

LET’S TALK ATTACHMENTS
Jessica Da Silva, LMFT
Welcome to “Let’s Talk Attachments”, a podcast all about ATTACHMENT THEORY! My name is Jessica Da Silva and I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist & Attachment Coach helping you transform the way you experience love by teaching you the ins and outs of your attachment style in a practical and relatable way.
Website: https://jessicadasilvacoaching.com/
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Email: hello@jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Website: https://jessicadasilvacoaching.com/
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Email: hello@jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Episodes
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Sep 21, 2021 • 23min
Anxious Attachments & SEX
In this episode, you will learn why anxious attachments use sex as a go-to coping mechanism for relationship anxiety, where it comes from, if it’s “bad” or “fixable” and how to begin challenging these ways of experiencing love so that you can cultivate more inner security.
Anxious to Secure Attachment Meditation: https://youtu.be/fmE8bKiQfiA
Coach with me: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
———My Secure Self E-Course:
https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course
Free Attachment Style Quiz: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching

Sep 19, 2021 • 17min
Can You Be More Than One Attachment Style?
In this episode, you will learn why you can have more than one attachment orientation and the different influences that factor into your multidimensional attachment style. I also share my personal story of transitioning from anxious to fearful avoidant to secure attachment in hopes that you gain a better understanding of how attachments work in our lives.
———My Secure Self E-Course:
https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course
Free Attachment Style Quiz: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Coach with me: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Sep 10, 2021 • 16min
How To Support Your Avoidant Partner
Explore five effective ways to support your avoidant partner in a relationship. Discover how childhood experiences shape attachment styles and impact dynamics between anxious and avoidant partners. Learn strategies to improve communication and foster a secure environment, helping both partners navigate their differences more harmoniously. Delve into understanding the roots of avoidant behavior and enhance your relational interactions with empathy and insight.

Sep 7, 2021 • 16min
How To Stop Needing So Much Reassurance From Your Partner
Do you feel as though you constantly need validation, reassurance or connection with your partner? If so, this episode is for you! Learn where you learned these ways of relating, how it plays out in your relationships and steps to becoming more secure!
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Free Attachment Style Quiz: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Coach with me: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Sep 3, 2021 • 10min
Why Are Anxious and Avoidant Attachments Attracted To Each Other?
In this episode, I briefly share the psychology behind why anxious and avoidant attachments are attracted to each other. This is the most common attachment dynamic, however also the most complicated one due to subconscious factors. Hopefully this episode will give you some clarity!
———My Secure Self E-Course:
https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course
Free Attachment Style Quiz: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Coach with me: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Sep 2, 2021 • 27min
Introduction To The 4 Attachment Styles
In this episode, I talk about what Attachment Theory is, how it was developed within us and what the 4 different attachment styles look like.
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Free Attachment Style Quiz: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Coach with me: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Aug 29, 2021 • 43min
Why We Must Listen To How We Feel
In this episode I share my personal experience of my last 3 months traveling the U.S. with my boyfriend and the impact it had on my mental and physical health. We often overlook our feelings, not being aware of the intelligence they hold, and I hope that this personal experience will help you shift your relationship and perspective to your emotions so that you can start using them as your personal guides!
Cultivating emotional intelligence is KEY to having a secure attachment.
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Find me at:
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Coach with me: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Aug 28, 2021 • 4min
I CHANGED MY PODCAST!
Hello! Long time no chat! As my coaching work has evolved, so have my platforms. I wanted to focus this channel on helping you better understand the Attachment Theory framework as it pertains to your life and your relationships. This will be a space for transparent, vulnerable and relatable sharings in hopes you can easily digest and implement these learnings into your own life. Enjoy.

Dec 5, 2020 • 13min
We Stop Pedestaling Our Partner By Adding Value To Our Own Life
One of the biggest reasons why many of us don’t leave our partners is because we’ve put them on a pedestal, meaning, we’ve exalted them in such a way that we don’t feel as worthy or valued without their presence in our lives.
In this episode, I talk about how this “pedestaling” has played a significant role in my love life and how to begin adding more value to your own life so that you can feel innately worthy with it without them.

Jul 6, 2020 • 30min
“Healing Alone Vs. Within A Relationship” with Jessica Da Silva
In this episode, I answer the question that so many wonder: “Can I heal within a relationship or should I be alone?”
Whether you’re thinking about taking a break for a solo healing journey or committing again to a relationship, this conversation will surely shed light on your decision as I share my own personal journey of becoming whole (and committing again) after a series of toxic relationships.
Interested in Relationship Recovery Coaching?
Visit: jessicadasilvacoaching.com