
The Self-Confidence Project
The Self-Confidence Project is a weekly podcast featuring conversations on life, dating, relationships, confidence and motivation. In each episode, your host Kimberly Hill talks candidly about the stuff we all face in life and love. She shares an honest perspective to bring you the truth you need to hear - even if it's not pretty. If you're looking for relatable content and inspiring advice on how to transform your relationship and dating experience, tune into The SC Project.
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Oct 24, 2024 • 17min
Ep#201 - Want to Invite Her Home? Do This to Avoid Being Creepy
Welcome back to another episode of The Self-Confidence Project. Today we’re diving into how to confidently invite a woman to your place after a date, ensuring she feels comfortable and valued. We’ll explore when the tight time is to throw out the invitation, how to invite her and tips for making your home environment appropriate and comfortable. If you value loving relationships and don't want to turn her off, then tune into today's video.
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With love,
Kimberly

Oct 18, 2024 • 22min
Ep#200 - Why Is She Pulling Away? (And What You Can Do About It)
Welcome back to another episode of The Self-Confidence Project. Today we're exploring why women might pull away from good men and relationships. Whether you're new to a relationship or years in, this can be confusing and painful. In this episode, we'll dive into recognizing why women pull away, addressing avoidant behaviors, such as withdrawing from serious conversations and prioritizing independence. Learn what you can do and when it's time to walk away.
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Kimberly

Oct 10, 2024 • 17min
Ep#199 - 3 Genuine Reasons You’re Not Getting Women
Welcome back to another episode of The Self-Confidence Project. Today we're diving into three crucial behaviors that might be holding you back in your dating life. If you're frustrated with your dating journey and not getting the results you want, this episode will help you gain self-awareness and develop healthier behaviors.
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Kimberly

Oct 3, 2024 • 15min
Ep#198 - Why She’s Not Responding to Your Texts
Welcome back to another episode of The Self-Confidence Project. In today's video we're diving into six common texting mistakes guys make when getting to know a woman they are interested in. These errors, which can cause a woman to lose interest or respond less, affect men of all ages. Learn how to avoid these common mistakes and text more confidently.
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Kimberly

Sep 26, 2024 • 15min
Ep#197 - Does She Want You or Just Your Attention?
Welcome back to another episode of The Self-Confidence Project. I'm your host, Kimberly and today we're unpacking whether the woman you're interested in is genuinely looking for a meaningful relationship or just enjoys the attention you're providing. The clues I'll share with you today will help determine whether she values you or just likes the convenience.
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Kimberly

Sep 19, 2024 • 23min
Ep#196 - 4 Reasons Women Will Have Sex With You
In this episode of The Self-Confidence Project, host Kimberly delves into the complex factors motivating women to engage in sexual relationships. Explaining the four major motivating factors—physical, emotional, relational, and social/goal-oriented—as per the study 'Sexual Motivation in Women as a Function of Age' by Cindy M. Meston, Lisa Dawn Hamilton, and Christopher Hart, Kimberly provides insights on how age differences and life circumstances influence these motivations. She also discusses the importance of understanding these drivers for healthier, more intimate relationships.
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Link to the study: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2978963/#:~:text=Women's%20motivations%20to%20engage%20in,undoubtedly%20change%20as%20women%20age.Don't forget to share this episode ❤️
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Kimberly

Sep 12, 2024 • 24min
Ep#195 - 3 Steps To Attract Your Dream Woman
Welcome back to another episode of The Self-Confidence Project. Today we're discussing three essential things you can start doing to attract your dream woman or relationship. Whether you're dating after a divorce, a long-term relationship, or just starting to dip your toes back into the dating scene, this episode is for you. We're focusing on creating a clear vision for what you want, removing self-sabotaging barriers, and getting out there to create opportunities. If you're struggling with dating or just not finding the success you want, it's time to get the support you need.
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Kimberly

Sep 5, 2024 • 25min
Ep#194 - How To Reduce Your Texting Anxiety
Hey guys, welcome back to another episode of The Self-Confidence Project. Today, we're diving into why so many men experience texting anxiety and review some common scenarios that lead to anxiety-induced thoughts. Then, I share some strategies to reduce it. Learn how to enjoy your dating experiences and improve your communication with women by unpacking the sources of your anxiety and adjusting your expectations.
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Kimberly

Aug 29, 2024 • 24min
Ep#193 - 9 Signs She's Sexually Attracted To You
In this exciting birthday episode of The Self-Confidence Project, I'm sharing nine crucial body language signals that indicate a woman is sexually interested in you. Throughout the show, I emphasize the importance of recognizing a combination of these signals rather than relying on just one. The episode covers a range of signs from sneaky glances and lip biting to subtle touches and mirroring gestures, aimed at helping you better understand women's cues and foster deeper, more romantic connections in your dating life.
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Aug 28, 2024 • 24min
Ep#192 - Is Love Truly Blind?
In this episode of The Self-Confidence Project, Kimberly explores the concept of whether love is truly blind, inspired by the hit show 'Love is Blind' and its latest UK season. The discussion includes the psychological mechanisms behind the show's success and the reality of forming emotional connections without physical presence. Kimberly also delves into Arthur Aron’s study on creating interpersonal connections through 36 deep questions, examining how this relates to the show's setup and questioning the sustainability of relationships formed under such conditions. The episode aims to provide insights into the dynamics of dating and relationships, emphasizing the importance of more than just love for lasting partnerships.
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