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Dr Corey and Pam Allan
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Apr 27, 2022 • 31min
Wife Is Fine With Being Fine #569
A husband is stuck in a scary place in his marriage. His wife says she has no attraction towards him, at least physically. Yet she also is fine with the state of their marriage. He's not. What can he do?
On the Xtended version …
How do we use our time? Where are there spaces (white space) in our days to reset, recharge, or create?
Enjoy the show!
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Apr 20, 2022 • 33min
Attraction #568
I'm joined today Kimberly Beam Holmes, of It Starts With Attraction, and we dive into the world of attraction. Or as she had framed it ... PIES.
Learn more about Kimberly on her sites
https://marriagehelper.com/
https://piesuniversity.com/
On the Xtended version …
Kimberly and I go into a more personal conversation about growing up behind the scenes in the marriage help world, and living as a couple who helps marriages.
Enjoy the show!
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Apr 13, 2022 • 34min
Exploring Kink and BDSM #567
I'm joined today by Tornus and Smartypants, of Full Circle Kink, as they take us on an exploration in the world of kink and BDSM.
Communication is king when venturing into today's topic ... and all sexual encounters for that matter.
Learn more on their site - https://www.fullcirclekink.com/
On the Xtended version …
We continue the conversation with Tornus and Smartypants and their personal journey into the world of kink. Plus, they give some great tips on equipment or first steps people often think they should take, but not according to them.
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Apr 6, 2022 • 27min
Respect #566
A wife suffered from insomnia for a while in her marriage, and it wrecked their sex life. How do they get it back now that the insomnia is no longer the issue? Plus, when she feels desire to initiate, she often doesn't - because he would like that. What's that about?
An email and voicemail adding more to last week's conversation about the couple where vacation sex has decreased. A few additional points to consider.
On the Xtended version …
A wife repeatedly hears the message from her husband that she doesn't show him any respect. What exactly does that mean?
And are we even owed something like that in our marriage?
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Mar 30, 2022 • 27min
Even Vacation Sex Has Decreased #565
A husband is frustrated because while he usually could rely on vacation sex being adventurous and frequent with his wife, something's changed with her and them lately.
A voicemail asking some questions about Erich Fromm's book The Art Of Loving. Class is in session.
On the Xtended version …
A wife with the trauma of sexual assault in her past is now struggling with how her husband is sometimes trying to guilt her into more sex. What's her best response?
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Mar 23, 2022 • 28min
Sex Scripts and Stories #564
A husband wants to learn how to change up sexual encounters with his wife so the experience will last longer - but changing it up ruins it for his wife.
A follow up to the One Flesh episode from a husband who is the same situation with his wife - she too has not interest in sex or seeking help for their sex life.
On the Xtended version …
Some newlyweds reach out for help in how to get a wife more open to the possibilities of doing more than missionary position during sex.
Enjoy the show!
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Mar 16, 2022 • 53min
Higher Desire Wife #563
Today I'm joined by J Parker, of Hot Holy and Humorous, and we discuss the plight of the higher desire wife.
It's more common than we think, it's impacting younger people's marriage more than ever and there are several reasons why we think this is the case.
What are these reasons? Join us today to hear more.
You can find J's work on her site - https://hotholyhumorous.com/
Enjoy the show!
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Mar 9, 2022 • 32min
Being Sexually Mindful #562
Dr Chelom Leavitt joins me as we discuss her research and work on being more sexually mindful.
You can find more about Dr Chelom here - https://www.chelomleavitt.com/
On the Xtended version …
Dr Chelom and I discuss the differences between differentiation theory and attachment theory.
Enjoy the show!
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Mar 2, 2022 • 27min
Orgasm Denial #561
A follow up to a couple of segments from Episode #559. Was I too harsh in my wording?
A couple is exploring the idea of orgasm denial - where there will be no orgasms for him unless he accomplishes certain tasks or fulfills something set for him by his wife.
On the Xtended version …
How exactly do you work to better yourself? It's a phrase we often use - but what are some tangible ways this is accomplished?
Enjoy the show!
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Feb 23, 2022 • 49min
Domestic and Spiritual Abuse #560
Today we dive into a topic that is sadly far too reaching in our world - domestic and spiritual abuse. Colleen Ramser joins me in our discussion about how these types of traumas impact both men and women.
We also get into how each of us who have been impacted by this type of trauma can heal going forward.
Learn more about Colleen here - http://www.colleenramserlpc.com/
And check out her course here - https://www.colleenramser.com/
Enjoy the show! 9g29qpwv
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