Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories

The swinging lifestyle often comes with a certain amount of evolution and shame. In this episode we are joined by Average Swingers Podcast and John and Jackie Melfi of OpenLove101 and Colette Swingers Clubs. We talk about how the swinging lifestyle has changed and adapted over the years, the differences of expectations on swingers clubs, event hosts and public facing lifestyle people. We delve into shame and what impact that has on the lifestyle overall and then we talk about future predictions for the Swinging Lifestyle. This episode has a little bit of everything for this round table discussion at the Melfi residence, coffee in hand and squirrels at the doorstep.  We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder Featured in this episode  Average Swingers Podcast John and Jackie Melfi  OpenLove101 Colette Swingers Clubs Swinging Lifestyle Events Podcast-A-Palooza sign up to the newsletter for future events  Hang out with Cate at the ASN Magazine Hotel Takeover in September Head to Naughty In Nawlins this August Cap D'Agde Spicy Match Takeover August Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. Love, Peace and Respect C&D We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories. If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

We are official vaxxed and waxed and ready to mingle! A swinging unicorn is on the loose in Texas and we talk about a myriad of things in today's episode What is the difference between bisexual and pansexual, our hairdresser brings up the question and ponders if all bisexual people are indeed pansexual.  Do you ever experience a 'coming down' after you've had a sexy fantastic swinging experience? We share comments from listeners and talk about our experiences.  Finally we share details about what we've been up to around Texas over the past few weeks. We are vaxxed and waxed baby!  We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder Mentioned in this episode  SwingFessions Comic Monogamish Marriage Blog Bang Bang Social Club Houston Colette Swingers Club Dallas Lifestyle Unlimited Events Dallas iCandy Parties Swinging Lifestyle Events Podcast-A-Palooza is SOLD OUT for Miami but sign up to the newsletter for future events  Hang out with Cate at the ASN Magazine Hotel Takeover in September Head to Naughty In Nawlins this August Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. Love, Peace and Respect C&D We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories. If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

How to find other swingers? Swingers Dating Sites, Selection Criteria and finding swinging play partners are some common questions asked but... how do these change based on your environment  Do you change your desires, wants and criteria when you're searching for a swinging couple on an online swingers dating site versus a club environment? What if you're just after a one night stand or perhaps looking for a more polyamorous or pants on/off friendship. Are you pickier at a club or online? We discuss this and more during today's episode.  We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder Featured in this episode  Black N Kinky Podcast Casual Swinger Podcast Swinging Lifestyle Events Podcast-A-Palooza is SOLD OUT for Miami but sign up to the newsletter for future events  Hang out with Cate at the ASN Magazine Hotel Takeover in September Head to Naughty In Nawlins this August Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. Love, Peace and Respect C&D We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories. If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

What questions do you have about Swinging? Is Swinging 'normal' for our age bracket? What about joining a session at a Swinger club? In this episode we dig into your swinger questions and answer all our recent voicemails, emails, twitter DM's and more. Join in as we answer these swinger questions with our usual Aussie humor and a little bit of sideways stepping. We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder Swinging Lifestyle Events Join us in Miami this May for our Hotel Takeover  Hang out with Cate at the ASN Magazine Hotel Takeover in September Head to Naughty In Nawlins this August Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. Love, Peace and Respect C&D We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories. If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

There are many ways to approach the swinging lifestyle and one of the playstyles that some couples have is soft swap. Soft Swap Swingers are people too! In this episode we interview a fantastic couple who identify as soft swap swingers as their preferred swinging play style.  We share details about navigating the boundaries conversation, how to share your preferred swinger play style and what being a soft swap swinging couple means to them.  Featured in this episode  Mr and Mrs RedNReady - Twitter  Mentioned in this episode  Monogamish Marriage Blog "My Wife Wants a Girlfriend" Swingers Help "20% of Swingers prefer soft swap" Join in as we explore being a soft swap swinging couple who enjoy pushing their boundaries in their own sexy sensual way.  We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder Swinging Lifestyle Events Join us in Miami for our Hotel Takeover  Head to Naughty In Nawlins with us and join the tribe Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. Love, Peace and Respect C&D We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories. If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Hotwife swinger lets loose in Croatia! In this episode we talk about Swinging and Hotwing in Croatia, arranging a stunt cock for an MFM threesome and more  We share some saucy details about the threesome, we talk about the wasted price on stockings, getting a hotel room, being a hotwife and taking some sexy footage of the evening  This MFM threesome was in a hotel room on a school night! That's a total hotwife move... sign me up for my hotwife podcast badge! We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder Swinging Lifestyle Events Join us in Miami for our Hotel Takeover  Head to Naughty In Nawlins with us and join the tribe Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. Love, Peace and Respect C&D We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories. 

Our recent swinging foursome experience contains some new-ness for our play sessions. We share our recent foursome swinging experience which involved butt plugs!  We run through setting up the swinging date, how to transition from the loungeroom to the bedroom and how the use of VR porn could be next level swinger transitions of 2021 and beyond.  Cate also shares some audio on how future foursome sessions could be more puppy pile focused.  We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder Swinging Lifestyle Events Join us in Miami for our Hotel Takeover  Head to Naughty In Nawlins with us and join the tribe Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. Love, Peace and Respect C&D We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories. 

What is Cuckolding? What is Cuckqueening? Many people incorrectly assume that this fetish involves only humiliation. We interview Dr Justin Lehmiller a PHD and Social Psychologist about Cuckolding and the psychology behind this fetish and desire of being cucked.  In the second half of this podcast we talk about the taboo behind using sex toys and using sex toys as a male.  Links for Dr Lehmiller Dr. Justin Lehmiller Sex and Psychology Blog https://www.lehmiller.com/  Dr Lehmiller Twitter Account Dr Lehmiller Instagram Account Tell Me What You Want Book We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder Swinging Lifestyle Events Join us in Miami for our Hotel Takeover  Head to Naughty In Nawlins with us and join the tribe Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. Love, Peace and Respect C&D We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories. 

Swinging Downunder Podcast is taking a (potentially) indefinite hiatus! We have so many changes coming for 2021 and we're excited to finally let the cat out of the bag. Swinging Downunder Podcast is moving to Europe so we can cover more of the swinging lifestyle experience in Europe and we're announcing our new name, Wanderlust Swingers! It's finally time to hang up the Swinging Downunder bag and move on to new things.  We want to take a moment and thank all of our listeners, sponsors, supporters and friends who have supported us over the past 5 years of our podcasting journey. We're looking forward to bringing you even more content with a new look on a more global swinging lifestyle experience.  We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder Swinging Lifestyle Events Join us in Miami for our Hotel Takeover  Head to Naughty In Nawlins with us and join the tribe Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. Love, Peace and Respect C&D We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.

How have your swinger boundaries or swinger rules changed over the years? We delve into our changes from our 5-6 years in the swinging lifestyle and talk about how we've organically changed our swinger boundaries. We run through some responses we received from our community on social media and share a tale or two from listeners on how their swinging boundary changes led them to exploring more about themselves and their sexuality journey.  We finish up with the 12 Days of 2020 Pandemic gave to us jingle, we hope you enjoy  We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder Swinging Lifestyle Events Join us in Miami for our Hotel Takeover  Head to Naughty In Nawlins with us and join the tribe Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. Love, Peace and Respect C&D We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.