Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories

Cate and Darrell
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Apr 23, 2025 • 31min

Fighting for Freedom: Wicked Fun Club vs. the Town of Plymouth

Steve Gagne, the owner of Wicked Fun Club, shares his fight against a cease and desist order from the Town of Plymouth. He discusses the implications of zoning laws on adult communities and the stigma surrounding non-monogamy. Listeners hear about the emotional toll on the club members and the need for community support to navigate these challenges. Steve emphasizes the nationwide significance of this battle, highlighting that it’s about safeguarding adult freedom and creating safe spaces for all.
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Dec 30, 2024 • 36min

Swingers and Scarcity: Overcoming FOMO, Settling, and Playing Smart

Dive into the intriguing discussion on how scarcity versus abundance shapes decisions in the swinger lifestyle. The hosts share personal stories that highlight FOMO and late-night hookups driven by limited options. Witty anecdotes from Reddit and humorous misunderstandings keep the conversation lively. Discover practical tips to shift your mindset, embrace personal boundaries, and prioritize quality experiences. Plus, enjoy cheeky revelations about travel plans and personal updates that add a playful twist to their journey.
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Dec 23, 2024 • 50min

Hotwife Adventures - Darrells secret to navigating FEELD for hotwives in the Swingers Lifestyle

Join Darrell as he hilariously shares his wild Feeld experiment, managing a profile for his hotwife, Cate. Discover the secrets to optimizing profiles and wading through a sea of matches—over 1,300 likes! Hear about the art of standing out with top tips while navigating the complexities of the swinging lifestyle. With two dinner dates on the horizon, will Darrell succeed in choosing the right suitors for Cate? Tune in for laughs, insights, and the realities of dating in the hotwife community!
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Dec 16, 2024 • 1h 20min

Libertine Events Unveiled: Host Stories, Playroom Favorites, and Coaching Secrets

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories Join us for a jam-packed episode of Wanderlust Swingers as we dive into the highlights from the Libertine Events San Antonio Senses takeover! This episode features three incredible interviews with special guests who share their unique perspectives and experiences from the event. Jason and Sarah: Midwest-based hosts who joined Libertine for the first time as guest hosts. Hear about their role in hosting mingle games, how Sarah embraced a daring electric play demonstration with over 100 participants, and their tips for resetting energy at high-energy lifestyle events. Ed and Phoebe from Swinger University Podcast: Reflecting on Libertine's growth since Palm Springs in 2022, Ed and Phoebe share their impressions of the event's vibe, their favorite playrooms, and what sets Libertine Events apart in the lifestyle community. Kel from Expansive Connection Coaching: A specialist in coaching for non-monogamous individuals, Kel and her partner Meshai hosted an engaging edutainment session on crafting elevator pitches and handling rejection with grace. We discuss balancing work and play at lifestyle events and preview their upcoming jealousy workshop in January, focusing on dynamics with play partners. From electric play to meaningful connections, this episode offers a deep dive into the experiences that make Libertine Events so memorable. It’s a longer episode filled with insights, laughter, and a touch of sensual energy, thanks for hanging in there and listening to us! Jason and Sarah: [01:58] Mingle games and crowd energy Electric play demonstration highlights Tips for recharging your "power bar" Ed and Phoebe: [00:33:31] Libertine Events' evolution since 2022 Event atmosphere + the feel of the group Their favorite playrooms Kel from Expansive Connection Coaching: [1:00:35] Crafting elevator pitches and handling rejection Balancing hosting duties and personal enjoyment Sneak peek into the January jealousy workshop  Links Jealousy Workshop with Expansive Connection https://mailchi.mp/2116d78e5e3b/jealousyworkshop Swanky Unicorn Lifestyle Shirts https://swankyunicorn.com/  Swinger University website https://www.swingeruniversity.com/  Upcoming Lifestyle Events & Links: Want to connect with like-minded couples? Check out upcoming Libertine Events in the USA, UK, and Canada! Learn more at: www.libertineevents.com Join us in Miami from May 16-19, 2025: https://libertineevents.com/miami/ Wanderlust Swingers Podcast: Keep up with more sexy stories and lifestyle tips! www.wanderlustswingers.com Join us at Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism Resort from March 29 - April 5, 2025: http://www.casualswingerweek.com/   Tags: Swinger Lifestyle, Libertine Events, DTF Couples, Electric Play in the Lifestyle, Swinger Boundaries, Open Communication, Sex-Positive Adventures, Non-Monogamy Coaching, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast, Playroom Etiquette   Thank you for listening to Wanderlust Swingers!
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Nov 11, 2024 • 26min

Are Down to Fuck Couples Just More Fun?

