

The Built Not Born Podcast
David Kitchen
Hosted by former Division 1 football coach turned mindset and leadership entrepreneur, David ”Coach Kitch” Kitchen, The Built Not Born Podcast brings you stories and lessons from leaders, athletes, and entrepreneurs who embody what it means to live in The Arena and to prove once and for all that leaders are #BuiltNotBorn
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May 12, 2021 • 1h 11min
Ep11: Becoming a 4-Dimensional Leader w/ Diamyn Hall
Diamyn Hall is the Experiential Leadership Coach at IMG Academy, mindset coach to MLB athletes, author of The Hitters Blackbook, CEO of an online business mentorship group, and an avid meditator.
In this episode we discuss:
Tools to gain clarity with your inner dialogue
How to make mindfulness more intentional
The three identities of high performers
How to avoid burnout
The importance of intentional routines
How to create accountability in your life

Mar 17, 2021 • 39min
Ep 10: Believe in the Work w/ Lew Caralla
Coach Lew Caralla joins the show to discuss his leadership role as a Division 1 Football Strength and Conditioning Coach. Coach Lew has held leadership positions at multiple Division 1 schools and was the 2018 Strength and Conditioning Coach of the Year.
We discuss:
Practicing what you preach
Consistency and the dangers of being consistent in the wrong areas
Building trust among your team
Leading from the heart
"Built Different"
The evolution of culture over time
Hiring and developing staff members

Mar 3, 2021 • 42min
Ep 9: Winning the Mental Game w/ BJ Merriam
BJ Merriam, Director of Compliance at Rutgers University and founder of Winning the Mental Game, joins the show to discuss his new Athlete's Edge journal. We dive into topics surrounding:
The importance of routine
Setting your intentions
Building resilience
Learning to be self-aware
The importance of momentum in life
Accountability - both public and private
Identity and sport - how to find out who you really are.
Use Code EDGE20 for a discount on the Athlete's Edge Journal

Feb 17, 2021 • 1h 6min
Ep 8: Train Your Character w/ Sean Manuel
Coach Sean Manuel, Executive Leader of Performance at The Institute of Human Performance in Las Vegas, Nevada joins the show to discuss his journey. In the episode, we discuss:
Self-Discipline
Self-Love
Building Character
Principle-based Life
Resiliency
Standards and Excellence
Cultivating Self-Awareness

Jan 27, 2021 • 1h 11min
EP 7: Never Stop Fighting w/ Quinn Barham
In this episode, David Kitchen sits down with Quinn Barham. Quinn is a strength and conditioning coach with Ohio State football.
Episode highlights:
Quinn's career at Penn State as a member of the football team
Early influences and role models
Developing a culture - defining expectations, standards, etc.
Guarding a culture
Introducing new people into the culture
Accountability and feedback - how and why
The process of building trust
The implementation of leadership development programs and activities

Dec 22, 2020 • 55min
Ep 6: Responding is Different Than Reacting w/ Nicole Erickson
We are joined today by Mental Performance Consultant Nicole Erickson. We do a deep dive into the mental side of performance including:
Fear of Failure
Fear of the Unknown
Learned vs. Natural Fears
Tips/Tricks to navigate high pressure situations
The truth about Mental Skills Training
Coach Nicole earned her master’s degree in Sport and Exercise Psychology from Georgia Southern University and her bachelor’s degree in Psychology from Florida State University. At the present time, Nicole has experience consulting with professional, collegiate, and youth athletes as a mental performance consultant. In addition, she has worked with athletes in soccer, tennis, show jumping, MMA fighting, water skiing, gymnastics and golf.
Coach Nicole works collaboratively with athletes, teams, and coaches on the mental side of their game. In short, Nicole aims to increase productivity and effectiveness by developing and adapting old thinking habits into new thinking habits. As a result, Coach Nicole specializes in developing communication, concentration, mindfulness, motivation, emotion regulation, and team culture.

Dec 15, 2020 • 1h 8min
Ep 5: Don't Manage When You Should Lead: Pt. 3 w/ Rebekah Gold
On our final installment of Coach Gold's 3 part series, we discuss identifying leaders, managing vs. leading, creating consistent culture throughout your team, and using your values to lead in any situation. As always, please share, leave a review, and subscribe!
Rebekah is going into her 3rd year as a Strength and Conditioning Coach at the University of North Texas, where she is directly responsible for the Softball and Women’s Soccer teams, as well as the internship coordinator. Prior to UNT, Rebekah was the Director of Olympic Sport Performance at Southern Methodist University, and served in Associate Director roles at both the University of Wisconsin – Milwaukee and Arkansas State University.
She graduated with a Bachelor’s degree in Kinesiology with an emphasis in Strength and Conditioning from UW-Oshkosh in December of 2012. She went on to intern with the Sports Performance staff at Marquette University. In the fall of 2013, Rebekah began her Graduate Assistantship with the Strength and Conditioning staff at The Citadel – The Military College of South Carolina. She graduated with a Master’s Degree in Leadership in the summer of 2015.

Nov 25, 2020 • 60min
Ep: 4: Are You Responding to Adversity? Pt 2. w/ Rebekah Gold
University of North Texas strength coach Rebekah Gold joins the show again to discuss building longevity in leadership roles, habits, the importance of mentors, responding to adversity, and the impact of humility.

Nov 17, 2020 • 48min
Episode 3: Connection before Content w/ Rebekah Gold
This is part 1 of a 3-part series with Coach Rebekah Gold. Today we cover leadership basics including:
Humility and learning outside your field
The feedback process
Evaluating leadership styles
The need for leadership in all areas of life
Rebekah is going into her 3rd year as a Strength and Conditioning Coach at the University of North Texas, where she is directly responsible for the Softball and Women’s Soccer teams, as well as the internship coordinator. Prior to UNT, Rebekah was the Director of Olympic Sport Performance at Southern Methodist University, and served in Associate Director roles at both the University of Wisconsin – Milwaukee and Arkansas State University.She graduated with a Bachelor’s degree in Kinesiology with an emphasis in Strength and Conditioning from UW-Oshkosh in December of 2012. She went on to intern with the Sports Performance staff at Marquette University. In the fall of 2013, Rebekah began her Graduate Assistantship with the Strength and Conditioning staff at The Citadel – The Military College of South Carolina. She graduated with a Master’s Degree in Leadership in the summer of 2015.
Resources – Leadership library
Patrick Lencioni
The 5 dysfunctions of a team
The Motive
The Advantage
Death by Meeting
The Ideal Team Player
Jon Gordan
The Hard Hat
The Power of a Positive Team
Training Camp
The Energy Bus
Jim Collins
Good to Great
Great by Choice
Built to Last
Brene Brown
Dare to Lead
TED talks
https://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_the_power_of_vulnerability?utm_campaign=tedspread&utm_medium=referral&utm_source=tedcomshare
Brett Bartholomew
Conscious Coaching
Online Courses
The Bible
The life of Jesus – Matthew 20:26 “Not so with you. Instead whoever wants to be great among you must be your servant.”
Spiritual Leadership – J. Oswald Sanders

Nov 11, 2020 • 1h 11min
Episode 2: Who Will Be At Your Funeral? w/Chris Tuttle
David Kitchen sits down with Chris Tuttle. Chris is the COO of Fast Twitch Performance, President of the No Windy Sleeves movement, and Co-founder of FT Performance Labs. In this episode we discuss:
Building trust and relationships within your team
Growing your team and the importance of cultural fit
Integrating work and family
Leadership self-reflection
Legacy
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