
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
A Swinger Podcast by Cate and Darrell, an Aussie couple who navigate their journey from monogamy to the exciting world of non-monogamy. On Wanderlust Swingers, we dive deep into our real-life adventures in the swinging lifestyle, sharing candid experiences about swinging, hotwifing, couple dating, and the broader world of sex positivity.
Whether you’re curious about the lifestyle, an experienced swinger, or somewhere in between, our podcast offers an open and honest look at what it means to embrace consensual non-monogamy.
Formerly known as Swinging Downunder, we continue to explore and celebrate the diverse facets of sexual freedom and empowerment. Tune in to discover the highs, lows, and everything in between as we embark on our journey together.
Latest episodes

May 1, 2024 • 39min
Let's Get Spicy Swingers Island Takeover Chat BONUS EP
Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
Let's Get Spicy
Welcome to a Bonus Episode of the Wanderlust Swingers Podcast featuring our friends Mr and Mrs H from the bed hoppers Podcast in the UK.
Spicy Island Takeover by Spicy Match
We're heading to the Spicy Match Swingers Island takeover in July called Spicy Island for week 2 of their takeover. We have been before but this is Mr and Mrs H first time in Croatia, first time at a swingers event this size and first time at a Spicy Match takeover.
We run through some questions with them, some advice, talk about preparation and what to expect.
How many people they'll play with in a day...
Darrell wants all the tea on the number of people that they want to play with in a day, Cate gives some advice on making sure you mingle (in it to win it style) and we discuss what they most fear and what they're most excited about.
Join us on Spicy Island, Swingers Island takeover for week 2
Spicy Match Island, join us this July on a Full Swingers Island Takeover https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine
Use our code above for a 10% discount and join our tribe!
Swingers Events
We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/
Join us in Miami this May/June for Libertine Events Vices https://libertineevents.com/miami/ a Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D

Apr 22, 2024 • 1h 1min
Pants On / Off Swinger Friends: The Pros and Cons
Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
Swinger Friends
In this episode, we delve into the intricacies of "Pants On / Off Swinger Friends," a dynamic that blurs the lines between friendship and sexual exploration within the swinging lifestyle.
Pants On / Off Friendships The Pros
Explore the freedom and excitement of maintaining close friendships while also enjoying the benefits of sexual intimacy.
Foster a deeper level of trust and understanding between partners and friends.
Experience heightened sexual pleasure through the comfort and familiarity of established relationships.
Pants On / Off Friendships The Cons
Navigate potential emotional complexities and jealousy within friendships and romantic relationships.
Struggle with blurred boundaries and the risk of misunderstanding or miscommunication.
Manage the delicate balance between maintaining friendships and managing expectations in a swinging context.
Is the Swingers Lifestyle Approach for you?
Consider your own desires, boundaries, and comfort levels when contemplating this unique approach.
Discover whether you thrive in an environment of openness, trust, and shared exploration.
Evaluate whether you and your partner(s) are equipped to navigate the challenges and rewards of Pants On / Off Swinger Friendships.
Join us as we dissect the nuances of this intriguing relationship dynamic and offer insights into who might find it fulfilling and who might prefer to steer clear.
Mentioned
Spicy Match Island, join us this July on a Full Swingers Island Takeover https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine
Swingers Events
We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/
Join us in Miami this May/June for Libertine Events Vices https://libertineevents.com/miami/ a Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D

Mar 28, 2024 • 37min
Swingers Date + Foursome in Amsterdam
Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
Swingers Date Ideas
Get ready to spice up your dating game with swingers date ideas. Firstly, we share what we think a date in the swingers lifeestyle is, then we take a break and tell a sexy story before sharing our top 5 tips to creating sexy swingers dates.
In this episode, we're dishing out hot tips for picking the perfect date spots, from quirky outings to steamy soirées, join us as we reveal the secrets to sizzling swingers' adventures.
Swingers Foursome Play
In the middle of our date episode and the date that sparked this entire conversation is our Swingers Foursome Date in Amsterdam that ended in a fun, flirty play session in their fancy hotel.
Cate talks about how comfortable she was with her body and why her jaw is now sore. We talk about being the perfect sexual wing person and why you really need to up your game when it comes to physical play barriers.
Curious about swingers foursomes and couple swaps? Let's chat.
Mentioned
Bar Rouge Amsterdam https://www.barrouge.nl/
Swingers Events
We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/
Join us in Miami this May/June for Libertine Events Vices https://libertineevents.com/miami/ a Miami Swingers Hotel Takeover
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D

Mar 8, 2024 • 51min
Swingers Mental Health - Swingers Health Vol 6 - Part 1
Explore the world of swingers mental health with a focus on communication, boundaries, and conflict resolution. Delve into the intricacies of effective communication and dealing with resentment. Discover valuable insights on handling challenges in the swingers lifestyle and fostering positive relationship environments.

Feb 16, 2024 • 54min
Swinging Saved Our Relationship - UK Swingers
A UK couple shares how swinging saved their relationship, exploring the ups and downs of the lifestyle. They break taboos and offer advice. The podcast covers events, weight loss journeys, jealousy, emotional triggers, and boundaries in swinging relationships. It also delves into embracing connections and positivity in the lifestyle community, with humorous moments in outfit planning for a black and white ball event.

Feb 9, 2024 • 45min
Swingers Hotel Takeover Miami - Libertine Events Carnival
Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
Get ready for an intimate and revealing episode as Darrell, your host, turns the tables and interviews Cate about hosting a Swingers Hotel Takeover in the sizzling city of Miami.
Tune in now for a conversation that goes beyond the surface and into the heart of the Swingers Hotel Takeover experience.
Swingers Hotel Takeover Miami
In this candid conversation, delve into the ins and outs of organizing the Libertine Events Carnival Swingers Hotel Takeover in 2023. From the initial inspiration to the unexpected challenges faced, join us for an unfiltered exploration of the behind-the-scenes world of the lifestyle community.
The ins, outs and inner workings of running a Swingers Hotel Takeover
Step into the shoes of Darrell as he bombards Cate with a series of unexpected and intriguing questions. From the whimsical to the downright curious,
Darrell covers everything from the best moments to what went wrong during the Libertine Events Carnival Swingers Hotel Takeover.
Brace yourself for an entertaining rollercoaster ride as we unravel the mysteries of what makes Cate want to masturbate at these events and discover the thrilling highs and inevitable lows of orchestrating an unforgettable experience in the world of Miami's libertine lifestyle.
Links for this episode
- Libertine Events Swingers Hotel Takeovers https://libertineevents.com/
- Win a Prize Package to Libertine Events Miami https://swingershelp.com/libertine-giveaway/
- Meet and Greet in Brisbane
https://www.opendoorqld.com.au/event-details-registration/logan-meet-n-greet
- Walkthrough the Casual Toys Penthouse Playroom https://www.instagram.com/reel/C0127OpuboT/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
- Get some custom made Lifestyle Costumes and Outfits https://www.instagram.com/thetherapeuticdandy/
- Hashtag Open Dating App for NonMonogamous People https://hashtagopen.onelink.me/iDmG/libertine
- Shameless Care, STi Testing and ED Medication for the lifestyle (use code Libertine for $30 off) https://shamelesscare.com/?ref=Libertine
- Casual Toys (use code Wanderlust for 15% off) https://www.casualtoys.com/
Swingers Events
We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D

Feb 1, 2024 • 48min
BDSM, Health Journey, TikTok, SwingTok, OH MY w/ That Hot Couple In GA
Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
Today I'm interviewing Ash and Russ aka That Hot Couple In GA on all social media platforms. We're going to be talking about their jouney and how they met at 22, started in a DOM / SUB relationship and eventually found the swingers lifestyle and now live out and proud with their faces on social media.
BDSM and The Swinging Lifestyle
What do you know about the Dom/Sub relationship? Have you heard couples discuss their contracts and boundaries? Today we dig deep into Ash and Russ start in the kink lifestyle before moving into swinging. We talk about how their communication from BDSM assisted them in their initial journey.
Spoiler Alert - they were DOXXED and we discuss how they lost friends and loved ones in the process
Health Journey and Body Positivity
Having both lost over 100 pounds each (45kg for my metric friends) Ash and Russ know what it's like to be lacking in confidence to join the swingers lifestyle. We discuss how this health journey helped shape their lifestyle experience and what it truly means to be comfortable in your skin.
I put them on the hot seat and I ask if they are portraying a healthly lifestyle for those looking in on social media.... let's see what they have to say!
Links for this episode
- Find Ash and Russ on Social Media here https://linktr.ee/Thathotcoupleinga
- Choking 101 Mens Health https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a26471117/choking-during-sex/
- Choking 101 Sex With Emily https://sexwithemily.com/choking-etiquette-101/
Swingers Events
We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D

Jan 5, 2024 • 44min
Swinging In Europe with Mr Dutchie
Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
Today I'm interviewing Mr Dutchie, one half of an amazing couple that live in the Netherlands that we met through reddit of all places.
We're talking about the different approaches to nonmonogamy in Europe and how Mr and Mrs Dutchie have navigated their lifestyle journey.
Swinging In The Netherlands
Mr Dutchie walks us through their experience visiting one of the biggest clubs in Europe (Fun4Two), how culturally diverse this club is and what to expect.
We share a story or two about their adventures at Fun4Two over New Years and how consent can be gained through body language....
Mentioned in this episode
- Fun4Two Swingers Club Netherlands https://www.fun4two.nl/
- Fata Morgana Swingers Club Netherlands https://www.fata-morgana.nl/
- SDC Dating Site https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122
- Big Little Secrets BLS - https://biglittle-secrets.nl/en/
- Caviar De La Nuit https://www.caviardelanuit.com/
Swingers Events
We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D

Nov 28, 2023 • 46min
UK Swingers Hotel Takeover
Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
We share all the details about our recent event in the UK for the first ever Swingers Hotel Takeover, Floor Crawl and Swingers Club Takeover of Penthouse Playrooms
UK Swingers Hotel Takeover
We took over an entire 87 room hotel and share the details from the event in a mash up podcast called the Wanderhoppers Podcast (a PennyYoko Production)
Find part 2 on the bed hoppers podcast https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/
Parties, buses, a floor crawl... what could go wrong
Come and meet the lord and lady of fucktown
Swingers Events
We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D

Oct 9, 2023 • 1h 9min
Cap En Sicile + Solo Orgy Play with Spicy Match
Swinging Lifestyle + Hotwife Lifestyle Podcast - Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
We share all the details about our recent event in Sicily with the team at Spicy Match. We shares the ins and outs of the event, some useful tips on how to make an event a success, what types of people attended this event and all the juicy details.
We also share a story about Darrell playing solo in an orgy.... check it out.
Cap En Sicile
Cap En Sicile is inspired by the famous Cap D'Agde in Southern France. Spicy Match are literally bringing the Cap D'Agde scene to Sicily.
The people, the music, the party!
Including Pool parties by day, every day, and Themed Parties by night, every night....... bringing together the best DJ's and Erotic Acts from the Village Naturist in Cap d'Agde.
Who Are Spicy Match?
We make it simple for you to meet local swingers and track down a variety of swingers party options. Become a member so you can learn even more about the swing lifestyle. Join Spicy Match and find other like minded European Swingers https://www.spicymatch.com/?ic=WanderlustSwingers and events
Spicy Match Event Links
Cap D'Agde July 2024 Season Spicy Match https://www.spicymatch.com/events/40577/?edc=Wanderlust
Cap D'Agde August 2024 High Season Spicy Match https://www.spicymatch.com/events/40571/?edc=Wanderlust
Spicy Island Swingers Island Takeover Spicy Match June https://www.spicymatch.com/events/40000/?edc=Wanderlust
Swingers Events
We've got a brand new webpage with the global swingers events listed that we are hosting, attending or recommend. If you're looking for Swingers Events around the world, head over to our website https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swingers-events/
Support us
Wanna help us out and support the show? We would love you to consider supporting us on Patreon from only $1 a month & you’ll get access to exclusive content and live podcasts. Join us www.patreon.com/swingingdownunder
Visit our website for videos, blogs, podcasts, newsletters and swinging lifestyle resources. https://www.swingingdownunder.com
Love, Peace and Respect
C&D