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An Episode That Unwraps the Dark, Autistic Charm of KrampusIn Episode 91 of The Autistic Culture Podcast, we delve into the origins of Krampus—the shadowy counterpart to Santa Claus—who intriguingly exhibits some distinctly autistic traits. Krampus can be seen as something of an autistic icon, as he shares a common dislike for the chaos of the holidays—such as loud noises, disruptions to routines, surprises, and sudden changes in plans—much like many autistic individualsHere’s what’s in store for today’s episode: * Winter and Christmas are, both metaphorically and literally, the darkest season. To counter this, we bring in light—stringing up festive lights, visiting Christmas displays, and celebrating brightness in the midst of the darkness. However, the dark side of Christmas absolutely deserves to be seen and acknowledged, as it provides essential balance and depth to the season's narrative.* Finding moments of happiness during this season can be both challenging and meaningful. There’s value in embracing the season’s darker aspects: revisiting ghostly tales, enjoying eerie holiday films, and acknowledging the shadows that make the light shine brighter.* Michael Dougherty's 2015 film Krampus centers around a boy from a dysfunctional family who, in a moment of frustration, wishes to be rid of them. Krampus hears his wish and descends upon the family, unleashing havoc and terror to teach them a dark and twisted lesson about the importance of holiday spirit and unity.* Matt and Angela take a moment to explore autistic-coded (and explicitly autistic) Halloween media, such as Dead Like Me and Trick 'r Treat, which serves as a perfect segue into their discussion about Krampus.* We touch on other autistic holiday icons, like the Grinch, who struggles with social interactions and sensory overload, and Charlie Brown, an autistic character navigating the holidays, written by an autistic man.* We discuss Christmas movies that aren’t technically Christmas movies but incorporate Christmas elements and themes—like Die Hard, Home Alone, and Gremlins. We also dive into the iconic Christmas film Violent Night, starring David Harbour, exploring its unique take on holiday storytelling and its blend of action, humor, and festive spirit.* Our hosts delve into Christmas's origins as the Feast of Saturnalia in ancient Roman times and explore how ghost stories have long been a cherished part of early Christmas traditions.* Matt and Angela dive into a discussion about Charles Dickens, why he sucks, and why The Muppet Christmas Carol stands out as the superior adaptation of the classic holiday tale.“Look, some years you need to be able to say, ‘Well, I might be home alone and depressed this Christmas, but at least I’m not being dragged off, beaten with birch sticks, and taken to hell. Even though it might feel that way sometimes.” - Dr Angela Kingdon“Krampus tells you all kinds of stuff. You just have to have the spirit of Krampus within you.” - Matt Lowry LPP“That’s the thing, you know - Christmas happens during the Winter Solstice, during the longest, darkest nights of the year. When all hope seems lost, the crops are dead, and the world is incredibly cold and unforgiving. And, if you go outside, you might die. You might legit die.” - Matt Lowry LPP“[Fighting the darker side]… that’s a big thing for us autistics because a lot of us face these struggles - especially when it’s promoted as, you know, everybody’s having a great time, everybody is happy. No, no, we are fighting our way through the darkness. We are fighting our way through the winter.” - Matt Lowry LPPIn this episode, we embrace the darker side of Christmas traditions, and celebrating iconic autistic-coded holiday characters like Krampus and the Grinch. Thanks for listening! Share your thoughts in the comments, and use #AutisticCultureCatch to connect with other listeners on social media. What resonated with you from this discussion? Let us know!Show notes:https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Krampus_(film)https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/KrampusTrick R Treat ​​- https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Trick_%27r_TreatRelated Shows:Christmas is Autistic Holiday Expectations and NeurodivergenceFairy Tales are AutisticReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!Follow us on InstagramFind us on Apple Podcasts and SpotifyLearn more about Angela at AngelaKingdon.com Our Autism-affirming merch shop This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

