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29 and feeling FINE. Raeann’s birthday celebrations were truly next level. Tune into this super fun episode right after a few days of shenanigans and good times in honor of our Leo queen for all the details. We talk about everything that went down at Highland Park Bowl, including why Kristina almost didn’t get in, and how Raeann accidentally got everyone too high. Raeann shares why she didn’t get any photos at her birthday party, Kristina’s finger injury, and her spontaneous tattoo adventure. Raeann and Kristina share their highlights from an Instagram event in Malibu with the Kardashians and Hailey Bieber. Then Kristina shares her last and final update about her evil eye after a priest prayed for her to get rid of it.    “I have a sorority tattoo on my butt…I just like the story of a tattoo. I don’t think there needs to be a super deep meaning.” - Raeann   We also talk about: Not washing your face or taking makeup off before bed Free Nobu sushi and highlights from the Malibu Instagram event Sweating when you’re nervous (or super high) Dealing with anxiety after hosting a party Our thoughts on tattoos Expensive hotels & the cost of children Subscribe to our newsletter for our products of the week Ask Away: Tips for finding a good personal trainer you feel comfortable with & our favorite way to train   “You can’t give it thought or attention because that's how it thrives. When something is negative in your life, the more you think about it the more negative things happen. That is what the evil eye now symbolizes to me.” - Kristina   New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.   Resources: Corn video on Tik Tok Highland Park Bowl Kristina’s product:  Raeann’s product:  Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective  Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! 

Get the scoop on why Kristina thinks she’s caught an evil eye, the warning a family member gave her in Greece, and what she’s doing about it now. And, it’s Leo season, baby! Raeann shares 3 ideas for an epic birthday celebration. Hear what activity she decided on, her reflections on the last year and what she’s looking forward to. We also talk about items on our wishlist (ft. fall trends). We also talk about the top wardrobe tip we have been leaning into lately that is leaving us more creative and inspired by what’s in our closet, what’s unique about Jersey weddings, and our experience/advice about laser hair removal.   “I finally shook this feeling that I had to live life in a certain way.” - Raeann   We also talk about: Kristina’s crazy vs chill sides Addison Rae’s family drama on Tik Tok Two questions Raeann asks people on their birthday What Raeann is thinking about getting herself for her birthday Trending items for fall Ask Away: laser hair removal advice, cost, what to expect, and at-home product results   “I can’t reiterate enough how different New Jersey weddings are than weddings anywhere else in the country. It’s such a different caliber.” - Kristina   New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.   Resources: Braun Silk·Expert Pro 5 IPL Laser Hair Removal Kristina’s product: Rare Beauty Lip Liner in Humble Raeann’s product: The Sarah Baskin hoops from Galley Los Angeles Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective  Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!

While Kristina and family have had a blast while traveling in the Greek Islands, it’s not all chill beach hangs and aperol spritzes when you have a toddler. Kristina is surrounded by her childhood friends and family who now also have kids, and she’s realizing the importance of having friends who can relate to what you’re going through (especially re: parenting). We talk about having different types of friendships in different seasons and the importance of them all. We also share our maybe unpopular opinions about whether or not you should make amends with an ex, and what happened when Raeann reconnected with an ex before her European travels this summer. “I’ve realized how I’ve felt really alone at points throughout this past year.” - Kristina What we talk about: The start of Leo season/Raeann’s birthday month Trying to be more present Kristina’s son Nikolas’ evolution during this trip Kristina’s lost luggage A designer purchase FLOP Toe hair Men in flip flops: does it give you the ick? Reality TV and the toll public opinion (via social media) takes on cast members’ mental health Getting back with an ex: is it a good idea? “I saw my ex before my trip. We did make amends, but it was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done.” - Raeann New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.   Resources: The Pattern Astrology app Kristina’s product: Summer Fridays mineral sunscreen Raeann’s product: Havaianas flip flops in rose gold Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective  Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! 

