

Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
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Apr 28, 2023 • 30min
Episode 268: It's Safe To Believe Your Own Experience
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is grappling with resentment for how their friend hurt them in the past.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 26, 2023 • 27min
Episode 267: When Guilt Leads To Self-Sabotage
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is dealing with gambling addiction and self-sabotage. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 24, 2023 • 44min
Episode 266: Holding Boundaries With Humanity
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose partner critiques the way they do everyday tasks.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 21, 2023 • 26min
Episode 265: It's Okay To Miss Someone Who Hurt You
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who can't stop thinking about their cheating ex. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 19, 2023 • 28min
Episode 264: Internally Spiraling But Totally Fine
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone doesn't know how to come out as asexual to their longterm partner. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 17, 2023 • 36min
Episode 263: Stay Off Your Ex's Spotify
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who feels like their ex moved on too fast. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 14, 2023 • 34min
Episode 262: Relationships Are Not Transactional
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who doesn't know how to find peace while breaking up with her homophobic father.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 12, 2023 • 25min
Episode 261: How Long Are Our Exes A Part of Us?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who feels fundamentally changed by her hurtful ex and doesn't like how that relationship is still showing up in her new one.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 10, 2023 • 42min
Episode 260: Stability vs. Settling
Sam and Sierra check in about relationship anarchy and answer a letter from someone who feels 50/50 in their stable relationship.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 7, 2023 • 33min
Episode 259: Sometimes You Just Have To End It
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who doesn't want to hurt their partner but whose intuition is telling them to get a divorce.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices