Sexology

Welcome to episode 209 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Yekaterina Bakhta to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Bakhta speaks with me about the issues around achieving orgasms, why some women lose their sexual drive and looking at available medicines and treatments that can improve sexual desire.    Dr. Yekaterina Bakhta is a board-certified ObGyn who provides exceptional care to women of all ages. Uniquely experienced in treating female sexual dysfunction, she cares for patients with painful intercourse, low libido and difficulty with orgasm.     Striving to perfect female beauty and function inside and out, Dr. Bakhta utilizes the newest medications, cutting edge technology and innovative surgical techniques. . She offers a variety of treatments to enhance the female form and is developing advances in cosmetic gynecology and esthetics.      Dr. Bakhta’s extensive training in minimally invasive surgical techniques include vaginal reconstruction, labioplasty, incontinence procedures as well as laparoscopic and hysteroscopic surgeries. Well respected by both colleagues and patients, she is regularly recognized and awarded for her surgical skills and patients quick post-operative recovery.     She enjoys all aspects of Obstetrics and Gynecology, including wellness, contraception, and surgery. In addition to adult gynecology, Dr. Bakhta has a special interest in adolescent gynecology and gently cares for young women.      Dr. Bakhta is a graduate of University of California Los Angeles, receiving Bachelor of Science degree with honors in Biology.  She received her Doctor of Medicine from the University of Southern California Keck School of Medicine.. Upon graduation, Dr. Bakhta was honored  by the Alpha Omega Alpha Medical Honor Society for her dedication to the medicine and her pursuit of healing knowledge.  She then completed residency training with Kaiser Permanente Los Angeles Medical Center.  She received board certification from the American Board of Obstetrics and Gynecology and is an active fellow of ABOG and member of the American College of Obstetrics and Gynecology. Dr. Bakhta has been named “Leading Physician of the World” by International Association of ObGyn and has been listed as the “Top Doc” in Los Angeles.     Dr. Bakhta is passionate about providing the highest level of care to her patients and empowering women to take control of their health and sexual well-being. Her patients love her for her kindness, gentle exams and sensitivity. She is very personable, and her congenial bedside manner makes it easy for patients to open up regarding sensitive subjects.      She is devoted to providing excellent care for the Los Angeles community and hopes to continue guiding her patients through the stages of their lives.    In this episode, you will hear:     Why do some women lose their sexual drive?  Understanding that courtship and affection are important for female arousal   Why context around sex is very important  How guilt can override sexual desire  Looking at the hormonal change's women go through that affect sexual desire  Natural ways you can improve your libido  Available medicines and treatments that can improve sexual desire  Understanding potential side effects of potential treatments   Looking at the issues around achieving orgasms      Find Dr. Bakhta online  http://sunsetcosmeticsurgery.com     Find Dr. Moali online    http://www.sexologypodcast.com    Find me on social media  https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast  https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care      25 Ways to Increase Desire  https://oasis2care.com/opt-in     If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali  https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist      Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 208 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Ali Mushtaq to the podcast. In this episode Ali talks to me about BDSM and social justice, incorporating spirituality into sexuality and steps you can take if you’re interested in exploring BDSM.     Dr. Mushtaq has his PhD in Sociology from University of California: San Francisco and Masters in Social and Demographic analysis from University of California: Irvine. He is Mr. Long Beach Leather 2016 and has been profiled by numerous editorials, including the New York Times.  Ali also has written several op-eds and scholarly articles that focus on race and sexuality. He is also a former college professor and has taught numerous courses that have focused on sexual identity and research methods. Currently, he is coauthoring a book on Black women AIDS activists and is on contact with Lexington Press.     Dr. Mushtaq also founded and owns Getting Wolfie LLC, which provides education related to diversity and empowerment. In addition to courses that focus on developing inclusive methods in marketing, he is also develops socially inclusive BDSM education courses that focus on sexual empowerment.    In this episode, you will hear:     How Dr. Ali became introduced and interested in BDSM  Looking at Dr. Ali’s experience of coming out   The community's reaction to Dr. Ali becoming interested in BDSM   The misconceptions that exist around BDSM  Bridging the gap between BDSM and social justice   Informing people about the history and dynamics of BDSM  Incorporating spirituality into sexuality   How communities can be more inclusive for people of different ethnicities   Steps you can take if you’re interested in exploring BDSM   Analyzing the common question of when does BDSM become abuse?  Understanding the need to frequently check in on consent         Find Ali Mushtaq online  http://www.gettingwolfie.com     Find Dr. Moali online    http://www.sexologypodcast.com    Find me on social media  https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast  https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care      Quiz: What Kind of Lover are You? http://www.sexologypodcast.com/lover/    If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali  https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist      Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio   Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 207 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Lucy Rowett to the podcast. In this episode Lucy speaks to me about reclaiming sexuality after being raised as an Evangelical Christian, learning to challenge negative sex messages and dispelling the myth that having sexual feelings is sinful.     Lucy Rowett is a sexologist and intimacy coach based in Brighton, UK. She describes herself as an Evangelical Sexologist and pleasure advocate, who is passionate about empowering women to liberate their bodies and souls from the shackles of shame. She uses a fusion of "neck up" and "neck down" approaches, combining sexology and accurate sexuality education with somatic practices, taoism, tantra, and embodiment.     As a sexpert, she has been quoted in many online publications such as Kinkly, Men's Health, Glamour, Dame, O Diaries, Oprah Magazine, Brides, Tinder Swipe Life, and The Body. She grew up in London in the 90s and 00s in the Church, and got the full whammy of Purity Culture, which she spent years deconstructing. She is passionate about exploring the intersections of faith, sexuality, and shame. She is also a fanatic tea connoisseur, devourer of books, lover of dancing, and slave to cats.    In this episode, you will hear:     Lucy’s experience growing up from a religious background  Looking at Evangelical Christianity   Understanding the myth’s around purity culture  The impact sex had on popular culture in the 90’s / 00’s   How Lucy decided Evangelical Christianity wasn’t the right path for her  Combining sexuality and spirituality   Learning to challenge negative sex messages  How to positively question people in positions of authority   Going through the process of faith de-construction  Learning to understand and use Tantra to connect with your sexual self  Dispelling the myth that having sexual feelings is sinful     Find Lucy Rowett online  https://lucyrowett.com     Download your free guide to mastering sexual communication here https://bit.ly/MoreofWhatYouWant     Find Dr. Moali online    http://www.sexologypodcast.com    Find me on social media  https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast  https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care      Ebook: How to Increase Your Libido – For Women  https://oasis2care.com/how-to-increase-your-libido/     If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali  https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist      Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio   Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 206 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Kathryn Klement to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Klement speaks with me about sexual narcissism, its effects on relationships, early signs and red flags and exploring sexual boundaries with your partner.     Dr. Kathryn Klement (they/them) is an Assistant Professor of Psychology of Women & Gender at Bemidji State University.  Their primary teaching interests are human sexuality, gender, and research methods.  Their major research interests include sexual violence, how transphobia relates to other systems of oppression, and transgender patients’ experiences in healthcare.  They have also published work related to consensual BDSM (bondage/discipline, dominance/submission, and sadism/masochism), sexual consent, and sexual entitlement.      In this episode, you will hear:     What is sexual narcissism?  Identifying sexual narcissism in relationships  The effect patriarchy has on this issue  Looking at the research Dr. Klement conducted   Early signs and red flags for sexual narcissism  Exploring your boundaries for sex and sexuality   Understanding your partners boundaries and creating a sexual pact   Understanding that can’t use sex to change a person into how you want them to be    Find Dr. Kathryn Klement online  https://twitter.com/krklement     Find Dr. Moali online:    http://www.sexologypodcast.com    Find me on social media:    https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast  https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care      Ebook: How to Increase Your Libido – For Women  https://oasis2care.com/how-to-increase-your-libido/     If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali:  https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist      Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio   Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 205 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Tripp Kramer to the podcast. In this episode Tripp speaks with me about how men can learn to better talk to women, the traps men fall into when trying to initiate sex too quickly, and understanding the role and importance of emotional safety.     Tripp Kramer is an internationally known dating coach and founder of Tripp Advice, a men's dating advice company. He is also the creator of the popular YouTube channel "Tripp Advice", which teaches men how to become more attractive to women and host of his own weekly podcast entitled "How To Talk To Girls". Tripp currently resides in Chicago Illinois.    In this episode, you will hear:     The common mistakes men make when talking to women   Looking at the negative experience's men have when trying to talk to women   The importance of being authentic and true to yourself  Looking at the issue of rejection and how to deal with it  Why you need to listen as much as you talk   The traps men fall into when trying to initiate sex too quickly   Why women will often respond negatively to rushing into sex  Understanding emotional safety         Find Tripp Kramer online  http://coachedbytripp.com     Find Promescent Online  https://www.promescent.com   Discount Code – sexology15     Find Dr. Moali online:    http://www.sexologypodcast.com    Find me on social media:    https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast  https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care      Farsi Podcast  https://sexologypodcast.libsyn.com/rss      If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali:  https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist      Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio   Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 204 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Ian Kerner, PhD, LMFT to the podcast. In this episode Ian speaks with me about the psychological reasons men have low desire, the negative consequences shame can have on your sex life and learning to reconnect with your sexual self.    Ian Kerner, PhD, LMFT is a licensed marriage and family therapist and nationally recognized sexuality counselor who specializes in sex therapy, couples therapy and working with individuals on a range of relational issues. Ian is the New York Times best-selling author She Comes First (Harper Collins), which has been translated into more than a dozen languages. He regularly consults for articles in major publications such as The Atlantic and The Economist, and he also writes on the topic of sex for CNN Health. He is the co-director of the sex therapy program at the Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy, one of New York's oldest and most respected not-for-profit mental health training and treatment facilities.     In addition to being a Clinical Fellow of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (AAMFT), Ian is certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists and he is also a member of the Society for Sex Therapy and Research (SSTAR) and The American Family Therapy Academy (AFTA). Ian was born and raised in New York City, where he maintains a private practice and lives with his wife and two sons, and their beloved dogs, Jitterbug and Oscar.      In this episode, you will hear:     Looking the psychological reasons men have low desire?  Why we as individuals want to self-actualize more   Learning to expand your erotic space that will lend itself to desire  How your self image can affect how you are in the bedroom  Looking at the sexual boredom study Ian previously conducted  The negative consequences shame can have on your sex life  Why we might have become disconnected from our sexual selves  Learning to reconnect with your sexual self   The role that porn plays around this issue      Find Ian Kerner, PhD, LMFT online  https://www.iankerner.com     Find Promescent Online  https://www.promescent.com   Discount Code – sexology15     Find Dr. Moali online:    http://www.sexologypodcast.com    Find me on social media:    https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast  https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care       If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali:  https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist      Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio   Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 203 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Judson Brandeis to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Brandeis talks to me about the issues of low testosterone, how can you increase your testosterone levels and analyzing how a healthy lifestyle will lead to a better sex drive.     Dr. Judson Brandeis is a board-certified urologist specializing in men's sexual medicine. Brandeis has always been on the cutting edge of Urology. Dr. Judson Brandeis has been voted by SF Magazine as a Top Urologist in the SF Bay Area from 2014 to 2020.  In February of 2019, he opened his male-oriented office in San Ramon to focus his practice entirely on men’s sexual health and rejuvenation. BrandeisMD is a national leader in technology and innovations in sexual medicine.  Dr. Brandeis is the National Director of Clinical Excellence for GAINSWave and created and runs the SWEET Study, the largest study of Shockwave Therapy for ED ever.     Brandeis has appeared on The Doctor's TV Show and recent podcasts with Michael Ruscio and Ben Greenfield. He has also been featured in Maxim, Fatherly, Bustle, and Askmen.    In this episode, you will hear:     The differences between men and women’s sexual drive   Looking at testosterone levels and how they relate to a healthy sex life  What are the causes of low testosterone?  Changing your testosterone levels through diet and exercise   Analyzing reasons why Viagra may not be working for you  The importance of relaxation for a healthy erection  Understanding how a healthy lifestyle will further boost your efforts for a higher sex drive  Looking at the importance of nighttime erections      Find Dr. Judson Brandeis Online  https://brandeismd.com     Find Promescent Online  https://www.promescent.com   Discount Code – sexology15     Find Dr. Moali online:    http://www.sexologypodcast.com    Find me on social media:    https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast  https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care       If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali:  https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist      101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot  http://www.sexologypodcast.com/subscribe/   https://oasis2care.com/subscribe/      Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio   Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 202 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Jeff Abraham to the podcast. In this episode Jeff speaks to me about premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction, common questions that men bring up when talking about these issues and we take a look at the scientific studies and credentials around Promescent.    Jeff Abraham is the CEO of Absorption Pharmaceuticals, whose lead product, Promescent, is addressing a global need for men suffering from Premature Ejaculation and Erectile Dysfunction. He and his team are dedicated to bringing innovative products to market that solve sexual performance issues for both men and women. With over 10-years experience in the field of sexual wellness, Jeff has seen and heard from thousands of couples and is a great thought leader in the space.    In this episode, you will hear:     Common questions that men bring up about their sexuality when talking about premature ejaculation   The differences between men and women on what is a priority for good sex  The frustration that can build when you feel your partner isn’t present during sex  Taking a look at the arousal gap  Looking at available solutions for premature ejaculation   Understanding the importance of giving and receiving for great sex   Taking a look at the scientific studies and credentials around Promescent  Are there side effects such as numbness when using Promescent?  