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Mar 21, 2025 • 14min

#94: How to Create a Dating Profile that Stands Out (Gay Edition)

💡 Welcome to The Deep Penetration Podcast 🔹 Helping Gay & Bi men build self-esteem and find love. 🎙 Hosted by Danny Morales⭐ What you'll get: - Confidence-building tips - Dating & relationship advice - Real stories & expert insights 📩 Join the community: https://linktr.ee/thecoachdanny
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Mar 7, 2025 • 21min

#93: Ghosting! The Gay Epidemic

🔔 Subscribe for more Self-esteem & Dating tips! Hey everyone! Welcome back to The Deep Penetration Podcast, where we dive into self-esteem, dating, and building the love life you deserve. I’m Danny, your Self-esteem and Dating coach for Gay and Bisexual men. Ghosting is one of the biggest frustrations in modern Gay dating—why is it so common, and how can you navigate it without losing confidence? In this episode, I'm tackling the ghosting epidemic and giving you practical strategies to foster real, meaningful connections. 💡 What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why ghosting happens & how to handle it without taking it personally. ✔️ How to balance dating apps with real-life connections. ✔️ The #1 strategy to prevent ghosting & communicate with confidence. ✔️ How to attract genuine connections (beyond surface-level attraction). ✔️ The mindset shift you need to transform your dating experience. 📊 Dating Stats You Need to Know: 📌 63% of online daters have experienced ghosting (higher for LGBTQ+ individuals) 📌 55% of LGBTQ+ adults use dating apps (compared to 28% of straight adults) 📌 Meeting in person leads to “25% stronger connections” than online-only interactions 🔥 DON’T MISS OUT—WATCH UNTIL THE END! I’m also covering dating trends, handling rejection, and how to build a more supportive dating ecosystem. 💬 QUESTION: Have you ever been ghosted? How did you handle it? Drop a comment below! ⬇️ 💖 Work With Me: 🚀 Discovery Call → https://stan.store/MensLoveCoach/p/discovery-call--8dbu5🌍 FREE Dating Guide → https://stan.store/MensLoveCoach/p/take-back-control-of-your-dating-life📲 Let’s Connect! Instagram: @coach_dannymorales TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@coachdannymorales?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc👍 If this episode helped you, give it a thumbs up, comment your biggest takeaway, and share it with someone who needs it! How to Be More Vulnerable on a First Date:https://docs.google.com/document/d/14EPxYQXqUt3MR8yK7catNmSQ4jWFpWY5jy42dVSkexY/edit?usp=share_link⏰ Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 01:11 Understanding "Ghosting"02:06 Why Ghosting is so common in the Gay community04:35 How to navigate dating apps without losing your sanity08:39 The solutions to your dating struggles12:06 How to create authentic connections in a world of ghosting15:35 How to deal with ghosting without letting it wreck your confidence
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Feb 21, 2025 • 23min

#92: Gay Dating in 2025: Why is it SO Hard!?

Modern Gay Dating in 2025: Why It's Harder Than Ever & How to Succeed 🔔 Subscribe for more self-esteem & dating tips!Hey everyone! Welcome back to "The Deep Penetration Podcast", where we dive deep into self-esteem, dating, and thriving as your most authentic self. I’m Danny, your self-esteem and dating coach for Gay and Bisexual men. In this episode, we’re breaking down (Modern Gay Dating in 2025)—what’s changed, why dating feels harder than ever, and how you can navigate it with confidence. With dating apps evolving, ghosting becoming the norm, and the struggle to form real connections, it’s no wonder so many feel burnt out. But don’t worry—I’ve got the rules, strategies, and mindset shifts to help you thrive in the modern dating world. 💡 What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ The state of Gay dating in 2025—why it’s different than ever before ✔️ How to balance dating apps with real-life connections ✔️ The #1 rule to avoid ghosting and communicate with confidence ✔️ How to foster genuine connections (beyond surface-level attraction) ✔️ Setting dating goals & attracting the right partner 📊 Dating Stats You Need to Know: 📌 55% of LGBTQ+ adults use dating apps (compared to 28% of straight adults) 📌 47% of users feel "burnt out" from online dating 📌 Meeting in person leads to "25% stronger connections" than online-only interactions 🔥 DON’T MISS OUT—WATCH UNTIL THE END! I’m also covering dating trends in 2025, including AI matchmaking, slow dating, and what’s changing in the gay dating scene. 💬 QUESTION: What’s the biggest challenge you’ve faced in modern dating? Drop a comment below! ⬇️ 💖 Work With Me: 🚀 Discovery Call → https://stan.store/MensLoveCoach/p/discovery-call--8dbu5🌍 FREE Dating Guide → https://stan.store/MensLoveCoach/p/take-back-control-of-your-dating-life🎙️ Listen to My Podcast on Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/7fHomTZs91XJIxJg0qijGf?si=jGpyaIn_TO-OTZTNPPgOqALet’s Connect! 📲 Instagram: [@coach_dannymorales] 📺 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@coachdannymorales?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcTime Stamps:00:00 Introduction04:13 First Rule for Dating in 2025: Balance06:05 Why Does Balance Matter08:18 Ghosting: Addressing the Elephant in the Room12:12 Fostering Genuine Connection15:22 My First Date Story with my Partner18:12 The Biggest Mistake in Dating18:50 Exercise for You to Do20:45 Dating Trends to Watch for in 2025References:1. General Online Dating Stats (2025 prediction) - Source: eHarmony's "Future of Dating" report or similar annual dating trend reports. A recent eHarmony study in 2023 suggested that over 40% of LGBTQ+ relationships begin online, and the trend is projected to grow by 2025.2. Ghosting Statistics - Source: Pew Research Center, "The State of Online Dating in America" (2020). The survey found that 65% of online daters experienced ghosting, with LGBTQ+ individuals reporting even higher percentages.3. Video Chat Preference - Source: Tinder's "Year in Swipe" report (2023). Tinder noted that one in three users incorporated video chats before meeting in person, showing a significant increase in trust-building through technology.4. Balancing Apps and In-Person Dating - Source: Psychology Today, article on dating behavior (2023). Studies reveal that people who balance online interactions with offline meetups report 25% higher satisfaction in their dating experiences compared to those who rely solely on apps.5. Authenticity and Profiles - Source: OkCupid’s LGBTQ+ dating survey (2023). According to OkCupid, 72% of LGBTQ+ daters say authenticity in profiles is the most attractive trait, above physical appearance or job titles.6. In-Person Meetups as Key - Source: Bumble's relationship success data (2023). Bumble reported that relationships that transitioned from online to in-person within the first two weeks of chatting were 50% more likely to last over six months.
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Jan 24, 2025 • 11min

#91: Get Past the First Date (and Make it to a Second)

Want to make it to the second date? Going on a first date can be nerve-wracking, but with these essential first date survival tips, you'll be well on your way to securing that all-important second date! From making a great first impression to avoiding common date night disasters, I've got you covered. Whether you're a seasoned dater or just getting back out there, these expert-approved tips will help you navigate the world of online dating and find love in no time. So, what are you waiting for? Watch now and get ready to make a lasting impression on your next first date! Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 01:40 The First Tip - They CHOSE You 02:45 The Second Tip - Pick Some Questions to Ask 04:24 The Third Tip - The Bathroom is Your Friend 05:25 The Fourth Tip - Pauses in Conversation are Normal 08:16 The Fifth Tip - Pick an Activity for a Date Book a [FREE] Discovery Call: https://stan.store/MensLoveCoach/p/discovery-call--8dbu5Resources: Website: https://www.thecoachdanny.com To connect with me on social media, check out my link tree: https://linktr.ee/thecoachdanny
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Jan 17, 2025 • 7min

#90: Get Out of Hookup HELL!

Hookup culture is a big part of the Gay community. Many people consider it a right to passage, but in reality, it can be damaging over an extended period of time. If you are wanting to get out of the pattern of hooking up and start dating more intentionally, this video is for you! Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 00:30 Be Clear on Your Goals 01:00 Set Your Intentions 01:45 Hold Yourself Accountable 03:11 Consistency is Key 04:52 Use Your Time Wisely Book a [FREE] Discovery Call: https://stan.store/MensLoveCoach/p/discovery-call--8dbu5Resources: Website: https://www.thecoachdanny.com/ To connect with me on social media, check out my link tree:https://linktr.ee/thecoachdanny
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Jan 10, 2025 • 9min

#89: Signs He's Into You (Gay Edition)

It's hard sometimes to gauge if someone is ACTUALLY into you and having a sign that he's into you would be amazing! For many of you, the anxiety isn't just about the date - it's what happens AFTER to date. We've all been there before; you do on a date with someone and things seem to be going really well! You chat, laugh, share stories, flirt, etc. but then - crickets! You don't hear anything after the date. In this video, I will cover the 6 signs that he is INTO YOU! Keep in mind, these are not the only signs, but they are a pretty good indication that he is wanting to get to know you more. So, stick around if you want to learn about the signs! Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 00:40 Sign #1: He want's to spend time with you 01:12 Sign #2: He is consistent with his communication 02:20 Sign #3: He invites you on a another date 03:12 Sign #4: He's curious about you and asks questions 04:23 Sign #5: He tells you he like's you 05:05 Sign #6: He invites you over Book a [FREE] Discovery Call: https://stan.store/MensLoveCoach/p/discovery-call--8dbu5 Resources: Website: https://www.thecoachdanny.com/ To connect with me on social media, check out my link tree: https://linktr.ee/thecoachdanny
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Jan 3, 2025 • 7min

#88: Struggling to Find Love? Here's How to Change Your Dating Luck!

Finding love in the Gay community as a Gay or Bisexual man can be incredibly frustrating - believe me, I know! I spent many years looking for the "right" person and learned many lessons along the way. There are specific steps you can take to change your dating luck. These are the steps I took that resulted in me finding my partner and having a successful and thriving relationship 3 years later! Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 01:01 Brainstorm your values 02:51 Do your core values align with your goals? 03:36 Create Your Action Plan Book a [FREE] Discovery Call: https://stan.store/MensLoveCoach/p/discovery-call--8dbu5 Resources: Website: https://www.thecoachdanny.com To connect with me on social media, check out my link tree: https://linktr.ee/thecoachdanny
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Dec 27, 2024 • 14min

#87: Why Gay Relationships are So Short (and How to Fix It)

It's not uncommon in the Gay community that relationships fizzle out after 3-6 months. Unfortunately, it's a rarity to get past a year or two. I have worked with several men who can't even get passed a first date! If you are feeling disappointment with your dating life and you can't figure out why your relationships to last more than 6 months, I have some possible reasons for you! Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 01:23 You have unrealistic expectations 03:30 You're infatuated with the idea of dating 06:02 You're scared of commitment 07:10 You're afraid of failing 08:35 You need validation all the time 10:10 You're not ready for a long-term relationship 11:50 Maybe you're not monogamous Book a [FREE] Discovery Call: https://admin.stan.store/stores/172369/page/fulfillment/1284741?order=0 Resources: Website: https://www.thecoachdanny.com To connect with me on social media, check out my link tree: https://linktr.ee/thecoachdanny
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Dec 20, 2024 • 11min

#86: The Real Reason He's Not Into You!

Wondering why he’s not into you? Let’s get real—sometimes it’s not as complicated as it seems. In this video, I’ll talk about common reasons Gay and Bi guys face rejection, like coming on too strong, ignoring the signs, or confusing sex with something more. If you’re tired of chasing the wrong guys, this is for you! Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 01:20 You're coming off too strong 02:49 You're ignoring certain signs 04:25 You just like the idea of him 05:44 You like emotionally unavailable men 08:00 Your misinterpreting the interaction 8:46 Sex doesn't mean commitment Book a [FREE] Discovery Call: https://admin.stan.store/stores/172369/page/fulfillment/1284741?order=0 Resources: Website: https://www.thecoachdanny.com To connect with me on social media, check out my link tree: https://linktr.ee/thecoachdanny
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Dec 13, 2024 • 10min

#85: Dating a Bisexual Man: Do We Make Good Boyfriends?

There are MANY misconceptions about Bisexual men and what it means to date us. Trust me, I've heard it all: "Bisexual men are just DL guys who haven't accepted their sexuality." "Bisexual men can't be trusted because they are whores." "Bisexual men are selfish and just haven't made up their minds." "You can never satisfy someone who's Bisexual." The reality is, none of these are true. If you've had a negative experience with a Bisexual man, it's not due to his sexuality rather, his personality and who he or she is as a person. As a Bisexual man, I pride myself on my ability to be a great partner to whoever I date. So, what are the benefits of dating a Bisexual man? Stick around and find out! Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 01:15 We are excellent communicators 02:56 We are in touch with ourselves 04:00 We are more diplomatic 05:45 We are great in bed 06:46 We prioritize connection Book a [FREE] Discovery Call: https://stan.store/MensLoveCoach/p/discovery-call--8dbu5 Resources: Website: https://www.thecoachdanny.com/ To connect with me on social media, check out my link tree: https://linktr.ee/thecoachdanny

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