Kristina’s enjoying her second week of rest and romance in the Greek islands. She talks about how nice it was to have a couples getaway with Steve in Patmos, and the importance of making time for your relationship especially after having kids. Raeann is embracing LA while she’s still there, and recaps running into an ex at a concert. Then, find out why she’s making a public apology to Bumble. Raeann and Kristina discuss how chill European culture is versus the go-go-go mentality of the US. In our “ask away” segment, hear Raeann and Kristina’s advice for talking about sex with your partner, navigating having a different sex drive than your partner, and releasing timelines when it comes to getting pregnant.   “You have to release yourself from the set timelines of when you thought you should be doing certain things.” - Kristina   What we talk about: Importance of slowing down Raising a toddler on vacation The worst facial Kristina has ever had and the product she used to save her skin What we love about European culture The most toxic, misogynistic guy on Tik Tok Ask Away: Talking about sex with your partner   “(In America) our whole system and lifestyle is built in a rush… In Copenhagen there’s a designated time to have a sweet treat, slow down and chill. I want that to be my lifestyle constantly.” - Raeann   New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.   Resources: Relationship Q+A with Dr. Viviana Kristina’s product: the feelist most wanted facial oil  Raeann’s product: silver chain concho belt Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective  Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter! 

Raeann’s sharing the good, the bad and the scandalous parts of her 6-week European vacation, and answering your most common questions! First, Kristina shares an update on her first few days in Greece, and gives some tips for moms traveling with toddlers. Then Raeann goes into every detail of her trip: her favorite and least favorite destinations, what she would do differently, more tips for meeting people if you’re traveling solo, the best and worst money she spent, what to pack, safety tips and so much more. Plus, hear a scandalous story from one of her dates and a HUGE life update you do not want to miss!   “What I learned traveling: I feel like I got my sparkle back. When you put yourself out of your comfort zone, I think that’s the best thing you can do to build confidence and learn about yourself.” - Raeann   What we talk about: Kristina’s travel experience to Greece Rae’s daily routine/ideal way to travel 3 easy ways to meet people Planning vs going with the flow Was there a language barrier? Wardrobe recommendations Where to go if you only have one week   “The best part about Greece is going to the islands that nobody knows about or cares about and just relaxing and having fun and enjoying the culture.” - Kristina   New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.   Resources: Kristina’s product: Airpod Pro Raeann’s product: Tripod Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective  Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!

We’re back together for one day before Kristina heads to Greece! Raeann shares her initial reflections upon returning to LA from 6 weeks in Europe, and how the trip impacted her personally and work-wise. Stay tuned for an upcoming episode where she’ll be going more in depth about her experience. She tells us all about her dating app swipe success in Europe and how different it was than dating in LA. Kristina shares how she’s preparing to travel to Greece for a family vacation, and they give advice to a listener who’s wondering if she should make a move on her work crush.   “Before I left for this trip that was the lowest I’ve felt in my entire life. I was scared.” - Raeann   What we talk about: How Raeann feels after getting back home to LA versus how she felt before her trip Kristina speaks Greek to us and shares what she’s bringing to Greece Raeann recaps attempting to speak French How more people should lead with positivity Are French people actually mean? How many guys swiped yes on Raeann’s dating profile in Europe versus in LA How Rae got scammed Advice for how to make a move on a work romance   “I have an organized chaos mentality. That is how I succeed.” - Kristina   New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.   Resources: Raeann’s Tik Tok Kristina’s product: Good American Swim Raeann’s product: Faithfull the Brand Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective  Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!

There’s nothing more humbling than accidentally peeing yourself in an elevator. Whether it was from having too much fun laughing with a friend or potentially getting drugged at a French pizza place, we don’t really know. You have to hear these stories from Raeann’s time in France and weigh in! She talks about which French hot spot is overrated, where to go instead and the epiphany she had while getting a psychic reading in London. Meanwhile, Kristina shares an epiphany of her own, and a Tik Tok video calling out our parent’s generation’s weird relationship with food reminds us of unhealthy norms that influenced us growing up. “If you ever have the opportunity to do something different, take it.” - Kristina What we talk about: Everyone NEEDS to study abroad Kristina comes clean on a lie she told Rae in a past episode Why Kristina thinks she may have ADHD  Why Raeann thinks she could’ve been drugged in France Ask away: what to do when you want to be supportive but dislike the guy (with all the red flags) your friend is with  “That’s what I’m obsessing over: not letting what I should be doing or what society says is normal dictate how I live my life.” - Raeann New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.   Resources: Kristina’s product: this Charlotte Tilbury bronzer Raeann’s product: these local European pants (wears a M/L but thinks L/XL would give her a baggier look) Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective  Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!