An episode that stims around the Christmas tree and reshapes holiday traditions.In Episode 90 of The Autistic Culture Podcast, we explore how to have a joyful neurodivergent Christmas by prioritizing your needs and letting go of expectations. We discuss how autistics rely on routines, and how the holidays can disrupt them, leading to dysregulation and chaos.Here’s what’s in store for today’s episode: * Matt and Angela dive into how Hallmark movies portray the stereotypical, picture-perfect version of Christmas—a version that often feels far removed from reality, especially for autistics. They explore how these idealized depictions can create unrealistic expectations and fail to consider the unique ways neurodivergent individuals experience the holiday season.* We discuss how autistics rely on routines, and how the holidays can disrupt them, leading to dysregulation and chaos. And since autism is genetic, many people in the household during the holidays might also be silently navigating sensory overload while juggling holiday pressures.* The challenges of having family members who are autistic but don’t identify as such or seek a diagnosis, and how this lack of acknowledgment can increase masking for the openly autistic individuals around them.* Having meltdowns around Christmas doesn’t have to feel overwhelming or unmanageable—as long as you have the right tools in place, like sensory supports or safe people to help you navigate the moment.* We discuss the importance of advocating for accommodations and using the acceptance of those accommodations—such as turning off the TV, avoiding twinkle lights, or lowering noise levels for sensory reasons—as a baseline for deciding whether or not to attend holiday gatherings.* How unusual and counterintuitive it is for autistics that physical touch, like hugging and kissing relatives, is so heavily emphasized during the holidays. We also dive into how odd—and frankly creepy—it is that kids are expected to sit on a mall Santa’s lap and share their secrets. We discuss the importance of setting and enforcing boundaries at holiday events, including creating a plan to leave early if overstimulation occurs or if the situation calls for it.* Having a comfort kit is essential for an autistic person during the holidays—packed with stim toys, eye masks, comfort blankets, and other items to support sensory regulation.* We talk about Matt's Christmas Dragon tradition, which he created with his son, and the importance of crafting personalized family traditions that cater to your sensory and emotional regulation needs.* We discuss the autistic tendency to be thoughtful gift-givers, as we often pay close attention to and deeply consider people's interests when selecting presents.* Holidays can be especially challenging for autistic people because we're not always able to access our safe foods. We discuss autistic food rules around the holidays, emphasizing that you don’t have to eat the family meal if it’s unbearable for you. Sometimes, a McNugget platter might be the best food tradition to introduce in an autistic household.* Self-care strategies during the holidays are vital for autistic people. We share some strategies that might work for you, including creating a list of holiday comfort shows and movies, using Christmas-themed comfort blankets and candles, and doing the planning work to ensure your holiday aligns with your needs and preferences.“So, if you’re listening to this on the day it’s released, you have somehow survived Thanksgiving if you celebrate. And now there is Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, the day after Christmas, Boxing Day. There’s still all of the New Year’s expectations. And then there’s this entire week or two off school, which, if you’re a parent, you have your children at home and still have to figure out how to work. So everything is jumbled and out of order. If you’re somebody who has created a life and a schedule to minimize sensory interruptions and other jilted expectations, the holidays are here to fuck with that.” - Dr Angela Kingdon “We are told what Christmas is, but yet there are an infinite number of variables that impact upon that. Everything from credit card debt to the thing that you’re supposed to buy, you can’t find.” - Matt Lowry LPP“Create a safety plan, do self-care because honestly, the gauntlet between Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Year’s, and Valentine’s Day is just this long stretch of psychological horror.” - Matt Lowry LPPIn today’s episode, we dive into navigating the holiday season as an autistic person, focusing on how to manage sensory overload, advocate for accommodations, and create a comfortable environment. Thanks for tuning in! Share your thoughts on the conversation in the comments, and use #AutisticCultureCatch to connect with fellow listeners on social media. What tips or insights from the episode will help you this holiday season?Resources:Jade Farrington’s Community Guide to a Happy Neurodivergent ChristmasRelated Episodes:Krampus is AutisticChristmas is AutisticReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!Follow us on InstagramFind us on Apple Podcasts and SpotifyLearn more about Angela at AngelaKingdon.com Our Autism-affirming merch shop This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

An episode that pierced its nose and sticks it to the man!In Episode 89 of The Autistic Culture Podcast, we dive into the mosh pit where the powerful intersection between punk ethos and neurodivergence meet, unpacking how these two worlds resonate deeply with shared values and traits. Realizing you are neurodivergent doesn’t erase your punk identity—it deepens it! 🤘🏼Here’s what’s to come in this episode: * Punk celebrates nonconformity, rejecting the rigid societal expectations and hierarchies that often marginalize neurodivergent individuals. It embraces the idea that standing up for what you believe in—no matter how unconventional—is a strength, not a flaw.* This ethos of Punk aligns with the autistic experience of navigating a world that frequently misunderstands or undervalues difference. Punk fosters a sense of belonging by creating a community for misfits—a safe haven for those who’ve been excluded or overlooked in more traditional spaces. In this way, punk and neurodivergence together challenge norms, celebrate authenticity, and amplify the voices of those too often silenced.* We discussing Courtney Love and her candid acknowledgment of her autism in a 1994 Rolling Stone interview. While she’s open about her experiences, some of her language is problematic—for instance, referring to non-speaking autism as "introverted." However, we delve into how many of the judgments and perceptions surrounding Courtney Love may be rooted in ableism, influenced by her autism diagnosis.* We explore the inherent connection between musical subcultures and autism, highlighting how these spaces can become a refuge for those who feel ostracized elsewhere.* Realizing you are neurodivergent doesn’t erase your punk identity—it deepens it. Subculture isn’t just about aligning with a particular music scene or fashion; it’s a gateway to discovering and embracing your most authentic self.* Loud music, often a hallmark of punk, can be soothing and sensory-stimulating for many of us on the autism spectrum.* Punk and punk-era band names are often defined by connotations of violence, aggression, sex, fetishism, turmoil, and eruption, with many even referencing disability. This rebellious language reflects the feelings of being "othered"—a sensation that resonates deeply with the autistic experience. Just as punk challenges societal norms and embraces marginalization, the association with disability within punk culture highlights how both the neurodivergent community and the subculture at large confront rejection, discrimination, and the struggle to be understood.* Punk intertwines with the refusal to be seen through the neurotypical lens, rejecting the pressure to conform to societal expectations. It’s about resisting the influence of outside forces and voices that seek to define who you are, instead embracing self-expression and authenticity on your own terms.* Body modifications, like tattoos and piercings, play into this idea of reclaiming autonomy and defying societal norms. For many in the punk and neurodivergent communities, these mods serve as a powerful way to express individuality, resist outside judgment, and celebrate personal identity on their own terms.* Autism is often framed through neurotypical-centric lenses, such as infantilization, pity, and the "superhero" trope, which limit our agency and self-expression. Punk, however, challenges these narratives by reclaiming our power and refusing to let society define or diminish us.* Punk embraces an anti-aesthetic that celebrates imperfections, rejecting the need for polished or conventional beauty standards. This ties directly to autism, as both challenge societal expectations of "perfection" and instead embrace authenticity, quirks, and individuality.* The culture of punk is, at its core, authenticity without apology—and that’s exactly what autistic people desire: spaces and cultures where they can be their true selves without the need to mask or conform.“When I talk about being introverted, I was diagnosed autistic. At an early age, I would not speak. Then I simply bloomed. My first visit to a psychiatrist was when I was like three. Observational therapy, TM for Tots, you name it, I’ve been there.” - Courtney Love (the one and only!!)“You [an autistic person] can’t just go into a space and say, ‘yes, I am perfectly at home here.’” No, you have to change it to fit your needs. And that’s fairly punk, because punk doesn’t show up and say, ‘yes, this is acceptable.’ No, we are going to rage against the machine.” - Matt Lowry LPP“Yes, we want you, you misfit toys, to fit in perfectly here. You are a part of our merry band of autistics and you are perfect just the way you are.” - Dr Angela Kingdon“Yes, punk is saying we are different and that’s enough, like we are enough and this fucking sucks at the same time. It’s not saying, like, ‘fix me’, necessarily. It’s saying, ‘this is my identity.’” - Dr Angela Kingdon Did you notice the connection between punk, subculture, and the autistic experience? In today’s episode, we explore how punk’s defiance and authenticity reflect the autistic spirit. Thanks for tuning in! Share your thoughts on the conversation in the comments, and use #AutisticCultureCatch to connect with fellow listeners on social media. Which parts of the punk ethos resonated most with you?Resources:Rolling Stone article where Courtney comes out - https://www.rollingstone.com/music/music-news/courtney-love-life-without-kurt-81520/Interview with Courtney where she talks about her diagnosis Autisticasfxxk - Raise your middle finger to neuronormativity! 