The Hardcore Self Help Podcast with Duff the Psych

Robert Duff, Ph.D.
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Jul 8, 2022 • 39min

Episode 309: Abusive Marriage & Cutting Off Mother

Hello, friends. In this episode, I answer two questions that encompass difficulties within family relationships. Here are the questions: My wife belittles me and makes me feel terrible constantly. What should I do? I'm thinking of cutting off contact with my mother, but I also have a lot of empathy for her. How should I proceed? As always, you can send me questions to duffthepsych@gmail.com and find the show notes at http://duffthepsych.com/episode309 No ads today, but please take a moment to leave a review of the show!
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Jun 24, 2022 • 37min

Episode 308: Anger After Suicide & Restarting Medication

Hello, all. A big content warning for this episode, the first question deals with suicide and has a bit more detail than other questions I've answered on the show. It's a very worthwhile question and a great topic to discuss, but I just want to make you aware of that. Here are the topics covered in this Q&A episode: I saw my elderly father kill himself and I am so angry at him. What can I do? My friend stopped medication for anxiety and depression, but she is thinking about starting again. What else can she do to help herself out? As always, you can send me questions to duffthepsych@gmail.com and find the show notes to this episode at http://duffthepsych.com/episode308.  This episode of Hardcore Self Help is sponsored by MUD\WTR and BetterHelp. MUD\WTR is a coffee alternative consisting of organic ingredients lauded by cultures old and young for their health and performance benefits. With 1/7th the caffeine of coffee, mud gives you natural energy, focus and more without the jitters and crash. Right now, you can get 15% off your first purchase by going to mudwtr.com/DUFF and using code DUFF at checkout! If you are in a mental health slump, consider reaching out to a licensed professional to help. BetterHelp has a large counselor network and you can begin chatting with someone very quickly. Check out betterhelp.com/duff to get 10% off your first month.
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Jun 17, 2022 • 37min

Episode 307: How to Set Boundaries & Overcoming Sexual Abuse

Hello, all! In this episode, I take on two really good listener questions. The second one mentions sexual abuse of a child, but there are no details shared. Here are the questions covered: How can I start to set boundaries with loved ones when it feels so hard? How can I improve my sexual relationship with me husband after I have experienced childhood abuse? As always, you can send me your questions to duffthepsych@gmail.com and find the show notes for this episode at http://duffthepsych.com/episode307 This episode of Hardcore Self Help is sponsored by Audible. Audible is the leading provider of spoken-word entertainment all in one place, where you can find the largest selection of audiobooks. Sign up now by heading to audible.com/duff or text duff to 500-500, and receive your first 30 days for free.
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Jun 10, 2022 • 41min

Episode 306: Getting Partner Back & Bipolar in College

Hello, all! This is a great Q&A episode featuring the following questions from awesome listeners like yourself: My partner left due to me not pursuing her enough. Does it make sense to try to get back together after some time? I had to leave college due to bipolar. Should I go back to the same school after stabilizing?  As always, you can send me your questions to duffthepsych@gmail.com and find the show notes at http://duffthepsych.com/episode306 - This episode of Hardcore Self Help is sponsored by BetterHelp. If you are in a mental health slump, consider reaching out to a licensed professional to help. BetterHelp has a large counselor network and you can begin chatting with someone very quickly. Check out betterhelp.com/duff to get 10% off your first month.
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Jun 3, 2022 • 41min

Episode 305: Overthinking & Embarrassment

Hello, friends! I hope you have had a great week. We are back to the Q&A format this week with the following questions: How can I overcome my tendency to overthink constantly? Why do I get extremely embarrassed so often in social situations? What can I do about it? As always, you can send me your questions to duffthepsych@gmail.com and find show notes at http://duffthepsych.com/episode305 This episode of Hardcore Self Help is sponsored by MUD\WTR. MUD\WTR is a coffee alternative consisting of organic ingredients lauded by cultures old and young for their health and performance benefits. With 1/7th the caffeine of coffee, mud gives you natural energy, focus and more without the jitters and crash. Right now, you can get 15% off your first purchase by going to mudwtr.com/DUFF and using code DUFF at checkout!
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May 27, 2022 • 49min

Episode 304: Duff the Wife Returns!

