Welcome to episode 358 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Victoria Hartmann. In this episode, we discuss Victoria's background in studying necrophilia to aid criminologists, understanding the ethics and consent in the fantasies and experiences of necrophiliacs and the need for more research and understanding of paraphilias and their origins.  Dr. Hartmann holds two doctorate degrees, including a Ph.D. in Human Sexuality with an emphasis on Clinical Sexology, as well as a Master’s in Public Health. Her primary focus is forensic sexology, and the preservation of erotic artifacts, including the archiving of sexually explicit films. Her Doctoral work centered on the effects of dark web violent and explicit films.   She authored the book “I Love Dead People – Inside the Mind of Death Fetishists” based on her doctoral thesis and has proposed a new theoretical framework for classifying paraphilias.    She is an expert explicit material valuator; she is the current Director of the Erotic Heritage Museum in Las Vegas and serves on the ASRI (AstroSexological Research Institute) Advisory Board.     In this episode, you will hear:  Victoria's background in studying necrophilia to aid criminologists Differentiating necrophilia from related criminal acts, such as sexual murder Ethics and consent in the fantasies and experiences of necrophiliacs Challenges in classifying and assessing necrophilia and paraphilias clinically The complexities of necrophilia and difficulty in designing a classification tool The need for more research and understanding of paraphilias and their origins Therapist recommendations for addressing fetishes like necrophilia Information on Victoria Hartmann's podcast, "Sex Nerd Podcast," her book "I Love Dead People Inside the Minds of Death Fetishists,"  Cozy Earth This week’s episode was sponsored by Cozy Earth. Use the code SEXOLOGY to get 40% off all products: https://cozyearth.com/discount/SEXOLOGY   Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast   Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audioAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 357 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Darshana Avila. In this episode, we discuss the importance of touch in human connection and intimacy, why we need healthy and attuned touch in relationships and the importance of relaxed arousal for a satisfying sexual experience.  Darshana Avila believes that the foundation of her work in Sex and Intimacy is based on mutual trust. She practices transparency about her identities, recognizing that this disclosure empowers potential clients to make informed decisions about their comfort level and compatibility with her values. Darshana offers a wealth of articles and training resources aimed at dismantling oppression on her Resources page.   Darshana Avila is a cisgender woman of Eastern European Jewish heritage with white skin, able-bodied, and straight-passing. She identifies as bisexual and queer and uses she/her or they/them pronouns. Her life journey has spanned various chapters, including living in liberal pockets of the United States, South America, and Southeast Asia.   She holds a college education and typically enjoys relatively easy access to spaces, resources, and opportunities, despite some of her identities also facing marginalization and persecution. Presently, she resides on land belonging to the Ohlone people, acknowledges this, and pays Shuumi land tax accordingly. Additionally, Darshana allocates a portion of her income to support various socially just and antiracist organizations.     In this episode, you will hear:  The importance of touch in human connection and intimacy Introducing gentle verbal redirection for better touch Normalize asking for consent and use words to ensure safety Expand vocabulary for talking about what feels good The need for healthy and attuned touch in relationships Feedback in heterosexual relationships can be challenging due to social conditioning Consider factors like pressure, speed, and direction for sensation The importance of relaxed arousal for a satisfying sexual experience Explore sex toys as tools for increased pleasure  Cozy Earth This week’s episode was sponsored by Cozy Earth. Use the code SEXOLOGY to get 35% off all products: https://cozyearth.com/discount/SEXOLOGY   Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast   Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audioAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 356 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Cory Torgerson. In this episode, we discuss how erectile dysfunction is on the rise, affecting both older and younger men, the way porn addiction can contribute to this issue and how unrealistic expectations about sex can also impact erectile function.  Dr. Torgerson has been frequently invited to teach and lecture on these topics across North America. His entire medical education and surgical training was completed at the prestigious University of Toronto, within their Toronto hospitals and the University Health Network. Dr. Torgerson has received national recognition from his patients and colleagues for his incredible surgical skills. He is certified by the Royal College of Physicians and Surgeons of Canada in head, neck, facial surgery. In order to obtain this certification, Dr. Torgerson was required to complete additional years of training. Dr. Torgerson’s skills have been showcased on Global News, 16×9, The Marilyn Denis Show, The Morning Show, City News, and E! Beauty Channel Beauty News.   We invite you to experience the rewards of a welcoming environment where you can expect to be listened to, understood, and delighted with the outcome. Dr. Torgerson is here to help empower you to make the changes you desire to lead a truly beautiful life.   Considered a leading facial plastic surgeon in Toronto, Canada, Dr. Torgerson is able to provide his patients with a completely fresh and artistic approach to plastic surgery. With a finely honed gift for pinpointing specific areas that need to be treated, Dr. Torgerson is able to creatively and successfully provide the highest level of facial and nasal plastic surgery.     In this episode, you will hear:  How Erectile dysfunction is on the rise, affecting both older and younger men Understanding vascular issues are a common cause of erectile dysfunction The way porn addiction can contribute to erectile dysfunction How unrealistic expectations about sex can also impact erectile function The way lifestyle choices like diet and exercise can help prevent erectile dysfunction Looking at supplements available for erectile dysfunction and their effectiveness How testosterone replacement therapy can help improve erectile function Understanding the The Big Shot non-surgical male enhancement procedure   Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast   YouTube https://www.youtube.com/sexologypodcast  Hard Penis Check List https://oasis2care.com/hard-penis-checklist/  Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 355 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Matthias Rose. In this episode, we discuss ejaculatory control and its benefits, the challenges in redefining the concept of orgasm and the initial challenges people may face when learning ejaculatory control.  Since 2012, Matthias Rose has been a prominent figure in neo-tantric sacred sexuality and classical tantric spirituality, serving as a teacher, guide, healer, and practitioner. His transformative journey with Tantra has taken him beyond traditional teachings, leading him to provide guidance primarily focused on relationships, sexuality, masculinity, and spirituality through a tantric lens.   As a Relationship Coach, Matthias Rose collaborates with individuals seeking to revamp their relational lives, including finding new partners, healing existing relationships, or exploring fresh possibilities. His expertise spans ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, trust repair, deepening emotional and sexual intimacy, and aligning with one's authentic self while embracing masculine or feminine aspects. He draws wisdom from his life's experiences, marked by mistakes and personal growth, offering insights with a genuine presence and loving non-attachment, emphasizing the essence of loving with an open heart.   In his role as a Sexuality Guide, Matthias Rose underscores the pivotal role of sexuality in personal development. He has gained expertise in various areas of human sexuality, attracting individuals seeking guidance in these specific realms.    In this episode, you will hear:  Understanding ejaculatory control and its benefits Separating ejaculation from orgasm is possible through techniques like Tantra Emotional connection and pleasure in cultivating non-ejaculatory orgasms How ejaculatory choice involves delaying or choosing whether to ejaculate The challenges in redefining the concept of orgasm How ejaculatory orgasms and non-ejaculatory orgasms are distinct experiences Evolving definition of masculinity and the value of open heartedness The initial challenges people may face when learning ejaculatory control Matthias’s personal journey and how he rediscovered this practice through Tantra  Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast  Sexual Health Alliance Program https://sexualhealthalliance.com  Sexual Bucket List https://sexologypodcast.com/bucket-list/ Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audioAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 354 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with David Chambers. In this episode, we discuss the challenges faced by individuals in their pursuit of enhanced sexual experiences. We explore a myriad of factors, ranging from psychological challenges such as performance anxiety and body image concerns to physical issues like cardiovascular health and the impact of medications.  David Chambers embarked on his journey into the world of relationship coaching driven by a sincere desire to escape the anguish of failed relationships, conquer commitment fears, and infuse his life with genuine joy.   Growing up in a single-parent, female-dominated household, he grappled with understanding masculinity and healthy romantic partnerships. His twenties were characterized by empty encounters aimed at gaining validation and confidence, alongside an aversion to commitment rooted in the dread of rejection or making the wrong choice. Consequently, his relationships were marred by toxicity, conflict, stress, and infidelity.   In 2007, David initially entered the realm of relationship and dating coaching, only to realize that merely teaching men superficial confidence and conversation skills fell short of creating lasting change. Recognizing the need for inner transformation, he embarked on a transformative global journey, learning from expert coaches, collaborating with best-selling authors, and undergoing profound personal growth.   David's mission is to share the wealth of dating and relationship insights he's gained, guiding men on their path to self-healing and self-mastery. "The Authentic Man" seeks to unearth the root causes hindering men from forging profound relationships, dismantling these barriers, and leading them toward lasting, fulfilling relationships and fulfilling, intimate, and passionate lives.     In this episode, you will hear:  Challenges faced by penis owners in lasting longer during partner sex How relationships and partner interactions can affect sexual performance Discussion on the significance and non- significance of penis size Understanding psychological challenges: performance anxiety, worries about size The potential negative effects of steroid use on sexual performance  How distraction is a common problem in sexual experiences Suggestions to improve presence during sex include breath practices How masturbation can lead to quick arousal leading to premature ejaculation The ways meditation, deep breathing and yoga can enhance sexual experiences How being present doesn't necessarily exclude fantasies   Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast   Sexual Health Alliance Program https://sexualhealthalliance.com   Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audioAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 353 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Eric FitzMedrud. In this episode, we discuss Dr. FitzMedrud's book The Better Man, exploring the intricacies of consent, emotional processes and emotional skills and addressing low interest in sex through open communication and cooperation.  Dr. Eric FitzMedrud hails from Minneapolis, where his formative years were enriched by the diversity that sparked his passion for issues of inclusivity. Following his high school years, he embarked on a transformative journey to India as part of the Rotary International Youth Exchange Program. In Colorado, where he pursued his college education, he encountered the love of his life, his future wife. His horizons expanded further during his college years when he embarked on a Semester at Sea, offering him a broader perspective on the world.   Dr. FitzMedrud's path to becoming a licensed psychologist (PSY23669) evolved from a scholarly interest in spirituality and human development during his undergraduate Religious Studies studies. He later shifted his focus to one-on-one work, completing prerequisite courses at Loyola University in Chicago for a year and ultimately earning his Clinical Psychology Ph.D. in 2008.   Passionate about his profession, Dr. FitzMedrud derives immense satisfaction from the meaningful and impactful work he does, helping others lead more purposeful and connected lives. Below, you will find a concise overview of various positions he has held throughout his career, as well as a brief insight into his therapeutic approach.     In this episode, you will hear:  Dr. Eric FitzMedrud discusses his book The Better Man and shares therapy experiences Exploring the intricacies of consent, emotional processes and emotional skills Examining the concept of sexual desire as a basic need  Debunking common misconceptions surrounding love and intimacy A closer look at prevalent myths about romance and sexuality Understanding deliberate approaches to maintaining intimacy The significance of embracing novelty and navigating through awkwardness Emphasizing the importance of emotional communication Addressing low interest in sex through open communication and cooperation  Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast   Sexual Health Alliance Program https://sexualhealthalliance.com   Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 352 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Keira Barr. In this episode, we discuss ways in which couples can approach skinny dipping, analyzing the things that may hold you back from new experiences and how you can transition more holistic view of sex and sexuality.  Dr. Keira Barr is a prominent leader in women’s medicine – creating a bridge between hormones, skin and mind-body medicine to optimize women’s mid-life experience. A fierce patient advocate and completely dedicated to uncovering the root cause of hormonal imbalances, Dr. Barr empowers women worldwide to take control of their health and their hormones in menopause.    She is an international speaker, best selling author, clinical educator, and considered a leading authority on women’s health. As a former Assistant Clinical Professor at UC Davis in the departments of dermatology and pathology, editorial reviewer of multiple leading medical journals, medical advisor within the personal care and tech communities, and researcher in clinical trials.   Dr Barr is dedicated to providing the most-cutting edge and innovative solutions for women. Her work has been featured in the MindBodyGreen, Bustle, Reader’s Digest, Glamour, SELF, Oprah Magazine, and more.     In this episode, you will hear:  Ways in which couples can approach skinny dipping Advice for people wanting to get comfortable in their own skin How skinny dipping can potentially enhance intimacy The importance of engaging in skinny dipping as a couple Enjoying the novelty of skinny dipping to enhance arousal Analyzing the things that may hold you back from skinny dipping Understanding the window of tolerance How you can work towards being more open to new ideas Transitioning to a more holistic view of sex and sexuality  Further recommendations and tips  Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast   Sexual Health Alliance Program https://sexualhealthalliance.com   Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audioAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 351 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Douglas Weiss. In this episode, we discuss betrayal in relationships, how therapeutic polygraphs can help in rebuilding trust and the value of intentional rituals and emotional intimacy to create a strong relationship.  Dr. Douglas Weiss is a psychologist and the founder of Heart to Heart Counseling Center, which specializes in the treatment of sexual addicts, intimacy anorexics and their spouses. He has counseled with sex addicts and their partners for almost three decades. Heart to Heart Counseling Center maintains weekly 3 and 5 Day Intensives that couples fly in from all over the world to attend, dozens of weekly groups, hundreds of weekly appointments with 16 counselors on staff. Dr. Weiss personally continues to provide 5 Day Intensives at the Center. Dr. Weiss has been in recovery for over 34 years, he and all of the counselors at Heart to Heart verify their sobriety with regular polygraphs.   Dr. Weiss has authored more than 40 books and offers 30 therapeutic DVDs for men, women and marriages. He is proud to be the first author to write a book for the partners of sex addicts. Dr. Weiss was the first to coin the term Intimacy Anorexia which is the withholding of emotional, physical and spiritual intimacy in marriage.   He’s been the expert guest on numerous national shows including Oprah, Dr. Phil and Good Morning America. He has had two documentaries, Lifetime TV Network and a British documentary produced about his practice. He is also the President of the American Association for Sex Addiction Therapy (AASAT) which is a certification training program for sex addiction, partners of sex addicts, and intimacy anorexia.    In this episode, you will hear:  Understanding more about betrayal in relationships How infidelity can cause intense trauma and various reactions from individuals Why therapeutic polygraphs can help in rebuilding trust and establishing boundaries The need for reassurance and commitment in moving forward The role of self-care and not taking on new responsibilities during healing  Looking at anger as a work exercise Why we need intimacy-building practices and disciplines in relationships The value of intentional rituals and emotional intimacy   Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast  Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Sophie Saint Thomas, a journalist and author, discusses multiple orgasms, the diversity of sexual experiences, and the importance of focusing on pleasure beyond orgasms. They explore the role of psychological arousal and the pressure to have explosive orgasms. The podcast also touches on men faking orgasms, the use of handheld sex toys, and the significance of communication in queer relationships.

Sex educator Ruth Ramsay discusses the art of strip-teasing, ways to create excitement through role-playing, the importance of communication to prevent discomfort, and how to introduce mystery and curiosity into long-term relationships.