

The Reframe
The Reframe Podcast
Welcome to The Reframe, where we delve into how we can design life on our own terms.
I’m Kathleen, a lawyer and soon-to-be early retiree, here to explore how minimalism, stoicism, and financial independence can help us build lives we love.
Let’s hop off the hedonic treadmill, investigate all those scripts we’ve inherited, and finally discover what brings us joy.
I’m Kathleen, a lawyer and soon-to-be early retiree, here to explore how minimalism, stoicism, and financial independence can help us build lives we love.
Let’s hop off the hedonic treadmill, investigate all those scripts we’ve inherited, and finally discover what brings us joy.
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Jun 9, 2025 • 31min
Ep. 54 - Are You FI-Curious? Part 2: Controlling Large Fixed Expenses, The Earlier The Better
In Part 2 of the "Are You FI-Curious" series, let's go ahead and anger the Fancy House People, the Private School People, and the Country Club People. Not really (or at least not intentionally?)... but we do walk through the true, full costs of these large, fixed expenses. And we analyze what it costs us in "life years" when we choose these luxury options over more modest -- but still totally awesome --alternatives.Join in, and please share your thoughts! Email is theminimalishmompodcast@gmail.com, and Instagram is Minimal(ish)Mom.

Jun 2, 2025 • 48min
Ep. 53 - Are You FI-Curious? Part 1: Finding Your Favorite Flavor of Financial Independence
Face off: Jimmy Choos + ZoomLife to 65, or the freedom to shape our days when we still have a spring in our steps? This week we start a three-week series exploring FI (financial independence) and FIRE (financial independence, retire early) at a 101 level. The first steps: figure out how much we realistically want to spend, then translate it into an invested asset "FIRE" number. Join in, and please share your thoughts! Email is theminimalishmompodcast@gmail.com, and Instagram is Minimal(ish)_Mom.Recommended resources:https://www.insideoutmoney.org/https://lizgetsloaded.com/https://earlyretirementnow.com/ https://earlyretirementpodcast.com/

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May 26, 2025 • 17min
Ep. 52 - Are We Trading Time We Don’t Have for Money We Don’t Need?
Are we sacrificing time we can't afford for money we might not need? This thought-provoking discussion dives into the complexities of valuing time over money. It emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries in our professional lives and encourages listeners to reclaim agency over their time. The host invites everyone to reflect on their choices and share thoughts on finding balance in the chaos of life.

May 19, 2025 • 21min
Ep. 51 - Putting Stoicism Into Practice With A Cancer Diagnosis
Surprise! (Bad surprise, but still... surprise!). This week we talk about using stoic principles to help walk through hard times with a special and very personal application.Join in, and please share your thoughts! Email is theminimalishmompodcast@gmail.com, and Instagram is Minimal(ish)Mom.

May 12, 2025 • 19min
Ep. 50 - My Money Story (Special Mother's Day Edition)
In Episode 41, we walked through questions to ask ourselves when exploring our money stories. Today, I share a little sliver of my own money story, focused on how my Most Excellent Mom positively influenced my views on money and its role in our lives. Thank you, Mom. I love you, and happy Mother's Day!As always, folks, please reach out: theminimalishmompodcast@gmail.com or Minimal(ish)Mom on Instagram.

May 5, 2025 • 57min
Ep. 49 - Taking A Family of 4 to Japan for... $98?
This week, we discuss 101-level booking strategies to help you travel the world for pennies on the dollar, using our family's recent trip to Japan as an example. Tune in for a blow-by-blow on booking flights and accommodations, including tips on points pooling, snagging "middle class business class", and finding quirky, fun apartments for rent... all for almost nothing. Stay for the run-down of all our on-the-ground expenses, with a transparent full accounting from boring expenses at home (airport parking! pet care!) to quirky souvenirs (nail clippers and makeup, anyone?).For any questions or feedback please reach out: Minimalish_Mom on Instagram or theminimalishmompodcast@gmail.com.

Apr 28, 2025 • 28min
Ep. 48 - A Gadget Free Form of the Quantified Self? Yes, Please!
It's an Oura ring v. Moleskin notebook faceoff, y'all. Not really, but in this week's episode we discuss how to engage in a little "quantified self" fun when you don't want to build up a crust of gadgets, apps, and log-ins to track your life.Please reach out - theminimalishmompodcast@gmail.com or MinimalishMom on Instagram!

Apr 21, 2025 • 25min
Ep. 47 - Checking Up on Q1 "25 for 25 Goals"
Well, seems I talked into the ether for too long last week... we had to break up the episode into two parts! Here's the second one, checking in on my "25 for 25" list after Q1. Hope you enjoy, and please reach out with feedback, ideas, etc.!

Apr 14, 2025 • 34min
Ep. 46 - Q1 Update on 2025 Goals!
Goals are fun. Let's check in to see how the 2025 goals are progressing after Q1!

Apr 7, 2025 • 21min
Ep. 45 - Break the Shopping Habit — and Discover What You’re Really Seeking
Do you have a lil' shopping habit? Back in the day, I did, for sure. But it felt a little icky... not great for the wallet, not great for the earth, and not actually filling the void I wanted it to fill. In this episode, we talk about identifying the root causes of our shopping habits, and designing custom-tailored approaches to breaking them. Join in, and please share your thoughts! Email is theminimalishmompodcast@gmail.com, and Instagram is Minimal(ish)Mom.