Hello, everyone! In this epidode, my beautiful wife, Joelle, comes back on the show for a quick chat about life. We sat on the couch and had a cozy talk about all sorts of topics. I hope you enjoy! As always, you can send me questions to future episodes to duffthepsych@gmail.com and find the show notes for this episode at http://duffthepsych.com/episode304 This episode of Hardcore Self Help is sponsored by Policygenius. Policygenius is your one-stop shop to find and buy the insurance you need. They are not an insurance company, but rather a marketplace featuring the best options for you. Head to policygenius.com and answer a few questions. In just minutes, you can compare personalized quotes from top companies to find your lowest price. You could save 50% or more on life insurance by comparing quotes with Policygenius.
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May 20, 2022 • 31min

Episode 303: Decreased Sexual Performance & Trouble with Exposure Work

Hello, all! Straight forward Q&A this week with the following awesome listener questions: I used to be able to have sex numerous times consecutively, but ever since a panic attack, I havet been unable to. What is going on? I am having trouble doing my therapist's exposure activities due to panic attacks. How can I do better? As always, you can send me questions to duffthepsych@gmail.com and find the show notes at http://duffthepsych.com/episode303 This episode of Hardcore Self Help is sponsored by BetterHelp. If you are in a mental health slump, consider reaching out to a licensed professional to help. BetterHelp has a large counselor network and you can begin chatting with someone very quickly. Check out betterhelp.com/duff to get 10% off your first month.
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May 13, 2022 • 38min

Episode 302: No Intimacy in Marriage & Lost in Life

Hello, friends! I hope you're doing well. After a very gross story at the top of the episode, I get into the following questions: What can I do about decreased intimacy in my marriage? I am too depressed to do anything what can I do? As always, you can send me your questions to duffthepsych@gmail.com and find the show notes at http://duffthepsych.com/episode302   This episode of Hardcore Self Help is sponsored by Audible and MUD\WTR. Audible is the leading provider of spoken-word entertainment all in one place, where you can find the largest selection of audiobooks. Sign up now by heading to audible.com/duff or text duff to 500-500, and receive your first 30 days for free. MUD\WTR is a coffee alternative consisting of organic ingredients lauded by cultures old and young for their health and performance benefits. With 1/7th the caffeine of coffee, mud gives you natural energy, focus and more without the jitters and crash. Right now, you can get 15% off your first purchase by going to mudwtr.com/DUFF and using code DUFF at checkout!
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May 6, 2022 • 33min

Episode 301: Car Crash Amnesia & Husband Suddenly Wants Divorce

Hello, everyone! I hope you're having a great week. Just a nice straightfoward Q&A for you today featuring the following questions: After 12 years of a great marriage, my husband had a sudden realization that he wants to leave. What can I do? My mother was in a terrible car crash and is afraid of remembering what happened. Is that a possibility? As always, you can send me your questions to duffthepsych@gmail.com and find the show notes at http://duffthepsych.com/episode301 This episode of Hardcore Self Help is sponsored by BetterHelp. If you are in a mental health slump, consider reaching out to a licensed professional to help. BetterHelp has a large counselor network and you can begin chatting with someone very quickly. Check out betterhelp.com/duff to get 10% off your first month.
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Apr 29, 2022 • 36min

Episode 300: How to Ask for Help & Emotional Literacy for Men

Hello, everyone!  Episode 300!! Holy moly. Thank you so much for sticking with me on this ride. I appreciate your trust and attention so very much. This episode is much like any other. A solid question and answer featuring the following: How can I ask for help as an 18-year-old guy? My relationship failed due to my inability to communicate my feelings. How can I improve? As always, you can send me questions to duffthepsych@gmail.com and you can find the show notes at http://duffthepsych.com/episode300 Policygenius is your one-stop shop to find and buy the insurance you need. They are not an insurance company, but rather a marketplace featuring the best options for you. Head to policygenius.com and answer a few questions. In just minutes, you can compare personalized quotes from top companies to find your lowest price. You could save 50% or more on life insurance by comparing quotes with Policygenius.

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