

Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
Cate and Darrell
A Swinger Podcast by Cate and Darrell, an Aussie couple who navigate their journey from monogamy to the exciting world of non-monogamy. On Wanderlust Swingers, we dive deep into our real-life adventures in the swinging lifestyle, sharing candid experiences about swinging, hotwifing, couple dating, and the broader world of sex positivity.
Whether you’re curious about the lifestyle, an experienced swinger, or somewhere in between, our podcast offers an open and honest look at what it means to embrace consensual non-monogamy.
Formerly known as Swinging Downunder, we continue to explore and celebrate the diverse facets of sexual freedom and empowerment. Tune in to discover the highs, lows, and everything in between as we embark on our journey together.
Whether you’re curious about the lifestyle, an experienced swinger, or somewhere in between, our podcast offers an open and honest look at what it means to embrace consensual non-monogamy.
Formerly known as Swinging Downunder, we continue to explore and celebrate the diverse facets of sexual freedom and empowerment. Tune in to discover the highs, lows, and everything in between as we embark on our journey together.
Episodes
Mentioned books

Feb 12, 2021 • 49min
Stunt Cock MFM Threesome
Hotwife swinger lets loose in Croatia! In this episode we talk about Swinging and Hotwing in Croatia, arranging a stunt cock for an MFM threesome and more
We share some saucy details about the threesome, we talk about the wasted price on stockings, getting a hotel room, being a hotwife and taking some sexy footage of the evening
This MFM threesome was in a hotel room on a school night! That's a total hotwife move... sign me up for my hotwife podcast badge!
We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Join us in Miami for our Hotel Takeover
Head to Naughty In Nawlins with us and join the tribe
Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources.
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.

Jan 27, 2021 • 31min
The Foursome Butt Plug Experience
Our recent swinging foursome experience contains some new-ness for our play sessions. We share our recent foursome swinging experience which involved butt plugs!
We run through setting up the swinging date, how to transition from the loungeroom to the bedroom and how the use of VR porn could be next level swinger transitions of 2021 and beyond.
Cate also shares some audio on how future foursome sessions could be more puppy pile focused.
We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Join us in Miami for our Hotel Takeover
Head to Naughty In Nawlins with us and join the tribe
Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources.
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.

Jan 15, 2021 • 44min
Cuckolding with Dr Justin Lehmiller
What is Cuckolding? What is Cuckqueening? Many people incorrectly assume that this fetish involves only humiliation.
We interview Dr Justin Lehmiller a PHD and Social Psychologist about Cuckolding and the psychology behind this fetish and desire of being cucked.
In the second half of this podcast we talk about the taboo behind using sex toys and using sex toys as a male.
Links for Dr Lehmiller
Dr. Justin Lehmiller Sex and Psychology Blog https://www.lehmiller.com/
Dr Lehmiller Twitter Account
Dr Lehmiller Instagram Account
Tell Me What You Want Book
We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Join us in Miami for our Hotel Takeover
Head to Naughty In Nawlins with us and join the tribe
Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources.
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.

Dec 29, 2020 • 13min
Introducing Wanderlust Swingers
Swinging Downunder Podcast is taking a (potentially) indefinite hiatus! We have so many changes coming for 2021 and we're excited to finally let the cat out of the bag.
Swinging Downunder Podcast is moving to Europe so we can cover more of the swinging lifestyle experience in Europe and we're announcing our new name, Wanderlust Swingers! It's finally time to hang up the Swinging Downunder bag and move on to new things.
We want to take a moment and thank all of our listeners, sponsors, supporters and friends who have supported us over the past 5 years of our podcasting journey. We're looking forward to bringing you even more content with a new look on a more global swinging lifestyle experience.
We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Join us in Miami for our Hotel Takeover
Head to Naughty In Nawlins with us and join the tribe
Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources.
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.

Dec 23, 2020 • 37min
Shifting Swinger Boundaries
How have your swinger boundaries or swinger rules changed over the years? We delve into our changes from our 5-6 years in the swinging lifestyle and talk about how we've organically changed our swinger boundaries.
We run through some responses we received from our community on social media and share a tale or two from listeners on how their swinging boundary changes led them to exploring more about themselves and their sexuality journey.
We finish up with the 12 Days of 2020 Pandemic gave to us jingle, we hope you enjoy
We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Join us in Miami for our Hotel Takeover
Head to Naughty In Nawlins with us and join the tribe
Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources.
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.