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories The DTF Spectrum: Are Down to F*ck Couples Just More Fun? In this solo episode, Cate dives into a hot debate among swingers today: the phenomenon of “DTF” couples. Inspired by a lively discussion on Reddit, Cate unpacks the various interpretations of being “down to fuck” and how it impacts connections in the lifestyle. From couples who prefer a straight-to-the-fun approach to those with a selective DTF style, Cate explores why some embrace the label while others feel it’s misunderstood. Episode Highlights: What Does It Mean to Be “DTF” in the Lifestyle? Cate explores what it truly means to be a DTF couple, sharing both her thoughts and feedback from the lifestyle community on why this term is more complex than it sounds. The Red & Green Flags of DTF Couples Cate breaks down red flags that DTF couples should watch for, along with green flags that suggest this style may be the perfect fit. She shares insights into keeping experiences positive and aligned with personal values. How to Avoid Common Pitfalls & Clarify What You Want Clear communication is key in the swinger lifestyle. Cate provides tips on avoiding common DTF pitfalls, explaining how to openly define what you’re looking for to save time and find the right connections. Lessons Learned: Whether you're new to the concept or an experienced DTF couple, Cate highlights how to find your sweet spot on the DTF spectrum. This episode offers a fresh, judgment-free look at spontaneity, selectiveness, and the power of clear intentions. Upcoming Lifestyle Events & Links: Want to connect with like-minded couples? Check out upcoming Libertine Events in the USA, UK, and Canada! Learn more at: www.libertineevents.com Join us in Miami from May 16-19, 2025: https://libertineevents.com/miami/ Wanderlust Swingers Podcast: Keep up with more sexy stories and lifestyle tips! www.wanderlustswingers.com Join us at Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism Resort from March 29 - April 5, 2025: http://www.casualswingerweek.com/   Tags: Swinger Lifestyle, DTF Couples, Spontaneous Swingers, Lifestyle Pitfalls, Navigating Non-Monogamy, Red Flags in Swinging, Swingers Boundaries, Open Communication, Sex-Positive Lifestyle, Wanderlust Swingers
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Nov 4, 2024 • 34min

Having Sex In A Maze, Swingers Cafe + Kama Sutra Beurs

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories Having Sex In A Maze, Swingers Café + Kama Sutra Beurs In this adventurous episode, Cate and Darrell finally attend the sex-positive Kama Sutra Beurs in their hometown of Utrecht, diving into an experience that’s both eye-opening and outrageous! After years of planning to attend, they explore every part of the convention, from a bustling Swingers Café to a surprise maze encounter that gets steamy. Cate and Darrell share each hilarious and unexpected moment as they navigate this European sex convention and its anything-goes vibe. Episode Highlights: The Swingers Café and Convention Scene Cate and Darrell give their impressions of the event, including shopping for unique finds (costumes made from used tires, anyone?) and an intriguing encounter at the café where anything goes. Exploring the Maze They step into a maze filled with dark corners, hidden rooms, and unexpected surprises. Things heat up as Cate and Darrell put the secluded spaces to good use, and D shares his thoughts on the curious onlookers. Sex Conventions in Different Countries They compare the Netherlands' open atmosphere to conventions in Australia and the USA, reflecting on the unique setup and freedom found at European sex-positive events. Lessons Learned: Whether it’s surprising moments in a sex maze or learning about different swinger cultures, this episode is packed with laughs, honest observations, and real-life stories from the world of sex-positive gatherings. Cate and Darrell share what it’s really like to explore a European sex convention and enjoy the freedom to be themselves. Conclusion: Tune in to join Cate and Darrell on their latest adventure, filled with humor, a little public play, and their favorite highlights from Kama Sutra Beurs. And stay tuned for the next episode for more lifestyle tips and stories from your Wanderlust Swingers team! Upcoming Lifestyle Events & Links: Ready to join the action? Check out upcoming Libertine Events in the USA, UK, and Canada! Learn more at: www.libertineevents.com Join us in Miami from May 16-19, 2025: https://libertineevents.com/miami/ Wanderlust Swingers Podcast: Keep up with more sexy stories and lifestyle tips! www.wanderlustswingers.com Join us at Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism Resort from March 29 - April 5, 2025: http://www.casualswingerweek.com/ Tags: Swinger Lifestyle, Sex Convention, Sex Maze Adventure, Swingers Café, European Sex Positive Events, Kama Sutra Beurs, Exploring Swinger Culture, Public Play, Netherlands Sex Convention, Non-Monogamy, Lifestyle Stories
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Oct 29, 2024 • 34min

