
Note to Self
From Q&A’s and break up tips to simply navigating every stage of life, influencer-turned-entrepreneur Payton Sartain brings you the sisterly advice you didn’t know you needed and honest conversations you’ve always wanted. Whether it’s Payton alone or a conversation with a friend, Note to Self is a space to get grounded, explore new perspectives, and ultimately, empower yourself and others. Grab some wine or a mocktail and enjoy the conversation!
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Aug 3, 2023 • 1h 5min
Travel Hacks, Long-Distance Tips & Staying Independent in a Relationship with Morgan Riddle
#103. Payton sits down with friend, TikTok creator, YouTuber, & Wimbledon style ICON, Morgan Riddle in today’s episode. Morgan shares her always on-the-go travel hacks from packing tips to beating jet-lag. The two also talk long-distance relationships, dating professional athletes and maintaining independence from your partner. SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE LUCKY GIRL COLLECTION: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self FOLLOW PAYTON:https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhhSUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF:→ Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7→ Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8→ Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9→ Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5Episode Sponsors:This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/NOTETOSELF and get on your way to being your best self.Order now for stress-free back-to-school shopping! Use promo code notetoself to get 50% off up to $10 value, when you spend $15 or more at convenience, grocery or retail stores on DoorDash.If you want to take ownership of your health, try AG1 and get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase at drinkAG1.com/NOTETOSELFProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jul 27, 2023 • 1h 1min
Simple Ways to Elevate Your Everyday
#102. In this episode, Payton is discussing the simple ways she elevates her everyday to make life feel luxurious & indulgent. We’re focusing in on small actions & rituals that won’t break the bank, but will make you feel like a million bucks. SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE LUCKY GIRL COLLECTION: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self FOLLOW PAYTON:https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhhSUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF:→ Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7→ Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8→ Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9→ Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5Episode Sponsor:This episode of Note to Self is brought to you by the House of CHANEL. Harnessing the revitalizing powers of the Red Camellia flower, CHANEL Research introduces a new generation of eco-responsible skincare: N°1 DE CHANEL. Beauty Ahead of Time. Discover the collection at chanel.comProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jul 20, 2023 • 53min
ASK P: Casual Hook-ups, Independence in Relationships, Putting Yourself First
#101. In this installment of ASK P, Payton answers listener questions about initial break-up anxiety, living with a partner with a different lifestyle, being stuck at a job you’re too good for, & more. Really, she’s just prescribing everyone a heavy dose of ‘villain era’ activity, as per usual. SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE LUCKY GIRL COLLECTION: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self FOLLOW PAYTON:https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhhSUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF:→ Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7→ Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8→ Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9→ Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5Episode Sponsors:Go to uf.wine/notetoself to find Une Femme wines at a retailer near you and get $5 off per bottle, a deal for our podcast insiders. Restrictions may apply. Please drink responsibly. Must be 21 years or older.Calm's got everything you need for a happier and healthier you. For listeners of the show, Calm is offering an exclusive offer of 40% off a Calm Premium Subscription at Calm.com/notetoself.If you want to take ownership of your health, try AG1 and get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D AND 5 free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase at drinkAG1.com/NOTETOSELF.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jul 13, 2023 • 1h 37min
Truth or Drink, a *Juicy* 100th Episode Special, with Emon Abdullah
#100. Payton is in the hot-seat in a chaotic, 100th episode Truth-or-Drink special. Bestie and friend-of-the-pod, Emon Abdullah, is taking her job of interrogator extremely seriously in this one, so buckle up. SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE LUCKY GIRL COLLECTION: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self FOLLOW PAYTON:https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhhSUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF:→ Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7→ Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8→ Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9→ Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5Episode Sponsors:Do your most efficient work with Notion Projects. You can try it for free today at Notion.com/notetoself. Sign up for DashPass now and you'll get your first month free. Plus when you use our promo code, get 50% off up to $10 value when you spend $10 or more on your next DashPass order when you download the DoorDash app and enter code notetoself.Give yourself the hair you never thought you could have with Vegamour. For a limited time, Note to Self listeners get 20% off their first order by going to Vegamour.com/notetoself and use code notetoself at checkout.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jul 6, 2023 • 1h 10min
A Case For Just GOING FOR IT, with Kelli Anne Sewell AKA @makeupxka
#99. Payton sits down with friend and fellow Texan, Kelli Anne Sewell, to sip some tequila and talk about GOING FOR IT in terms of career. Kelli takes us through the process of quitting her corporate job to pursue becoming a makeup artist and social personality. SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE LUCKY GIRL COLLECTION: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self FOLLOW PAYTON:https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhhSUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF:→ Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8→ Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57→ Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7→ Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8→ Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9→ Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/NOTETOSELF and get on your way to being your best self.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jun 29, 2023 • 51min
