

Note to Self
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From Q&A’s and break up tips to simply navigating every stage of life, influencer-turned-entrepreneur Payton Sartain brings you the sisterly advice you didn’t know you needed and honest conversations you’ve always wanted. Whether it’s Payton alone or a conversation with a friend, Note to Self is a space to get grounded, explore new perspectives, and ultimately, empower yourself and others. Grab some wine or a mocktail and enjoy the conversation!
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Sep 14, 2023 • 54min
How To Get Out Of A Rut: Resetting When You Feel ‘Meh’
#109. POV: you’re feeling stuck, tired, sluggish, ‘meh.’ We’ve all been there. In today’s episode, we’re talking about falling into a rut & how to pull yourself together when it happens. This is your step-by-step guide to resetting, finding motivation, and getting your life together.SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE LUCKY GIRL COLLECTION: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self FOLLOW PAYTON:https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhhSUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF:→ Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7→ Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8→ Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9→ Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5Episode Sponsors:This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at BetterHelp.com/NOTETOSELF and get on your way to being your best self.With signature offerings that help you Move, Eat and Sleep Well, Westin hotels make travel an opportunity to enhance your well-being while you're away.Discover new ways to shop for everything, every day, at Saks.comGo to Nuuly.com and enter the code NOTETOSELF20 and sign up to get $20 off your first month.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 7, 2023 • 1h 21min
How To Find Your Personal Style, with Jake Fleming
#108. In honor of the start of Fall and New York Fashion Week, social media fashion-ICON, Jake Fleming, is on Note to Self to discuss finding your personal style. We’re giving a step-by-step guide to envisioning your personal style and building a wardrobe you love. SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE LUCKY GIRL COLLECTION: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self FOLLOW PAYTON:https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhhSUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF:→ Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7→ Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8→ Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9→ Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5Episode Sponsors:With signature offerings that help you Move, Eat and Sleep Well, Westin Hotels make travel an opportunity to enhance your well-being while you're away.Give your hair the power of the little pink bottle with Vegamour. For a limited time, Note to Self listeners get 20% off their first order by going to Vegamour.com/notetoselfDownload the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use code NOTETOSELF to receive $5 off or $0 delivery fee off your next order.Woo is giving you 20% off your purchase AND randomly choosing orders that use my code to refund their entire purchase. Head over to WooMorePlay.com and use code notetoself at checkout.Take the drama out of planning an outfit and upgrade your closet with Quince today! Go to Quince.com/payton for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.Produce by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 31, 2023 • 59min
ASK P: Setting Boundaries, Long-Distance Advice, & Hooking Up With Guy Friends
#107. How do I set boundaries without feeling guilty? How do I keep the spark alive with my long-distance boyfriend? I hooked up with my guy friend, how do I move forward without it being awkward? In this installment of ASK P, we’re discussing all of these juicy Qs, and a few more. SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE LUCKY GIRL COLLECTION: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self FOLLOW PAYTON:https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhhSUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF:→ Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7→ Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8→ Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9→ Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5Episode Sponsors:This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/NOTETOSELF and get on your way to being your best self.Nuuly is a great value at $98 a month for any 6 styles, but right now you can get $20 off your first month of Nuuly when you sign up with code NOTETOSELF20 AT Nuuly.comWith signature offerings that help you Move, Eat and Sleep Well, Westin hotels make travel an opportunity to enhance your well-being while you’re away.If you want to take ownership of your health, try AG1 and get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase at drinkAG1.com/notetoselfProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 24, 2023 • 1h 1min
How to Be a Better Friend
#106. We are talking about how to show up for our friends in today's episode. From creating space to surprising our bestie with her favorite cold brew, here's some inspo for how to be a better friend right now.SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE LUCKY GIRL COLLECTION: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self FOLLOW PAYTON:https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhhSUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF:→ Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7→ Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8→ Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9→ Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5Episode Sponsors:Nuuly is a great value at $98 a month for any 6 styles, but right now you can get $20 off your first month of Nuuly when you sign up with the code NOTETOSELF20 at Nuuly.comFor listeners of the show, Calm is offering an exclusive offer of 40% off a Calm Premium Subscription at Calm.com/notetoselfYou’ll wonder how you ever lived without Grammarly. Go to grammarly.com/STUDENTS to download and learn more about Grammarly.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 17, 2023 • 56min
Summer Reflections: 10 Things I’ve Learned This Summer
#105. While Summer is entirely over, we’re reflecting on Summer SO FAR. From learning to let go, to thinking bigger, to setting boundaries with family & friends, Payton is sharing what she’s learned through the last summer in her 20s in this *extremely* transparent episode. SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE LUCKY GIRL COLLECTION: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self FOLLOW PAYTON:https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhhSUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF:→ Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7→ Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8→ Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9→ Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5Episode Sponsor:This episode of Note to Self is brought to you by the House of CHANEL. Harnessing the revitalizing powers of the Red Camellia flower, CHANEL Research introduces a new generation of eco-responsible skincare: N°1 DE CHANEL. Beauty Ahead of Time. Discover the collection at chanel.comProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 10, 2023 • 57min