🖕🖕🏿🖕🏾🖕🏽🖕🏼🖕🏻For Autistic punks, rebels and misfits forging their own path in a neurotypical world.https://www.autisticasfxxk.com/blog/autistic-punk/McKay, George, 'Punk Rock and Disability: Cripping Subculture', in Blake Howe, and others (eds), The Oxford Handbook of Music and Disability Studies (2015; online edn, Oxford Academic, 2 June 2016), https://doi.org/10.1093/oxfordhb/9780199331444.013.23, accessed 30 Oct. 2024.https://www.additudemag.com/autism-and-music-audhd/Queer Autistic Punk Playlist: https://boren.blog/2021/01/25/chronic-neurodivergent-depressed-queer-punk-punk-rock-the-social-model-of-disability-and-the-dream-of-the-accepting-community/Punk Country - Dash Rip Rock, Treaty Oak Revival (Bar Fight Blues)Related Episodes:Chess Is AutisticQuestlove is AutisticReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? 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An episode that redefines the perspective.In this episode, our hosts address audience requests to explore the often problematic and ambiguous terminology of the DSM-5. We also explore how the DSM’s description of autism overlooks critical aspects, such as proprioceptive difficulties and overlapping medical conditions like POTS, endometriosis, PMDD, and PCOS, as well as how autism is largely hereditary.Here’s what’s to come in this episode: * The DSM-5, often considered the Bible of psychology, tends to pathologize autism and reflect only a neurotypical perspective.* We discuss the issues with IQ tests, highlighting their ableist nature and why they shouldn’t determine autism diagnoses. Additionally, we argue that autistic individuals don’t have social deficits but instead exhibit social differences.* The DSM suggests that autistic people "lack imagination," when in reality, we have a rich internal world—we just express it differently.* Furthermore, the DSM pathologizes autistic people for speaking passionately and extensively about our special interests—activities and topics that bring us immense joy and fulfillment. Rather than being seen as a positive expression of enthusiasm and deep knowledge, this is unfairly framed as a deficit or abnormal behavior.* In this episode, we tackle the issue of psychologists and mental health professionals dismissing autistic women’s accounts of their own symptoms.* We also explore the various forms of stimming and routines, delving into why these practices provide comfort and security for autistic individuals.* Routines and expectations offer comfort to overwhelmed autistic individuals, as our brains process 42% more information at rest compared to neurotypical brains.* Finally, we discuss SPINs (Special Interests), which ones are considered socially "appropriate," and the unique sense of joy and fulfillment they bring—experiences that neurotypicals often cannot fully understand or access.* Lastly, we reflect on how the DSM portrays autism primarily through the lens of its impact on neurotypicals, rather than focusing on the internal experiences of autistic individuals. This perspective neglects the depth of autistic joy, fulfillment, and individuality, especially as seen through SPINs and other unique aspects of autistic life.“If you have depression, yeah, you probably don’t want that depression. You probably want the depression to go away. But with autism, it’s a neurotype. There are a lot of ableists and a lot of people who have internalized ableism who say, ‘I’m different and I don’t wanna be different. I wanna be like everybody else - but that’s a whole self-esteem problem.” - Matt Lowry LPP“The more stressed you are, the more neurotypicals around you are going to ask, ‘Hey, are you autistic or something?’ Yes, yes I am, thanks for asking.” - Matt Lowry LPPDid you notice how today’s episode challenges and reframes the DSM criteria for autism? We dive deep into this transformative discussion about shifting perspectives! Thanks for tuning in—share your thoughts on the conversation in the comments, and use #AutisticCultureCatch to connect with fellow listeners on social media. Which insights or moments resonated with you the most?Resources:https://www.mattlowrylpp.com/blog/reframing-dsm-autism-criteriahttps://www.mattlowrylpp.com/meme-galleryRelated Episodes:Bad Autism DiagnosisReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!Follow us on InstagramFind us on Apple Podcasts and SpotifyLearn more about Angela at AngelaKingdon.com Our Autism-affirming merch shop This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

Explore the intriguing world of the show 'You're the Worst' through the lens of autism. The hosts analyze deep character traits like PTSD and trauma, showcasing the neurodivergent aspects of the characters. They discuss the complexities of relationships, particularly between Jimmy and Gretchen, while navigating their individual struggles. Humor and mindfulness are woven into the conversation, highlighting the ups and downs of autistic experiences. Ultimately, it’s a celebration of the unique ways autistic individuals navigate life and love.

Unravelling the origins—this episode speaks volumes!In this episode, our hosts delve into the Takiwātanga meme—a popular social media trend often showcasing stunning Polynesian women and claiming that Takiwātanga is the Māori word for autism, meaning "in their own time and space."Here’s what’s to come in today’s episode: * Our hosts trace the origins of this meme, revealing that while the term’s creator is neurotypical, his intentions were genuinely positive. Kari O’Pai, a Māori linguist, developed the term Takiwātanga as part of a project aimed at depathologizing mental health terminology in the Māori language.* O'Pai's glossary was designed to curate terms for mental health, disability, and addiction that avoid pathologization, with the goal of fostering a positive and empowering indigenous Māori worldview.* Our hosts explore how well-meaning neurotypicals often attempt to romanticize or exoticize autism by introducing alternative terms—while many autistics simply prefer to use the actual word to describe themselves.* Matt and Angela discuss labels, how we relate to them, and why person-first language can be harmful to autistics.* We also explore how colonizer language inevitably pathologizes everyone—except white people.* In this episode, we also discuss support needs and how even neurotypicals require support at times. After all, we are all inextricably human. However, it's the society we live in, with its hyper-independent culture, that demonizes those with support needs.* In this episode, we also discuss support needs and how even neurotypicals require support at times. After all, we are all inextricably human. However, it's the society we live in, with its hyper-independent culture, that demonizes those with support needs.* We dive into candid discussions about global perspectives on disability, cultural appropriation, identity labels, and how colonialism is inherently bullshit.“I don’t like the idea of any allistic telling me what I have to do, ever. I may have PDA, but I have *especially* selective PDA about allistics telling me how to be autistic. Cause yeah, I will make eye contact if I want to. You can’t make me not make eye contact.” - Matt Lowry LPP“Do we have a fancy word for cancer or broken leg? It’s just fucking autism. No, it’s just cancer. It’s just broken leg. It’s just autism.” - Dr Angela Kingdon “Did you know that even neurotypicals need some support once in awhile? Fancy that, cuz humans. But that’s the thing. We live in such a colonialistic, bastardized society that says ‘lift yourself up by your bootstraps, be hyper-independent all the time, forever, always. And it frowns upon support needs of any kind.” - Matt Lowry LPPDid you notice how the Takiwātanga meme has sparked conversations about autism and language? In today’s episode, we explore its origins, cultural significance, and the impact of alternative terms for autism. Thanks for tuning in! Share your thoughts on the discussion in the comments, and use #AutisticCultureCatch to connect with fellow listeners on social media. What insights or perspectives resonated with you the most?Resources:https://www.altogetherautism.org.nz/a-time-and-space-for-takiwatanga/https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/blogs-news-from-elsewhere-40493398https://www.reddit.com/r/ReoMaori/comments/y84278/is_the_term_takiwatanga_real/https://www.tereohapai.nz/https://www.autismparentingmagazine.com/autism-perceived-different-cultures/https://www.facebook.com/groups/tmyndwtmynd/posts/831990382463880/https://takiwatanga.org.nz/the-story-of-takiwatanga/Related Episodes:Labels are AutisticCareers are AutisticReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!Follow us on InstagramFind us on Apple Podcasts and SpotifyLearn more about Angela at AngelaKingdon.com Our Autism-affirming merch shop This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

An episode that steals the spotlight and nails it solo!In this episode Matt and Angela dive into how being "dramatic" and "attention-seeking"—classic theater kid traits—are often just the shining stars of autism and neurodivergence. We raise the curtain on Angela's theater kid lore and spotlight how autism and theater make a show-stopping duo!Here’s what’s to come in this episode: * The levels of organization provides clear roles, boundaries, and expectations, allowing autistic folks to express themselves creatively without the stress of improvisation or ambiguity. * How theater provides a healthy outlet for autistic individuals to mask, offering a safe space to navigate social expectations.* The sense of community found in theater can be profoundly meaningful to autistic individuals. The collaborative nature of productions fosters connections through shared goals and mutual support, creating bonds that feel genuine and purposeful. * The structure of theater often bypasses small talk, an interaction many autistic people find tedious or uncomfortable. Instead, conversations are focused on the work at hand—scripts, characters, and performances—which can feel far more engaging and meaningful for autistic folks.* Routines, along with clear and visual communication, are key reasons why the structure of theater arts resonates with autistic individuals. The predictability of rehearsals, performances, and cues, combined with visual aids like scripts, stage blocking, and set designs, creates an environment that feels logical and accessible for autistic participants.* Our hosts explore how typically challenging tasks, like making eye contact, become more manageable within a performance context—since it’s the character, not the individual, taking on these actions.* Matt and Angela explore autistic-coded characters in theater, offering insights into their representation while critiquing how some plays lean too heavily on the "neurotypical savior" trope.* From Leo Bloom in The Producers to Maria in The Sound of Music, Matilda to Elle Woods and Alexander Hamilton, we spotlight theater characters who subtly display autistic traits you might not have noticed before.* Our hosts delve into Stephen Sondheim’s work, highlighting how his hyper-focus and emotional intensity reflect traits commonly associated with autism.* Through engaging discussions and thought-provoking examples, this episode celebrates the beautiful intersections between theater and neurodivergence, showing how the stage can be a haven for autistic expression and representation.“Being in front of an audience of 500 or 2,890 people, that’s a very specific number. Being in front of an audience of 500 or 2,890 people is very easy for me. The roles are incredibly clear, logical, and laid out. I am on stage. You are sitting in the seats watching me. I am playing a character and that is what you expect, want, and are paying for. The conversations onstage are scripted and written better than the ones in my real life.” - Matt Lowry LPP“One of my biggest social challenges is I will share a piece of information and it’s so obvious to me what the response is, which is usually something like ‘thank you, that was helpful information, my goodness’. And then the response I get is so different. It might be something like, ‘you’re fired’, or it will be like, ‘thank you’, and then I find out they have told five people I’m a pretentious asshole. And I’m like, how do these things not match up? But when there’s a script, even if it’s a Kafka play, where things don’t make sense, you see it and it’s fixed in time and it’s going to be logical every time.” - Dr Angela Kingdon“I would love for somebody to go up and give me a bullet point brochure: Welcome to the neighborhood. Trash is on this day. You are allowed to have this. This is when this happens. This is when that happens. This is when that happens. I want a schedule. I want knowledge.” - Matt Lowry LPPHave you ever felt the ups and downs of life on the stage? In today’s episode, Matt and Angela dive into how neurodivergent perspectives align with the unique world of theater. Thanks for tuning in! Share your thoughts in the comments, and use #AutisticCultureCatch to connect with fellow listeners. Which moments from their discussion resonate with your own theater experiences?Resources:Jenna Lourenco- www.jennalourenco.com -  There is a database there of plays featuring autistic characters and a growing list of openly autistic playwrights in the English-speaking world. Mickey Rowe Our Differences are Our Strengths: Neurodiversity in Theatre https://www.americantheatre.org/2015/05/04/the-curious-incidence-of-theatre-on-the-autism-spectrum/https://howtodanceinohiomusical.com/Maria from the sound of music - https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPRETdLCW/Up Close and Very Personal With The Real Stephen Sondheim Stephen Sondheim Blackwings Sold at AuctionBlackwing Pencils - https://www.hamiltonpens.com/blogs/articles/the-blackwing-pencil-culture-controversy-and-creativityRelated Episodes:Shakespeare is AutisticReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? 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An episode that celebrates neurodivergent creativity in writing.In this episode, we dive into one of Angela's favorite topics – writing – and explore how to approach creative projects through a neurodivergent perspective. We break down the writing process from an autistic perspective, how book mapping can be a powerful tool and why having systems in place for writing a book is just as essential as the systems autistic people rely on for everyday life!Here’s what’s write around the corner: * In this episode, we dive into Angela's writing journey – from crafting stories at ten years old, to working for the government (and unintentionally developing a special interest in espionage), to founding Difference Press and reflecting on her journey to where she is today.* We chat about our exclusive virtual writing circle on the paid Substack – where we share weekly prompts and write not for cash, but because writing is cathartic and life-affirming (though we wouldn’t say no to a book deal). Sign up to join the fun – your creative soul (and inbox) will thank you!* We dive into how the writing process can be a game-changer for hyper-verbal autistic individuals, helping us find our thoughts, gain our footing, and communicate ideas more clearly – because sometimes putting pen to paper is the best way to organize that mental marathon.