

Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
Cate and Darrell
A Swinger Podcast by Cate and Darrell, an Aussie couple who navigate their journey from monogamy to the exciting world of non-monogamy. On Wanderlust Swingers, we dive deep into our real-life adventures in the swinging lifestyle, sharing candid experiences about swinging, hotwifing, couple dating, and the broader world of sex positivity.
Whether you’re curious about the lifestyle, an experienced swinger, or somewhere in between, our podcast offers an open and honest look at what it means to embrace consensual non-monogamy.
Formerly known as Swinging Downunder, we continue to explore and celebrate the diverse facets of sexual freedom and empowerment. Tune in to discover the highs, lows, and everything in between as we embark on our journey together.
Whether you’re curious about the lifestyle, an experienced swinger, or somewhere in between, our podcast offers an open and honest look at what it means to embrace consensual non-monogamy.
Formerly known as Swinging Downunder, we continue to explore and celebrate the diverse facets of sexual freedom and empowerment. Tune in to discover the highs, lows, and everything in between as we embark on our journey together.
Episodes
Mentioned books

Jul 13, 2022 • 52min
Fun4Two Swingers Club + Annoying Swingers
We visit Fun4Two, a local swingers club in the Netherlands.
Fun4Two Swingers Club has been voted the best swingers club in the Netherlands and we thought it was time to check out clubs in our own back yard.
Join us as we talk about our visit to Fun4Two Swingers Club, we share the details of what we thought, an annoying swinger couple ruining our night and our play session together.
Fun4Two Swingers Club is located near Rotterdam in the Netherlands.
Mentioned in this episode
Fun4Two Netherlands https://www.fun4two.nl/
Other Links
Cate’s new TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@wanderlustswingers
Wanderlust Swingers Instagram
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Jun 16, 2022 • 1h 13min
Podcast-A-Palooza PCAP2022 Best and Worst Moments
Another Podcast-A-Palooza Swingers Hotel Takeover is complete!
Curious what a PCAP event looks like or what to expect at a swingers hotel takeover? In this episode Cate runs through her 7 best and worst moments of PCAP2022 in sunny Palm Springs.
Cate is joined by 13 PCAP2022 attendees who share their thoughts, journey and time at PCAP2022 and what their swingers hotel takeover experience was like.
PCAP2022 Hosts
Casual Swinger Podcast
bed hoppers Podcast
The Monogamish Marriage Podcast + Blog
2 Hot Wives Podcast
4OURPLAY Podcast
Swinger University Podcast
Life Of Spice
Black N Kinky Lifestyle Podcast
Average Swingers Podcast
PCAP2022 Sponsor #open dating app
Connect with other nonmonogamous couples and singles on #open
Other Links
Cate’s new TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@wanderlustswingers
Wanderlust Swingers Instagram
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Head to Naughty In Nawlins 2022 https://www.swingingdownunder.com/naughty/
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