Dec 10, 2020 • 56min
Swinging In The Media
Curious about some of the most commonly searched google terms about swinging, swinging lifestyle, hotwifing, cuckolding and more? We dig into some funny google analytics about what people commonly search about our alternative lifestyle on the internet.
In the second half of this episode we talk about the recent media articles covering the Swinging Lifestyle. Some articles are positive and talk about the shift to virtual parties or how people can support sex positivity, other articles (the viral ones) aren't so friendly towards the swinging lifestyle. We talk about the potential impact to the lifestyle from the public perception.
**note; this is a bonus episode and is a bit of a negative at times, we hope you still find value in our open discussions **
We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources.
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.

Dec 3, 2020 • 51min
Skirt Club Female Sexuality
Ever heard of the Skirt Club? Global Sex Positive events for women who want to explore their sexuality in a safe environment. Today's episode focused on the Skirt Club and starts with an interview with the CEO and founder Genevieve, we talk about consent, global sex positive events, the stigma of running a sex positive business & more.
Genevieve gives her tips on some female led sex positive business's to support and drops a hint on something fun coming up in 2021.
The interview today is followed by some audio sent in from a podcast listener, Mrs RedNReady shares her personal experience visiting a Skirt Club event in NYC. We hope you enjoy this look into female sexuality.
We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Featured in this episode
Genevieve LeJeune Founder and CEO of Skirt Club
Skirt Club Instagram & Twitter
Mrs RedNReady from Twitter
Mentioned in this episode
Dr Holly Richmond
Future of Sex Podcast
Polly Rodriguez owner of Unbound Babes Sex Toys
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Join us in January for Virtual Podcast-A-Palooza
Join us in Miami for our Hotel Takeover
Head to Naughty In Nawlins with us and join the tribe
Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources.
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.

Nov 27, 2020 • 47min
6 Some Swinging Play + an insensitive comment
Some swingers say that the holy grail of swinging is a 4-way connection... what about putting together a 6-Some play session. We talk about how to navigate that, how we transitioned from talking to swinging play and run you through some of our pre thoughts.
How do you get ready for a swinging date or play session? Do you have reservations about the way you look or your ability to flirt and get people engaging with you? We share our thoughts before heading on this date.
Wanna hear about what went on in the play session, listen in to our swinging lifestyle adventures.
We finish the episode by sharing something really insensitive that C said during play that we have previously warned you against... don't do what C did. We work through the issue and discuss it live on air with an apology by C.
We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Join us in January for Virtual Podcast-A-Palooza
Join us in Miami for our Hotel Takeover
Head to Naughty In Nawlins with us and join the tribe
Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources.
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.

Nov 11, 2020 • 52min
Swinging Questions and STi in the lifestyle
We answer your questions about the swinging lifestyle, want to know what we think about balancing the swinging lifestyle? What our swinging spirit animal is or how we tell people what kinds of swingers we are... listen in
We spend a bit of time discussing sexually transmitted infections (STi) in swinging as one of our community members wanted to know more about how to have 'the talk'
The episode is finished by sharing some of the responses we had to a recent question on twitter "what have you explored since you joined the lifestyle"
We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts.
References mentioned in this episode
Get your private STD Check from home discounted by using our STD Check link
WHO Herpes Information
WebMD Herpes Information
CDC Herpes Information
Living with Herpes
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Join us in January for Virtual Podcast-A-Palooza
Join us in Miami for our Hotel Takeover
Head to Naughty In Nawlins with us and join the tribe
Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources.
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.

Oct 23, 2020 • 44min
Swinging Spooktacular
Are you curious what happens at a swinging lifestyle Halloween party? Is Halloween your favorite swinging time of the year? Do you like fireball and dressing up? Have we got an episode for you
We recorded this live with our Patron community (Thank you legends!) and reminisced about our swinging Halloween mishaps over the years and shared some listener experiences as well.
We talk about the 3 golden rules to swinging Halloween outfits (thank you Kelly and Keith), how to make a killer (not literally) Fireball shot and why interactive costumes can get your laid. Join us for some silly fun as we sit at home and social distance the HELL out of this Halloween
We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts.
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Join us in January for Virtual Podcast-A-Palooza
Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources.
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.