

Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
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Nov 1, 2023 • 26min
Episode 348: She Has a Crush On Your Husband...What Now?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is jealous of her husband's coworker.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 30, 2023 • 35min
Episode 347: He's Either A Hoarder or A Murderer
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who isn't allowed to see the inside of his new boyfriends's apartment.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 27, 2023 • 26min
Episode 346: My New Boyfriend Has Cancer
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose partner of three months was diagnosed with cancer. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 25, 2023 • 23min
Episode 345: Help! My Partner Is Moving In A Year!
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants to know if she should move to another state with her partner.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 23, 2023 • 39min
Episode 344: Morticia & Gomez 4Ever
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who can't quit a man on a different continent. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 20, 2023 • 33min
Episode 343: Labels Are Just Tape!
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who identifies as asexual but is learning more about her desire for sex.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 18, 2023 • 34min
Episode 342: He Is Choosing Someone Who Lit Your Underwear On Fire
The hosts discuss a listener's struggle to support her ex's health crisis while dealing with jealousy and anger. They offer advice on handling post-breakup emotions, creating space, and staying supportive. The importance of therapy in relationships is highlighted along with the hosts' gratitude for listener support.

Oct 16, 2023 • 39min
Episode 341: The Vulnerability of Shooting Your Shot
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who has a crush on her coworker but is afraid to shoot her shot.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 13, 2023 • 29min
Episode 340: The Cliché of Heartbreak
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is struggling to get out of bed after a terrible breakup.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 11, 2023 • 40min
Episode 339: The Emotional Gymnastics of a Yo-Yo Relationship
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is royally confused by a guy who was hot and then cold and then blocked her. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices