

Feminist Survival Project
Emily Nagoski and Amelia Nagoski
A podcast for feminists who feel overwhelmed and exhausted by everything they need to do, and still worry that we're not doing enough - hosted by Emily and Amelia Nagoski, authors of BURNOUT: the secret to unlocking the stress cycle.
Episodes
Mentioned books

Jun 29, 2020 • 42min
37: Ode to Ode to Joy
Ode to Ode to Joy
Classical music should be for everyone because we all deserve access to joy. You may have more in common with these dead composers than you thought. Emily and Amelia discuss.
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Was Beethoven Black? Probably Not, but These Unsung Composers Were:
https://www.smithsonianmag.com/smart-news/was-beethoven-black-and-why-might-be-wrong-question-ask-180975159/
Joy playlist:
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0RmAELBeFBBItZnfTV4yX7?si=EsR-Yi_GRbyjw4IUk6lhvw
Schubert: Symphony No.9 "The Great" / Bernstein Bayerischen Rundfunks:
https://youtu.be/hCuC8--m-98?t=2453
Mahler: Symphony No. 2: Mov. 5 - Part 4 of 4:
https://youtu.be/tf5fM1i3MGQ?t=234
Rachmaninoff plays Traditional/Rachmaninov "Powder and Paint" with Nadejda Plevitskaya:
https://youtu.be/2mcnNDZPvgI
Beethoven in Baltimore:
https://www.bsomusic.org/GMLoungeLive
Burnout playlist, art music by women composers in a mood of quiet strength:
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2F3axNgma4ropXUTvbKYXf?si=_df9yYjuSVC5GEXo3-NZFg

Jun 22, 2020 • 41min
36: Embrace Tiger
This week, Amelia discusses tai chi and nonjudgment in the hope that it can help Emily. (and you) Spoiler warning: The moral of the story is Universe Juice.
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Embrace Tiger, Return to Mountain: The Essence of Tai Ji
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/252447.Embrace_Tiger_Return_to_Mountain
Everything Is Everything (Lauryn Hill song)
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Everything_Is_Everything_(Lauryn_Hill_song)
Kung Fu Panda
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kung_Fu_Panda_(franchise)
Chickpea To Cook, By Rumi:
https://catmeffan.com/poem-chickpea-to-cook-rumi/

Jun 15, 2020 • 40min
35: Too Much Connection
Connection is a drive, like hunger and sleep. But what do you do when you’ve had too much connection? Emily and Amelia discuss.
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Born in Quarantine (Facebook ad)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8OW4AFbzjGk
Social Distance podcast:
https://www.theatlantic.com/podcasts/socialdistance/
Episode 31: Social Support:
https://www.feministsurvivalproject.com/episodes/episode-31-social-support
The Noonday Demon:
http://andrewsolomon.com/books/the-noonday-demon/
Raising Your Spirited Child, Third Edition:
https://www.amazon.com/Raising-Your-Spirited-Child-Third/dp/0062403060

Jun 8, 2020 • 1h 5min
34: The Madwoman
Emily and Amelia discuss the concept of The Madwoman, and how you can turn toward yours with kindness and compassion. Spoiler warning for those who don't yet know the stories of Jane Eyre or Moana.
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SPONSOR:
This episode is brought to you by Never Conspire With a Sinful Baron, the latest book in Renee Ann Miller’s Infamous Lords Series.
https://www.kensingtonbooks.com/9781420150032/never-conspire-with-a-sinful-baron/
Jane Eyre
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jane_Eyre
Bertha Mason (The Madwoman in the Attic)
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bertha_Mason
Buffy’s Madwoman©
https://medium.com/@amelianp/buffys-madwoman-a925672d7689
Episode 04: The Abyss
https://www.feministsurvivalproject.com/episodes/episode-04-the-abyss
Episode 11: The Bubble of Love
https://www.feministsurvivalproject.com/episodes/episode-11-bubble-of-love
Episode 02: Complete the Stress Response Cycle
https://www.feministsurvivalproject.com/episodes/episode-02-complete-the-stress-response-cycle

Jun 1, 2020 • 26min
33: Because: Unbreakable
Did you watch the interactive Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt? How does making good choices for Kimmy apply to real life? Emily and Amelia discuss. (Tons of spoilers for Kimmy Vs. The Reverend)
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Kimmy Vs. The Reverend:
https://www.imdb.com/title/tt10324166/
EMDR Therapy:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eye_movement_desensitization_and_reprocessing
Emily’s romance novels:
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/27208942-how-not-to-fall
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/25985351-how-not-to-let-go
Episode 03: Human Giver Syndrome:
https://www.feministsurvivalproject.com/episodes/episode-03-human-giver-syndrome

May 25, 2020 • 38min
32: The Owl and the Cheese
What do owls and cheese have to do with surviving the hellscape of 2020? How can we work to run toward the things that make it worth surviving. Emily and Amelia discuss.
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Episode 5: What's Your Something Larger?
https://www.feministsurvivalproject.com/episodes/episode-05-something-larger
Pacific Overtures "Someone in a Tree" - Ann Harada, Austin Ku, Kelvin Moon Loh & Thom Sesma:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-PNX9PPCEls&feature=emb_title
Love Illuminated (part 1):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F8I4zFUxU9g&list=PLY864P3qWCN7iwXSXbQ8ZFA7J1YeYM8
Sadie the Dog:
https://www.instagram.com/burnoutbookgroup/

May 18, 2020 • 40min
31: Social Support
It turns out feelings are real and (spoiler warning) emotional support is really important! Emily and Amelia discuss. There's science to support it. Emily and Amelia discuss.
This episode is brought to you by Kensington’s newest title from Lindsay McKenna, Wind River Undercover.
https://www.kensingtonbooks.com/book.aspx/39281
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Gourmet Makes:
https://www.bonappetit.com/video/series/gourmet-makes
Shrinkchicks
(Season 1, Episode 20)
https://open.spotify.com/episode/61wmkKTydqaWbZ4pgorSKX
Polyvagal Theory by Stephen Porges
https://www.stephenporges.com/

May 11, 2020 • 1h 17min
30: Voting While Feminist
“Democracy is the worst form of government, except for all the others” is attributed to Winston Churchill, who wasn't too great himself. And this year it might feel like the Democratic presidential candidate is the worst one on the ballot except for the other one.
What’s a feminist to do?Emily, Amelia, and Amelia's colleague Mark discuss.
(Content warning: this episode includes discussion of sexual violence )
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what to do when someone tells you they were sexually assaulted:
https://medium.com/@enagoski/what-to-do-when-someone-tells-you-they-were-sexually-assaulted-794d41e58c05

May 4, 2020 • 1h 1min
29: Allegra
Amelia’s friend and fellow musician Allegra joins us this week and shares her perspective on social distancing and burnout.
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Wozzeck Trailer (The Royal Opera):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YzU31UrXceo
Predictably Irrational:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Predictably_Irrational
The Ballad of the Brown King:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Ballad_of_the_Brown_King
The Concert Choir of Georgetown University - Millennium Stage:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aPDZ2iwSMXA
Vegetarian JapChae recipe:
http://aeriskitchen.com/2017/03/vegetarian-japchae/

Apr 27, 2020 • 42min
28: Foop
You know that crazy feeling of oscillating between frustrated rage and helpless despair? That’s Foop. Emily and Amelia discuss.
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The Monitor:
https://www.feministsurvivalproject.com/episodes/episode-08-the-monitor