
Becoming Whole
Relationships and sexuality are areas of life that can be beautiful or confusing, life-giving, or painful. Becoming Whole is a conversational podcast for men, women, and families seeking to draw nearer to Jesus as they navigate topics like sexual integrity, relational healing, spiritual health, and so much more.
Latest episodes

Feb 4, 2025 • 18min
Navigating a World Not Conducive to Walking with God
Send us a textIn this episode Josh explores the tension between living in a distracted world and maintaining a close relationship with God. We discuss how our engagement with worldly systems affects our struggles with sin, particularly unwanted sexual behaviors, and explore spiritual disciplines that can guide us back to a life of thriving in faith. • Exploring the dual meanings of 'world' in scripture • Understanding friendship with the world as spiritual conflict • The impact of worldly influences on sexual sin struggles • Identifying aspects to leave behind for spiritual growth • The value of spiritual practices like silence and fasting • Encouragement to make firm choices for a deep relationship with GodJoin us to uncover ways to break free from the world's systems and walk in friendship with God. Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole 👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

Jan 28, 2025 • 40min
Pursuing Goodness : Godly Self-care
Send us a textWelcome to the final week of the Pursuing Goodness mini-series on the Becoming Whole podcast! This episode we talk about how godly self care is essential for anyone seeking healing and wholeness from sexual and relational brokenness. Join Aaron Tagert and Kyle Bowman as they explore why many struggle with self-care, how shame and deprivation play a role, and practical ways to implement self-care in physical, mental, and spiritual aspects. Resources discussed in this episode“Learning to care for our inner worlds (our thoughts, emotions, and inward experiences) in an ongoing way is the life-sustaining self-care that we need.” Janice McWilliamsRestore My Soul: Reimagining Self-Care for a Sustainable Life Janice McWilliamsExamen https://www.ignatianspirituality.com/ignatian-prayer/the-examen/how-can-i-pray/Unwanted by Jay Stringer Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole 👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

Jan 21, 2025 • 39min
Pursuing Goodness : Reclaiming the senses
Send us a textWelcome back to the Becoming Whole podcast! Join Aaron Tagert, men's spiritual coach, and Andrea Smithberger, host of the Sacred by Design podcast, as they dive into week two of our 'Pursuing Goodness' mini-series. In this episode, we explore the idea of 'Reclaiming Our Senses' and how the enemy attempts to steal, kill, and destroy the goodness in our lives. Tune in for an enriching conversation that encourages you to slow down and embrace the inherent goodness God has placed within you. Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole 👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

Jan 14, 2025 • 24min
Pursuing Goodness: Grief & Lament part 2
Send us a textWelcome back to part two of our four-part series on "Pursuing Goodness" in 2025! In today's episode, hosts Aaron Tagert and James Craig dive further into the topics of grief and lament. Contrary to popular belief, these emotions can be a catalysts for healing and growth. Aaron and James discuss personal experiences, the importance of acknowledging sorrow, and share insights on how grieving well can lead to genuine comfort and maturity. Join us as we explore how to embrace these challenging emotions to start the new year with a journey toward wholeness.Resources:Grieving the Seasons of Our Lives - Ron WalbornLament Psalm 3 (from Soul Shepherding Ministries)The Good, The Bad, & The Ugly (from Awaken 360)Psalms in a Month Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole 👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

Jan 7, 2025 • 22min
Pursuing Goodness: Grief & Lament part 1
Send us a textWelcome to the first part of our four-part series on pursuing goodness in 2025! In today's episode, hosts Aaron Tagert and James Craig dive deep into the often-overlooked topics of grief and lament. Contrary to popular belief, these emotions can be a catalysts for healing and growth. Aaron and James discuss personal experiences, the importance of acknowledging sorrow, and share insights on how grieving well can lead to genuine comfort and maturity. Join us as we explore how to embrace these challenging emotions to start the new year with a journey toward wholeness.Resources:Grieving the Seasons of Our Lives - Ron WalbornLament Psalm 3 (from Soul Shepherding Ministries)The Good, The Bad, & The Ugly (from Awaken 360)Psalms in a Month Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole 👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

Dec 24, 2024 • 41min
Faith and Body: The Power of the Incarnation
Send us a textIn this final chapter to our Advent mini-series we discuss the connection between spirituality and sexuality through the lens of the incarnation, emphasizing how Jesus' physical embodiment relates to our lives and struggles with sexual integrity. As we dive into some theology and apply some practical spiritual disciplines, listeners can begin to reconcile their sexual lives with their spiritual journeys, aiming towards wholeness and redemption in Christ.• Discussion on the importance of Advent and the incarnation as it relates to sexuality • The intersectionality of sexuality and spirituality • Examination of Jesus' physicality and its implications • How to understand sexual sin as a unique challenge to the body • The role of biology in sexual temptation • Differentiating between “flesh” and “body” in the New Testament • The overarching message of hope offered through Christ’s body • Practical applications of spiritual disciplines for sexual integrity • The importance of embodying worship in our spiritual life • Encouragement to engage with community as a remedy to isolation Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole 👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

Dec 17, 2024 • 31min
Finding Hope in Connection
Send us a textWhat if the essence of companionship and faith holds the key to overcoming life's most daunting challenges? This episode is an invitation through the Advent season, where we draw parallels between the biblical bond of Mary and Elizabeth and our personal battles with unwanted sexual behavior or betrayal trauma. Joined by Kyle (spiritual coach), we unravel how these stories illuminate our struggles, urging us to embrace community support and faith as vital lifelines during times of uncertainty. Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole 👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

Dec 10, 2024 • 30min
How can this be? - Advent Series
Send us a textWhat if the Christmas story could speak directly to your most personal struggles? Join Josh and Andrea (host of Sacred by Design Podcast) as we explore Advent through the lens of Mary's journey in the Gospel of Luke. We unpack Mary's encounter with the angel Gabriel, offering a fresh perspective on how her story can resonate with our own challenges, from unwanted sexual attractions to healing past wounds. Discover how Mary's "yes" to God can inspire us in our journey of surrender, inviting us to embrace the richness and depth that comes from trusting beyond our limitations.We discuss the role of community support, highlighting Elizabeth's comforting presence in Mary's life, and reflect on how such relationships can bolster our own spiritual journeys. Learn creative practices to connect with Jesus, whether through a quiet walk or the simple act of coloring, and consider the power of openness in nurturing your connection with the God. Join us as we conclude with a heartfelt prayer, seeking guidance for those feeling hesitant on their spiritual journey, and inviting you to experience a life filled with unforeseen beauty and transformation. Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole 👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

Dec 3, 2024 • 40min
Healing Anger: Insights into Spiritual and Emotional Well-Being
Send us a textIn this episode of 'Becoming Whole, with special guest Aaron Tagert we delve into part three in our mini-series on anger. We highlight the importance of emotional awareness and maturity in recovery, drawing from the works of Brene Brown and Dr. Jim Wilder. Additionally, we discuss practical methods for inner healing through story work, inner healing prayer, and strategies like the 'porch' metaphor. This episode emphasizes the importance of engaging past wounds with curiosity and kindness for deeper healing.Resources mentioned in today's episode.Adam Young how to write a storyAwaken 360Unpacking the Unique Approach of Curiosity Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole 👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

Nov 26, 2024 • 34min
The Psychology of Anger
Send us a textJoin James Craig co-host and guest Rebecca Baker as they dive into the psychology of anger and its impact on unwanted sexual behavior. Rebecca, a licensed clinical social worker, shares her expertise on different therapy approaches, naming emotions, and practical tips for managing and understanding anger. They explore how emotional awareness and maturity are crucial to personal healing and how faith is a powerful tool in this journey. Whether it's in therapy or spiritual coaching, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice to navigate the intense emotion of anger, especially during the holiday season.Feelings ListRebecca Baker Free Resources to help you on your journey to Becoming Whole 👉Men's Overcoming Lust & Temptation Devotional👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)