Last week Rae was having a blast making out with strangers, and this week she’s reflecting on always feeling like the “single one.” She’s dishing about why she fell in love with Soho House London, the celebrity she saw there, and unexpectedly falling in love with Thai food. Kristina shares about her recent trip to San Diego, embracing new types of fun with her family, and shares exciting career news. We talk about our favorite places and products as well as give advice for staying productive while living alone in our Ask Away segment! “When your close friend has a new relationship, you’re happy for them, but it does change the dynamic. Sometimes I feel like the single woman is always expected to bend.” - Raeann What we talk about: Navigating changes in friendship dynamics when they enter new relationships Communication and accountability in female friendships Kristina’s theory on botox How what seems fun changes over time and in different chapters of life How to stay productive when living alone and the benefits “I think the best part about living alone is getting to know yourself.” - Kristina New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.   Resources: Kristina’s product: this Reformation activewear dress Raeann’s product: these sunglasses she wears nonstop Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective  Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!

For Raeann, this is the summer of crossing things off of her bucket list. Manifesting skinny dipping with a hot guy in Greece? Check. Having the most fun with drunk make outs, bonding with strangers who become fast friends and embracing flexibility and spontaneity? Also check. It’s the wild and free summer she always dreamed of, and reminds us it’s never too late to do the things you’ve dreamed of. We’re diving into all the juicy details in this episode! Come along for the ride (and get a preview of what we’re dreaming of for the TCC 2023 summer trip). Plus, Kristina shares context and tips for traveling in Greece. “I’m so grateful I'm having this time now. I manifested skinny dipping in the ocean with a greek man: check! Riding a scooter in Italy: check! I'm having all these experiences I didn't get to have.” - Raeann  What we talk about: Playing our version of a trending tik tok game Being spontaneous and a little wild at any age Benefits of being flexible and in the moment while traveling The power of traveling with friends and strangers Getting out of your comfort zone A new show to binge and beauty products we’re loving this summer What to eat in Greece Relationship advice: What to do when a long time partner ghosts you after a fight “Being flexible with your trip is super important when you’re traveling. You never know what opportunity will arise and who you’ll meet. Sometimes you need to realize that this concrete plan you have doesn’t need to stick.” - Kristina New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.   Resources: Kristina’s product: Charlotte Tilbury Flawless Filter in share #4 Raeann’s product: Iconic London liquid highlighter Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective  Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!

If you’re like us and consistency and routine is your lifeline, traveling for an extended period of time can be a challenge. Raeann is 2 weeks into her solo travel adventure, and although she is having the best time, the lack of her normal eating and exercise routine is starting to weigh on her mental health. Kristina is getting into a new gym routine, but shares how the pressure to get fit for summer is real and reminds us that we should be working on being healthy and strong all year round. We also talk about the dangers of social media comparison and what a world without social media would feel like. We also reflect on being a product of your environment and recognizing positive cultural differences. Thanks for hanging with us and tuning in to our summer series! “You could be in the most amazing place and doing the most amazing things but if you're feeling off in your body it can have a bigger impact than we want to admit.” - Raeann What we talk about: Getting into a fitness routine and creating consistency Raeann’s Florence/Tuscany update Raeann’s hot take on Italian men and how they’re different from American men Top Gun movie review How social media impacts happiness Prepping for Greece and what’s next Ask Away: What to do when you hate your haircut “There’s so much pressure leading up to summer to try and be fit. Then summer comes and you feel like, if you didn't get into the shape you wanted, giving up on fitness. But it's good to be strong all year round.” - Kristina New podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday.   Resources: Kristina’s product: Unite 7 Seconds Detangler Raeann’s product: Saie Slip Tint  Tinted Moisturizer Follow us on Instagram: @confidentcollective  Follow the Hosts/Founders: @kristinazias & @raeannlangas Learn more: https://www.theconfidentcollective.com/ Stay in the know with our newsletter!