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#186. In this month’s installment of ASK P, a segment where I do my best to answer listener Qs, we’re discussing relationships, independence, mental health & breakup aftermath. FOLLOW PAYTON:https://instagram.com/paytonsartain  https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhhhttps://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain https://pinterest.com/paytonsartain SUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF:→ Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7→ Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8→ Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9→ Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5Episode Sponsors:Prose is SO confident that you’ll love your results that they’re offering an exclusive trial offer: FIFTY percent off your first haircare subscription order at Prose.com/notetoself.With R.W. Knudsen, krush 100% of your day with 100% juice. Pick up a bottle at your local grocery store today.Visit Halfdays.com and use code NoteToSelf at checkout for 15% off your first purchase.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#185. In a rare turn of events, we are doing a Q&A episode today. You’re being nosey, I’m (happily) oversharing about all things wedding, relationships, mental health, & more. This episode is meant to make you feel a little better about yourself as I share how not-together my life truly is (because NO ONES is… it’s always something).                                                                                                                                                      FOLLOW PAYTON:https://instagram.com/paytonsartain  https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhhhttps://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain https://pinterest.com/paytonsartain SUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF:→ Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7→ Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8→ Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9→ Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5Episode Sponsors:With R.W. Knudsen, krush 100% of your day with 100% juice. Pick up a bottle at your local grocery store today.Give yourself the luxury you deserve with Quince! Go to Quince.com/payton for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.Shop now at weareohho.com and use code NOTETOSELF for 20% off.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dive into a world of self-discovery with Jemma as she delivers inspiring weekly mantras. Each session offers practical tips and personal insights to help you evolve through life's transitions. Learn to embrace growth and change while cultivating a mindset of intention. Reflective prompts encourage personal engagement, making the journey to unlocking your true potential accessible and relatable. Tune in for motivation that resonates!

In this discussion about intentional dating, the hosts tackle the complex journey of modern relationships. They emphasize self-awareness and clarity, encouraging listeners to approach dating with purpose. The conversation highlights the importance of understanding personal values and effective communication in the search for a life partner. Plus, they share tips on navigating relationships while avoiding unproductive patterns. It’s a refreshing take on finding love that prioritizes confidence and intentionality.

Hannah Chody, a former finance professional turned content creator in fashion and beauty, discusses her bold career transition. She shares insights on navigating the challenges of switching paths and emphasizes the importance of authenticity in content creation. Hannah offers practical tips for growing on social media, tackling the intricacies of platforms like TikTok and YouTube. She also reflects on the personal growth that comes from embracing change and the thrill of pursuing one's passions.

#182. We’re back with another installment of ASK P, an episode where I answer listener Qs and give, surprisingly, SOLICITED advice. In today’s episode, we’re talking about how to handle body talk in relationships, and asking “how important is sexual fulfillment in a relationship?” Listeners write in about lowkey despising their best friend’s partner, approaching mental health-related topics with their boyfriend and compromising on engagement & marriage timelines.                                 FOLLOW PAYTON:https://instagram.com/paytonsartain  https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhhhttps://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain https://pinterest.com/paytonsartain SUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF:→ Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7→ Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8→ Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9→ Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5Episode Sponsors:Note to Self is sponsored by Better Help. Visit betterhelp.com/NOTETOSELF today to get 10% off your first month.With R.W. Knudsen, krush 100% of your day with 100% juice. Pick up a bottle at your local grocery store today.Prose is SO confident that you’ll love your results this year that they’re offering an exclusive trial offer: FIFTY percent off your first haircare subscription order at Prose.com/notetoself. That’s Prose.com/notetoself for your FREE consultation and FIFTY percent off your custom routine.Listen to grownkid wherever you get your podcasts from or follow them on Instagram @grownk1d.Visit Halfdays.com and use code NoteToSelf at checkout for 15% off your first purchase.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Caroline Stern, the creative force behind the "Niche Luxury Hot Girl" concept, shares her journey toward intentional consumption. She discusses how thoughtful lifestyle choices enhance daily experiences and foster emotional connections with belongings. The conversation explores the joys of purposeful shopping, unique purchase significance, and the emotional complexities of influencer culture. Listeners are encouraged to prioritize meaningful items over mere consumerism, curating special moments in life instead.

#180. Joe and I are getting married! Today’s episode is about my engagement story and the importance of connecting with yourself during these memorable life moments. I’m dishing some details about the ring, and Joe joins us at the end to answer a few questions.                                                     FOLLOW PAYTON:https://instagram.com/paytonsartain  https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhhhttps://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain https://pinterest.com/paytonsartain SUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF:→ Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7→ Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8→ Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9→ Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5Episode Sponsors:Visit JustIngredients.us and use code NoteToSelf for 15% off—the best discount available! Or, for more wellness tips, follow @just.ingredients on Instagram.Upgrade your closet this year without the upgraded price tag. Go to Quince.com/payton for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order!Head to acorns.com/notetoself or download the Acorns app to start saving and investing for your future today!Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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