

Becoming Whole
Regeneration Ministries
Relationships and sexuality are areas of life that can be beautiful or confusing, life-giving, or painful. Becoming Whole is a conversational podcast for men, women, and families seeking to draw nearer to Jesus as they navigate topics like sexual integrity, relational healing, spiritual health, and so much more.
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Jan 7, 2025 • 22min
Pursuing Goodness: Grief & Lament part 1
Send us a textWelcome to the first part of our four-part series on pursuing goodness in 2025! In today's episode, hosts Aaron Tagert and James Craig dive deep into the often-overlooked topics of grief and lament. Contrary to popular belief, these emotions can be a catalysts for healing and growth. Aaron and James discuss personal experiences, the importance of acknowledging sorrow, and share insights on how grieving well can lead to genuine comfort and maturity. Join us as we explore how to embrace these challenging emotions to start the new year with a journey toward wholeness.Resources:Grieving the Seasons of Our Lives - Ron WalbornLament Psalm 3 (from Soul Shepherding Ministries)The Good, The Bad, & The Ugly (from Awaken 360)Psalms in a Month Awaken Men's Retreat 2025 - Register Today! Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole 👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

Dec 24, 2024 • 41min
Faith and Body: The Power of the Incarnation
Send us a textIn this final chapter to our Advent mini-series we discuss the connection between spirituality and sexuality through the lens of the incarnation, emphasizing how Jesus' physical embodiment relates to our lives and struggles with sexual integrity. As we dive into some theology and apply some practical spiritual disciplines, listeners can begin to reconcile their sexual lives with their spiritual journeys, aiming towards wholeness and redemption in Christ.• Discussion on the importance of Advent and the incarnation as it relates to sexuality • The intersectionality of sexuality and spirituality • Examination of Jesus' physicality and its implications • How to understand sexual sin as a unique challenge to the body • The role of biology in sexual temptation • Differentiating between “flesh” and “body” in the New Testament • The overarching message of hope offered through Christ’s body • Practical applications of spiritual disciplines for sexual integrity • The importance of embodying worship in our spiritual life • Encouragement to engage with community as a remedy to isolation For more information or to join click one of the links below.Manna - Men seeking freedom from unwanted sexual behavior, temptation, and shame.Oasis - Women seeking freedom from unwanted sexual behavior, temptation, and shame.Compass - Wives seeking healing from betrayal and broken trust. Awaken Men's Retreat 2025 - Register Today! Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole 👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

Dec 17, 2024 • 32min
Finding Hope in Connection
Send us a textWhat if the essence of companionship and faith holds the key to overcoming life's most daunting challenges? This episode is an invitation through the Advent season, where we draw parallels between the biblical bond of Mary and Elizabeth and our personal battles with unwanted sexual behavior or betrayal trauma. Joined by Kyle (spiritual coach), we unravel how these stories illuminate our struggles, urging us to embrace community support and faith as vital lifelines during times of uncertainty. For more information or to join click one of the links below.Manna - Men seeking freedom from unwanted sexual behavior, temptation, and shame.Oasis - Women seeking freedom from unwanted sexual behavior, temptation, and shame.Compass - Wives seeking healing from betrayal and broken trust. Awaken Men's Retreat 2025 - Register Today! Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole 👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

Dec 10, 2024 • 31min
How can this be? - Advent Series
Send us a textWhat if the Christmas story could speak directly to your most personal struggles? Join Josh and Andrea (host of Sacred by Design Podcast) as we explore Advent through the lens of Mary's journey in the Gospel of Luke. We unpack Mary's encounter with the angel Gabriel, offering a fresh perspective on how her story can resonate with our own challenges, from unwanted sexual attractions to healing past wounds. Discover how Mary's "yes" to God can inspire us in our journey of surrender, inviting us to embrace the richness and depth that comes from trusting beyond our limitations.We discuss the role of community support, highlighting Elizabeth's comforting presence in Mary's life, and reflect on how such relationships can bolster our own spiritual journeys. Learn creative practices to connect with Jesus, whether through a quiet walk or the simple act of coloring, and consider the power of openness in nurturing your connection with the God. Join us as we conclude with a heartfelt prayer, seeking guidance for those feeling hesitant on their spiritual journey, and inviting you to experience a life filled with unforeseen beauty and transformation. For more information or to join click one of the links below.Manna - Men seeking freedom from unwanted sexual behavior, temptation, and shame.Oasis - Women seeking freedom from unwanted sexual behavior, temptation, and shame.Compass - Wives seeking healing from betrayal and broken trust. Awaken Men's Retreat 2025 - Register Today! Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole 👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

