

Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
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Aug 23, 2023 • 26min
Episode 318: Hook Up With My Ex, Just Don't Lie About It
Sam and Sierra discuss a listener's dilemma about a friend lying about hooking up with their ex, addressing the importance of honesty and open communication in friendships. They explore the concept of healing and embracing confusion, while validating the listener's growth and self-reflection. The hosts also discuss the motivations and consequences of lying about hooking up with an ex, empowering the listener to set boundaries and decide when enough is enough.

Aug 21, 2023 • 42min
Episode 317: Is Marriage A Trap?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who isn't sure if she wants to get married.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 18, 2023 • 29min
Episode 316: Relationship Escalator to Hell
Navigating different timelines in a relationship, exploring anxieties and expectations. Addressing relationship anxiety and insecurity, discussing self-soothing and past experiences. Importance of open and curious conversations, understanding differing desires. Discussion about a TV show and encouragement to support the podcast.

Aug 16, 2023 • 29min
Episode 315: Your Queer Love is Holy and Real
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose big queer wedding is being derailed by a religious family member.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 14, 2023 • 41min
Episode 314: He's a Leo And An Only Child
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who needs more reassurance in her relationship.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 11, 2023 • 28min
Episode 313: Solo Poly Wanna Cracker?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling insecure in her polyamorous relationship with a married man. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 9, 2023 • 24min
Episode 312: Becoming A Stepparent
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is about to become a stepparent.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 7, 2023 • 33min
Episode 311: This AI Doesn't Even Know What Grindr Is
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who thinks she is gay but is afraid to end her eleven year marriage.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 4, 2023 • 30min
Episode 310: Keeping Your Friend's Secrets
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is good friends with a couple, but knows one of them is cheating.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 2, 2023 • 26min
Episode 309: Breaking Up As A Game Of Chicken
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose mistake is being used against her. Content warning for domestic violence.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices