

Feminist Survival Project
Emily Nagoski and Amelia Nagoski
A podcast for feminists who feel overwhelmed and exhausted by everything they need to do, and still worry that we're not doing enough - hosted by Emily and Amelia Nagoski, authors of BURNOUT: the secret to unlocking the stress cycle.
Episodes
Mentioned books

Feb 5, 2025 • 51min
Elon Musk Does Not Have Asperger's and Neither Do We
Amelia takes the lead this week with a history of Autism and how it’s intertwined with Fascism. It gets dark, but not explicit.
Links:
Asperger's Children: The Origins of Autism in Nazi Vienna
FSP 2020 Episode 03: Human Giver Syndrome
This American Life: 81 words
Hannah Gadsby: Douglas
Emily’s NYT profile

Jan 30, 2025 • 1h 18min
Introduction to Decluttering and Cozy Spaces
You probably have too much stuff. Most of us have too much stuff. And that’s not even taking into account the emotions we feel about having too much stuff. Luckily, Emily has done the research. Let’s make your space more ventral.
Links:
Saturn Ion (Wikipedia)
FSP 2025 Season 2, Episode 4: Polyvagal 101
Freshwave (the stuff in the buckets)
Dana K. White
Cas Aarssen (Youtube)
Kay Patterson (Youtube)
Goodbye, Things (the silent to do list)
KonMari method
FSP 2020 Episode 41: The Bikini-Industrial Complex

Jan 9, 2025 • 1h 23min
Mask Off
Everyone masks to make it easier to live in the world. Emily and Amelia discuss theirs, and have some insights about times when things were particularly difficult.
Content warning, there are some dark thoughts and mentions of suicidal ideation in the form of a Zombie Leprechaun around the 50 minute mark. No one was harmed. Please take care.
Editor’s note: There is some extremely cathartic laughter at the end.
Amelia’s video from the beginning of this episode
Follow Amelia's Youtube channel here
Autistic masking
Cat-Q Scale
Charles Entertainment Cheese
FSP 2020 Episode 04: The Abyss
The Come As You Are podcast
Apple Podcasts • Spotify

Jan 2, 2025 • 56min
Take Your Time
Who in your life gives you the permission and support to take the time that you need? If you can’t think of anyone else, let it be us.
Links:
Cynthia Erivo sings I'm Here - The Color Purple
(The pose is at about 4:40)
Cynthia Erivo sings "I'm Here" for the final time on Broadway
Emily’s TED talk - The truth about unwanted arousal
Confidence and joy are the keys to a great sex life | Emily Nagoski | TEDxUniversityofNevada
The Burnout workbook
(Did you know there's a workbook??)
The Burnout workbook audiobook
(and an audiobook of the workbook??)
Dana K. White - How to Manage Your Home Without Losing Your Mind
FSP 2020 Episode 33: Because: Unbreakable
Kimmy Schmidt - ten seconds at a time
Shrinking (apple tv+)
Laura Vanderkam - Off the Clock: Feel Less Busy While Getting More Done
FSP 2020 Episode 05: What's Your Something Larger?

Dec 23, 2024 • 48min
Enough tho
You are enough. Because all you can be is 100% of who you are.
But you’re also filled with tiny organisms that fart.
Links:
Burnout (our book)
Starling murmuration 2020 (youtube video)
High Conflict by Amanda Ripley
My Grandmother’s Hands by Resmaa Menakem
Coca-Cola's 'Hilltop' Ad ("I'd Like to Teach the World to Sing") (youtube)
Brandon Sanderson's "The Stormlight Archive" series
(Amelia's excerpt is from book 5.)
The Bubble of Love (FSP2020 episode 11)

Dec 13, 2024 • 1h 7min
Polyvagal 101
Dive into the fascinating world of polyvagal theory and discover how your nervous system defines your sense of safety. Learn how hospital environments can impact healing and the importance of self-compassion in overcoming emotional struggles. Explore the power of play in fostering social connections and mitigating conflict. Gain insights on navigating emotional states through mindfulness techniques like 'glimmers and glows.' Unlock the potential for healing old emotional wounds with kindness and compassion.

Dec 6, 2024 • 1h 8min
Gender: It Begins
Unpacking the fascinating journey of gender, the discussion reveals how identical twins can experience gender differently. The historical bonds between autocracy and gender roles are explored, alongside the misogyny entrenched in authoritarian regimes. Parenthood choices are examined, highlighting insights from those opting to remain childfree. Myths linking women’s workforce participation to economic decline are challenged, and the non-binary nature of gender is celebrated, advocating for a broader understanding of identity within societal norms.

Nov 27, 2024 • 53min
We're Stronger Than the Fire
Let it burn.
Links:
Paradise Square (musical)
Joaquina Kalukango – "Let It Burn" (75th Tony Awards Performance) on Youtube
(This is the performance we talk about in the episode.)
New York City draft riots
The "This is Fine" dog by KC Green, who is a real person who actually created the cartoon.
KC sells official "This is Fine" dog stuff on Topatoco
Coleman Barks Rumi translations

Nov 20, 2024 • 51min
FSP: Zombie Apocalypse Edition
Emily and Amelia are back. Maybe this will help you like it helps them.
Links:
Finding steady ground
Nothing Much Happens podcast: Softly Softly
Sleep Sound with Richard Armitage (Audible)
Words to Win By podcast
The New Jim Crow (book)
A Force More Powerful
Bringing Down a Dictator
In 2017, “Joy Policing” Can Go Fuck Itself by Emily
BURNOUT: Do You Feel Half Alive? We Can Do Hard Things - Apple Podcasts

Nov 13, 2024 • 15min
An Alternative to Hope (From Emily)
Explore the complex perceptions of hope and despair and how they affect mental well-being. Discover a personal journey of resilience that introduces the idea of 'unimaginable hope' amid uncertainty. Learn about faith rooted in justice, collective imagination, and how participants can shape a better future. The concept of 'secret medicine' offers alternative coping strategies for those facing depression. Join the conversation on transitioning from fragile hope to a powerful, purposeful faith.