The Art of Love With Lucia
Lucia
Lucia is an internationally known dating expert who specializes in getting an ex back. She will entertain, educate and enlighten you!
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Jan 28, 2026 • 10min
Why Rushing Always Fails With Avoidants
When getting back with an ex, people usually say they're going to "take it slow", but rarely do. Dating expert Lucia explains why pace is the deciding factor, especially with an avoidant ex and why talking doesn't actually move things forward.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#exback #getexback
Jan 21, 2026 • 9min
Why Being Patient With An Avoidant Backfires
Being patient with an avoidant doesn't save the connection - it often kills attraction.Dating expert Lucia explains why attraction fades when you're waiting, being understanding, and "not putting pressure on it". If you've been trying to stay calm and do the right thing while nothing changes, this episode is for you.#avoidantattachment #breakups #exback #nocontact #nocontactruleGet coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram
Jan 14, 2026 • 9min
What Really Happens When You Stop Chasing Your Ex
When you've been dumped, the urge to chase can feel overwhelming, especially if you still want your ex back.Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what actually changes when you stop chasing your ex, and why pulling back often shifts the dynamic in ways chasing never can.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#nocontact #breakuppodcast #gettingyourexback #getexback
Jan 8, 2026 • 9min
What Your Ex Wants When They Text You
You've been in no contact and after weeks - or even months - of silence, your ex suddenly texts you. What does it actually mean, and should you respond right away or wait?Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals why exes reach out during no contact, what they're really looking for, and how responding the wrong way can sabotage your chances.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#nocontact #exback #getexback #nocontactrule
Dec 31, 2025 • 9min
What Avoidants Do When They Secretly Want You Back
If your avoidant ex's actions are confusing, there's usually a very good reason.Dating/relationship expert Lucia exposes the subtle behaviors avoidants show when they're starting to change their minds about the breakup.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#getexback #nocontact #nocontactrule #avoidantex #avoidantattachment
Dec 24, 2025 • 12min
Think You’ll Never Hear From Your Ex?
If you're convinced your ex will never reach out, you're probably wrong. Silence after a breakup triggers fear-based thinking, and your brain fills in the blanks with the worst-case scenarios.Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains the psychology behind why people assume they'll never hear from their ex, and why that belief is usually not based on reality.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#getexback #exback #nocontact #nocontactrule
Dec 17, 2025 • 10min
When You Both Do No Contact
If you're in no contact with an avoidant and wondering what they're thinking and feeling, this video will give you clarity.Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares what happens psychologically when you and your avoidant ex both stop contacting each other.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#nocontact #nocontactrule #avoidantex #getexback #getavoidantexback
Dec 10, 2025 • 13min
The $10 Million Test That Reveals Whether You Really Want Your Ex Back
Have you been feeling stuck, confused or unable to move forward after a breakup?In this video, dating/relationship expert Lucia asks one powerful question that instantly brings clarity about your real feelings for your ex. Most people are shocked by their own answer!Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#breakups #detachfromex #howtodetachfromex#howtomoveon #howtomoveonfromex
Dec 3, 2025 • 11min
The Real Reason Avoidants Always Reach Out At Night
There's a predictable window of time during the night when an avoidant is most likely to break their silence and reach out.Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what happens within this particular window that forces them to reach out, and what their text actually means.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay Hi on Instagram#avoidantattachment #avoidantex #attachmentstyles #fearfulavoidant #dismissiveavoidant #getexback #nocontact #nocontactrule
Nov 26, 2025 • 10min
Will No Contact Work On A Stubborn Ex?
Are you wondering if no contact even works on someone who's stubborn, prideful and/or has a big ego?Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the internal battle that happens inside a stubborn ex during silence.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#stubbornex #getexback #nocontact #nocontactrule #exback