* Our hosts discuss how scripting is a core part of the neurodivergent experience and how it can be a powerful tool in shaping our writing process – because sometimes having a script is the key to making sense of the chaos.* We also dive into how hyper-focus can be a game-changer for the writing process (and how it’s the secret behind Stephen King's impressive book count). When we’re in the zone, there's no stopping us!* We discuss writing as a powerful form of creative expression for neurodivergent individuals, and how it can be incredibly cathartic to write about our special interests, no matter who’s reading. Sometimes, the writing’s for us, not the audience!* Our hosts also chat about "discovering your author mojo" – which, let’s be real, is just figuring out what conditions make your autistic meat body thrive while writing. Because when the setting’s right, the words flow!* We also tackle how PDA autism and demand avoidance can sometimes stall our writing projects (ugh), and share some clever workarounds to push past those barriers and get the words flowing again!* Want to dive deeper into creative writing as an autistic individual? Join our writer's circle by becoming a paid Substack member today!“If I could just plug a word processor into my brain, I would generate book upon book like Stephen King, but it’s the matter of using my inferior meat body to do this.” - Matt Lowry LPP“This happens with a lot of us - our special interests become a career. Which I think is good, but when it becomes a thing you’re making money on, it changes how you interact with it.”- Dr Angela Kingdon “If you want to write more, if you want to be more committed, the way you get better is by writing more. That’s the whole secret.” - Dr Angela Kingdon “First of all, there’s no such thing as a good writer. There is probably such a thing as a bad writer, but everybody has their own taste. But even if you genuinely suck and we would all agree you have a million problems with your writing, you’re barely literate. If you find it enjoyable and fulfilling, write anyway.” - Dr Angela Kingdon “My take on it is that, while we have a lot of thoughts inside our brain, they’re nebulous and not really defined. But when we are forced to go through with the act of translating it to communicate it to another person, that’s where we truly find our idea.” - Matt Lowry LPP“Fan fiction has to be 80% neurodivergent. There’s just no other way, so. ” - Dr Angela KingdonHave you felt the ups and downs of the creative process? In today’s episode, Matt and Angela dive into their neurodivergent approaches to writing, sharing the unexpected insights and challenges along the way! Thanks for tuning in! Share your thoughts in the comments, and use #AutisticCultureCatch to connect with fellow listeners. Which moments from their journey resonate with your own creative experiences?Resources:Join our virtual writing circle. Details here: https://www.autisticculturepodcast.com/p/do-you-have-a-neurodivergent-narrative*Related Episodes:George Lucas is AutisticEminem is Autistic Cassandra in Reverse Book Club (Paid Access)Ready for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!Follow us on InstagramFind us on Apple Podcasts and SpotifyLearn more about Angela at AngelaKingdon.com Our Autism-affirming merch shop This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

Serving up a slice of Autistic Thanksgiving traditions!Thanksgiving isn’t always the easiest time for autistic people, with our senses of justice triggered by the holiday’s problematic origins and the need to mask during family gatherings - in this episode, Matt and Angela talk about both navigating Thanksgiving as an autistic person and Mystery Science Theater 3000, a beloved autistic Thanksgiving tradition.Here’s what’s in store for this episode: * In this episode, we dive into the original Turkey Day marathons on Comedy Central that cemented MST3K as a Thanksgiving tradition, along with the show's turbulent journey across networks, Kickstarter campaigns, and different media platforms.* Matt and Angela explore the origins of Mystery Science Theater 3000 and how interactive TV serves as a beacon for autistic people with the concept of found family being a theme that resonates deeply with autistic folks.* Matt and Angela also discuss how MST3K’s bottom-up processing style of comedy makes it especially appealing to autistic folks.“For 24 hours, you watch really bad movies, you eat some stuffing, they had some new interstitials in there, and you get together with your friends and watch bad movies. Or, if you’re alone, you get together with your friends on TV and watch some bad movies. So you still have some community. You are like Joel, keeping your sanity with the help of your robot friends. And to this day, this is the only Thanksgiving tradition I have.” - Matt Lowry LPP“They just need more funding because, again, they don’t have studio backing. They’re doing it all completely independently. Just like we do it. We are often forced to be independent. We are often traumatically independent because we don’t have that support system around us.” - Matt Lowry LPP“I would rather do something small and funded myself than be beholden to explaining my creative ideas to these people that will never get it. It’s not a problem to explain it. It’s explaining it to people who are gonna drive you crazy.” - Dr Angela Kingdon Did you catch the whirlwind of emotions that come with the holidays? In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into Matt and Angela’s autistic take on Thanksgiving and how Mystery Science Theater 3000 offers a perfect comfort break during it all! Thanks for tuning in! Share your thoughts in the comments, and use #AutisticCultureCatch to connect with fellow listeners on social media. Which moments or insights resonate with your own Thanksgiving traditions?Related Episodes:Community is AutisticDinosaur is AutisticPoetry is AutisticResources:https://www.gizmoplex.com/browsehttps://shoutfactory.com/collections/mystery-science-theater-3000 https://www.twitch.tv/mst3kReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!Follow us on InstagramFind us on Apple Podcasts and SpotifyLearn more about Angela at AngelaKingdon.com Our Autism-affirming merch shop This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe

An episode that unpacks moving and takes on the heavy lifting.In this episode, we tackle the autistic hell that is moving — diving into the time-consuming yet worthwhile systems autistic individuals often need to implement to stay comfortable and regulated in their own homes.Here’s what’s packed into this episode: * Our hosts discuss Matt's recent move and explore all the intricate details, overwhelming processes, and sharing strategies for coping through it all.* Matt and Angela unpack the art of emotional regulation and why it's such a foundational task for autistic folks. * Plus why incorporating emotional regulation strategies into the moving process as much as possible is a game-changer!* We discuss the importance of having our own Autistic Survival Packs in each room of the house and how crucial they are for regulation. Angela shares some of her essential items, including eye drops, nail files, phone chargers, and blankets for temperature regulation—a common issue for many autistic individuals.* We also clear up how autistic folks often have a predisposition toward hoarding and emotional attachments to their belongings, and explore ways to break this generational curse.“As you know, we [autistic people] process 42% more information at rest than neurotypical people. Because of that, our brains are always churning through the data and always looking at the variables. Our brains are much more variable-focused. We’re much more detail-oriented than neurotypical people. Neurotypical people are big-picture people. We are the minutiae. And when it comes to moving, it’s all about the minutiae. ” - Matt Lowry LPP“There’s a lot of stuff that we [autistic folks] don’t have opinions on - but when we do have opinions, we have fucking strong opinions. And when we find something that just clicks with us, we need it. You need your mattress.” - Matt Lowry LPP“Emotional regulation is our biggest job as autistic people. It’s a full-time job, it’s our number one job. There are going to be times you’re dysregulated. You’re gonna have to go to court, you’re gonna have to go to the DMV, a cop is going to pull you over. You are going to be dysregulated some of the time. And so every single second you can possibly control being emotionally regulated, that’s your job to put first in order.” - Dr Angela Kindgon“Well, so this is the thing about the ‘tism, right? Because again, the neurotypicals only know us by our deficits, but we only have the deficits when we’re dysregulated. We only have the deficits when we are out of our element, when we are desperately trying to accommodate everyone else and everything else. We have to do that for us first. And in order to be a functional human being, you need to have that regulation.” - Matt Lowry LPP“Is one of your techniques [for phone calls] is as soon as the phone picks up, I just start screaming ‘agent, agent, agent, fuck you, agent, let me talk to a person, fuck you. Do you do that? Is that your technique? It doesn’t work, but it is my approach.” - Dr Angela Kingdon Did you catch the whirlwind of emotions that come with moving? In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into Matt's recent move and all the unexpected hurdles along the way! Thanks for tuning in! Share your thoughts in the comments, and use #AutisticCultureCatch to connect with fellow listeners on social media. Which moments or insights from Matt's story resonate with your own moving experiences?Resources:*The* Viral Tiktok Shower Head - Ziffit - Sell Your Books Matt’s Favorite Disney Coffee Related Episodes:Autistic Medical NeedsAutism Affirming Social SkillsReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!Follow us on InstagramFind us on Apple Podcasts and SpotifyLearn more about Angela at AngelaKingdon.com Our Autism-affirming merch shop This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe