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Dr Corey and Pam Allan
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Mar 10, 2021 • 44min
We Aren’t Good Kissers #510
A voicemail from a wife who wants to connect better with her husband through kissing, but they have trouble doing so.
An email about the connection between higher desire vs lower desire and spontaneous drive vs responsive drive.
Is solo sex harmful to your health? What about sex outside of marriage?
A husband can't shake his desire to explore a more free lifestyle now that marriage and kids and responsibilities have taken over his life.
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Mar 3, 2021 • 33min
My Own Taste #509
An email from a higher desire husband looking to not take the rejections so personal from his lower desire wife.
A husband wants to go down on his wife after they've had intercourse, yet isn't so sure.
A wife of a video game husband wants to know how to be more solid in confronting the amount of time he plays online and disconnects from the family life.
On the Xtended version ...
Creating a more solid sense of self and the art of self-validation.
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Feb 24, 2021 • 36min
Three Types Of Sex #508
I'm joined by Irene Fehr and we have a conversation about the three types of sex she believe all couples experience in marriage.
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On the Xtended version ...
Irene and I continue the conversation and move into the specifics of how you can create better connection in sex.
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Feb 17, 2021 • 26min
Next Wisest Step #507
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Pam and I have a coffee shop conversation about when you're faced with choices where there really isn't right or wrong yet, what's the best wise step?
An email from a listener asking about ideas to help address issues when there are size differences between spouses.
On the Xtended version ...
A great quote from Charles Cooley - "I am not who you think I am, I am not who I think I am, I am who I think you think I am."
Let's unpack.
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Feb 10, 2021 • 36min
Fantasies About A Wife’s Past #506
A listener joins me on the air to work through why he fantasizes so much about his wife's past sexual encounters.
On the Xtended version ...
We continue the conversation about fantasies but turn it towards the topics of self-control and desire.
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Feb 3, 2021 • 27min
Allergic to Sex #505
An email from a couple who wonder if allergens can be passed through semen and what are steps to take to prevent this from affecting his wife.
Another discussion of the higher desire and lower desire dilemma in married sex.
On the Xtended version ...
An email from a husband who is really turned on by his wife's past sexual encounters. Is this wrong or sinful?
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Jan 27, 2021 • 31min
Rather Leave than Cheat #504
A husband feels so stuck in a marriage with really lousy sex that's he's thinking of leaving because he's afraid he'll cheat.
Another husband emails asking for our thoughts on times when there is expected sex and the amount of pressure his wife feels during those times.
On the Xtended version ...
Intimacy in marriage part 4. Why listening is so hard when building more intimacy.
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Jan 20, 2021 • 27min
Lazy Lover #503
A voicemail from a husband with three questions about his marriage.
An email from a newer into marriage couple asking for resources to help spice things up.
An email from a wife whose husband has turned into a lazy lover since introducing some sex toys into their encounters together.
On the Xtended version ...
How to address the conflict and struggle that comes with being more intimate with your spouse.
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Jan 13, 2021 • 31min
Purity Movements #502
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An email from a husband who married a woman who was married before but he married as a virgin in his 40s.
What are our thoughts on the Purity Movements that many of us grew up in and its impact on our married lives as adults.
On the Xtended version ...
Dealing with roommate syndrome in marriage.
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Jan 6, 2021 • 30min
Self Exploration #501
As we enter into 2021 - what are your 3 Words to help shape your year?
An email from a husband, on behalf of his wife, asking about how to venture into the world of self-exploration and sex toys.
On the Xtended version ...
Perhaps there is a better definition for intimacy. And this definition could change everything.
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