

Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
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Sep 15, 2023 • 31min
Episode 328: How To Handle Having A Crush on Your Friend
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who has a crush on her friend who is in a relationship.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 13, 2023 • 29min
Episode 327: Is It Bad To Date Someone Who Is "Safe?"
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who was told by her friends and family that her long-distance boyfriend was too "safe" and that she is settling.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 11, 2023 • 35min
Episode 326: This Is Confusing Because It Is Confusing
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who was broken up with unexpectedly by his girlfriend of five years and is trying to make sense of it all. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 8, 2023 • 34min
Episode 325: I Can't Believe It's Not Rejection!
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose lower sex drive is making her partner feel rejected.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 6, 2023 • 26min
Episode 324: Haunted By A Ghost of Yom Kippur
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants closure but isn't sure if they want to forgive their ex.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 4, 2023 • 34min
Episode 323: His Silence is Speaking For Him
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who asked for communication but instead got a month of silent treatment.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 1, 2023 • 29min
Episode 322: Caught In Communication Fatigue
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is tired of always talking things out and is afraid she is oversharing.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 30, 2023 • 27min
Episode 321: Exes, Condoms, and A Private Investigator
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who isn't sure if she is mistrusting or if her boyfriend is untrustworthy.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 28, 2023 • 35min
Episode 320: Sitting On The Sidelines Together
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who isn't sure if she should keep talking to her avoidant ex. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 25, 2023 • 34min
Episode 319: Not My Best Friend's Best Friend
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wasn't a bridesmaid in her best friend's wedding.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices