

Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
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Sep 9, 2019 • 1h 6min
Episode 60: Drunk Texting “I Miss You” on a T9 Phone
This episode tackles topics like being the sloppy ex, your friends' annoying boyfriends, and giving yourself permission to move on.
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BLIND DATE: Pole Dancing
Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis
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Sep 2, 2019 • 1h 9min
Episode 59: I Wasn’t Being Uncommunicative; I Was In Vietnam for 7 Weeks and Didn’t Have Service
This episode tackles topics like letting go of guilt, breaking up with your parents, and betting on the future.
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BLIND DATE: The Ezra Klein Show - "I build a world with fantasy master N.K. Jemisin"
Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis
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Aug 26, 2019 • 1h 14min
Episode 58: The FBI Has Seen All Angles Of My Naked Body
This episode tackles topics like situationships that go on for way too long, the small heartbreaks that keep giving, and #foreveralone.
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BLIND DATE: Schitt's Creek
Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis
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Aug 19, 2019 • 1h 10min
Episode 57: You May Never Know If They Cheated On You
This episode tackles topics like on again/off again relationships, learning to rebuild, and talking about the future.
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BLIND DATE: Pachinko by Min Jin Lee
Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis
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Aug 12, 2019 • 1h 7min
Episode 56: Come On Voldemort, Let's Go To The Beach
This episode tackles topics like when being supportive isn’t enough, being accountable to your desires, and regaining our independence.
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BLIND DATE: Where the Crawdads Sing by Delia Owens
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Aug 5, 2019 • 1h 13min
Episode 55: Destigmatize the Sex Rut
This episode tackles topics like being in a sex rut, overbearing families, and when your self-worth gets tied up in how well you do things.
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BLIND DATE: Pixel Eyewear
Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis
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Jul 29, 2019 • 1h 36min
Episode 54: Live Anniversary Show!
This episode tackles topics like unrequited love, the injustice of dating, the rainbow on the other side of this shit pot called life.
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BLIND DATE: Under The Skin Podcast with Russell Brand featuring Brené Brown
Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis
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Jul 22, 2019 • 1h 3min
Episode 53: Making His Life Perfect & Mine a Living Hell!
This episode tackles topics like when our big ol' feelings get in the way, comforting our partners, and managing our expectations.
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BLIND DATE: Lizzo!
Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis
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Jul 12, 2019 • 56min
Episode 52: He Is Not Worth Erasing Yourself Everyday For a Year
This discussion dives into the complexities of reconnecting with exes and the emotional turmoil of fuck buddy situations. The hosts explore the allure of problematic crushes and the ways we can lose ourselves in relationships. They provide heartfelt advice for navigating old flames and highlight the importance of boundaries after a friends-with-benefits betrayal. Self-care in the wake of a partner's depression is also emphasized, reminding listeners to prioritize their mental health as they move forward.

Jul 8, 2019 • 1h 4min
Episode 51: You Know What To Do
Dive into the complexities of love with conversations about when to say 'I love you' and the different ways it’s expressed. Address the challenges of age differences in dating, including the importance of authenticity and clear boundaries. Hear heartfelt advice on moving on after a breakup and the value of processing grief fully before jumping into new relationships. Explore the impacts of people-pleasing and learn how to reclaim your self-worth while navigating personal accountability in tough situations.


