
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
A Swinger Podcast by Cate and Darrell, an Aussie couple who navigate their journey from monogamy to the exciting world of non-monogamy. On Wanderlust Swingers, we dive deep into our real-life adventures in the swinging lifestyle, sharing candid experiences about swinging, hotwifing, couple dating, and the broader world of sex positivity.
Whether you’re curious about the lifestyle, an experienced swinger, or somewhere in between, our podcast offers an open and honest look at what it means to embrace consensual non-monogamy.
Formerly known as Swinging Downunder, we continue to explore and celebrate the diverse facets of sexual freedom and empowerment. Tune in to discover the highs, lows, and everything in between as we embark on our journey together.
Latest episodes

Dec 10, 2020 • 56min
Swinging In The Media
Curious about some of the most commonly searched google terms about swinging, swinging lifestyle, hotwifing, cuckolding and more? We dig into some funny google analytics about what people commonly search about our alternative lifestyle on the internet.
In the second half of this episode we talk about the recent media articles covering the Swinging Lifestyle. Some articles are positive and talk about the shift to virtual parties or how people can support sex positivity, other articles (the viral ones) aren't so friendly towards the swinging lifestyle. We talk about the potential impact to the lifestyle from the public perception.
**note; this is a bonus episode and is a bit of a negative at times, we hope you still find value in our open discussions **
We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources.
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.

Dec 3, 2020 • 51min
Skirt Club Female Sexuality
Ever heard of the Skirt Club? Global Sex Positive events for women who want to explore their sexuality in a safe environment. Today's episode focused on the Skirt Club and starts with an interview with the CEO and founder Genevieve, we talk about consent, global sex positive events, the stigma of running a sex positive business & more.
Genevieve gives her tips on some female led sex positive business's to support and drops a hint on something fun coming up in 2021.
The interview today is followed by some audio sent in from a podcast listener, Mrs RedNReady shares her personal experience visiting a Skirt Club event in NYC. We hope you enjoy this look into female sexuality.
We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Featured in this episode
Genevieve LeJeune Founder and CEO of Skirt Club
Skirt Club Instagram & Twitter
Mrs RedNReady from Twitter
Mentioned in this episode
Dr Holly Richmond
Future of Sex Podcast
Polly Rodriguez owner of Unbound Babes Sex Toys
Swinging Lifestyle Events
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Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources.
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.

Nov 27, 2020 • 47min
6 Some Swinging Play + an insensitive comment
Some swingers say that the holy grail of swinging is a 4-way connection... what about putting together a 6-Some play session. We talk about how to navigate that, how we transitioned from talking to swinging play and run you through some of our pre thoughts.
How do you get ready for a swinging date or play session? Do you have reservations about the way you look or your ability to flirt and get people engaging with you? We share our thoughts before heading on this date.
Wanna hear about what went on in the play session, listen in to our swinging lifestyle adventures.
We finish the episode by sharing something really insensitive that C said during play that we have previously warned you against... don't do what C did. We work through the issue and discuss it live on air with an apology by C.
We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Join us in January for Virtual Podcast-A-Palooza
Join us in Miami for our Hotel Takeover
Head to Naughty In Nawlins with us and join the tribe
Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources.
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.

Nov 11, 2020 • 52min
Swinging Questions and STi in the lifestyle
We answer your questions about the swinging lifestyle, want to know what we think about balancing the swinging lifestyle? What our swinging spirit animal is or how we tell people what kinds of swingers we are... listen in
We spend a bit of time discussing sexually transmitted infections (STi) in swinging as one of our community members wanted to know more about how to have 'the talk'
The episode is finished by sharing some of the responses we had to a recent question on twitter "what have you explored since you joined the lifestyle"
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References mentioned in this episode
Get your private STD Check from home discounted by using our STD Check link
WHO Herpes Information
WebMD Herpes Information
CDC Herpes Information
Living with Herpes
Swinging Lifestyle Events
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Head to Naughty In Nawlins with us and join the tribe
Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources.
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.

Oct 23, 2020 • 44min
Swinging Spooktacular
Are you curious what happens at a swinging lifestyle Halloween party? Is Halloween your favorite swinging time of the year? Do you like fireball and dressing up? Have we got an episode for you
We recorded this live with our Patron community (Thank you legends!) and reminisced about our swinging Halloween mishaps over the years and shared some listener experiences as well.
We talk about the 3 golden rules to swinging Halloween outfits (thank you Kelly and Keith), how to make a killer (not literally) Fireball shot and why interactive costumes can get your laid. Join us for some silly fun as we sit at home and social distance the HELL out of this Halloween
We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts.
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Join us in January for Virtual Podcast-A-Palooza
Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources.
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.

Oct 15, 2020 • 50min
XTC Swinging Lifestyle Gangbang
Don't want the hassle of arranging your own swinging lifestyle gangbang? Would rather outsource your gangbang requirements to a 3rd party? You're not alone!
Today's bonus episode is an interview with Enrique from XTC_GBs in Sydney, Australia. Enrique talks to us about how he has been arranging gangbangs for the past 8 years and how he uses his 18 years swinging lifestyle experience to understand what both the men and the women are looking for.
Enrique will give you tips on arranging your own gangbang or what to look out for when you're selecting the men to go in your stable. This episode is a follow up from EP113 with our top tips to arranging a GB and we would love it if you could go check out that episode too.
Featured in this episode
Enrique from XTC_GBs
Catch him on Twitter
Connect with him on RedHotPie Australia
We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts.
Swinging Lifestyle Events
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Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.

Oct 6, 2020 • 54min
The Game Of Lifestyle for Swinging Lifestyle Fun
Curious how to transition from Swinging Lifestyle dates to some sexy fun? Just want to know more about your dates or want to have some fun with your partner? We’ve been a big fan of swinging lifestyle games & on this special episode we play The Game Of Lifestyle for a bit of light-hearted fun.
You’ll learn a thing or two about how we like to engage in the swinging lifestyle, what turns us on or off & what role play we’ve done (or not)
A big thank you to our Patrons for joining us live to create this episode, it was so much fun to play this game
We finish up with some erotica from Darrell when asked the question ‘share a sexual swinging lifestyle fantasy’. There’s a classy alley, some fluid bonding and free hot wings on Wednesdays!
Featured in this episode
The Game Of Lifestyle
We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts.
Swinging Lifestyle Events
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Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.

Sep 26, 2020 • 57min
Slutrepreneur with Rebekka Blue
What is a slutrepreneur? Rebekka Blue will share her journey and how she is a self confessed Slutrepreneur who not only selves weird things on the internet but has 3 successful e-commerce stores.
What does it truly mean to be sex positive and find your own sexual journey? Today’s episode we interview an amazing sex positive CEO called Ana Dee (AKA Rebekka Blue) about her journey from the bubble room at a stripclub to being a self confessed slutrepreneur and e-commerce gangster.
Before we get into the interview we also talk about how COVID is impacting our Swinging Lifestyle and how we protect ourselves from COVID and still catch up for swinging dates.
Featured in this episode
Rebekka Blue
Slutrepreneur Podcast
Alien Outfitters
The Horny Stoner
Babes for Blades
We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts.
Swinging Lifestyle Events
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Subscribe to our Swingers React YouTube Channel
Looking for more information on the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle?
Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources.
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.

Sep 14, 2020 • 59min
How To Arrange A Gangbang
Are you curious how a gangbang in the swinging lifestyle is created? Wanting to gather some tips for arranging a gangbang for your hotwife?
In today's episode we're sharing our 6 tips for arranging a gangbang, we run you through how to discuss the gangbang, setting expectations, vetting and plans for the evening.
Worried about creating a transition to play? We share a story on how D was curating a themed gangbang night which set up how the play would unfold.
In our latest swinging lifestyle podcast episode we share our 6 tips to arranging a GB; here’s a quick look ⠀
Why – Why are you wanting a Gangbang
What – What is it that you want to get out of this, what are your rules, boundaries and desires
Vetting – It’s time to run through our best practice ways to vett people with some hints on companies you can use
Logistics – How, what to plan for, what items are you going to need and why
On the night – what to expect on the night, how to transition to play
Aftercare – some tips on caring for yourself post GB Play ⠀ ⠀
These tips might seem a little over the top for you if you’ve had a GB before, you might be more of a fly by the seat of your pants couple and that’s totally cool! You do you (ya sexy thang), but in this episode we share how to curate a themed event
Mentioned in this episode
XTC Gangbang Sydney
The Playpen East Melbourne
We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts.
Swinging Lifestyle Events
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Subscribe to our Swingers React YouTube Channel
Looking for more information on the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle?
Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources.
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.

Sep 7, 2020 • 56min
Sex Positive Australia and Adult Industry
Do you believe that your city / country is sex positive? In this bonus episode we debate how sex positive Australia really is and then we finish up with an interview with Jett Black who is responsible for promoting and supporting many sex positive adult entertainers.
We talk about growing up and the impact that sex positive (or lack of) resources have on us, our beliefs on why Australia is or isn't a sex positive country and how far away we are from being able to be 'out'.
Jett Black joins the podcast to talk about the adult entertainment industry in Australia, XAwards and Sweet Release Agency as well as his time being a sex worker from a young age and going from the boudoir to the boardroom.
We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts.
Featured in this episode
Jett Black
XAwards Australia
Sweet Release Agency
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Join us in January for Virtual Podcast-A-Palooza
Naughty In Nawlins is now 11-15th November
Subscribe to our Swingers React YouTube Channel
Looking for more information on the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle?
Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources.
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.