areas
How to bring the art of seduction into your relationship
The importance of creating a healthy connection outside of the bedroom to improve your sex life
Important questions to ask your partner about sex
The number 1 turn on for women according to research
Creating a vision for your sex life in your relationship
Navigating pain issues during sex
And much more!
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Dec 28, 2022 • 39min
385: Learn To Navigate Your Relationship Triggers Better
Conflict is inevitable in relationships. Couples in healthy relationships do not try to avoid conflict, they navigate conflict in productive and healthy ways instead. Listen to today's show to learn what to do when you or your partner are triggered, and how to navigate these situations in the best way possible. In this episode with Wendi Dumbroff, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:
The vulnerability cycle that can occur when one partner is triggered and how this can create a negative spiral of conflict
How to become aware of the cycles of fights you may be having in your relationship and navigate these conflicts better
The importance of understanding the why's of you and your partner's triggers
Understanding that we can't help what we feel, but we can help what we do with those feelings
Tools to listen and validate your partner's feelings and examine your own
How wounds from our family of origin affect how we show up in our relationships
And much more!
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