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Dr Corey and Pam Allan
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Apr 12, 2023 • 35min
5 Minutes A Day | Dr Wyatt Fisher #619
Hello, Nation! I recently had the pleasure of interviewing Dr. Wyatt Fisher, a licensed psychologist and marriage counselor.
In this episode, we discussed a powerful tool for couples called the "Bullseye Question," which can help couples communicate effectively and strengthen their relationship.
The Bullseye Question involves setting aside five minutes each day to give and receive constructive feedback from your partner. This allows couples to communicate openly and honestly about what's working and what's not in their relationship, without feeling defensive or attacked.
Dr. Fisher explains that the key to making the Bullseye Question work is to approach it with a mindset of growth and self-improvement, rather than criticism or blame. By asking each other "what could I have done better today?" couples can create a safe space for feedback that is focused on growth and improvement.
We also discuss its benefits, including how it can help couples develop stronger communication skills, build trust and intimacy, and ultimately create a more fulfilling and satisfying relationship.
If you're looking to strengthen your marriage and improve your communication with your spouse, I highly recommend listening to this episode. There is a wealth of knowledge and practical tips you can start using today to improve your relationship.
Learn more here - https://www.drwyattfisher.com/
On the Extended Version ...
Wyatt and I go deeper into another one of his strategies, the Head and Heart Method for connection.
Looking for more intimacy or connection?
Listen to the XTD to find it.
Enjoy the show!
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Apr 5, 2023 • 34min
Money And Love | Abby Davidson #618
Abby Davidson joins the show as we talk about one of the more contentious topics in married life, money.
What are some good ways to address this topic and then make decisions together? Listen to find out.
Learn more about Abby here - https://www.abbydavisson.com/
On the Extended Version ...
We keep the conversation going and get a little more personal.
Enjoy the show!
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Mar 29, 2023 • 28min
Postpartum Intimacy and Sex | Brianna Carey #617
Brianna Carey joins me today as we discuss the common issues women face during the postpartum stage of life and marriage.
To learn more about Brianna, check out her site - https://brianna-carey.square.site/
On the Extended Version ...
We keep the conversation going and discuss some of the ideas Brianna uses to maintain a better connection with your spouse, regardless of the season or stage of life.
Enjoy the show!
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Mar 22, 2023 • 54min
Secrets of Sex and Marriage | Shaunti Feldhahn and Dr. Michael Sytsma #616
Shaunti Feldhahn and Dr Michael Sytsma discuss the surprising findings from their research on sex and marriage. They explore the impact of perception on relationships and the labor-intensive process of creating their book. They also delve into the topics of sexual desire discrepancy, redefining receptive desire, the importance of curiosity in marriage, and understanding relationship problems. Check out their book for more insights!

Mar 15, 2023 • 34min
Be Difficult | Tonya Lester #615
Tonya Lester joins me as we dive into the idea of how we should all be difficult. It's an interesting way to look at the concept of people pleasing and relationships.
We also look at 2 concepts that are often present in relationships, gaslighting and love bombing.
To learn more about Tonya, go here https://www.tonyalester.com/
On the Extended Version ...
We keep the conversation going about the 3 kinds of dynamics we can take in our relationships. Difficult, impossible or shock-absorber.
Which one are you?
Enjoy the show!
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Mar 8, 2023 • 30min
Sexual Styles #614
A husband has emailed us with feedback and his thoughts about Episodes #610 and #611.
We go through his ideas point by point, and then land on a conversation about the win-win situations in marriage. Or, to put it another way, do they really exist?
On the Extended Version ...
Pam and I discuss the three different sexual styles according the Dr Schnarch.
Which style is yours?
Enjoy the show!
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Mar 1, 2023 • 36min
Conversation About Men And Women | Mark Rosenfeld #613
I had a fun conversation with Mark Rosendfeld, one that just started right when I hit record and simply kept going.
We cover lots of aspects about men and women and our relationships with each other.
To find more of Mark's work go here - https://makehimyours.com.au/
On the Extended Version ...
Mark and I keep the conversation going.
Enjoy the show!
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Feb 22, 2023 • 33min
People Pleasers | Natalie Lue #612
Natalie Lue, author of The Joy Of Saying No, joins me as we dive into the trait of people pleasing.
But isn't looking out for others and what they want a good thing?
Not always. In fact, it can be downright destructive.
Learn more about Natalie here - https://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/
On the Extended Version ...
Natalie and I continue the conversation, only a little more personally.
Enjoy the show!
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Feb 15, 2023 • 30min
We React From Our Fear Or Pain Or Preference | Feedback Wednesday #611
It's a Feedback Wednesday again, where we answer questions from the Nation and today follow up from our episode last week.
A wife emails in encouraging me to re-think my stance and advice regarding last week's segment on if a husband should tell his wife about his struggle with porn.
A wife prefers to offload her day, and talk about intimate and even conflictual topic with her husband in bed. He does not. It turns her on. It turns him off.
On the Extended Version ...
A husband is married to a wife who goes to be well before him, gets up well before him, doesn't share any hobbies together, and can only pursue his wife sexually at a prescribe day and time.
Enjoy the show!
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Feb 8, 2023 • 29min
Should I Tell My Wife? | Feedback Wednesday #610
It's Feedback Wednesday, where we answer questions from the Nation.
A wife had a little issue with our Trust vs Hurt episode. She heard our take as possibly blaming the betrayed spouse, not the betrayer.
A husband has had a struggle with porn before he married his wife, and it has continued into their marriage as well. He's tried several times to kick it, unsuccessfully. Should he tell his wife about his struggle?
On the Extended Version ...
A wife emails us about how her husband is very curious and wants to explore more about the swinging lifestyle. This breaks her heart ... and scares her.
Enjoy the show!
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