May 16, 2022 • 47min
Le Boudoir London Swingers Club
We visit London and attend Le Boudoir Swingers Club in London City.
We're going to share some sexy and fun times with you and talk about how we've almost gone back to Newbie Swinger Rookie status in the lifestyle.
Incorrect clothing, broken lube bottles and condoms, flirting skills completely gone and fucking in public... come join in the fun as we explore the Le Boudoir Swingers Club in London City.
Links Mentioned
YouTube Walkthrough Le Boudoir Swingers Club London
Le Boudoir Swingers Club Website
Other Links
Cate’s new TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@wanderlustswingers
Wanderlust Swingers Instagram
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Podcast-A-Palooza Join us next year in June 2022 for our biggest event yet https://podcast-a-palooza.com/
Head to Naughty In Nawlins 2022 https://www.swingingdownunder.com/naughty/
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Mar 28, 2022 • 1h 2min
Considering Polyamory with Leveled Up Love
Are you considering Polyamory or are you currently in a Polyamorous relationship and want to learn tools on dealing with baggage, trauma and how to navigate the relationship style?
In today’s episode we conduct 2 interviews, the first with Shai and Lea from Leveled Up Love on their relationship style and how they have navigated away from monogamy and to Polyamory.
The 2nd interview is with Dr Jay on the psychological impacts that altering your relationship style has and how we can overcome some boundaries.
Polyamorous Links
https://www.leveleduplove.com/
https://go.leveleduplove.com/experience/retreat
Lea on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/lea.aella/
Shai on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/shai_the_poly_guy/
Other Links
Cate’s new TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@wanderlustswingers
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Podcast-A-Palooza Join us next year in June 2022 for our biggest event yet https://podcast-a-palooza.com/
Head to Naughty In Nawlins 2022 https://www.swingingdownunder.com/naughty/
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Mar 23, 2022 • 37min
Sex Worker Legal Issues with Adult Biz Law
Today's episode is all about sex workers and legal issues (aka when things go wrong)
How does the Sex Worker and Adult Entertainment industry seek legal support for issues surrounding their work?
With the increasing number of people joining the online sex worker community and more nonmonogamous couples and singles setting up profiles we thought it was time to create some bonus content that might be useful to you or a friend.
We've had personal friends be outed, children at school be bullied and more since they joined the online sex worker community. Join me in today's bonus episode as I interview Michael, the owner of Adult Biz Law, a boutique firm specializing in supporting sex workers and the adult entertainment industry,
Adult Biz Law
We talk about the requirements of setting up your sex worker business for success, what kinds of, legal considerations you should have, forms and how to handle when things don't go as planned.
For more information on Michael and the team at Adult Biz Law, check out their website https://adultbizlaw.com/
You can request a copy of the model release forms + more online here https://adultbizlaw.com/2694-2/
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Podcast-A-Palooza Join us next year in June 2022 for our biggest event yet https://podcast-a-palooza.com/
Head to Naughty In Nawlins 2022 https://www.swingingdownunder.com/naughty/
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Mar 18, 2022 • 30min
Sex Worker Mental Health with Pineapple Support
Today's episode is all about sex workers and mental health.
How does the Sex Worker and Adult Entertainment industry seek mental health support?
With the increasing number of people joining the online sex worker community and more nonmonogamous couples and singles setting up profiles we thought it was time to create some bonus content that might be useful to you or a friend.
We've had personal friends be outed, children at school be bullied and more since they joined the online sex worker community. Join me in today's bonus episode as I interview the founder of Pineapple Support, a not for profit organization dedicated to providing sex workers with accessible and judgement free mental health support
Pineapple Support
You can find Pineapple Support and the many services they offer by checking out their website https://pineapplesupport.org/
Find them on Twitter https://twitter.com/pineappleysw
And Instagram http://instagram.com/pineappleysw
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Podcast-A-Palooza Join us next year in June 2022 for our biggest event yet https://podcast-a-palooza.com/
Head to Naughty In Nawlins 2022 https://www.swingingdownunder.com/naughty/
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Mar 14, 2022 • 38min
Swinger Questions Quickie Vol 2
Curious questions about Swingers? Want to know more about being a Swinger and the Swinging Lifestyle?
In today's episode we do a Swinger Question Q&A Quickie, welcome to Volume 2 as we intend to do these at least monthly on our swinger podcast. Feel free to DM or email us a question and we will answer it for you in a future episode.
Swinger Questions
Here are the questions we answer on today's Swinger Questions Quickie Volume 2 episode.
Swinger Hotel Takeovers, what room type?
How much is too much alcohol?
My beard smells like pussy
I'll be more attracted to you when you lose weight
Slut shamed for kissing a girl, am I the asshole?
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Podcast-A-Palooza Join us next year in June 2022 for our biggest event yet https://podcast-a-palooza.com/
Head to Naughty In Nawlins 2022 https://www.swingingdownunder.com/naughty/
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Feb 24, 2022 • 55min
How to Host a Sex Party
Have you ever considered hosting a sex party?
Hosting a Sex Party
A lot of effort and thought goes into hosting a sex party, the location, the right mix of people, what theme to have, drinks / food / music and more.
In this episode we use the Swingers Help Wicked Guide to Hosting Sex Parties as our base, we explore the chapters in the guide and talk through how we would approach hosting a sex party or swingers house party.
We share your thoughts on what the most important thing is about sex parties (spoiler, it's the people) and then we share a quick story on a swingers house party where we stopped play and left.
Links and Resources used in this episode
The Wicked Guide to Hosting Sex Parties https://swingershelp.com/wicked-guide-to-hosting-sex-parties/
Find Swingers Help on Twitter https://twitter.com/swingershelp
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Podcast-A-Palooza Join us next year in June 2022 for our biggest event yet https://podcast-a-palooza.com/
Head to Naughty In Nawlins 2022 https://www.swingingdownunder.com/naughty/
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Feb 14, 2022 • 49min
Swinging In Nashville
Wanna know more about Swinging in Nashville?
Swinging In Nashville
Cate recently took a trip to Palm Springs and Nashville in a mix of business and pleasure. During the Nashville trip Cate visited Red Room Swingers Club Nashville (previously The Theater Group), this is the newest lifestyle / swingers club in Nashville.
In this episode Cate shares some news about where they are moving to next, what happened during her trip, a club review of Red Room Swingers Club Nashville and some litrotica all about female glory holes.
Links and Resources used in this episode
Red Room Swingers Club Nashville https://www.redroomnashville.com/
Andi from Double Date Nation https://doubledatenation.com/
Check out the Female Glory Hole story from Litrotica here https://www.literotica.com/s/female-glory-hole
Cate's TikTok Account https://www.tiktok.com/@swingingdownunder
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Podcast-A-Palooza Join us next year in June 2022 for our biggest event yet https://podcast-a-palooza.com/
Head to Naughty In Nawlins 2022 https://www.swingingdownunder.com/naughty/
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Jan 28, 2022 • 57min
We Broke Our #1 Swinging Rule
Have you ever broken a rule in the Swinging Lifestyle? We did and today we share all about it.
Swinging Rules
The lifestyle is full of rules & boundaries, we put them there more often than not to safeguard our relationship but what happens when you break a rule? Today we’re talking about breaking our #1 swinging rule, we’re going to share the ups and downs, the emotional discussion afterwards and what it means for us moving forward.
We share some exclusive patreon content that we recorded within days after the rule was broken.
Has your partner broken a rule?
We also get Catherine from Expansive Connection Coaching to share some insight into how to move past a rule. Some of the triggers we might have and some support on how to work through the emotions after you or your spouse has broken the rule. Check out Catherine and the entire team at Expansive Connection here https://www.expansiveconnection.com/cnm
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Podcast-A-Palooza Join us next year in June 2022 for our biggest event yet https://podcast-a-palooza.com/
Head to Naughty In Nawlins 2022 https://www.swingingdownunder.com/naughty/
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.