

Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
Cate and Darrell
A Swinger Podcast by Cate and Darrell, an Aussie couple who navigate their journey from monogamy to the exciting world of non-monogamy. On Wanderlust Swingers, we dive deep into our real-life adventures in the swinging lifestyle, sharing candid experiences about swinging, hotwifing, couple dating, and the broader world of sex positivity.
Whether you’re curious about the lifestyle, an experienced swinger, or somewhere in between, our podcast offers an open and honest look at what it means to embrace consensual non-monogamy.
Formerly known as Swinging Downunder, we continue to explore and celebrate the diverse facets of sexual freedom and empowerment. Tune in to discover the highs, lows, and everything in between as we embark on our journey together.
Whether you’re curious about the lifestyle, an experienced swinger, or somewhere in between, our podcast offers an open and honest look at what it means to embrace consensual non-monogamy.
Formerly known as Swinging Downunder, we continue to explore and celebrate the diverse facets of sexual freedom and empowerment. Tune in to discover the highs, lows, and everything in between as we embark on our journey together.
Episodes
Mentioned books

Dec 13, 2022 • 36min
SwingTok - Swinging In The Media
Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
The Swingers Lifestyle is often portrayed poorly in mainstream media and SwingTok can often be used as clickbait. After a recent SwingTok TikTok video went viral we received the attention of a number of news outlets around Europe and in the UK. This bonus episode is a behind the scenes recording of the interview with a UK journalist.
SwingTok
Is a term used by content creators on TikTok who are in the Swingers Lifestyle, 4 years ago when I started my first account we used #SwingerTok (with 412 million views) but that has since adapted to shortened #SwingTok (with a whopping 3.2 billion views)
This is VOL 3 of Swinging In The Media as we’ve recently been interviewed a number of times but this time is all about SwingTok and the impact it might have (positive or negative)
Get behind the scenes and listen in as we talk about the swinging lifestyle, SwingTok and do our best to portray it positivley and accurately. It’s not all rainbows and lollipops being a swinger after all.
Links & Swingers Events
RED Hot Party, Luton, UK February 25
Libertine Events Fantasy Portland, May 19-22
Cap D'Agde En Sicile, Italy September 13-17
Get yourself STi Tested and ED Medication at Shameless Care, use code Libretine for $30 off
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Nov 15, 2022 • 54min
Hedonism Resort Review
Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
Ever been curious what Hedonism Resort is like? What a full review of Hedonism Swingers Resort?
We ventured to Hedonism in October for the 1st time and as requested on twitter, we do a full run down of what to expect, what the facilities were like, what some common misconceptions are, how to make the most out of your stay and why going with a group is critical in our opinion.
Next episode we will talk about our time and experience on site, this episode is purely a run down and review of Hedonism Resort in Jamaica.
Links
Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism Resort
Cate’s new TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@wanderlustswingers
Wanderlust Swingers Instagram
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Nov 5, 2022 • 1h 13min
Foursome BDSM Swingers + Le Club L Montreal Review
Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
We share our recent journey to Ottawa and Montreal in Canada and boy o boy was it well worth the trip away. We share our BDSM story in an Airbnb in Montreal and our visit to a fabulously sexy swingers club called Le Club L in Montreal.
We start off with a journey to the Honeyspoon residence and a meeting of BED (plural for swingers we've found out) at a restaurant. Honeyspoon invited us to meet their local swinger friends in Ottawa and we were so humbled. We spend a night eating the elephant in the room and talking about playtime before heading to Montreal.
In Montreal we break out the flogger and have some BDSM fun with Mrs Honeyspoon and sight deprivation before heading to the club for even more fun, acting like gangsters with our French champagne and heading upstairs to the playrooms for even more Foursome fun.
Links
Le Club L Swingers Club Montreal
Honeyspoon on Twitter
Cate’s new TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@wanderlustswingers
Wanderlust Swingers Instagram
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Oct 19, 2022 • 53min
Swinging Lifestyle In The Media Interview
Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
The Swinging Lifestyle is often portrayed poorly in mainstream media. After a recent TikTok video went viral we received the attention of a number of news outlets around Europe and in the UK. This bonus episode is a behind the scenes recording of the interview with a UK journalist.
Get behind the scenes and listen in as we talk about the swinging lifestyle and do our best to portray it positivley and accurately. It's not all rainbows and lollipops being a swinger after all.
Read the link below to the article published in the New York Post "Globe Trotting Swingers" and for a little extra spice, read the negative comments left by the public.
Other Links
New York Post Article https://nypost.com/2022/10/12/globe-trotting-swingers-share-where-they-feel-most-liberated/
Cate’s new TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@wanderlustswingers
Wanderlust Swingers Instagram
