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A voicemail from a wife who doesn't want to swallow, even when her husband is using the line "If you love me you'd be willing to do this." An email from a husband who found our new App Intimately Us (https://intimately.us) and his wife refuses to engage with the App along with him. On the Xtended version ... Negotiating sex in marriage - choreplay vs foreplay - and who are we at our core? We go deep this time in the XTD content. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Intimately Us: The fun and flirty app for married couples that want to spice up their sex life and deepen their intimate connection. Find it in any App Store or at  https://intimately.us/ The post Swallowing #482 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Today Hilary Jacobs Hendel joins me to talk about her book It's Not Always Depression, and the Change Triangle. You can learn more about Hilary on her site https://www.hilaryjacobshendel.com/ On the Xtended version ... We continue the conversation with Hilary Jacobs Hendel and move into how the Change Triangle plays out in sex. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Better HELP: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr The post The Change Triangle #481 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

We are excited to announce a brand new resource aimed to help make your marriage fun and sexy ... Intimately Us You can find the App in the App Stores for both Apple and Android, or read more about it here https://intimately.us/ Today we talk with the man who helped us create this app, Dan Purcell. Learn more about Dan at https://getyourmarriageon.com/ On the Xtended version ... Pam and I have a conversation about the importance of novelty in marriage - and some ways you can add novelty that you may not think about. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Intimately Us: The fun and flirty app for married couples that want to spice up their sex life and deepen their intimate connection. Find it in any App Store or at  https://intimately.us/ The post Intimately Us #480 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Dr Kathleen Smith and I discuss her book, Everything Isn't Terrible, and how appropriate it is for our lives here in 2020. Learn more about Kathleen on her site https://kathleensmith.net/ On the Xtended version ... Kathleen and I dive into the world of Bowen Systems Theory. Yes we geek out a little but it's a great way to understand what's going on in families. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... SMR Academy: Join to get even more access and content. Go to https://smr.fm/smracademy The post Everything Isn’t Terrible #479 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

A voicemail from a wife looking to keep the connection and intimacy with her husband, who had a stroke 17 years ago.  A follow up email from a listener struggling with power plays around his sexuality and sex life with his wife. On the Xtended version ... A clarification from last week's XTD content. And a conversation about the main concepts taught by Schnarch and our understanding of them. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Better HELP: Online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr The post Power Plays #478 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

An email from a wife whose husband regularly views porn and when confronted replies with "I have needs." A husband emails in asking our thoughts about how if his sexual desire has waned over the past couple years is it because he's stopped viewing porn over that timeframe or is it because sex is only on his wife's terms. On the Xtended version ... We share a blog post from an author where he gives 8 steps to confront your wife's sexual refusal - and our reaction. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Hello Fresh: Visit www.HelloFresh.com/smr80 and use code smr80 to get a total of $80 off, including free shipping on your first box. The post Sex Is Only On My Spouse’s Terms #477 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Sheila Wray Gregoire joins me to discuss her new book 31 Ways To Great Sex, available now. Check out more of Sheila's work here - https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/ On the Xtended version ... Sheila and I continue a conversation about how Christianity and the church have addressed sex - especially the message towards women. Sponsors ... Beach Body: Try our Beach Body On Demand. Over 1300 different workouts to choose from, streamed right into your home on any device. Text SMR to 303030 to try it out for FREE. The post 31 Days To Great Sex #476 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

A conversation based on two emails from listeners who are each struggling to understand and navigate a big gap in desire between themselves and their spouse.  On the Xtended version ... What is the difference between intention vs. action? Enjoy the show! The post Intention or Action #475 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Dr Justin Lehmiller joins me to talk about his research surround fantasies and sex. On the Xtended version ... Justin and I continue the conversation about fantasies and discuss more about where they come from and what to do with them. Sponsors .. SMR Academy: Join to get even more access and content. Go to https://smr.fm/smracademy The post Fantasies, Tell Me What You Want #474 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

On the Regular version of today's show ... An email from a wife who has discovered the eroticism and freedom that can happen when masturbating together with her husband.  What's the difference between sexual thoughts and lust? A husband wanting to know what to do when he's tried to live in a way that ignites his wife's passion (according to an old post I wrote - https://smr.fm/heads-up-husbands-5-ways-to-ignite-your-wifes-passions/) and yet his wife had an affair. On the Xtended version ... How do you confront gridlock in your marriage and what are the forced choice dilemmas that come along with them? Sponsored by SMR Academy: Join to get even more access and content. Go to https://smr.fm/smracademy The post Mutual Masturbation #473 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.