Can I Call You?

This week on Can I Call You?  Emma, Charlotte, and Eva break down the performance of presence. Do you need a public persona to start a company? Is it weird to care about people you only know online (and if you meet them in person in the gym locker room, should you talk to them)? And why is fangirling treated like a punchline—especially when men do it all the time (with jerseys)? This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. Check out ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠squarespace.com/canicallyou⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain using code CANICALLYOU Produced by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Studio Friends⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

This week on Can I Call You? Emma, Charlotte, and Eva tackle the complicated evolution of friendship. Can you grieve when your best friend becomes a parent? Is it normal to feel abandoned when a friend finds love after years of singlehood? And what does it really mean to quietly quit a friendship? This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. Check out ⁠⁠⁠⁠squarespace.com/canicallyou⁠⁠⁠⁠ to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain using code CANICALLYOU Produced by ⁠⁠⁠⁠Studio Friends⁠⁠⁠⁠.

The hosts dive into the complexities of maternal jealousy, discussing whether it's normal for moms to feel envious of their daughters. They explore the challenges of dating 'mommy's boys' and how these relationships affect romantic dynamics. The conversation also touches on personal choices around having children and the societal pressures women face, especially regarding motherhood. Humor intertwines with personal anecdotes, making light of serious topics while unpacking the emotional landscape of mother-daughter relationships and singlehood.

Is obsession the key to career success, or are we just being misled by social media? The hosts challenge the idea of passion in the workplace and explore how economic factors shape our feelings about work. They dive into the cult-like culture of startups, questioning if community comes at the cost of personal well-being. Balancing ambitions with personal relationships takes center stage, emphasizing that true fulfillment lies beyond conventional success metrics. Listen in for a critical look at redefining career happiness!

The hosts explore the intriguing concept of 'trad wives' and the societal judgments tied to traditional gender roles. They delve into the financial dynamics in relationships, discussing how income disparities can shift power. The conversation also highlights the phenomenon of 'pick-me girls' and the quest for validation in today's social media landscape. Meanwhile, they touch on the rise of male influencers and what that means for modern masculinity. It's a compelling look at identity, choice, and the modern relationship landscape.

This lively conversation tackles the burning question: does watching porn count as cheating? The hosts explore the tensions of dating in a patriarchal society, balancing attraction with critiques of masculinity. They dive into the complexities of love in the digital age, discussing jealousy and online influences. Additionally, they ponder whether marriage really trumps career aspirations, emphasizing the evolving views on relationships, financial independence, and the importance of open dialogue in modern connections.

CICY is the group chat that tells it like it is. Founders and friends Emma Bates, Eva Goicochea, and Charlotte Palermino take on real questions from real people—about love, sex, friendship, careers, and the mess in between. No fluff. Just sharp, honest advice from women who’ve seen some things.