
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
A Swinger Podcast by Cate and Darrell, an Aussie couple who navigate their journey from monogamy to the exciting world of non-monogamy. On Wanderlust Swingers, we dive deep into our real-life adventures in the swinging lifestyle, sharing candid experiences about swinging, hotwifing, couple dating, and the broader world of sex positivity.
Whether you’re curious about the lifestyle, an experienced swinger, or somewhere in between, our podcast offers an open and honest look at what it means to embrace consensual non-monogamy.
Formerly known as Swinging Downunder, we continue to explore and celebrate the diverse facets of sexual freedom and empowerment. Tune in to discover the highs, lows, and everything in between as we embark on our journey together.
Latest episodes

Sep 28, 2022 • 33min
Amsterdam Swingers Club Fata Morgana Review
Amsterdam Swingers Club Fata Morgana
Cate comes along solo for this episode and reviews the Amsterdam Swingers Club Fata Morgana, Cate also shares a cautionary tale of how she broke the night and play was not happening.
If you're keen to visit a swingers club in Amsterdam, we highly recommend Fata Morgana, it is so far the sexiest playrooms we've seen! Yes, we said it, the sexiest playrooms we've seen around the world (so far).
Head here to check out Fata Morgana
Other Links
Cate’s new TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@wanderlustswingers
Wanderlust Swingers Instagram
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Aug 22, 2022 • 53min
Swinger Questions part 2 with bed hoppers Podcast
All your swinger questions answered with the bed hoppers podcast. This is part 2 in the series and if you wanna wrap your ears around part 1, head on over to the bed hoppers podcast (link below).
We dig into your swinger questions that you want answered and cover everything from jealousy, long distance swinger friends, agressive flirting and how to store your magic wand (aka vibrators) when you're visiting a swingers club.
Big thumbs up and thanks to the bed hoppers podcast for joining us, LIVE in our studio (aka our loungeroom floor) right here in the Netherlands for this collaboration.
Swinger Questions we discuss in this episode
Have you ever had to step back from the swingers lifestyle?
How do you deal with the pace of the lifestyle, are you and your partner running the same pace?
What kinds of cultural differences have we experienced?
How do we manage LS relationships from a distance?
Do you carry your swingers club sex toy bag with you or pop it in a locker?
Featured in this episode
bed hoppers podcast website https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/
bed hoppers podcast on apple
bed hoppers podcast instagram
bed hoppers podcast twitter
Other Links
Cate’s new TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@wanderlustswingers
Wanderlust Swingers Instagram
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Aug 15, 2022 • 55min
Swingers Foursome and Erotic Poetry
What a night, O what a night, a swingers foursome for the books.
We spent the night with swinger friends from the USA whilst they transited through Amsterdam. We grabbed a hotel room, caught up and had a lot of swingers foursome fun.
Before we get into the fun though, we get you all warmed up with some erotic poetry from the one and only Pussy Preacher Duchess Cashmere (links below).
We share all the foursome details, what went down in the hotel room including some face sitting, double blowjobs and more. We hope you enjoy!
Featured in this episode
Duchess Cashmere from The Cashmere Room Erotic Poetry
Duchess Cashmere on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/duchess_cashmere
Duchess Cashmere on Twitter https://twitter.com/duchesscashmere
Other Links
Cate’s new TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@wanderlustswingers
Wanderlust Swingers Instagram
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Aug 8, 2022 • 59min
Swingers Lifestyle Confidence with Expansive Connection
Catherine, a psychology expert, discusses confidence in the swingers lifestyle. They cover acknowledging and boosting confidence, impacts on partners, and personal stories. Insights on overcoming body image challenges, self-confidence at clubs, and upcoming lifestyle events. Emphasizing genuine compliments, gratitude, and accessible resources for confidence building in non-monogamous relationships.

