

LET’S TALK ATTACHMENTS
Jessica Da Silva, LMFT
I’m Jessica Da Silva—a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Attachment Coach, and author—here to help you transform the way you experience love through practical, relatable insight. Along with breaking down attachment styles in an easy-to-understand way, I share my own personal journey of moving toward secure attachment, real client stories, conversations with guest experts, and tools you can use to heal and create healthier relationships.
Coaching: https://jessicadasilvacoaching.com/
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Email: hello@jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Coaching: https://jessicadasilvacoaching.com/
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Email: hello@jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Episodes
Mentioned books

Jan 3, 2022 • 22min
Anxious Attachment Truth Bombs: Understanding the root causes to their behaviors.
In this episode, we talk about certain major misconceptions of the anxious attachment style and the underlying roots to these “troublesome” behaviors. I also share tools on how to become more secure.
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My Secure Self E-Course:
https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course
Find me at:
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Coach with me: (book a free Clarity Call with me) at www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Email: hello@jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Jan 1, 2022 • 19min
Avoidant Attachment Truth Bombs : Understanding the root cause to their behaviors.
In this episode, I humanize the avoidant attachment’s most troublesome behaviors by discussing the root causes. I also give you practical steps to shift from avoidant to secure attachment.
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Find me at:
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Coach with me: (book a free Clarity Call with me) at www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Dec 3, 2021 • 45min
Understanding The Fearful Avoidant Attachment & My Personal Story
In this weeks episode, I do a deep dive into the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style (aka Disorganized or Anxious-Avoidant Attachment) and share my personal story of how I developed a Fearful Avoidant Attachment and my journey to security.
—————————My Secure Self E-Course:
https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course
Find me at:
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Coach with me: (book a free Clarity Call with me) at www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Nov 24, 2021 • 21min
Attachment Styles & The 4 Types of Boundaries
In this episode, I talk about the 4 types of boundaries and how each attachment style experiences those boundaries. I also share steps on how to begin cultivating healthier boundaries in order to navigate the uncertainties of life with more freedom and grace.
—————————My Secure Self E-Course:
https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course
Find me at:
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Coach with me: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Nov 3, 2021 • 17min
Relationship Deal Breakers For Each Attachment Style
In this episode, I talk about common relationship deal breakers for each attachment style and how to determine if your relationship is worth fighting for and when it’s possibly time to call it quits.
—————————My Secure Self E-Course:
https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course
Find me at:
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Coach with me: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Oct 18, 2021 • 31min
Attachment Styles and Friendship
In this episode, I talk about how the 4 attachment styles experience friendships differently. This understanding will help you have more compassion for your experiences, for other people and hopefully guide you into more secure attachment.
—————————My Secure Self E-Course:
https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course
Find me at:
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Coach with me: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Oct 8, 2021 • 16min
Should Insecure Attachment Styles Be In A Relationship?
In this episode, I talk about why you should or shouldn’t be in a relationship if you have an insecure attachment style. There is so much healing to be had if you go into a relationship with the right intentions, and on the contrary, a lot of damage that can be done if our hearts aren’t in the right place…
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Find me at:
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Coach with me: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Sep 27, 2021 • 22min
Why Each Attachment Style May Cheat
In this episode, I share research studies of why each attachment style (anxious preoccupied, fearful avoidant, dismissive avoidant & secure) may cheat from a psychological and attachment perspective.
Coach with me: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
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Free Attachment Style Quiz: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching

Sep 21, 2021 • 23min
Anxious Attachments & SEX
In this episode, you will learn why anxious attachments use sex as a go-to coping mechanism for relationship anxiety, where it comes from, if it’s “bad” or “fixable” and how to begin challenging these ways of experiencing love so that you can cultivate more inner security.
Anxious to Secure Attachment Meditation: https://youtu.be/fmE8bKiQfiA
Coach with me: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
———My Secure Self E-Course:
https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course
Free Attachment Style Quiz: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching

Sep 19, 2021 • 17min
Can You Be More Than One Attachment Style?
In this episode, you will learn why you can have more than one attachment orientation and the different influences that factor into your multidimensional attachment style. I also share my personal story of transitioning from anxious to fearful avoidant to secure attachment in hopes that you gain a better understanding of how attachments work in our lives.
———My Secure Self E-Course:
https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course
Free Attachment Style Quiz: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Coach with me: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com