On Practicing the Art of Detachment
#104. The art of detachment takes practice, and Payton’s trying her best to learn how to just LET GO. In this episode of Note to Self, we’re talking the basics of detachment, letting life surprise you, and how tough it can be to detach from people, plans & outcomes. SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE LUCKY GIRL COLLECTION: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self FOLLOW PAYTON:https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhhSUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF:→ Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7→ Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8→ Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9→ Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5Episode Sponsors:For listeners of the show, Calm is offering an exclusive offer of 40% off a Calm Premium Subscription at Calm.com/notetoselfGive yourself the hair you never thought you could have with Vegamour. For a limited time, Note to Self listeners get 20% off their first order by going to Vegamour.com/notetoself and using the code notetoself at checkout.Woo is giving you 20% off your purchase AND randomly choosing orders that use my code to refund their entire purchase. Head over to Woomoreplay.com and use code notetoself at checkout.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 3, 2023 • 1h 5min
Travel Hacks, Long-Distance Tips & Staying Independent in a Relationship with Morgan Riddle
#103. Payton sits down with friend, TikTok creator, YouTuber, & Wimbledon style ICON, Morgan Riddle in today’s episode. Morgan shares her always on-the-go travel hacks from packing tips to beating jet-lag. The two also talk long-distance relationships, dating professional athletes and maintaining independence from your partner. SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE LUCKY GIRL COLLECTION: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self FOLLOW PAYTON:https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhhSUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF:→ Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7→ Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8→ Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9→ Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5Episode Sponsors:This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/NOTETOSELF and get on your way to being your best self.Order now for stress-free back-to-school shopping! Use promo code notetoself to get 50% off up to $10 value, when you spend $15 or more at convenience, grocery or retail stores on DoorDash.If you want to take ownership of your health, try AG1 and get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase at drinkAG1.com/NOTETOSELFProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jul 27, 2023 • 1h 1min
Simple Ways to Elevate Your Everyday
#102. In this episode, Payton is discussing the simple ways she elevates her everyday to make life feel luxurious & indulgent. We’re focusing in on small actions & rituals that won’t break the bank, but will make you feel like a million bucks. SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE LUCKY GIRL COLLECTION: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self FOLLOW PAYTON:https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhhSUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF:→ Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7→ Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8→ Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9→ Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5Episode Sponsor:This episode of Note to Self is brought to you by the House of CHANEL. Harnessing the revitalizing powers of the Red Camellia flower, CHANEL Research introduces a new generation of eco-responsible skincare: N°1 DE CHANEL. Beauty Ahead of Time. Discover the collection at chanel.comProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jul 20, 2023 • 53min
ASK P: Casual Hook-ups, Independence in Relationships, Putting Yourself First
#101. In this installment of ASK P, Payton answers listener questions about initial break-up anxiety, living with a partner with a different lifestyle, being stuck at a job you’re too good for, & more. Really, she’s just prescribing everyone a heavy dose of ‘villain era’ activity, as per usual. SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE LUCKY GIRL COLLECTION: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self FOLLOW PAYTON:https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhhSUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF:→ Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7→ Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8→ Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9→ Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5Episode Sponsors:Go to uf.wine/notetoself to find Une Femme wines at a retailer near you and get $5 off per bottle, a deal for our podcast insiders. Restrictions may apply. Please drink responsibly. Must be 21 years or older.Calm's got everything you need for a happier and healthier you. For listeners of the show, Calm is offering an exclusive offer of 40% off a Calm Premium Subscription at Calm.com/notetoself.If you want to take ownership of your health, try AG1 and get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D AND 5 free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase at drinkAG1.com/NOTETOSELF.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jul 13, 2023 • 1h 37min
Truth or Drink, a *Juicy* 100th Episode Special, with Emon Abdullah
#100. Payton is in the hot-seat in a chaotic, 100th episode Truth-or-Drink special. Bestie and friend-of-the-pod, Emon Abdullah, is taking her job of interrogator extremely seriously in this one, so buckle up. SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE LUCKY GIRL COLLECTION: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self FOLLOW PAYTON:https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhhSUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF:→ Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7→ Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8→ Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9→ Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5Episode Sponsors:Do your most efficient work with Notion Projects. You can try it for free today at Notion.com/notetoself. Sign up for DashPass now and you'll get your first month free. Plus when you use our promo code, get 50% off up to $10 value when you spend $10 or more on your next DashPass order when you download the DoorDash app and enter code notetoself.Give yourself the hair you never thought you could have with Vegamour. For a limited time, Note to Self listeners get 20% off their first order by going to Vegamour.com/notetoself and use code notetoself at checkout.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.