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Oct 3, 2022 • 46min
A Night At The Glitz, Hedonism Resort Expectations + More
Cate goes solo again for this episode and chats about the recent London Swingers Club experience at Le Boudoir and hosting A Night At The Glitz takeover.
If you've been curious on some ups and downs of hosting an event, what happened at A Night At The Glitz, some lessons learned and more... listen in.
Afterwards, I get into what some of my expectations of our upcoming visit to Hedonism Resort are, recent dates we've been on and why you shouldn't say NO to some lifestyle experiences.
I finish up on some swinger questions that I've recently received.
Other Links
Cate’s new TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@wanderlustswingers
Wanderlust Swingers Instagram
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Sep 28, 2022 • 33min
Amsterdam Swingers Club Fata Morgana Review
Amsterdam Swingers Club Fata Morgana
Cate comes along solo for this episode and reviews the Amsterdam Swingers Club Fata Morgana, Cate also shares a cautionary tale of how she broke the night and play was not happening.
If you're keen to visit a swingers club in Amsterdam, we highly recommend Fata Morgana, it is so far the sexiest playrooms we've seen! Yes, we said it, the sexiest playrooms we've seen around the world (so far).
Head here to check out Fata Morgana
Other Links
Cate’s new TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@wanderlustswingers
Wanderlust Swingers Instagram
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Aug 22, 2022 • 53min
Swinger Questions part 2 with bed hoppers Podcast
All your swinger questions answered with the bed hoppers podcast. This is part 2 in the series and if you wanna wrap your ears around part 1, head on over to the bed hoppers podcast (link below).
We dig into your swinger questions that you want answered and cover everything from jealousy, long distance swinger friends, agressive flirting and how to store your magic wand (aka vibrators) when you're visiting a swingers club.
Big thumbs up and thanks to the bed hoppers podcast for joining us, LIVE in our studio (aka our loungeroom floor) right here in the Netherlands for this collaboration.
Swinger Questions we discuss in this episode
Have you ever had to step back from the swingers lifestyle?
How do you deal with the pace of the lifestyle, are you and your partner running the same pace?
What kinds of cultural differences have we experienced?
How do we manage LS relationships from a distance?
Do you carry your swingers club sex toy bag with you or pop it in a locker?
Featured in this episode
bed hoppers podcast website https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/
bed hoppers podcast on apple
bed hoppers podcast instagram
bed hoppers podcast twitter
Other Links
Cate’s new TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@wanderlustswingers
Wanderlust Swingers Instagram
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Aug 15, 2022 • 55min
Swingers Foursome and Erotic Poetry
What a night, O what a night, a swingers foursome for the books.
We spent the night with swinger friends from the USA whilst they transited through Amsterdam. We grabbed a hotel room, caught up and had a lot of swingers foursome fun.
Before we get into the fun though, we get you all warmed up with some erotic poetry from the one and only Pussy Preacher Duchess Cashmere (links below).
We share all the foursome details, what went down in the hotel room including some face sitting, double blowjobs and more. We hope you enjoy!
Featured in this episode
Duchess Cashmere from The Cashmere Room Erotic Poetry
Duchess Cashmere on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/duchess_cashmere
Duchess Cashmere on Twitter https://twitter.com/duchesscashmere
Other Links
Cate’s new TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@wanderlustswingers
Wanderlust Swingers Instagram
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Aug 8, 2022 • 59min
Swingers Lifestyle Confidence with Expansive Connection
Catherine, a psychology expert, discusses confidence in the swingers lifestyle. They cover acknowledging and boosting confidence, impacts on partners, and personal stories. Insights on overcoming body image challenges, self-confidence at clubs, and upcoming lifestyle events. Emphasizing genuine compliments, gratitude, and accessible resources for confidence building in non-monogamous relationships.

Jul 20, 2022 • 49min
Swinger Neediness, Q&A & Myths about Swinger Podcasts with Casual Swinger Podcast
Welcome to a mash up episode featuring Casual Swinger Podcast
We recorded this live from my bed in NOLA, get ready to pour a drink and listen to the ramblings of 3 friends talking about all things swinging lifestyle.
Our first stop is a follow on from the recent episode about affirmation that Casual Swinger Podcast posted, I put them on the hot seat and ask about when affirmation requirements become swinger neediness.
We than take a left turn down Swinger Q&A lane and answer some recent questions I've had about the lifestyle.
Our final stop on this episode are the common myths about swinger podcasts, which ones make us laugh, sad and which ones downright piss us off. Thanks for listening to the Wanderlust Swinger Podcast
Featured in this episode
Mickey and Mallory Casual Swinger Podcast https://casualswinger.com/
Other Links
Casual Toys, use code WANDERLUST to score 15% off https://www.casualtoys.com/
Affirmation episode of Casual Swinger Podcast listen here
Cate’s new TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@wanderlustswingers
Wanderlust Swingers Instagram
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.