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Dec 29, 2021 • 35min
Best Of SMR: Masturbation and Expectations #552
An email from a husband wanting more than just functional/duty sex with his wife.
A caller wondering about more information about masturbation and is it a sin.
On the Xtended version …
Expectations. We all have them. Where do they come from and what do we do with them?
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Dec 22, 2021 • 41min
Break Out Of A Sexual Rut #551
Pam goes through a Sex Ed Quiz again. Follow along to see how you do.
A wife wants to know how to best co-parent with her step-kids mom, who is now in a same-sex relationship.
A husband wants to know how to break out of the sexual rut he and his wife are in currently.
How do you address times when there's an agreement for a sexual encounter yet it doesn't happen?
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Dec 15, 2021 • 36min
Married Sex #550
A conversation with Gary Thomas about his newest book, Married Sex.
You can learn about Gary and his work here - https://garythomas.com
On the Xtended version …
Gary and I have a conversation about the pushback and reaction to his book thus far.
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Dec 8, 2021 • 40min
Great Sex Rescue #549
Sheila Wray Gregoire joins me as we talk about her newest book, The Great Sex Rescue.
Learn more about Sheila on her site https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/
On the Xtended version ...
A conversation I had with Sheila about the concerns I had regarding her book and the tone of her writing and responses since publication.
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Dec 1, 2021 • 30min
Arousal vs Attraction #548
An email from a wife who wants to know if asking questions to her husband about his past struggle with porn will increase the temptation.
A voicemail from a wife wanting help understanding arousal and attraction.
On the Xtended version …
Pam and I work through a gridlock script from a member of the SMR Nation.
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Nov 24, 2021 • 29min
Best Of SMR: Too Tired For Sex #547
A voicemail from a Rape Crisis Counselor concerned about one of our past messages of leading towards what you want in sex.
How do you spice up sex when trying to conceive? Dr. Laurie Mintz joins me to cover this email.
On the Xtended version …
A deeper conversation with Dr Mintz about her work helping women who are too tired for sex.
Find more of her work here – http://drlauriemintz.com/
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Nov 17, 2021 • 27min
If I Do This Will You Do That #546
After our segment on BDSM in Episode #541 we received a couple of emails about how we totally missed the mark are came across as judgmental. Today we address this more.
A husband wants to rim his wife yet she's not comfortable with the act. She wants to go skydiving which he's not comfortable with. What about an exchange?
On the Xtended version ...
A role play of how to address gridlock issues, based from a segment in last week's Xtended content.
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Nov 10, 2021 • 35min
Dealing With Breast Cancer #545
I'm joined by Dr Laurie Watson and we talk about how breast cancer impacts a couple's married life, sex life and desire - plus the journey for both spouses facing this battle.
Learn more about Dr Laurie here - https://www.foreplayrst.com/
On the Xtended version of today's show ...
Laurie and I talk about the yin and the yang of the energy in a couples sex life.
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Nov 3, 2021 • 46min
Resentment #544
Today I'm joined by a colleague Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife and we talk about the marriages where everything seems to be great - except in one area. What's happening here?
Plus, how do you address resentment in marriage and life?
Learn more about Dr Jennifer here - https://www.finlayson-fife.com/
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Oct 27, 2021 • 32min
Not Feeling Chosen #543
Two emails from wives who do not feel chosen in their marriages. One wife has trouble trusting because of this and past betrayals from her husband. The other wife is married to a man who says he wouldn't get married if he were to do it all over again.
On the Xtended version ...
With the huge volume of information and noise in our world, we talk about the benefits of an attention diet. And how to go on one.
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