Deep Penetration | Gay and Bisexual Dating Advice with Daniel Morales

In this episode, we are talking about the "grass is greener" mentality. As a coach, I have come to find that a lot of people will hide behind the "desire to see what's out there," to shy away from their personal insecurities. Many men will prioritize "preference" over connection. This episode is about exposing the myth of the perfect partner. If you are someone who is struggling to find a long-term committed relationship, have FOMO, or is struggling to figure out what you want... join the conversation! Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 03:15 Defining Perfectionism 06:20 10 Ways Perfectionism Can Impact Dating 15:00 How to Start to Date as a Perfectionist Suggested Episodes: https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/kkljej59pNb https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/x22seXUyANb Book a [FREE] Discovery Call: ⁠⁠⁠https://stan.store/MensLoveCoach/p/discovery-call--8dbu5⁠⁠⁠ Resources: Website: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.thecoachdanny.com⁠⁠⁠ To connect with me on social media, check out my link tree: ⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/thecoachdanny

In this episode, we are talking about sexual health amongst Gay & Bi Men. Many of us have been exposed to sex from a very early age through porn and as many of you know, our introduction into the Gay community is usually through hookup apps. Many Gay & Bi men have had their first sexual experience with a complete stranger. While this can be an exciting experience, it can also result in some health complications. If you are someone who is interested in learning more about sexual health amongst Gay & Bi men, have contracted an STI or STD before, and want to know how to protect yourself and those around you... join me! Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 01:00 Common Misconceptions About Sexual Health Amongst Gay & Bi Men 07:50 I Paid the Price for Not Being Safe 09:00 Important Health Facts & Practices 13:33 Don't Pressure Someone to Have Unprotected Sex 14:40 Stigmas Associated to Sexual Health 16:37 Available Resources Suggested Episodes: https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/Qyw284zvqNb https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/Gga2kN0xANb Book a [FREE] Discovery Call: ⁠⁠⁠https://stan.store/MensLoveCoach/p/discovery-call--8dbu5⁠⁠⁠ Resources: Website: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.thecoachdanny.com⁠⁠⁠ GLMA: https://www.glma.org Trevor Project: https://www.thetrevorproject.org To connect with me on social media, check out my link tree: ⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/thecoachdanny

In this episode, we are talking about the impact of porn on you and your relationships. For many of us, porn was our teacher and source of sexual expression when we were struggling to come out. It showed us there were other people like us. The problem is when we continue using Porn as an emotional crutch, leading to addiction. Have you ever stopped to think about the impact porn is having on your mental health and your relationships? If you want to unpack your relationship with porn, understand how it's impacting your mental health and relationships, and receive advice on how to overcome it... join me! Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 03:10 My Mom Caught Me! 06:00 The Impact of Porn 08:00 My Theory on Porn & Dating Boredom 10:20 Facts & Statistics on Porn Consumption 12:05 How to Overcome Porn 16:17 How CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy) Works 17:00 Resources for Porn Addiction Suggested Episodes: https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/aeZugD5jANb https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/XfethC5jANb Book a [FREE] Discovery Call: ⁠⁠https://stan.store/MensLoveCoach/p/discovery-call--8dbu5⁠⁠ Resources: Website: ⁠⁠https://www.thecoachdanny.com⁠⁠ Porn Addiction: https://www.addictioncenter.com/community/porn-addiction-hotlines-resources/ To connect with me on social media, check out my link tree: ⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/thecoachdanny

In this episode, we are talking about the difference between discrimination and preference when it comes to dating. This is a HOT BUTTON subject amongst the LGBTQ+ community so I wanted to have an open and honest discussion about it. Do we use the term "preference" to mask or cover an underlying prejudice or dislike? Are preferences healthy? If you want to learn the difference between preference and discrimination, unpack the common misconceptions, and explore a topic that may trigger some uncomfortable feelings... join me! Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 02:10 Disclaimer 03:45 Preference vs. Discrimination 6:55 Tokenism & Fetishization 07:41 Ageism 09:30 Body Shaming 16:15 Serophobia 19:58 Socio-Economic Differences 21:00 How We Can Start to Change Suggested Episodes: https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/KvNxjYrfANb https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/jQKV8cAvqNb Book a [FREE] Discovery Call: ⁠https://stan.store/MensLoveCoach/p/discovery-call--8dbu5⁠ Resources: Website: ⁠https://www.thecoachdanny.com⁠ To connect with me on social media, check out my link tree: ⁠https://linktr.ee/thecoachdanny *DISCLAIMER* Hey everyone, First off, I want to thank each and every one of you for taking the time to engage with the content I create. Your feedback, thoughts, and participation mean the world to me. I wanted to take a moment to clarify the intention behind this episode. I believe it's crucial to address this topic so we can have a clearer understanding of the message I aimed to convey. The primary goal of this episode is not to shame anyone for having personal preferences—after all, we all have them. What I aimed to highlight is the often blurred line between a preference and discrimination. It’s easy to dismiss certain biases as just “preferences,” but it’s important to recognize when these preferences may actually be rooted in harmful stereotypes or societal prejudices. My intention is to encourage self-reflection and awareness. When we make choices about who we date or connect with, it’s essential to ask ourselves whether those choices are truly based on personal likes or if they are influenced by deeper, more problematic biases. Discrimination can often masquerade as preference, and it’s only through careful consideration and honest reflection that we can start to untangle these complex emotions. This episode is meant to start a conversation, to get us all thinking critically about the ways in which we interact with one another. It’s not about labeling or accusing anyone of being discriminatory; rather, it’s about fostering a more inclusive and empathetic community where everyone feels valued and respected. I hope that this episode—and the exercise within it—serves as a tool for personal growth. By challenging our own biases, we can contribute to a community that uplifts rather than excludes, that embraces diversity in all its forms rather than dismissing it. Thank you for being open to exploring these challenging topics with me. Let’s continue to support each other on this journey of understanding and self-improvement. If you have any thoughts, experiences, or questions, I encourage you to share them in the comments. Let’s keep the dialogue going! With gratitude, Danny

In this episode, we are talking about jealousy in same-sex relationships. Are Gay & Bi men more jealous? Jealousy in a universal feelings experienced by heterosexual individuals and homosexual people alike, but are there factors that feed the stereotype that Gay men are more jealous? If you want to learn about jealousy, identify if you are the jealous type, and learn how to overcome it... join me! Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 03:00 Jealousy vs. Envy 04:00 Common Misconceptions about Jealousy in Gay Relationships 08:40 Factors that Contribute to Jealousy 13:00 Comparisons Lead to Jealousy 16:20 Are You Scared of Being Abandoned? 18:40 How You Can Overcome Jealousy Suggested Episodes: https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/iuA19K69pNb https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/8VNdJFBdANb Book a [FREE] Discovery Call: ⁠https://stan.store/MensLoveCoach/p/discovery-call--8dbu5⁠ Resources: Website: ⁠https://www.thecoachdanny.com⁠ To connect with me on social media, check out my link tree: ⁠https://linktr.ee/thecoachdanny

In this episode, we are talking about the toxic masculinity trap! A lot of Gay & Bi men will say they "prefer" masculine or straight acting men, but is that possibly stopping you from finding love? I understand the allure and the attraction to "straight" acting men, but when it is the ONLY type of guy you are willing to date - you could be stopping yourself from finding a partner who is actually ready for a relationship! If you want to know what toxic masculinity is, how it's impacting you, and if you show signs of it... join me! Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 03:25 What is Toxic Masculinity? 05:30 Why We Crave Masculinity 07:00 The Reason I am Attracted to Masculine Men 08:10 Toxic Masculinity vs. Healthy Masculinity 12:20 Signs You've Fallen Into the Trap of Toxic Masculinity 14:50 How to Get Out of the Toxic Masculinity Trap Suggested Episodes: https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/Qmo2mm59pNb https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/VXsmHC86pNb Book a [FREE] Discovery Call: https://stan.store/MensLoveCoach/p/discovery-call--8dbu5 Resources: Website: https://www.thecoachdanny.com The Velvet Rage: https://a.co/d/c2yxpCs To connect with me on social media, check out my link tree: https://linktr.ee/thecoachdanny

