Sexology

Welcome to episode 283 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Kenneth Play to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how Kenneth became a Sex Hacker, ways you can achieve multiple orgasms and cultivating energy for amazing foreplay.    Kenneth Play is an international sex expert and sex educator. Named the world’s greatest sex hacker by GQ, he has been featured by more than one hundred media outlets, including The New York Times, Men’s Health, Cosmopolitan, Huffington Post, and Nightline.      Kenneth has been a guest lecturer on female sexual pleasure at New York University and San Jose State University. His work has helped millions of men gain lasting confidence and competence. AskMen described Kenneth’s most recent course as having "at least one nugget of sexual learning you’ve almost certainly never encountered before, if not several."       In this episode, you will hear:     How Kenneth became a Sex Hacker  Can anyone have multiple orgasms?  Looking at the different types of orgasms  How women can continue having an orgasm when the clit is very sensitive  Ways you can best equip yourself with the tools needed for great orgasms The importance of foreplay for achieving multiple orgasms Cultivating energy for amazing foreplay Understanding a Lady Boner is  The importance of learning skills so you’re not shooting in the dark     Find Kenneth Play Online  https://kennethplay.com     Emjoy App (Free 14 Days Trial)  https://links.letsemjoy.com/ref/DRMOALI    101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot  https://sexologypodcast.com/subscribe/     Instagram  https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast     Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audioAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 282 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr Jennifer Lincoln to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss having sex on your period, how you can pay attention to your desire cycle, and how it’s normal for many women to feel more turned on during their period.    Jennifer Lincoln, MD, IBCLC, is a board-certified generalist obstetrician/gynecologist and attending physician in Portland, Oregon. She primarily works on labor and delivery as an OB hospitalist and loves the excitement and pace this work brings. Jennifer is also an International Board-Certified Lactation Consultant.     Jennifer received her undergraduate degree from Washington College in Chestertown, Maryland, where she graduated Summa Cum Laude. She received her medical degree from Tulane University in New Orleans, Louisiana, where she was a member of Alpha Omega Alpha, the nation’s honor medical society. She completed her residency at Oregon Health and Science University in Portland, Oregon.     Jennifer enjoys educating women about their bodies and their pregnancies. She has particular interests in adolescent medicine, breastfeeding advocacy, and supporting women in labor in an informed, relaxed manner. She currently serves on the Board of Directors for the Northwest Mothers Milk Bank as well as for the Society of OB/GYN Hospitalists.     She is happily married to a pediatrician and has two sons, one in elementary school and the other a preschooler, who teach her more everyday than any textbook could.       In this episode, you will hear:     Can we have sex during our period? What are the benefits of having sex on your period? How having sex on your period can act as a natural lubricant  Can you get pregnant while having sex on your period? How it’s normal for many women to feel more turned on during their period Exploring oral sex while on your period  Looking at “Menstrual Masking”  Can you reduce your period flow? How having sex on your period can be great in the shower Ways you can increase novelty into the relationship through period sex Learning to pay attention to your desire cycle    Find Dr Jennifer Lincoln Online  https://www.drjenniferlincoln.com     Emjoy App (Free 14 Days Trial)  https://links.letsemjoy.com/ref/DRMOALI    101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot  https://sexologypodcast.com/subscribe/     Instagram  https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast     Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audioAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 281 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Layla London to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss Layla’s journey to creating a sexual bucket list, why novelty is important to keep sex exciting and why stepping outside your comfort zone is important to explore sexuality.    Layla London is the girl next door who recently decided to explore her sexuality. After a 3.5-year, self-imposed, dry spell she woke up one day and said "What the heck am I doing to myself? Why have I just shut off that side of my sexuality? I need physical contact badly."     She decided to stop "wasting the pretty" and get out there! Having set out on her "sexual road trip" she is scratching things off her sex bucket list. Layla is getting laid, exploring "kinks" (a word she really didn't know anything about before this), having fun, sifting through the emotions it stirs up in her, blogging and podcasting about it anonymously       In this episode, you will hear:     How Layla dealt with celibacy   Why novelty is important to keep sex fresh and exciting  How celibacy drove Layla to explore her sexuality   Why Layla decided to create a sexual bucket list   The ways in which porn helped Layla explore her sexuality  Understanding the difference between ethical porn and sex education videos  Learning to communicate effectively with your partner about what you want  Looking at what Layla liked and disliked from her sexual exploration  The things that are still on Layla’s sexual bucket list   What are the common things on people’s sexual bucket list  Why stepping outside your comfort zone is important to explore sexuality   The importance of sexual negotiation and doing it in good faith     Find Layla London Online  https://www.thecuriousgirldiaries.com     Emjoy App (Free 14 Days Trial)  https://links.letsemjoy.com/ref/DRMOALI    101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot  https://sexologypodcast.com/subscribe/     Instagram  https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast     Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 280 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a solo episode where we discuss the best ways to initiate sex.        