Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
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Nov 24, 2023 • 30min
Episode 358: A Bunch of One Foot Wells
Navigating the ups and downs of a relationship, addressing concerns and offering compassionate advice. Exploring the importance of honesty in relationships and the consequences of lying. Discussing the significance of long-lasting items and valuing durability.
Nov 22, 2023 • 25min
Episode 357: Do Breaks Really Work?
The hosts discuss the unique letter they received about a break in a relationship, highlighting stipulations and boundaries. They offer their perspective and advice on navigating this challenging period. They explore the concept of breaks in relationships, discussing their potential benefits and drawbacks. The importance of clear communication and agreed-upon boundaries is emphasized, along with the need for setting clear goals and expectations for a break. They also discuss the importance of embracing discomfort as a catalyst for personal growth and change.
Nov 20, 2023 • 32min
Episode 356: Blocked By My Metamour
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who was blocked by their partner's fiancé.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Nov 17, 2023 • 36min
Episode 355: You Don't Have To Hold This Alone
The hosts discuss a letter from a listener who encountered their high school assaulter at a wedding and share their experiences of coming to terms with the assault. They validate the narrator's emotions and offer empathy. The hosts discuss the healing journey after experiencing a hurtful relationship, challenging narratives that downplay the significance or blame oneself. They encourage seeking therapy and opening up to trusted friends and loved ones. The hosts recommend watching the David Beckham documentary on Netflix, describing it as a well-made and enjoyable look back on 90s and early 2000s pop culture and Beckham's relationship with Posh Spice. The hosts express gratitude to their listeners, promote their Patreon for additional content, and address past abuse.
Nov 15, 2023 • 32min
Episode 354: My BFF Is Marrying Someone I Don't Like
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who finds their best friend's partner deeply annoying. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Nov 13, 2023 • 38min
Episode 353: Having Boundaries Is An Internal Process
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is trying to redefine her relationship with her sister.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Nov 10, 2023 • 37min
Episode 352: Waiting On A Proposal
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who expected their partner to have proposed by now.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Nov 8, 2023 • 26min
Episode 351: Not All People Are For Us But Some People Are
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who isn't sure if she actually likes her new boyfriend enough. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Nov 6, 2023 • 36min
Episode 350: Middle School Teacher Drama
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who has to work with her ex, her ex's family, and her ex's her girlfriend.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Nov 3, 2023 • 36min
Episode 349: You're Unhappy And That's Okay
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who cheated on her husband, reconciled, but still feels like they are on different planes. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
