Chill & Prosper with Denise Duffield-Thomas

I hope that you get to experience the boss feeling of achieving a long-held goal.    Hitting a big money goal, buying the dream house, taking the holiday… you deserve to make your dreams happen and then celebrate wildly.    But what if you work super hard, achieve a dream, then change your mind?   Is that something we’re even allowed to do? I made my bed, now I have to lie in it…    On today’s podcast I talk about achieving then releasing big goals as well as how I celebrate big wins in my business.  You'll learn how goals can evolve and why it's okay to change your mind about what you want.

Money can be a touchy subject, especially when it comes to family.  Whether it's dealing with financially irresponsible parents or navigating money conversations with our partners, setting healthy boundaries is crucial for maintaining positive relationships and our own financial well-being. If you’ve ever struggled with family money issues or felt financially responsible for others, today’s episode is for you. It’s a candid one, where I open up about my personal experiences with family finances and share insights on setting healthy boundaries.

How’s that voice in your head right now? Is your mind racing with self-doubt or negativity?  As someone who's experienced my fair share of mental chatter, I’ve learned a few daily rituals that can help calm those pesky voices telling you why you can't have something or why life can't be great. From tapping into the power of EFT to surrounding yourself with supportive communities, in today's podcast episode we explore various techniques to calm your inner critic.

First things first, let's acknowledge the elephant in the room: yes, the economy is challenging right now.  From high interest rates to general financial uncertainty, people are feeling the squeeze. But here's the thing - we can't control the economy, but we can control how we respond to it. In my latest episode of Chill and Prosper, I tackle the burning question of finding clients during economic downturns and how to maintain a positive money mindset. When things get tough, it's easy to spiral into panic mode. So, let's dive into some practical strategies to navigate these choppy economic waters and keep your money mindset strong.

Do I have to be posh? “What does one wear to a private island?” 🏝️🤵 I'm not ashamed to admit that I'm New Money (and I’ve made plenty of New Money mistakes) 🤣 So I don't always know what to do in situations when there are other successful or rich people around.  I was recently invited on a thank you trip by my bank for being a valuable customer to a private island resort. It was all very White Lotus minus the raunchiness and killing.  We didn't know what to wear or how to act, so we just tried to be ourselves.  The biggest takeaway from this trip? You can be yourself and still be successful—there's no need to impress anyone. Have you ever felt out of place in a new environment? How did you stay grounded?

Welcome to this week’s Chill and Prosper episode where I’m answering all your questions on:  How to follow a budget without it triggering your scarcity mentality  Overcoming fear of failure, judgment, and being seen How can I overcome guilt from spending on myself? My approach to tracking my income and spending  How to pick and commit to the right side hustle for you And a quick update on my ballet progress 🩰❤️

Fear is a common challenge for entrepreneurs, but acknowledging it is the first step. Overcoming the fear of public speaking is crucial, as is fostering connections with friends to alleviate isolation. Embracing discomfort can lead to growth, and practical techniques like decluttering and Emotional Freedom Technique can help manage anxiety. Lastly, reframing fear as excitement empowers listeners to confront their challenges with confidence and take actionable steps towards success.

Over the past decade, my business has experienced tremendous growth and transformation. As a Virgo, I approach our work with intention, carefully considering how and why we do things. I’m proactive in making changes to align the business with the current season of my life.  Sometimes these adjustments arise from practical needs—like having kids, traveling, or team dynamics. Other times, they stem from recognizing boundaries, managing burnout, or focusing on how I want to spend my time. My friend, Natatlie MacNeil, taught me that it’s okay to give yourself permission to be in different phases or seasons of life and business.  You don’t have to achieve everything at once or write every book of your career right now. Currently, I’m in a reflective phase as my young kids grow and require more of my attention.  To support both my and Mark’s mental health, we’ve taken a partial sabbatical while we build our new home and prioritize our family and personal interests.  Of course, we still work, particularly in the Money Bootcamp community by welcoming new members and hosting our monthly coaching calls, but we’ve intentionally slowed our pace. We’re focusing on simplifying our lives instead of chasing a massive financial goal. This journey has been enlightening. In this week’s podcast, I share a life and business update.

Can you believe we’re already about 14% into 2025? If you’re like me, you might just be starting to clarify your goals for the year. But don’t worry—there’s no better time than now to set your intentions! If you’ve felt a bit skeptical in recent years or have strayed from the basics of the Law of Attraction, it’s time to reconnect and establish a powerful intention for 2025. Today, I want to share some of my goals for this year along with some tips to help you determine what you want to manifest.

I have a personal update that might surprise you—I'm selling my rose farm! It feels like the right time and an exciting step for our family, so I wanted to share more about our journey with the farm and why we’ve made this decision.