Jul 20, 2022 • 49min
Swinger Neediness, Q&A & Myths about Swinger Podcasts with Casual Swinger Podcast
Welcome to a mash up episode featuring Casual Swinger Podcast
We recorded this live from my bed in NOLA, get ready to pour a drink and listen to the ramblings of 3 friends talking about all things swinging lifestyle.
Our first stop is a follow on from the recent episode about affirmation that Casual Swinger Podcast posted, I put them on the hot seat and ask about when affirmation requirements become swinger neediness.
We than take a left turn down Swinger Q&A lane and answer some recent questions I've had about the lifestyle.
Our final stop on this episode are the common myths about swinger podcasts, which ones make us laugh, sad and which ones downright piss us off. Thanks for listening to the Wanderlust Swinger Podcast
Featured in this episode
Mickey and Mallory Casual Swinger Podcast https://casualswinger.com/
Other Links
Casual Toys, use code WANDERLUST to score 15% off https://www.casualtoys.com/
Affirmation episode of Casual Swinger Podcast listen here
Cate’s new TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@wanderlustswingers
Wanderlust Swingers Instagram
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Jul 13, 2022 • 52min
Fun4Two Swingers Club + Annoying Swingers
We visit Fun4Two, a local swingers club in the Netherlands.
Fun4Two Swingers Club has been voted the best swingers club in the Netherlands and we thought it was time to check out clubs in our own back yard.
Join us as we talk about our visit to Fun4Two Swingers Club, we share the details of what we thought, an annoying swinger couple ruining our night and our play session together.
Fun4Two Swingers Club is located near Rotterdam in the Netherlands.
Mentioned in this episode
Fun4Two Netherlands https://www.fun4two.nl/
Other Links
Cate’s new TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@wanderlustswingers
Wanderlust Swingers Instagram
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Jun 16, 2022 • 1h 13min
Podcast-A-Palooza PCAP2022 Best and Worst Moments
Another Podcast-A-Palooza Swingers Hotel Takeover is complete!
Curious what a PCAP event looks like or what to expect at a swingers hotel takeover? In this episode Cate runs through her 7 best and worst moments of PCAP2022 in sunny Palm Springs.
Cate is joined by 13 PCAP2022 attendees who share their thoughts, journey and time at PCAP2022 and what their swingers hotel takeover experience was like.
PCAP2022 Hosts
Casual Swinger Podcast
bed hoppers Podcast
The Monogamish Marriage Podcast + Blog
2 Hot Wives Podcast
4OURPLAY Podcast
Swinger University Podcast
Life Of Spice
Black N Kinky Lifestyle Podcast
Average Swingers Podcast
PCAP2022 Sponsor #open dating app
Connect with other nonmonogamous couples and singles on #open
Other Links
Cate’s new TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@wanderlustswingers
Wanderlust Swingers Instagram
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Head to Naughty In Nawlins 2022 https://www.swingingdownunder.com/naughty/
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

May 16, 2022 • 47min
Le Boudoir London Swingers Club
We visit London and attend Le Boudoir Swingers Club in London City.
We're going to share some sexy and fun times with you and talk about how we've almost gone back to Newbie Swinger Rookie status in the lifestyle.
Incorrect clothing, broken lube bottles and condoms, flirting skills completely gone and fucking in public... come join in the fun as we explore the Le Boudoir Swingers Club in London City.
Links Mentioned
YouTube Walkthrough Le Boudoir Swingers Club London
Le Boudoir Swingers Club Website
Other Links
Cate’s new TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@wanderlustswingers
Wanderlust Swingers Instagram
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Podcast-A-Palooza Join us next year in June 2022 for our biggest event yet https://podcast-a-palooza.com/
Head to Naughty In Nawlins 2022 https://www.swingingdownunder.com/naughty/
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Mar 28, 2022 • 1h 2min
Considering Polyamory with Leveled Up Love
Are you considering Polyamory or are you currently in a Polyamorous relationship and want to learn tools on dealing with baggage, trauma and how to navigate the relationship style?
In today’s episode we conduct 2 interviews, the first with Shai and Lea from Leveled Up Love on their relationship style and how they have navigated away from monogamy and to Polyamory.
The 2nd interview is with Dr Jay on the psychological impacts that altering your relationship style has and how we can overcome some boundaries.
Polyamorous Links
https://www.leveleduplove.com/
https://go.leveleduplove.com/experience/retreat
Lea on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/lea.aella/
Shai on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/shai_the_poly_guy/
Other Links
Cate’s new TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@wanderlustswingers
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Podcast-A-Palooza Join us next year in June 2022 for our biggest event yet https://podcast-a-palooza.com/
Head to Naughty In Nawlins 2022 https://www.swingingdownunder.com/naughty/
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.

Mar 23, 2022 • 37min
Sex Worker Legal Issues with Adult Biz Law
Today's episode is all about sex workers and legal issues (aka when things go wrong)
How does the Sex Worker and Adult Entertainment industry seek legal support for issues surrounding their work?
With the increasing number of people joining the online sex worker community and more nonmonogamous couples and singles setting up profiles we thought it was time to create some bonus content that might be useful to you or a friend.
We've had personal friends be outed, children at school be bullied and more since they joined the online sex worker community. Join me in today's bonus episode as I interview Michael, the owner of Adult Biz Law, a boutique firm specializing in supporting sex workers and the adult entertainment industry,
Adult Biz Law
We talk about the requirements of setting up your sex worker business for success, what kinds of, legal considerations you should have, forms and how to handle when things don't go as planned.
For more information on Michael and the team at Adult Biz Law, check out their website https://adultbizlaw.com/
You can request a copy of the model release forms + more online here https://adultbizlaw.com/2694-2/
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Swinging Lifestyle Events
Podcast-A-Palooza Join us next year in June 2022 for our biggest event yet https://podcast-a-palooza.com/
Head to Naughty In Nawlins 2022 https://www.swingingdownunder.com/naughty/
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
If you’re interested in learning more about the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle join us on our sexy swinger hotwife podcast. We share information our personal experiences and journey, swinger event, swinging dating sites, reviews for swingers resorts and more.