

Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
Cate and Darrell
A Swinger Podcast by Cate and Darrell, an Aussie couple who navigate their journey from monogamy to the exciting world of non-monogamy. On Wanderlust Swingers, we dive deep into our real-life adventures in the swinging lifestyle, sharing candid experiences about swinging, hotwifing, couple dating, and the broader world of sex positivity.
Whether you’re curious about the lifestyle, an experienced swinger, or somewhere in between, our podcast offers an open and honest look at what it means to embrace consensual non-monogamy.
Formerly known as Swinging Downunder, we continue to explore and celebrate the diverse facets of sexual freedom and empowerment. Tune in to discover the highs, lows, and everything in between as we embark on our journey together.
Whether you’re curious about the lifestyle, an experienced swinger, or somewhere in between, our podcast offers an open and honest look at what it means to embrace consensual non-monogamy.
Formerly known as Swinging Downunder, we continue to explore and celebrate the diverse facets of sexual freedom and empowerment. Tune in to discover the highs, lows, and everything in between as we embark on our journey together.
Episodes
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Aug 3, 2021 • 46min
Anaconda Swingers Club Review
Curious what it's like in a Swingers Club? We give a full run down on our time at a Swingers Club here in Croatia called Anaconda Swingers Club,
First we hit you with a cultural tid bit on nudism in Rovinj, a few updates to our swinging lifestyle and then we get into the mix talking about this well laid out swingers club.
Anaconda Swingers Club
This swingers club operates seasonally and we attended a big takeover event at the club with more than 500 people. We run you through what the club looks like and sex fest 2021.
You can find out matching blog and photos from this club on our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swinging-in-croatia/
We're also going to publish a YouTube video showing you what the club looks like, check out our YouTube channel here https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCa9EqZbr3tMyLBi6m0DYHTA
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Podcast-A-Palooza Join us in Dallas November 5-8th 2021 https://podcast-a-palooza.com/
Head to Naughty In Nawlins https://www.swingingdownunder.com/naughty/
Come with us to Cap D'Agde Nudist Village with Spicy Match Dating Site https://www.swingingdownunder.com/cap-dagde/
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Jul 23, 2021 • 1h 4min
MFM Threesome, Double Penetration and Hotwife Compersion
MFM Threesome, Double Penetration and Hotwife Compersion
This episode has a little bit of everything! We catch up with our single bull for a hotwife date and double penetration is on the cards but first we talk about what compersion means to us in the hotwife lifestyle.
Compersion is supposed to be the opposite of jealousy and a feeling of joy when you see your partner happy. We talk about how there might be a slight imbalance as we're getting ready for our hotwife date.
Double Penetration
Curious how we prepare for double penetration and what happened during our play session? We run through all the details and share why C felt like a sexual goddess after being spoiled by a listener. We call it virtual hotwife girlfriend experience.
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Podcast-A-Palooza Join us in Dallas November 5-8th 2021 https://podcast-a-palooza.com/
Head to Naughty In Nawlins this August https://www.swingingdownunder.com/naughty/
Come with us to Cap D'Agde Nudist Village with Spicy Match Dating Site https://www.swingingdownunder.com/cap-dagde/
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Jul 12, 2021 • 49min
Swingers Party in a Castle
We went to a Swingers Party inside of a Castle right here in Croatia!
In this swingers podcast episode we talk about what it's like at this type of swingers party, we run you through this 2 night event with it's ups and downs.
There were some swinger fails experienced including some language barriers and miscommunication between us and another couple. We missed an opportunity for swingers play boooo.
Cate pauses and discusses how some swingers events or clubs have a dress down requirement at a certain time and discusses how the community responded to this.
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Podcast-A-Palooza Join us in Dallas November 5-8th 2021 https://podcast-a-palooza.com/
Head to Naughty In Nawlins this August https://www.swingingdownunder.com/naughty/
Come with us to Cap D'Agde Nudist Village with Spicy Match Dating Site https://www.swingingdownunder.com/cap-dagde/
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Jun 25, 2021 • 49min
The Worst (and Best) moments of Podcast A Palooza 2021
What is Podcast-A-Palooza? It's a 3 night full swinging lifestyle hotel takeover touring around various cities in the USA. We break down the top 8 WORST and BEST things about attending Podcast-A-Palooza in Miami May 2021.
Curious what went wrong and what went right? Attending and running a swinging hotel takeover event is tough work & we wanted to lift the skirt, spill the tea on what it's like at a Podcast-A-Palooza events.
Wanna join us at a Podcast-A-Palooza event? Sign up to the newsletter, new events are about to be announced https://podcast-a-palooza.com/newsletter/
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Mentioned in this episode
WeGottaThing
Casual Swinger
Swinging Outside The Lines
Black N Kinky Lifestyle
2 Hot Wives
Average Swingers
Sapphic Swingers
Torrid Souls
Monogamish Marriage Blog
Expansive Connection Relationship Coaching
Livin' The Suite Life
Naughty Gym
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Podcast-A-Palooza sign up to the newsletter https://podcast-a-palooza.com/newsletter/
Head to Naughty In Nawlins this August https://www.swingingdownunder.com/naughty/
Come with us to Cap D'Agde Nudist Village with Spicy Match Dating Site https://www.swingingdownunder.com/cap-dagde/
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Jun 17, 2021 • 41min
iCandy Parties Review and Houston Bang Bang Swingers Meet
This episode in Houston we head to an iCandy Party to review what the iCandy Parties are all about. We head to the Alien Invasion iCandy Party and talk about our own Houston meet and greet.
Our meet and greet was held at Bang Bang Social Club in Houston, with about 40 couples, Cate talks about hosting on her own with a drunken J from Average Swingers Podcast as well as a very lovely Angie.
Saturday we head over to the alien invasion at Colette Houston Swingers Club and to the decked out iCandy Parties event. Cate's going solo in this lone star state episode, join in and hear what's up.
We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Mentioned in this episode
iCandy Parties
Colette Swingers Club Houston
Bang Bang Social Club
Houston Hotwife Photo
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Podcast-A-Palooza sign up to the newsletter for future events
Hang out with Cate at the ASN Magazine Hotel Takeover in September
Head to Naughty In Nawlins this August
Cap D'Agde Spicy Match Takeover August
Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources.
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