In this episode, you will hear:     How couples in long term relationships can learn new ways to initiate sex   Ways you can add novelty into your relationship   The importance of reciprocation for a healthy sexual relationship   Understanding the arousal gap between men and women   Analyzing the responsive model of desire   How partners can become resentful of things that happen in a relationship  Using communication to improve your sex life with your partner  How a good sexual plan can be a game changer  Learning to take things slow so you can last longer  Overcoming issues of partners liking other people’s Instagram photos, leading to issues of anxiety and insecurity    The importance of having a relationship agreement  Setting realistic goals and expectations that you can both achieve     Find Dr. Nazanin Moali Online  http://sexologypodcast.com     Emjoy App (Free 14 Days Trial)  https://links.letsemjoy.com/ref/DRMOALI     101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot  https://sexologypodcast.com/subscribe/     Instagram  https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast     Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 279 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Stella Harris to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how you can have a successful threesome, looking at cuckolding and hotwifing and how you can first bring up with your partner you want a threesome.    Stella Harris is a certified intimacy educator, coach, and mediator, who uses a variety of tools to guide and empower her clients and she teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. Stella has appeared at conferences across the US and Canada, and regularly provides workshops and guest lectures to colleges and universities.     Stella’s writing has appeared widely, including a weekly sex advice column in her local paper. Highlights of her media appearances include speaking as an expert on Banana Slug sex and appearing on the evening news discussing the importance of sex education in schools.    Stella is the author of two books, Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships, and The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes.        In this episode, you will hear:     What do we mean when we say threesome?  Looking at cuckolding and hot hotwifing  Why it’s important to plan your threesome   The importance of clear communication and agreements when negotiating a threesome  Looking at play party spaces   How you can first bring up with your partner you want a threesome  Understanding that a threesome in real life is not what like you see in porn  The importance of aftercare after a threesome   Engaging in other activities after a threesome such as a coffee or meal  Why you should take things very slowly and test the waters before going deeper    Find Stella Harris Online  https://www.stellaharris.net     Survey  Please fill out this brief survey to help us know the content you want to hear: https://help373205.typeform.com/to/PfsEolrp   101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot  https://sexologypodcast.com/subscribe/     Instagram  https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast     Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 278 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Alicia Davon back to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss extended massive orgasms, how you can achieve them, tips for the giver and how you can work through anxiety to have an extended massive orgasm.     Alicia Davon holds a Master’s degree in Integral Psychology with a focus on women’s romantic and sensual expression. She trained as a therapist before meeting Erwan and led numerous women’s groups devoted to female pleasure and life fulfilment from career to relationship. She met Erwan 15 years ago and started teaching with him soon after.     Together with her partner Erwan, Alicia developed The Pleasure Course, which has helped thousands achieve their ideal love lives. They provide a safe place to explore psychological inquiry, pleasure, and sexuality.      In this episode, you will hear:     Working through anxiety to have an extended massive orgasm   Looking at the first time Alicia achieved an extended orgasm   Understanding your body to allow involuntary genital contractions   Incorporating your fantasies for extended orgasms   Tips for the giver to help achieve extended orgasms   Practical tips for best movements and touch around the genitals  Knowing when it’s best to incorporate lube   Communicating effectively with your partner about what’s working and what’s not  Understanding the signs of when your close to an extended orgasm     Find Alicia Davon Online  https://pleasurecourse.com     We want your feedback! Please fill out this brief survey to help us know the content you want to hear: https://help373205.typeform.com/to/PfsEolrp   Free Erotica  https://oasis2care.com/free-erotica/     Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 277 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Searah Deysach to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the areas where vulva owners can improve their skills on touch, analyzing the mixed messaging that’s out there around the vulva, and how you can tune into your erotic self.      Searah Deysach is a sex educator and the owner of Early to Bed and FtM Essentials. In addition to running her retail store & websites, she lectures to community groups and colleges around the state on topics relating to masturbation, sex toys and positive sexuality.   She is committed to working to create a culture where everyone has access to honest information about sexuality and all folks have access to the services, they need to protect their reproductive rights.      