

LET’S TALK ATTACHMENTS
Jessica Da Silva, LMFT
Welcome to “Let’s Talk Attachments”, a podcast all about ATTACHMENT THEORY! My name is Jessica Da Silva and I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist & Attachment Coach helping you transform the way you experience love by teaching you the ins and outs of your attachment style in a practical and relatable way.
Website: https://jessicadasilvacoaching.com/
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Email: hello@jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Website: https://jessicadasilvacoaching.com/
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Email: hello@jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Episodes
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May 25, 2022 • 22min
What Setting Boundaries in My Relationship Looks Like
What does setting boundaries in a relationship look like?—-In this episode, I share my experience of lacking boundaries in the past and the impact it had on my attachment style + what setting boundaries has looked like in my current relationship.
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My Secure Self E-Course: https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course
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Find me at:
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Coach with me: (book a free Clarity Call with me) at www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Free Attachment Style Quiz: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

May 3, 2022 • 28min
Why Fear of Abandonment Is the Root of Attachment Insecurity and How To Shift It
In this episode, I shed light on why abandonment is the root of our attachment insecurities, what abandonment looks like, how we respond to it in regards to our attachment style and my go-to process of reframing these fears into secure ways of operating.
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My Secure Self E-Course: https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course
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Find me at:
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Coach with me: (book a free Clarity Call with me) at www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Free Attachment Style Quiz: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Apr 20, 2022 • 50min
Exploring The Anxious and Avoidant Relationship Dynamic with Morgan Bolender and Scott Ferreter
In this episode, I interview Morgan Bolender and Scott Ferreter from the band The Feelings Parade about their relationship/band dynamic and how their attachment styles have manifested in their love lives. Their transparency sheds light on the uniqueness of each relationship.
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The Feelings Parade
@thefeelingsparade
https://link.thefeelingsparade.com/Loose_Boards
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My Secure Self E-Course:
https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course
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Find me at:
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Free Attachment Style Quiz: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Apr 12, 2022 • 18min
Self-Sacrifice vs. Self-Neglect and When To Let Go of a Relationship
In this episode, I talk about the difference between self-sacrifice and self-neglect and when to let go of a relationship.
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My Secure Self E-Course:
https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course
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Find me at:
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Coach with me: (book a free Clarity Call with me) at www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Free Attachment Style Quiz: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Mar 31, 2022 • 19min
Attachment Styles & Job Insecurities (Anxious and Fearful Avoidant)
In this episode, I talk about how attachment styles experience insecurities that arise in work + career. I also share tips on how to reframe these insecure thought patterns into secure belief systems.
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My Secure Self E-Course:
https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course
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Find me at:
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Coach with me: (book a free Clarity Call with me) at www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Free Attachment Style Quiz: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Mar 22, 2022 • 1h 13min
Healing My Anxious Attachment Style with Priyanka S. (Client Stories)
In this episode, social worker and former coaching client, Priyanka Sahajpal, shares her journey, her challenges, her victories with healing her attachment style and embodying her secure self.
This episode has tons of wisdom, relatable examples and tools to help you on your journey as well.
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My Secure Self E-Course:
https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course
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Priyanka Sahajpal (Instagram): @priyankaelohel
Find me at:
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Coach with me: (book a free Clarity Call with me) at www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Free Attachment Style Quiz: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Mar 16, 2022 • 17min
Fearful Avoidant’s and Their Conflicted State of Mind
In this episode, we talk about the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style and their conflicted + self-sabotaging ways of experiencing love. I also share my favorite therapeutic strategies to begin cultivating a secure attachment style.
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My Secure Self E-Course:
https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course
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Find me at:
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Coach with me: (book a free Clarity Call with me) at www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Free Attachment Style Quiz: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Mar 10, 2022 • 1h 21min
Astrology and Attachment Styles with Natalie Holbrook
In this episode, Natalie Holbrook and I talk about attachment styles and how astrology can help us understand these relationship patterns in more intricate ways.
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Natalie Holbrook info:
Instagram: @risewithnatalie
https://natalieholbrookwellness.com
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My Secure Self E-Course:
https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course
Find me at:
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Coach with me: (book a free Clarity Call with me) at www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Free Attachment Style Quiz: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Mar 4, 2022 • 24min
Why cultivating a Secure Attachment Style shifts everything in your life
In this episode I share why buying an Audi helped me embody my Secure Self. Cultivating a secure attachment style shifts our relationship to everything in life!———-My Secure Self E-Course:
https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course

Feb 22, 2022 • 23min
My Journey to Secure Attachment (And why you can also change!)
In this episode, I share my experience of growing up with a Fearful Avoidant / Anxious Attachment Style, how our attachment styles get passed down from generation to generation, and why we can change.
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My Secure Self E-Course:
https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course
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Find me at:
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Coach with me: (book a free Clarity Call with me) at www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Free Attachment Style Quiz: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com