May 28, 2021 • 55min
Evolution, Shame and Future Swinging Lifestyle Predictions
The swinging lifestyle often comes with a certain amount of evolution and shame. In this episode we are joined by Average Swingers Podcast and John and Jackie Melfi of OpenLove101 and Colette Swingers Clubs.
We talk about how the swinging lifestyle has changed and adapted over the years, the differences of expectations on swingers clubs, event hosts and public facing lifestyle people. We delve into shame and what impact that has on the lifestyle overall and then we talk about future predictions for the Swinging Lifestyle.
This episode has a little bit of everything for this round table discussion at the Melfi residence, coffee in hand and squirrels at the doorstep.
We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Featured in this episode
Average Swingers Podcast
John and Jackie Melfi
OpenLove101
Colette Swingers Clubs
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Podcast-A-Palooza sign up to the newsletter for future events
Hang out with Cate at the ASN Magazine Hotel Takeover in September
Head to Naughty In Nawlins this August
Cap D'Agde Spicy Match Takeover August
Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources.
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

May 14, 2021 • 53min
Vaxxed and Waxed in Dallas
We are official vaxxed and waxed and ready to mingle! A swinging unicorn is on the loose in Texas and we talk about a myriad of things in today's episode
What is the difference between bisexual and pansexual, our hairdresser brings up the question and ponders if all bisexual people are indeed pansexual.
Do you ever experience a 'coming down' after you've had a sexy fantastic swinging experience? We share comments from listeners and talk about our experiences.
Finally we share details about what we've been up to around Texas over the past few weeks. We are vaxxed and waxed baby!
We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Mentioned in this episode
SwingFessions Comic
Monogamish Marriage Blog
Bang Bang Social Club Houston
Colette Swingers Club Dallas
Lifestyle Unlimited Events Dallas
iCandy Parties
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Podcast-A-Palooza is SOLD OUT for Miami but sign up to the newsletter for future events
Hang out with Cate at the ASN Magazine Hotel Takeover in September
Head to Naughty In Nawlins this August
Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources.
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Apr 21, 2021 • 37min
Swingers Selection Criteria
How to find other swingers? Swingers Dating Sites, Selection Criteria and finding swinging play partners are some common questions asked but... how do these change based on your environment
Do you change your desires, wants and criteria when you're searching for a swinging couple on an online swingers dating site versus a club environment? What if you're just after a one night stand or perhaps looking for a more polyamorous or pants on/off friendship.
Are you pickier at a club or online? We discuss this and more during today's episode.
We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Featured in this episode
Black N Kinky Podcast
Casual Swinger Podcast
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Podcast-A-Palooza is SOLD OUT for Miami but sign up to the newsletter for future events
Hang out with Cate at the ASN Magazine Hotel Takeover in September
Head to Naughty In Nawlins this August
Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources.
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Apr 7, 2021 • 51min
Swinger Questions - What do you wanna know about Swinging
What questions do you have about Swinging? Is Swinging 'normal' for our age bracket? What about joining a session at a Swinger club?
In this episode we dig into your swinger questions and answer all our recent voicemails, emails, twitter DM's and more. Join in as we answer these swinger questions with our usual Aussie humor and a little bit of sideways stepping.
We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Join us in Miami this May for our Hotel Takeover
Hang out with Cate at the ASN Magazine Hotel Takeover in September
Head to Naughty In Nawlins this August
Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources.
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Mar 2, 2021 • 48min
Soft Swap Swinging Lifestyle
There are many ways to approach the swinging lifestyle and one of the playstyles that some couples have is soft swap. Soft Swap Swingers are people too! In this episode we interview a fantastic couple who identify as soft swap swingers as their preferred swinging play style.
We share details about navigating the boundaries conversation, how to share your preferred swinger play style and what being a soft swap swinging couple means to them.
Featured in this episode
Mr and Mrs RedNReady - Twitter
Mentioned in this episode
Monogamish Marriage Blog "My Wife Wants a Girlfriend"
Swingers Help "20% of Swingers prefer soft swap"
Join in as we explore being a soft swap swinging couple who enjoy pushing their boundaries in their own sexy sensual way.
We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Join us in Miami for our Hotel Takeover
Head to Naughty In Nawlins with us and join the tribe
Head to our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources.
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.