Healthy Girl Habits to Cultivate This Summer
#98. We’ve discussed the wholesome-to-feral spectrum we’re living on this summer, and today’s episode is dedicated to the wholesome, weekdays versions of ourselves. Payton is partnering with Nike (yes, NIKE) to bring y’all a full episode about healthy habits (think: mind, body AND soul) she’s cultivating this Summer. SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE LUCKY GIRL COLLECTION: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self FOLLOW PAYTON:https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhhSUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF:→ Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8→ Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7→ Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8→ Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9→ Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5Episode Sponsor:No matter what your fave workout or way to exercise, Nike has a product for you. So head over to Nike.com today to discover all the ways that Nike helps you feel your all.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jun 22, 2023 • 1h 11min
Masterlist of Summer 2023 Favorites, with Brooke & Danielle from Gals on the Go
#97. First off, the LUCKY GIRL MERCH is LIVE, and just in time for summer. In the next installment of the NTS Summer Series, Payton is sitting down with Brooke Miccio & Danielle Carolan, the ladies behind Gals on the Go podcast, to discuss summertime favorites from skincare, to books, to apps and more. We’re getting DETAILED in this episode. SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE LUCKY GIRL COLLECTION: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh SUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF: → Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7 → Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8 → Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9 → Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5 Episode Sponsors: For a limited time, [insert show name]listeners get twenty percent off their first order by going to VEGAMOUR.com/notetoself and use code notetoself at check out. Go to uf.wine/notetoself to find Une Femme wines at retailer near you and get $5 off per bottle, a deal for our podcast insiders Sign up for DashPass now and you'll get your first month free. Plus get 50% off up to a $10 value when you spend $15 or more on your next Dashpass order, when you download the DoorDash app and enter code notetoself Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jun 15, 2023 • 1h 5min
How to Craft The Perfect Solo Day, with Kimberly Landa
#96. Payton is joined by friend-of-the-pod, Kimberly Landa, for a discussion on crafting your *perfect* day spent solo. Learning to enjoy alone time, regardless of your relationship status, is such an important part of falling in love with yourself! We’re talking in detail about creating the most amazing solo day of all time in today’s episode. SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE MEMBERS COLLECTION: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh SUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF: → Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7 → Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8 → Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9 → Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5 Episode Sponsors: Do your most efficient work with Notion Projects. You can try it for free today at Notion.com/notetoself No matter what your fave workout or way to exercise, Nike has a product for you. So head over to Nike.com today to discover all the ways that Nike helps you feel your all. Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jun 8, 2023 • 1h 8min
Summer State of the Union: What’s IN & What’s OUT
#95. We’re continuing the NTS Summer Series with today’s episode as we discuss the state of the union for our hot girl summer. We’re talking whats IN & whats OUT in order to have your best summer ever. SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE MEMBERS COLLECTION: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh SUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF: → Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7 → Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8 → Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9 → Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5 Episode Sponsors: Give yourself the hair you never thought you could have with Vegamour. For a limited time, Note to Self ]listeners get twenty percent off their first order by going to Vegamour.com/notetoself and use code notetoself at check out. No matter what your fave workout or way to exercise, Nike has a product for you. So head over to Nike.com today to discover all the ways that Nike helps you feel your all. Each natural diamond promises a more sparkling future for generations to come•Discover so many more natural diamond truths at naturaldiamonds.com/thankyou Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jun 1, 2023 • 1h 1min
How to Prep For Hot Girl Summer
#94. Hot girls, listen UP! We are kicking off the Summer series with an episode on prepping for the best summer of all time. From building a summer wardrobe, to day trips with the girls, to absolute *reckless* flirting, we’re getting in the mindset for hot girl summer. SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE MEMBERS COLLECTION: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh SUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF: → Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7 → Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8 → Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9 → Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5 Episode Sponsors: No matter what your fave workout or way to exercise, Nike has a product for you. So head over to Nike.com today to discover all the ways that Nike helps you feel your all. Note to Self is sponsored by BetterHelp. If you’re thinking of starting therapy, give BetterHelp a try. Visit BetterHelp.com/NOTETOSELF today to get 10% off your first month. The world’s most famous matriarchy is back for the most intimate look yet inside the family empire. Don’t miss season 3 of The Kardashians, new episodes Thursdays, only on Hulu. Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.