I think we've all been there before - hooked on a DL guy. The true question becomes, "what is so exciting about a DL guy!?" Why do we allow ourselves to fall in love or get emotionally involved with men who are not emotionally available? In the episode we will explore the sub-culture of DL men, their impact on the Gay & Bi Community, and how we can better navigate connections with men who are not out of the closet. If you have ever had an experience with a DL man, you'll want to stick around for this episode! So, join me as we discuss the DL man. Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 02:00 What Is a DL Man? 04:45 If You're DL, I'm Not Judging You 06:00 A Message to DL Men 10:40 The Reality of Grindr 12:43 There's a Difference Between Exploration and Exploitation 13:35 The Reasons You're Attracted to DL Men 14:05 How to Avoid Being Hurt By a DL Man Suggested Episodes: https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/UxW9Us69pNb https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/FxVmIG76pNb Book a [FREE] Discovery Call: https://stan.store/MensLoveCoach/p/discovery-call--8dbu5 Resources: Website: https://www.thecoachdanny.com To connect with me on social media, check out my link tree: https://linktr.ee/thecoachdanny

In this episode, we are discussing the processes of losing yourself in the Gay community. As humans, we have a deep desire to be a part of a community and belong - but what happens when the community you thought was your safe haven betrays you? We will discuss the societal pressures we experience as Gay & Bi men, dealing with internalized stigma (homophobia), how to identify if you're lost, and how to find yourself again. Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 02:35 How Do You Become Lost in the Gay Community? 04:13 Societal Pressures Gay & Bi Men Face 8:40 Dealing with Internalized Stigma (Homophobia) 12:30 How to Know If You've Lost Yourself 15:30 How to Find Yourself Again Suggested Episodes: https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/HEISRXHIqNb https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/RUUovXMIqNb Book a [FREE] Discovery Call: https://stan.store/MensLoveCoach/p/discovery-call--8dbu5 Resources: Website: https://www.thecoachdanny.com To connect with me on social media, check out my link tree: https://linktr.ee/thecoachdanny

In the Gay community, age gap relationships are not uncommon. Often, older men who are with younger men are considered "daddies," which is an interesting name if you think about it. In todays episode, we are talking about age gap relationships, if they are good or bad, the common misconceptions, my opinion on them, and some tips on how to have a healthy age gap relationship as a Gay or Bisexual Man. Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 02:25 Is It a Good Thing or a Bad Thing? 03:00 Why Age Gap Relationships are Good 07:45 Certain Age Gaps Relationships DON'T Work 09:30 Why Age Gap Relationships are Bad 14:30 My Opinion on Age Gap Relationships 16:45 Tips for Having a Healthy Age Gap Relationship Suggested Episodes: https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/Po4gJHlxqNb https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/6pb3tcAvqNb Book a [FREE] Discovery Call: https://stan.store/MensLoveCoach/p/discovery-call--8dbu5 Resources: Website: https://www.thecoachdanny.com To connect with me on social media, check out my link tree: https://linktr.ee/thecoachdanny

There is a common misconception that Bisexual men can't be faithful and that we are "confused." In today's episode, we dive into these harmful stereotypes, unpack what it means to be a Bisexual man in today's society, the prejudice we face, and what it looks like dating a Bisexual man. Join me as we unpack the truth about Bisexuality! Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 02:30 What is Bisexuality? 04:50 I Always Knew I Liked Men & Women 06:25 Being Bisexual Doesn't Make Us Permiscuous 08:30 Unpacking the Common Misconceptions 12:10 Tips on Dating a Bisexual Man 18:35 Bisexual Relationships are the Healthiest Relationships Suggested Episodes: https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/f3wPGqwvqNb https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/JZEVX9zvqNb Book a [FREE] Discovery Call: https://stan.store/MensLoveCoach/p/discovery-call--8dbu5 Resources: Website: https://www.thecoachdanny.com To connect with me on social media, check out my link tree: https://linktr.ee/thecoachdanny