LET’S TALK ATTACHMENTS

Jessica Da Silva, LMFT
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Jan 3, 2022 • 22min

Anxious Attachment Truth Bombs: Understanding the root causes to their behaviors.

In this episode, we talk about certain major misconceptions of the anxious attachment style and the underlying roots to these “troublesome” behaviors. I also share tools on how to become more secure. ————————— My Secure Self E-Course: https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course Find me at: Instagram: @thejessicadasilva Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching Coach with me: (book a free Clarity Call with me) at www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com Email: hello@jessicadasilvacoaching.com
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Jan 1, 2022 • 19min

Avoidant Attachment Truth Bombs : Understanding the root cause to their behaviors.

In this episode, I humanize the avoidant attachment’s most troublesome behaviors by discussing the root causes. I also give you practical steps to shift from avoidant to secure attachment. ————————— Find me at: Instagram: @thejessicadasilva Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching Coach with me: (book a free Clarity Call with me) at www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
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Dec 3, 2021 • 45min

Understanding The Fearful Avoidant Attachment & My Personal Story

In this weeks episode, I do a deep dive into the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style (aka Disorganized or Anxious-Avoidant Attachment) and share my personal story of how I developed a Fearful Avoidant Attachment and my journey to security. —————————My Secure Self E-Course: https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course Find me at: Instagram: @thejessicadasilva Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching Coach with me: (book a free Clarity Call with me) at www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
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Nov 24, 2021 • 21min

Attachment Styles & The 4 Types of Boundaries

In this episode, I talk about the 4 types of boundaries and how each attachment style experiences those boundaries. I also share steps on how to begin cultivating healthier boundaries in order to navigate the uncertainties of life with more freedom and grace. —————————My Secure Self E-Course: https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course Find me at: Instagram: @thejessicadasilva Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching Coach with me: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
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Nov 3, 2021 • 17min

Relationship Deal Breakers For Each Attachment Style

In this episode, I talk about common relationship deal breakers for each attachment style and how to determine if your relationship is worth fighting for and when it’s possibly time to call it quits. —————————My Secure Self E-Course: https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course Find me at: Instagram: @thejessicadasilva Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching Coach with me: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
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Oct 18, 2021 • 31min

Attachment Styles and Friendship

In this episode, I talk about how the 4 attachment styles experience friendships differently. This understanding will help you have more compassion for your experiences, for other people and hopefully guide you into more secure attachment. —————————My Secure Self E-Course: https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course Find me at: Instagram: @thejessicadasilva Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching Coach with me: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
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Oct 8, 2021 • 16min

Should Insecure Attachment Styles Be In A Relationship?

In this episode, I talk about why you should or shouldn’t be in a relationship if you have an insecure attachment style. There is so much healing to be had if you go into a relationship with the right intentions, and on the contrary, a lot of damage that can be done if our hearts aren’t in the right place… ————————— Find me at: Instagram: @thejessicadasilva Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching Coach with me: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
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Sep 27, 2021 • 22min

Why Each Attachment Style May Cheat

In this episode, I share research studies of why each attachment style (anxious preoccupied, fearful avoidant, dismissive avoidant & secure) may cheat from a psychological and attachment perspective. Coach with me: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com ——— Free Attachment Style Quiz: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com Instagram: @thejessicadasilva Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
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Sep 21, 2021 • 23min

Anxious Attachments & SEX

In this episode, you will learn why anxious attachments use sex as a go-to coping mechanism for relationship anxiety, where it comes from, if it’s “bad” or “fixable” and how to begin challenging these ways of experiencing love so that you can cultivate more inner security. Anxious to Secure Attachment Meditation: https://youtu.be/fmE8bKiQfiA Coach with me: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com ———My Secure Self E-Course: https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course Free Attachment Style Quiz: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com Instagram: @thejessicadasilva Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
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Sep 19, 2021 • 17min

Can You Be More Than One Attachment Style?

In this episode, you will learn why you can have more than one attachment orientation and the different influences that factor into your multidimensional attachment style. I also share my personal story of transitioning from anxious to fearful avoidant to secure attachment in hopes that you gain a better understanding of how attachments work in our lives. ———My Secure Self E-Course: https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course Free Attachment Style Quiz: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com Instagram: @thejessicadasilva Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching Coach with me: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

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