Failures at Being a Swinger; Failed Pool Parties, Ghosting, and More

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories Episode Title: Failures at Being a Swinger; Failed Pool Parties, Ghosting, and More   In this playful yet candid episode, Cate and Darrell tackle the less-than-glamorous side of the swinger lifestyle, where best-laid plans don’t always work out! From a last-minute pool party flop to a local single who ghosted us on a date, we’re digging into what happens when expectations don’t match reality. Join us as we explore how swinging can sometimes go sideways, and how to handle those “swinger fails” with humor and grace.   Episode Highlights: The Pool Party That Wasn’t: We recount our experience at the last Naked Pool Party of the season at Fata Morgana in the Netherlands. Spoiler alert: the vibes and crowd were a bit different from what we’re used to! Ghosted and Let Down: We were stood up by a local single Darrell arranged a date with, and we’ll share our take on handling lifestyle no-shows, plus a few laughs about Cate betting Darrell that he’d still try to message afterward. Finding Our Place in the Lifestyle: How meeting a new, young couple reminded us of our early days and the highs and lows of finding your footing in the scene.   Handling Swinger Fails: Not every event will be perfect, and that’s okay! We’re here to help you embrace the unpredictability of the lifestyle with some real-life lessons, stories, and tips for bouncing back. Whether you’ve been ghosted, found yourself at a dud event, or just need a reminder to laugh at the unexpected, this episode is all about learning to go with the flow and keep things fun.   Conclusion: Tune in for the good, the awkward, and the downright hilarious moments that make the lifestyle unforgettable. And, as always, stay tuned for more stories, tips, and adventures from your Wanderlust Swingers team!   Upcoming Lifestyle Events & Links: Ready to join the action? Check out upcoming Libertine Events in the USA, UK, and Canada! Learn more at: www.libertineevents.com Join us in Miami from May 16-19, 2025: https://libertineevents.com/miami/ Wanderlust Swingers Podcast: Keep up with more sexy stories and lifestyle tips! www.wanderlustswingers.com Join us at Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism Resort from March 29 - April 5, 2025: http://www.casualswingerweek.com/   Tags: Swinger Lifestyle, Pool Party Fails, Ghosting in the Lifestyle, Swinger Date Etiquette, Finding Your Tribe, Swingers Community, Lifestyle Realities, Humor in Swinging, Handling Disappointment, Swinger Podcast, Non-Monogamy, Events in the Lifestyle
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Sep 24, 2024 • 58min

Guilty By Association In The Swingers Lifestyle

Mickey and Mallory, contributors from Casual Swinger, dive into the intricate world of the swinger lifestyle. They discuss how social media can inadvertently expose your lifestyle to friends and the importance of privacy settings. The duo shares insights on the impact of one’s social circle and how associations can affect reputation. They also emphasize the empowering aspect of finding a supportive community while cautioning against the risks of being tied to the wrong group. Expect practical tips coupled with engaging stories.
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Sep 16, 2024 • 54min

Cocksucking Train, Electrical Play and More with Jason and Sarah

Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories Cocksucking Train, Electrical Play & More with Jason and Sarah Cate sits down with Jason and Sarah, a couple from the Upper Midwest, who share their bold journey into the swinging lifestyle after ten years of monogamy. From a surprising encounter with a stripper in Las Vegas to getting yanked into their first threesome, this episode covers all the bases of a wild and memorable adventure. Jason and Sarah get candid about how they embrace sensory play, including electrical stimulation, and why Jason calls himself an overthinker, but still manages to dive headfirst into all the excitement. Get ready for foam pits, sexy trains, and a few life lessons along the way! Episode Highlights: Their First Threesome: Hear the details of how Jason and Sarah were suddenly pulled into a threesome for their first lifestyle experience, and how it all went down. Foam Pit Fun: A line-up of men, a foam pit, and a cock-sucking train—Jason and Sarah spill the details on this unforgettable experience. Sensory Play Exploration: They open up about their love for sensory play, including using violet wands, flogging, and spanking, sharing how these experiences have deepened their connection. Lifestyle Events in the Upper Midwest: How do lifestyle events in their region differ from others across the country? Jason and Sarah talk about hotel takeovers and their favorite sexy travels. Sexy Stories & Sensory Play: From steamy playrooms to sensory explorations, Jason and Sarah give listeners a peek into their bold and daring experiences at lifestyle events, along with a few sexy mishaps that taught them valuable lessons. Lessons Learned: Overthinking in the lifestyle? Jason, the self-proclaimed A+ overthinker, talks about how to quiet those thoughts and dive into bold new experiences. Plus, the couple shares the importance of learning from your "oops" moments and how it has shaped their approach to the lifestyle. Conclusion: Would they recommend taking the plunge into swinging for other couples? Jason and Sarah offer advice for newcomers, and Cate wraps up with some great tips for those interested in sensory play. Join us for this wild ride and don’t forget to check out more upcoming episodes and events! See more of Sarah and Jason here on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder    Upcoming Lifestyle Events & Links: Looking to experience a hotel takeover? Join Libertine Events for upcoming takeovers in the USA, UK, and Canada! Learn more at: www.libertineevents.com Join us in Miami 16-19th May, 2025 https://libertineevents.com/miami/  Join us in France 8-13th July, 2025 https://libertineevents.com/france/  Follow the Wanderlust Swingers podcast for more sexy stories and event news! www.wanderlustswingers.com   Tags: Sensory Play, Cocksucking Train, Swingers Lifestyle, Threesome Experiences, Foam Pit Fun, Violet Wand, Electrical Play, Overthinking in the Lifestyle, Swinger Adventures, Upper Midwest Lifestyle, Hotel Takeover Events, Non-Monogamy, Swinger Podcast
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Sep 9, 2024 • 54min

Unicorn Hall Pass Spicy Island

Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories Unicorn Hall Pass Spicy Island In this episode, Cate takes us on a wild adventure as she heads to Spicy Island for a full island takeover in Croatia, embracing her role as a unicorn with a hall pass. From cheeky playroom encounters to naked swims under the stars, this episode is packed with fun stories, poolside masturbation, and flirty moments. But was Cate as slutty as she and Darrell had hoped? Let’s find out! Episode Event Highlights: Poolside Fun: Masturbation, cheeky playroom kisses, and a magical naked swim under the stars. Steamy Encounters: Kissing a guy in the playroom... Unicorn Vibes: Cate danced solo during Steampunk Night before friends joined in, and she enjoyed playing games like motorboating and card games. Two days of sun-soaked fun on VIP beds, with Cate kissing multiple partners and even using a communal vibrator poolside. Sensual touch games, including ice and kisses, plus the frustrations of people not participating in a fun conga line. Conclusion: Would Cate Go Back? Hear her thoughts on whether she’d return to Spicy Island and who she would recommend it to. Is It Worth the Money? Cate breaks down the value of the event and offers tips for future attendees. Exclusive Bonus Content - Hear what Darrell had to say to Cate before she left for Spicy Island, join our Patreon here https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder  2025 European Events Spicy Island Week 1 https://www.spicymatch.com/events/50000/?edc=Libertine  Spicy Island Week 2 https://www.spicymatch.com/events/50001/?edc=libertine  Join Cate and Libertine as they takeover France and Cap D'Agde https://libertineevents.com/france/  New Website: www.wanderlustswingers.com     Tags: Unicorn Hall Pass, Spicy Island, Swingers Island Takeover, Swingers Lifestyle, Poolside Masturbation, Naked Swimming, Steampunk Party, Spicy Match, Swingers Tips, Hotwife Lifestyle, Island Takeover Review, Swingers Adventure, Swingers Event in Croatia, Hall Pass Experience.

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