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Dr Corey and Pam Allan
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Aug 24, 2022 • 32min
Came Home After Baby With A Different Body | Feedback Wednesday #586
It's Feedback Wednesday so we answer listener's emails and voicemails.
A husband is more well-endowed than his petite wife is able to receive without anxiety and even pain. How can they navigate this kind of size difference?
A voicemail with a thought we missed on Episode #580, where a husband wanted to go down on his wife after climaxing inside her.
A wife went to the hospital to deliver a baby and came home with a different body. At least that's what her husband says.
On the Xtended version …
We've talked a lot about how we get in our own way when you're the higher desire spouse for sex. Could this also be true when you're the higher desire spouse for emotional intimacy?
A husband has lost his erection several times and now is struggling while his wife is pregnant. She takes it personally - and so does he. What can they do?
Enjoy the show!
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Aug 17, 2022 • 28min
Sex Every Day #585
What are the benefits of having sex every day? Are there negatives to this as well?
What if it wasn't sexual intercourse every day ... but was simply being sexual every day? Does that change anything in your mind?
On the Xtended version …
A message from a member who is wanting to get the passion back in his marriage after 20 years.
Enjoy the show!
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Aug 10, 2022 • 37min
Nice Guys Revisited | Dr Robert Glover #584
An encore conversation with Dr Robert Glover on the topic of Nice Guys. And no, we're not meaning kind in this episode.
What is the Nice Guy?
How do you recognize and confront covert contracts?
To learn more from Robert -check out his site https://www.drglover.com/
On the Xtended version …
An extended conversation with Dr Glover about the importance of showing up in your relationships, and setting a good tone.
Enjoy the show!
Also listen to his other episodes on SMR:
#326 Positive Emotional Tension
#425 Testing Solidness
#558 Roommates Not Lovers
Enjoy the show!
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Aug 3, 2022 • 50min
Obligation Sex | Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife #583
Everyone gets the full show today …
A conversation with Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife on the topic of obligation sex.
Is it a part of every marriage? Is it harmful to one, or both spouses?
To learn more from Jennifer and find her Room For Two Podcast - check out her site https://www.finlayson-fife.com/
Also listen to her other episodes on SMR:
#437 The Lower Desire Wife
#463 Sex For Emotional Attachment
#544 Resentment
Enjoy the show!
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Jul 27, 2022 • 26min
Trustworthiness #582
What does trust mean?
Is it a simple concept or a complicated one?
What if we frame this topic under the lens of trustworthiness?
That's our conversation today, and how this plays out in life and marriage.
On the Xtended version …
An email from a member who is wondering if there can be a role reversal within the difference aspects of the Higher Desire and Lower Desire framework. Specifically when it comes to confidence and the preconceived roles each gender plays in marriage.
Enjoy the show!
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Jul 20, 2022 • 31min
Role Playing #581
I'm joined today Jon and Katie Runyan, of Faithful Fling, and we dive into the world of role playing.
How can it spice things up? How can a couple explore this aspect of fantasy and sex while still keeping it within the couple?
Learn more about Faithful Fling here -
https://www.faithfulfling.com/
On the Xtended version …
Jon and Katie and I continue the conversation by turning it a bit more personal - as well as exploring some of the pitfalls that may be associated with fantasy and role playing.
Enjoy the show!
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Jul 13, 2022 • 31min
Testicular Cancer #580
Recorded LIVE at the 2022 SMR Getaway.
A husband had a testicle removed due to cancer (which was caught early). He was told by his doctor that his libido may increase and the remedy to any discomfort is ejaculation. This puts his wife is a tough spot.
A husband wants his wife to wear lingerie and wants to go down on her after sexual intercourse. His side - he loves it. Her side - not so much.
On the Xtended version …
An encore conversation how to bring up your desires when you may disrupt the status quo.
Enjoy the show!
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Jul 6, 2022 • 29min
Retroactive Jealousy #579
Recorded LIVE at the 2022 SMR Getaway.
A caller has an issue with a statement made from a past show and left us a message asking if we would tell our daughter the same thing I said on the air.
A husband is suffering from retroactive jealousy over things his wife did before they were married and even before they had met.
On the Xtended version …
An encore conversation about our fear of being alone.
Enjoy the show!
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Jun 29, 2022 • 28min
Encore of The Female Orgasm #578
An encore episode of a conversation with Vanessa Marin, a fellow sex therapist, about the most common issues couples face in their sex lives today. You can find more about Vanessa on her site https://vmtherapy.com/
On the Xtended version …
Vanessa and I continue the conversation about sex, only this time we’re focusing solely on the female orgasm.
Enjoy the show!
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Jun 22, 2022 • 33min
Lets Talk About Testosterone #577
I'm joined by Dr Carole Hooven, a Harvard Lecturer, as we discuss her study and work on the science of testosterone.
Why is it that this hormone is so important and so divisive?
Learn more about Dr Carole here - http://www.carolehooven.com/
On the Xtended version …
Dr Carole and I continue the conversation only get more personal. She even turns the tables on the interview!
Enjoy the show!
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