The Art of Love With Lucia

Discover the subtle yet strategic tests avoidant exes use before considering reconciliation. Learn how to navigate emotional availability checks without overreacting. Explore the vulnerability gauge that reveals their intent through neutral responses. Uncover the significance of staying calm during cautious meetups to pass the consistency test. Passing these tests can foster a safer emotional environment, leading to commitment. Tune in for expert insights on managing relationships with avoidant partners!

You can't force an avoidant to apologize for hurting you, but you can understand what makes them feel safe enough to do it.Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains exactly what you need to do to get your avoidant to apologize.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay Hi on Instagram#avoidantex #getavoidantexback #dismissiveavoidant #fearfulavoidant #anxiousavoidant

Discover the intriguing dynamics between dismissive and fearful avoidants when faced with no contact. Learn how their childhood experiences shape their reactions and behaviors. Find out why silence can gradually break down the emotional walls of dismissive avoidants, offering hope in the waiting game. Delve into the erratic responses of fearful avoidants and the challenges of their hot-and-cold nature. Lucia provides essential strategies for maintaining effective no contact, ensuring that you wield the power in these complex relationships.

Blocking an avoidant ex sets off a chain of psychological stages that most people don't expect.Dating/relationship expert Lucia breaks down the 4 things that happen when you block an avoidant dumper.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#AvoidantEx #DismissiveAvoidant #FearfulAvoidant #ExBack

If your ex said they're done, don't panic. Once the silence kicks in and they start to feel the consequences of the breakup, they'll begin to question their decision.Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why breakups aren't always final and you still have a chance to get your ex back.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#ExBack #BreakupAdvice #NoContactRule #GetYourExBack

No contact isn't enough to get an avoidant ex back. There's something even more powerful that overrides attachment style.Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the secret factor that determines whether your avoidant ex comes back or stays gone.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay Hi on Instagram#NoContactRule #AvoidantEx #GetYourExBack #ExBack #NoContact

Emotional space is crucial for avoidant partners, and the three-foot bubble concept helps them feel safe. Chasing them often leads to retreat and a frustrating hot-and-cold cycle. By respecting their need for distance, you can invite them to move closer naturally. Building self-worth fosters healthier dynamics, while the no contact rule can spark curiosity and speed up their interest. Transforming your energy during this time makes you less needy and more appealing, setting the stage for a stronger relationship.

Why do avoidants come back after no contact? Most people assume it’s because they miss you or realize your value—but the truth runs much deeper.In this episode, dating/relationship expert Lucia explains the Black Hole Effect: the powerful psychological pull that happens when you stop chasing and give an avoidant the space they need. You’ll learn why avoidants don’t miss you while you’re still reaching out, the stages they go through after a breakup, and the two main reasons they eventually return—even if it takes longer than you’d like.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay Hi on Instagram#AvoidantAttachment #BreakupPsychology #EmotionalUnavailability #FearOfIntimacy #GetExBack #NoContact

Tempted to break no contact? Don't do it until you listen to this episode!Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals when breaking it might lead to reconciliation and when it's almost guaranteed to backfire.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#nocontact #breakupadvice #exback #getexback #nocontactrule

"No chance" doesn't mean it's over. In this episode, find out how to take back control and shift the way your ex sees you - so they may start rethinking the breakup.Dating/relationship expert Lucia shows you exactly how to change the dynamic, build attraction and create the best chance of getting them back. Press play to discover how to turn things around.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR AndroidRead No Contact Secrets BookSay hi on Instagram#GetYourExBack #BreakupAdvice #NoContactRule #SecondChances