Dec 3, 2024 • 40min
Healing Anger: Insights into Spiritual and Emotional Well-Being
Send us a textIn this episode of 'Becoming Whole, with special guest Aaron Tagert we delve into part three in our mini-series on anger. We highlight the importance of emotional awareness and maturity in recovery, drawing from the works of Brene Brown and Dr. Jim Wilder. Additionally, we discuss practical methods for inner healing through story work, inner healing prayer, and strategies like the 'porch' metaphor. This episode emphasizes the importance of engaging past wounds with curiosity and kindness for deeper healing.Resources mentioned in today's episode.Adam Young how to write a storyAwaken 360Unpacking the Unique Approach of Curiosity For more information or to join click one of the links below.Manna - Men seeking freedom from unwanted sexual behavior, temptation, and shame.Oasis - Women seeking freedom from unwanted sexual behavior, temptation, and shame.Compass - Wives seeking healing from betrayal and broken trust. Awaken Men's Retreat 2025 - Register Today! Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole 👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

Nov 26, 2024 • 34min
The Psychology of Anger
Send us a textJoin James Craig co-host and guest Rebecca Baker as they dive into the psychology of anger and its impact on unwanted sexual behavior. Rebecca, a licensed clinical social worker, shares her expertise on different therapy approaches, naming emotions, and practical tips for managing and understanding anger. They explore how emotional awareness and maturity are crucial to personal healing and how faith is a powerful tool in this journey. Whether it's in therapy or spiritual coaching, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice to navigate the intense emotion of anger, especially during the holiday season.Feelings ListRebecca Baker For more information or to join click one of the links below.Manna - Men seeking freedom from unwanted sexual behavior, temptation, and shame.Oasis - Women seeking freedom from unwanted sexual behavior, temptation, and shame.Compass - Wives seeking healing from betrayal and broken trust. Awaken Men's Retreat 2025 - Register Today! Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole 👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

Nov 19, 2024 • 33min
Anger and Unwanted Sexual Behavior
Explore the surprising link between unprocessed anger and unwanted sexual behavior. Discover how understanding and expressing anger can drive personal healing. Tune in for insights on managing emotions during family gatherings, especially around the holidays. Delve into personal experiences and the roots of anger, highlighting how unmet desires can lead to frustration. Learn strategies for transforming painful emotions and navigate the complexities of betrayal in relationships, all while embracing spiritual growth.

Nov 12, 2024 • 15min
You're Not the Only One - Pressing through the Power of Shame
Send us a textFeeling overwhelmed by shame and the burden of thinking you're uniquely flawed? You're not alone, and there's hope for healing and connection. Join me as I share my journey through the isolating grip of sexual sin and temptations, and how these struggles made me feel like an outcast. With a fresh perspective, we explore the parallels between our experiences and the story of Adam and Eve, revealing how shame can drive us into secrecy and solitude. Let's address the misconception that you're the only one facing such battles and discuss how these feelings can hinder reaching out for support.Discover the freedom that comes from breaking the silence. Awaken Men's Retreat 2025 - Register Today! Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole 👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

Nov 5, 2024 • 20min
3 Essentials for a Sexually Whole Community
Send us a textPornography is a silent struggle for many within church congregations, yet it's often shrouded in secrecy and shame. What if addressing it head-on could transform not only individual lives but entire communities? In our latest episode, we explore the findings of Barna's eye-opening study in collaboration with Pure Desire Ministries, revealing that over half of practicing Christians have viewed pornography, and a staggering number find themselves without support. Join us as we discuss how we can find support and be supportive of those who are struggling with unwanted sexual behavior as individuals and as a collective local body. Awaken Men's Retreat 2025 - Register Today! Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole 👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

Oct 29, 2024 • 19min
God's Presence is Greater than Your Sexual Struggles
Send us a textCan you imagine a life where the constant struggle with unwanted sexual behaviors is met with the comfort of God's presence? We all carry a deep human longing to be seen, known, and loved, but sometimes these desires manifest in harmful ways. While our needs can be loud and demanding, God's presence offers a subtler yet far more profound fulfillment. We also tackle the challenge of sustaining spiritual practices like prayer and journaling in a world filled with anxiety and intrusive thoughts. Emotions are not just in our minds—they are felt in our bodies, and God's presence is there with them. Join us as we discuss how cultivating this awareness can address the root causes of unwanted behaviors and lead you toward a path of healing and wholeness. Awaken Men's Retreat 2025 - Register Today! Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole 👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)