In this episode, you will hear:     Looking at some of the areas Vulva owners can improve their skills on touch   The importance of giving yourself enough time to explore your Vulva  How you can explore other areas of your body alongside your Vulva  Looking at some of the best touches, techniques and strokes you can use  The best way to use lube with your Vulva  Analyzing the mixed messaging that’s out there around the Vulva  Ways in which masturbation can help you explore different parts your yourself  How you can practice mindful masturbation  Tuning into your erotic self  Recommendations for good sex toys you can use   We want your feedback! Please fill out this brief survey to help us know the content you want to hear: https://help373205.typeform.com/to/PfsEolrp   Find Searah Deysach Online  https://www.early2bed.com     Sex Quiz for Women   https://oasis2care.com/sexquiz     Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 276 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss why having fantasies is important, analyzing the over-empowerment or “rape” fantasy and understanding the importance of allowing your fantasies to expand.    Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus, a certified sex therapist, is the Clinical Director of Maze Women’s Sexual Health, the largest independent sexual health center in the country.  She’s the author of Sex Points: Reclaim Your Sex Life with the Revolutionary Point System.  She earned her Ph.D. in Human Sexuality and a Master’s in public health at the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality; she holds a master’s degree in social work from Columbia University and a master’s degree in Jewish Studies from the Jewish Theological Seminary.     Dr. Marcus has worked as the executive director of not-for-profit institutions and corporations, medical practices, and laboratories. She has lectured internationally on women’s issues, gives frequent Grand Rounds to medical health providers, as well as lecturing to sex therapists around the world.     She has been a guest on numerous radio and television shows, including CNBC, CBS News, Huffington Post Live, and NPR and been profiled in the New York Times Magazine, Time Magazine, and Westchester Magazine, among others.        In this episode, you will hear:     Why having fantasies is important   How many women fear their whole sex life is broken if one thing isn’t working   How fantasies are one of the most powerful tools you can use for great sex  Looking at how the brain functions with sexual fantasies   Understanding how we form sexual fantasies   Analyzing the over-empowerment or “rape” fantasy   Understanding that the over-empowerment fantasy is completely normal   How sexual fantasies can improve sex with your partner  Ways in which you can get inspired for new sexual fantasies   Understanding the importance of allowing your fantasies to expand       We want your feedback!  Please fill out this brief survey to help us know the content you want to hear:  https://help373205.typeform.com/to/PfsEolrp    Find Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus Online  https://drbatsheva.com     101 Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life  https://sexologypodcast.com/subscribe     Instagram  https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast     Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 275 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Jeff Abraham back to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how you can improve your sex life with your partner, the importance of open and honest communication and how you can overcome a lack of creativity in the bedroom.     Jeff Abraham is the CEO of Absorption Pharmaceuticals, whose lead product, Promescent, is addressing a global need for men suffering from Premature Ejaculation and Erectile Dysfunction. He and his team are dedicated to bringing innovative products to market that solve sexual performance issues for both men and women.     With over 10-years' experience in the field of sexual wellness, Jeff has seen and heard from thousands of couples and is a great thought leader in the space.       In this episode, you will hear:     The importance of open and honest communication with your partner  Understanding that we can’t be mind readers and anticipate all of our partners needs How you can overcome a lack of creativity in the bedroom  Analyzing the dynamic between male and female characteristics  Why models on TV, social media etc are not a real representation of the human body Ways in which you can reassure your partner when exploring new sexual areas How you can use lube to greatly increase your sex life Understanding that masturbation is healthy and can be a part of your sexual palette     Find Promescent Online  https://www.promescent.com     101 Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life  https://sexologypodcast.com/subscribe     Instagram  https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast     Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to episode 274 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Luna Matatas to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how you and your partner can master pegging together, the importance of after-care when pegging and tips for beginners when exploring anal sex for the first time.    Luna Matatas is a Sex and Pleasure Educator with over 15 years of experience teaching sex and empowerment workshops. She celebrates body confidence, self-adoration and building shame-free pleasure in and out of the bedroom.     She teaches a wide range of topics; including threesomes, BDSM and sexual confidence. Luna hosts The Plug Podcast, an anal sex podcast by b-Vibe. She created Peg the Patriarchy® and Meditate Medicate Masturbate® brands as part of her sex-positive and feminist merchandise.      In this episode, you will hear:     How Luna became interested in this line of work  Looking at Prostate Play   Understanding that straight men can also enjoy anal sex  Exploring pegging and how you and your partner can master it together  Understanding the importance of after care when pegging   Looking at the best practices before moving into anal penetration   Understanding the difference between pain and discomfort around anal sex  Ways you can master muscle movements with your own anus  Tips for beginners when exploring anal sex for the first time   Why bigger isn’t always better when it comes to anal sex  Looking at toys you can use such as butt plugs   Knowing the best ways to stay cleanly when exploring anal sex     Find Luna Matatas Online  https://lunamatatas.com     101 Ways To Spice Up Your Sex Life    https://www.sexologypodcast.com/subscribe   Instagram  https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast     Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audioAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy