The Art of Love With Lucia

Your ex doesn't just suddenly decide to come back one day. There's a specific chain of events that have to happen first.In this episode, dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals how your silence works in your favor, even when it feels like nothing's happening.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#exback #getexback #nocontact #nocontactrule

If you've gone no contact with your avoidant ex and they still haven't said a word, this episode will tell you exactly what's going on in their mind. Dating/relationship expert Lucia breaks down each stage of what happens internally - from denial to realization - so you can understand why silence works better than chasing.#nocontact #nocontactrule #avoidantex #avoidantattachment #fearfulavoidant #anxiousavoidant #dismissiveavoidant

Why is almost everyone so angry with people who have an avoidant attachment style? Are they evil or is something else going on?Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what's really behind all the hate and what to do if you're dealing with an avoidant yourself.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#avoidantattachment #fearfulavoidant #dismissiveavoidant #nocontact #avoidantex

Discover the subtle yet strategic tests avoidant exes use before considering reconciliation. Learn how to navigate emotional availability checks without overreacting. Explore the vulnerability gauge that reveals their intent through neutral responses. Uncover the significance of staying calm during cautious meetups to pass the consistency test. Passing these tests can foster a safer emotional environment, leading to commitment. Tune in for expert insights on managing relationships with avoidant partners!

You can't force an avoidant to apologize for hurting you, but you can understand what makes them feel safe enough to do it.Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains exactly what you need to do to get your avoidant to apologize.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay Hi on Instagram#avoidantex #getavoidantexback #dismissiveavoidant #fearfulavoidant #anxiousavoidant

Discover the intriguing dynamics between dismissive and fearful avoidants when faced with no contact. Learn how their childhood experiences shape their reactions and behaviors. Find out why silence can gradually break down the emotional walls of dismissive avoidants, offering hope in the waiting game. Delve into the erratic responses of fearful avoidants and the challenges of their hot-and-cold nature. Lucia provides essential strategies for maintaining effective no contact, ensuring that you wield the power in these complex relationships.

Blocking an avoidant ex sets off a chain of psychological stages that most people don't expect.Dating/relationship expert Lucia breaks down the 4 things that happen when you block an avoidant dumper.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#AvoidantEx #DismissiveAvoidant #FearfulAvoidant #ExBack

If your ex said they're done, don't panic. Once the silence kicks in and they start to feel the consequences of the breakup, they'll begin to question their decision.Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why breakups aren't always final and you still have a chance to get your ex back.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#ExBack #BreakupAdvice #NoContactRule #GetYourExBack

No contact isn't enough to get an avoidant ex back. There's something even more powerful that overrides attachment style.Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the secret factor that determines whether your avoidant ex comes back or stays gone.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay Hi on Instagram#NoContactRule #AvoidantEx #GetYourExBack #ExBack #NoContact

Emotional space is crucial for avoidant partners, and the three-foot bubble concept helps them feel safe. Chasing them often leads to retreat and a frustrating hot-and-cold cycle. By respecting their need for distance, you can invite them to move closer naturally. Building self-worth fosters healthier dynamics, while the no contact rule can spark curiosity and speed up their interest. Transforming your energy during this time makes you less needy and more appealing, setting the stage for a stronger relationship.