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Dr Corey and Pam Allan
Straight-forward, honest conversations and actions to create a life and marriage fully alive!
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May 12, 2021 • 28min
Dominant or Submissive #519
An email from a wife who really wants her husband to explore and lead as a Dominant role in their sex life, although he is more of a Submissive.
On the Xtended version ...
A husband wants to know how to extend the sex sessions with his wife when they only happen twice a year. They both are in a Two-Choice Dilemma.
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May 5, 2021 • 28min
Telehealth Help and Desire Differences #518
How do you find a therapist or marriage coach in the age of telehealth? You can work with Dr Allan - for more info click here.
Guides mentioned in the show - Part 1, Part 2.
A lower desire wife emails wanting help getting her husband to understand her interest in her experiencing an orgasm during sex as well, not just him.
A wife in a sexless marriage wants to know how to get her husband interested in sex.
On the Xtended version ...
The benefits of boredom and routine and the small steps you can take create a better path forward.
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Apr 28, 2021 • 37min
Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex #517
Everyone get the full show today.
I'm joined by Dr Ian Kerner as we discuss his new book So Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex.
To learn more about Ian visit his site - https://www.iankerner.com/
Enjoy the show!
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Apr 21, 2021 • 31min
Rapid Fire Q&A #516
Today we try something different. We cover lots of questions in rapid-fire style. All questions were submitted via Instagram. Want to follow us there? Please do: @sexymarriageradio
Just a hint of the topics we cover:
Oral sex, sizes, fetishes, first time and wedding night, talking about sex and a whole lot more!
On the Xtended version ...
We go more in-depth with more questions from IG only this time on threesomes, pain during sex, past trauma and abuse, and shame.
Enjoy the show!
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Apr 14, 2021 • 31min
Optimal Sexual Experiences #515
Dr Emily Jamea, an expert in helping couples experience optimal levels of sex in their marriage, discusses her work and research findings on the show. Topics include insecurities about penis size, the significance of nonverbal communication in relationships, attunement and adaptability in long-term relationships, and the importance of creating new meaning within a relationship.

Apr 7, 2021 • 25min
Lust #514
An email from a husband curious about all the penile enlargement and performance products promoted today.
A wife who has experienced pain in the beginning of their sex life but has now found a position that is pain free - now she's anxious about trying out new positions.
On the Xtended version ...
We unpack the concept of lust as mentioned in Matthew 5:27-30.
Enjoy the show!
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Mar 31, 2021 • 27min
Edging #513
Bouncing your eyes is one way to avoid the temptations around us, but what about steering your energy as well?
An email from a husband who is wondering if ruining his orgasm would help his quick ejaculation issue.
On the Xtended version ...
A wonderful tool for helping you determine your responsibilities in the issues you face in life.
Enjoy the show!
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Mar 24, 2021 • 26min
Snoring #512
A peek behind the curtain into how Pam and I address the issue of snoring, and the messages built into our moves.
An email from a husband who is the higher desire for sex but the lower desire for romance. Is that odd?
On the Xtended version ...
A recording of a talk Corey gave at church about how do I see myself and how does God see me?
Enjoy the show!
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Mar 17, 2021 • 29min
Moments of Meeting #511
How does a husband help his wife be more confident, while also helping his teenage daughter be less confident?
A husband is confident at work, yet struggles to being that same presence to home.
A higher desire wife struggles initiating due to fear of rejection and they both have struggled with masturbation throughout their lives.
On the Xtended version ...
Moments of meeting. Perhaps this is a better way to frame what many of us are really looking for in marriage and life.
Enjoy the show!
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Mar 10, 2021 • 44min
We Aren’t Good Kissers #510
A voicemail from a wife who wants to connect better with her husband through kissing, but they have trouble doing so.
An email about the connection between higher desire vs lower desire and spontaneous drive vs responsive drive.
Is solo sex harmful to your health? What about sex outside of marriage?
A husband can't shake his desire to explore a more free lifestyle now that marriage and kids and responsibilities have taken over his life.
Enjoy the show!
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