Becoming Whole

Send us a textWhat does it truly mean to walk in sexual integrity, and how can confidence play a vital role in this journey?Discover how our own sense of goodness and value can greatly impact our ability to love and be loved. In our conversation, we unpack the connection between our desire for goodness, the attractiveness of others, and the importance of cultivating a deep-rooted confidence that is essential for walking in sexual integrity.Embracing Jesus and recognizing His infinite goodness is key to becoming whole.In this episode, we explore the importance of receiving Jesus as a gift, praising Him, and striving to become more like Him.Tune in as we share valuable insights and resources from Regeneration Ministries that can help guide you on your journey towards a more whole and confident self.With these tools and the support of a like-minded community, you can learn to walk in sexual integrity with confidence.Ready? Let's dive in!-- What We Discuss:   00:16 - If you want to walk in sexual integrity.   02:29 - Do you see yourself as a good gift?   04:09 - Love is confident and love requires confidence.   05:43 - Why are we so drawn to attractive people?   07:59 - The desire to be good and good gifts.   09:15 - Confident love is confident.   10:18 - We reach for and meditate on the good.Transcription: The Connection Between Confidence and Sexual IntegrityEpisode Resources:    Regen on YouTube    What We DoFree Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole 👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

Send us a textAre you struggling with the magnetic pull of an idealized lover? Wondering how to break free from comparing your significant other to this seemingly perfect person?Fear not, as we reveal a powerful two-step process that will not only help you tear down that pedestal but also reclaim control over your thoughts and feelings.Together, we'll explore the childlike part of ourselves that's stunted, and dig deep into our past influences on attraction.We'll uncover the reasons for this enticing vortex by asking crucial questions about your idealized lover and understanding the connection points between them and significant people from your past.Learn how to open yourself to Jesus with kindness, and see your idealized lover as a normal human being, regaining control over your life.Don't let the illusion of perfection hold you back – join us in this eye-opening episode!Ready? Let's dive in!-- What We Discuss:   00:02 - Tearing down the idealized lover.   01:14 - How to unplug yourself from the vortex.   03:18 - We all have ways that we do this in ourselves.   04:27 - How to unplug the magnetism of romantic attraction?   05:55 - Who does this person remind me of from my past?   06:25 - What are the characteristics that you’re filling in about that person?   10:38 - Look at who they remind you of.-- Transcription: A Journey to Understanding the Roots of Attraction-- Episode Resources:    Regen on YouTube    What We DoWant us to talk about a specific topic? Change up the format, or just tell us the podcast rocks! We want your feedback on Becoming Whole. You can leave your feedback hereFree Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole 👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

Send us a textWhat if our deepest sexual fantasies were actually signposts toward healing and connection?Join us for an eye-opening conversation with Drew Boa as we uncover the transformative power hidden within our desires.We discuss how our fantasies can point us toward safety, glory, and connection while providing the keys to unlock intimacy and healing in our lives.In this journey of self-discovery, we learn to face our fears, undo shame, and grieve our losses, bringing about personal growth and deeper connections with those around us.Drew Boa shares his wisdom in navigating the often misunderstood world of sexual desires and fantasies, guiding us toward a place of love and understanding.Listen in and embrace the life-changing potential of exploring your own desires and stories, and let this powerful episode inspire you to find safety, glory, and connection with God and your loved ones.More Online here.Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole 👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

Send us a textWhat if the secrets to unlocking our hidden qualities and traits lie in our deepest sexual fantasies?This episode invites you to join our captivating conversation on how interpreting these desires can help us reclaim our identity and discover the glory God has put in us.We delve into the power of the particularity of fantasies and discuss how they provide us with data that needs interpretation.With our guest, we explore how to tap into the original glory within us and seek safety and glory in healthy ways. By understanding trauma, addiction, and embracing a story-centered approach, we discuss how our fantasies can point to something good within us and how God is restoring what was already there.Get ready to deepen your understanding of yourself and your fantasies in this insightful and thought-provoking discussion.More online here.Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole 👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

Send us a textHave you ever found yourself struggling with unwanted sexual fantasies, attractions, or fetishes, and wondered how to overcome them?Our conversation with Drew Boa, founder of Husband Material, offers powerful insights and practical steps to help you heal and understand these complex issues. Join us as we discuss befriending our sexual thoughts and feelings instead of trying to get rid of them, and how God can speak to us through these different parts of us.We'll also explore the intriguing connection between fear and sexuality, including the physical effects of fear on our bodies and how arousal and pleasure pathways can shed light on the development of our sexual preferences.Don't miss this transformative and thought-provoking conversation with Drew Boa as he shares his personal journey of healing and freedom from the shame associated with his own sexual fantasies, offering hope and guidance for those struggling with their own unwanted attractions.More online at The Fantasy FrameworkFree Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole 👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

Send us a textDo you know how to resist temptation and protect yourself from the enemy's lies?Join us as we explore the patterns of temptation and reveal valuable tools to strengthen your relationship with God.We dive into the story of Adam and Eve, uncovering how the enemy tries to divide us, exaggerate God's prohibitions, and downplay God's generosity.Learn how Sun Tzu's quote, "if you know your enemy and yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles," applies to our spiritual battles against temptation.We also discuss the dangers of isolation and how to break free from the enemy's traps.Through the story of Adam and Eve, we see how the enemy attacks God's character and our belief in Him.Discover how temptation led to sin and death entering the world, and how the enemy whispers that it's God's fault when bad things happen. Empower yourself with the tools to resist temptation and shield yourself from these destructive lies, as we delve into this insightful conversation on understanding temptation patterns and fortifying your faith in God.Join us in this eye-opening discussion and strengthen your spiritual armor against the enemy's attacks.Ready? Let's dive in!-- What We Discuss:   02:30 - The enemy divides us and wants to isolate us.   04:08 - The enemy exaggerates God’s prohibitions.   06:32 - Attack God’s character.   08:46 - What does god say about human beings?   11:10 - Why does the enemy do this?   13:12 - Connect with others and pray.   14:53 - Practice gratitude and practice gratitude.   16:45 - Focus on God instead of the law.   19:08 - Where the enemy attacks God's character.-- Transcription: Understanding and Overcoming Temptation-- Episode Resources:    The Art of War by Sun Tzu    Regen on YouTube    What We DoWant us to talk about a specific topic? Change up the format, or just tell us the podcast rocks! We want your feedback on Becoming Whole. You can leave your feedback here.Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole 👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

Send us a textDo you ever feel overwhelmed by the countless voices discussing topics like sex, gender, and marriage, and unsure of who to trust?You're not alone!In this episode, we dive into the wisdom of fourth-century theologian Gregory of Nazianus, who faced similar challenges in his time. Listen in as we share some of Gregory's insights on how to navigate these complex and controversial subjects, and how his approach can help us today.We discuss how Gregory believed that being a theologian meant not only knowing about God but truly knowing and seeking God.In this episode, we explore how we can apply Gregory's wisdom to our own journey by examining our motivations and submitting our hearts to the truth of God.Additionally, we delve into the importance of virtue in the life of a theologian and how it can help us discern who to trust when it comes to discussions about sex, gender, and marriage.Join us as we learn from the wisdom of the past to better understand the present and draw closer to God in the process.Ready? Let's dive in!-- What We Discuss:   01:10 - How can a loving god say no to same-sex marriage?   02:37 - He didn’t want to be a priest.   03:35 - Defending the truth of Christianity.   05:20 - What does it mean to be a good theologian?   07:17 - The theologian has to be truly invested in God.   08:44 - Have you tamed your tongue and thought life?   10:11 - Why virtuous people help draw people closer to god?-- Transcription: Walking through the Minefield of Modern Conversations on Sexuality and Marriage-- Episode Resources:    On God and Christ: The Five Theological Orations and Two Letters to Cledonius    Regen on YouTube    What We DoWant us to talk about a specific topic? Change up the format, or just tell us the podcast rocks! We want your feedback on Becoming Whole. You can leave your feedback here.Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole 👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

Send us a textDo you ever feel like lust and pornography are taking over your life, and you can't break free from their grasp?What if I told you that lust isn't the real issue at hand, but rather our inability to truly see the world and the people around us?In this eye-opening episode, I share a powerful story from the memoir "The Glass Castle" that illustrates this concept and how it's not lust that we need to overcome, but our clouded vision.Join me as I discuss how God doesn't want us to simply look away from temptation, but rather to open our eyes and truly see the person in front of us, beholding them with awe and reverence.This transformation of our vision can lead us to a place where we no longer want to degrade others by treating them like sex objects. Our ultimate goal should be to honor one another and elevate our consciousness to recognize the reality of God's beauty in each other.So, let's embark on this journey together to gain clarity and rediscover the real world through our newly opened eyes.Ready? Let's dive in!Transcription: From Lustful Gaze to Awe and ReverenceEpisode Resources:    The Glass Castle: A Memoir     Regen on YouTube    What We DoWant us to talk about a specific topic? Change up the format, or just tell us the podcast rocks! We want your feedback on Becoming Whole. You can leave your feedback hereFree Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole 👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

Send us a textWhat does Jesus teach us about sex and gender, and how can we apply that to the complex and controversial topic of transgenderism?With humble hearts and minds, we turn to Scripture and the historic teachings of the  church to understand how to respond as Christians.Join us as we examine the original plan for creation in Genesis 1 and 2, and explore Jesus's teachings in Matthew 19 to navigate this important conversation.We also contemplate the hope found in the Incarnation, discussing the implications of God becoming flesh.Jesus's care for the physical bodies of men and women illustrates his love and compassion, ultimately leading him to the cross for our sake. His death and resurrection offer hope for those who have a transgender experience or have irreversibly altered their body.Learn how we can walk alongside those in that space with grace, understanding, and a compassionate heart.Ready? Let's dive in!-- What We Discuss:   2:16 - The pharisees that tried to trap Jesus.   4:33 - Transgenderism and God’s will.   6:46 - God’s original design for our sexuality.   8:01 - What is a sex change operation?   9:21 - How we think about compassion in our culture.  10:49 - Why is the body so important to Christians?  12:49 - He literally became flesh for our sake.-- Transcription: Christ's Compassion in the Transgender Conversation - -- Episode Resources:    Regen on YouTube    What We DoWant us to talk about a specific topic? Change up the format, or just tell us the podcast rocks! We want your feedback on Becoming Whole. You can leave your feedback here.Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole 👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

Send us a textWhat if we told you that you have the power to redefine beauty and truly appreciate your spouse's appearance, imperfections and all?Join us in this eye-opening episode as we uncover powerful insights on how to retrain our minds, heavily influenced by media and pornography, to recognize and delight in our partner's beauty, even as they age or change.Together, we'll challenge society's expectations of beauty and aim to cultivate a healthier, more loving perspective of our relationships.Discover how to view your spouse's body as a map in marriage, where we can learn to view our spouse's body as a map of their life, finding beauty in wrinkles, gray hair, and other "imperfections."We'll discuss the importance of self-giving love in relationships and share practical tips for embracing a deep and meaningful connection with your partner by focusing on the good and beauty within them.Learn to see your partner as the whole, beautiful human being God sees them as, and move towards a more fulfilling, loving relationship.Ready? Let's dive in!-- What We Discuss:   00:04 - How to deal with imperfections in your spouse?   01:55 - The idealized models of the 50s.   03:16 - Training your brain to find beauty in your spouse.   05:27 - What we find in imperfections in our spouses.   07:04 - How to delight in your spouse’s imperfections.   09:03 - View your spouse’s body as a map.  10:27 - The deeper beauty of wrinkles and wrinkles.  12:08 - Seeing a person as a map of who they are.-- Transcription: Embracing Imperfections & Deepening Connections in Marriage - -- Episode Resources:    Regen on YouTube    What We DoWant us to talk about a specific topic? Change up the format, or just tell us the podcast rocks! We want your feedback on Becoming Whole. You can leave your feedback hereFree Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole 👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)