Boosting your confidence for better sex         Find Promescent Online  https://www.promescent.com   Discount Code – sexology15     Find Dr. Moali online:    http://www.sexologypodcast.com    Find me on social media:    https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast  https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care       If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali:  https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist      101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot  http://www.sexologypodcast.com/subscribe/   https://oasis2care.com/subscribe/      Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio   Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to a bonus Halloween episode of the Sexology Podcast! On this episode, I talk about how you can get playful with Halloween themes in the bedroom with my guest, sex therapist and host of Sex Talk with Erika, Erika Miley.   Erika Miley is the founder and practice owner of The Center for Mental and Sexual Health. She believes in accessible, confidential, and comfortable therapy. Erika graduated from Whitworth University with a Master’s of Education in Clinical Mental Health. She has worked in public agencies, prisons, and in her own private practice. Erika’s specialty lies in Sexuality, working with monogamous and non-monogamous couples, non-binary genders, as well as people who suffer from anxiety and depression.   In this episode, you will hear: The importance of incorporating fun in your sex life during these turbulent times Tapping into different dynamics to surprise your partner Role playing by dressing up in costumes Changing locations for something exciting and new How to work in exhibitionism in a safe and legal way Paint your partner’s body and let them paint yours with edible paint Halloween is the perfect time to introduce your fantasies to your partner Temperature play with candles, oils, and ice Incorporating food into your play Do a sexy scavenger hunt Attend a virtual women-led sex party Use Halloween-themed sex toys     101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot http://www.sexologypodcast.com/subscribe/   Find Erika online: https://erikamiley.com/ www.sextalkwitherika.com Instagram @erikamileytherapy https://www.facebook.com/groups/sextalkprogroup  Twitter @MrsErikaMiley   Find Dr. Moali online:    http://www.sexologypodcast.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Today on the Sexology Podcast we are celebrating our 200th episode! We’ll be revisiting past episodes that our listeners selected as the ones that helped them the most and provided the best sex advice.     In this episode, you will hear clips from:     Dr. Lonnie Barbach, a clinical-social psychologist, has received numerous awards for her work on sexuality and has written a dozen books on relationships, sexuality and menopause in addition to a number of video tapes and audio tapes.      http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/04/02/how-to-please-your-lover-by-dr-lonnie-barbach      Dr. Alison Ash is a sex and intimacy coach and educator, lecturer at Stanford University, author, and founder of TurnON.love.     http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/12/03/art-and-science-of-seduction-with-dr-alison-ash/      Caitlin V is a sex and relationship coach who helps men become amazing lovers and incredible partners.     http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/08/20/how-to-last-longer-in-bed/     Dr. Cat Meyer, PsyD, LMFT is a licensed couples therapist, sex therapist, yoga instructor, published researcher, and reiki practitioner dedicated to evolving the relationship we have surrounding sexuality and our bodies.     http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2020/01/07/ep158-7-ways-to-upgrade-your-sex-life-according-to-sexperts/      Emily Nagoski is the award-winning author of the New York Times bestseller, Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life and The Come As You Are Workbook, and co-author, with her sister Amelia, of Burnout: The Secret to Solving the Stress Cycle.    http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/03/12/female-orgasm-with-dr-emily-nagoski/      Stephen Snyder MD is a sex therapist, relationship therapist, and sexual medicine specialist who has dedicated his entire career to helping individuals and couples with sex and relationship concerns.     http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2020/07/28/ep187-the-key-to-great-sex-in-long-term-relationships-with-dr-stephen-snyder/      Tammy Nelson, Ph.D. is a Board Certified Sexologist and Certified Sex Therapist as well as a Relationship Therapist and author of several books for couples including Getting the Sex You Want, The New Monogamy, When You’re the One Who Cheated and Integrative Sex and Couples Therapy.     http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/11/05/ep149-the-monogamy-paradox-with-dr-tammy-nelson      Carol Queen is an American author, editor, sociologist and sexologist active in the sex-positive feminism movement. Queen has written on human sexuality in books such as Real Live Nude Girl: Chronicles of Sex-Positive Culture.    http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2020/01/28/how-to-overcome-sexual-shyness-with-carol-queen-phd/      Ari Tuckman, PsyD, CST has given more than 350 presentations across America and in nine countries. His fourth book, ADHD After Dark: Better Sex Life, Better Relationship, examines how ADHD impacts a couple’s sexual and relationship satisfaction and how to improve both.     http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2019/09/03/sex-relationships-adhd-with-dr-ari-tuckman/      Barbara Carrellas is the founder of Urban Tantra® and the author of Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-first Century, Ecstasy is Necessary: A Practical Guide to Sex, Relationships and Oh So Much More, and Luxurious Loving.     http://www.sexologypodcast.com/2020/01/14/tantric-orgasm-with-barbara-carrellas     101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot  http://www.sexologypodcast.com/subscribe/   https://oasis2care.com/subscribe/      Find Dr. Moali online:    http://www.sexologypodcast.com    Find me on social media:    https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast  https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care       If you are interested in booking a video counselling session with Dr. Moali:  https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist      Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio   Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy